>Indeed, talking to your colleagues may help your work rate. A study by Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) researchers found that workplace chatter, even the idle kind, can increase productivity.
No mention in the link of introverts vs extroverts. It's studies like this that make businesses feel justified in saving money by making the workplace one big open office hell.
if you want to? i can't understand why the usual social rules don't apply. we all get to choose who we hang out with, whether they be from work or from the neighborhood or...wherever
for everyone else there is a very clear social contract where we are expected to exchange minor pleasantries and act nice, but no more
when did this system break down? i liked that system
While I'm married and never developed any office romances (also, what a bizarre example to use -- a couple who got married...), I've often found that the classic "drinks after work" scenario works wonders in tense situations.
Sometimes, if I'm dealing with a stressful situation, maybe I get angry at someone who I think is stalling the project, or making bad decisions, it sucks. It can be awkward, or seem insincere to apologize in the office, or really have a heart-to-heart chat and figure out your differences. Tensions build up, the situation gets worse, after a while, the "professional enemies" relationship just cements itself for stupid reasons. But hey, a couple of rounds in the bar can be amazing!
Is it healthy? Eh. Does it work? Absolutely. I'll be the first to admit, my social skills aren't the best, and that's where bars come in! "Man, I am so sorry I got so worked up over which HTTP code to return. I really, really don't care. I was just stressed out over the project in general" seems way more sincere and less cheesy after a couple of beers.
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No mention in the link of introverts vs extroverts. It's studies like this that make businesses feel justified in saving money by making the workplace one big open office hell.
for everyone else there is a very clear social contract where we are expected to exchange minor pleasantries and act nice, but no more
when did this system break down? i liked that system
Sometimes, if I'm dealing with a stressful situation, maybe I get angry at someone who I think is stalling the project, or making bad decisions, it sucks. It can be awkward, or seem insincere to apologize in the office, or really have a heart-to-heart chat and figure out your differences. Tensions build up, the situation gets worse, after a while, the "professional enemies" relationship just cements itself for stupid reasons. But hey, a couple of rounds in the bar can be amazing!
Is it healthy? Eh. Does it work? Absolutely. I'll be the first to admit, my social skills aren't the best, and that's where bars come in! "Man, I am so sorry I got so worked up over which HTTP code to return. I really, really don't care. I was just stressed out over the project in general" seems way more sincere and less cheesy after a couple of beers.