I think this skips out probably what is the biggest hurdle for "nerds"; you can't trick your crushes into liking you back by being a nice friend to them.
There are many books on the subject, Models is a good one. I don't see why anyone would waste time trying to write some web page about why nerds in particular have a hard time dating.
Social awkwardness is a well covered subject in this and many other books. Even better, it's covered by people who have more than theory to back their ideas.
Things related to friendzone will go in part 3. In short: no, just being nice is not enough (cf: no one will hire you just because haven't stolen anything).
Though, the most common thing that is missing is not taking risks - most of the time nerd fail to ask question (and of course, rejection is possible - but still better to be stuck in a limbo).
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[ 4.7 ms ] story [ 30.3 ms ] threadSocial awkwardness is a well covered subject in this and many other books. Even better, it's covered by people who have more than theory to back their ideas.
Though, the most common thing that is missing is not taking risks - most of the time nerd fail to ask question (and of course, rejection is possible - but still better to be stuck in a limbo).