Ask HN: How do you prepare mentally?
Hello everybody,
I'm facing some big exams this August (EE undergrad, 1st year) and I want to be mentally ready for the task. What can you recommend to prepare myself mentally?
I've been looking into some mental preparation for athletes but I haven't come across onto something "trainable" (like doing something everyday for 15min.). What I picked up during reading Michael Jordans "Driven from Within'" is that Michael Jordan was never scared before a match because he knew he was prepared (trained x amount of hours for a match, etc.) so well. Maybe, I will be in this shape at the end of the preparation time, but maybe I won't that's why I'd like to train my mental coolness.
Thanks for your help.
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[ 4.9 ms ] story [ 31.6 ms ] threadIf you enter this last day before the exam confident that you've mastered the material as much as possible doing this should work, perhaps you might view your ability to do so as more of a test of your lack of anxiety or whatever. If you can pull it off it should leave you mentally refreshed and ready to do your best on Der Tag.
The short answer is to ensure you have studied well in advance, not worry about it and just go take your exams. Further detail may change the answer.
I haven't had any problems studying, I just want to make sure to have this part of the test taking covered. They are important to me because I don't want to repeat a whole year because I was nervous.
And second the good night's sleep tip.
"The Mental Athlete" ( http://books.google.com/books?id=OVqMC9Zs3cAC&lpg=PP1... ) though seems to be closer to your intentions (I can't recommend it though as I haven't read it yet, but FWIW all books I read from this publisher turned out to be excellent and superficial skimming of it's google books page seems to confirm that).
I'll try to get my hands on "In Pursuit of Excellence".
What I also found is "10-Minute Toughness: The Mental Training Program for Winning Before the Game Begins". I'll report on this as soon as I finished reading it.
edit: some of the "performance psychology" things I learned helped me passing some of the more hairy tests during for my b.sc. in bioinformatics
Don't study on the day of the exam. Don't study for the evening before either.
Night before, make sure that you have everything you need (pen, calculator, ID or whatever) ready to go. Drink plenty of water, have a good meal (with mates is always good - but avoid alcohol). Don't go to bed at an unusual time. (waking up too early or late won't help).
Morning of the exam get lots of food on board, carbs good of course - but again don't eat anything you wouldn't normally. Keep on drinking water. Leave for the exam so that you're 5 minutes early. That way you can grab a seat and calm yourself down if your nervous.
When you get to the exam avoid talking to people about the exam - make general conversation (keeps you calm) but don't talk about exams. Too many people moan about how they're supposedly going to fail.
In the exam itself assuming that you have studied enough then you should be fine if you pace yourself and work through it logically.
Stay positive an it'll work fine.
People also have different motivations and personalities. For example, some people do exams best in a relaxed manner. Others work in a heightened state of awareness. This sounds silly, but I feel like a special forces op in exams, trying to slash through problems. Are you more motivated to dominate an exam curve or to show you're just as good as anybody else? Strategies will differ accordingly.
Lastly, it is my experience that you can practice an absolute sense of confidence. Nothing flashy - think calm, deliberate, relaxed, and very alert. It's easiest if you restrict it to a limited context, but sitting down for an exam is perfect. Compose tests in which you will do reasonably well - maybe by mixing problems you know how to do with more complex ones you'd have to tackle in a more flexible way. Go to the exam site, do the test under exam conditions, and up the difficulty over time. If you don't have enough time to prepare this way, do the same thing but don't take a whole exam. Just practice being confident for the first 5-30 minutes.
EDIT: You mentioned that you have had blackouts and are nervous with the environment. I've never tried this, but I'm sure professors would let you try practicing while they are giving their own exams. Explain you have test anxiety and ask to sit in. (I have to admit, the thought of 'practicing' a circuits final during others' calc exam makes smile. They'll be thinking who the hell is this guy, and why hasn't he ever showed up for class?)
I would also recommend listening to John Eliot's The Maverick Mindset. Take his advice over mine.