An apology to pg and the latest YC class
The other day I made a thoughtless comment, several actually, when I should have congratulated you all on the hard work you've put into your startups. In the future, I will be more conscious and empathetic. Had it been me, I would have been offended by my comment, so I broke the golden rule. Instead, I should have found something good to say, because I know there are plenty of good things I could have said.
I'm sorry and I wish you all great success. I hope all your hard work is justly rewarded.
Sincerely,
fnid2
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[ 2.6 ms ] story [ 14.9 ms ] threadI disagree, criticism is much more useful than flattery.
I disagree, (supposedly thought) positive feedback is extremely common and rarely provides anything new (or own minds are well tunned to try to find reinforcing evidence to back our past decisions).
Negative feedback is much more rare due to social pressure to not 'offend' and other such bullshit, and even when it is not particularly thoughtful it adds something to our thinking as it is unlikely to be something we would have considered.
"I saw scrappy, analytical sales-oriented entrepreneurs without much technology or product but they had businesses that generate millions of dollars annually."