Ask HN: When did you realize you needed glasses?
The day I realized I needed glasses, it was the last day of sixth grade.
Most of the kids had left the classroom and I was alone with the teacher and a girl named Francine.
The teacher was asking us how we found the class, and I said: "It was great, but I found it hard to read the board from the back row," and Francine says, "What do you mean, I can read the board fine from here. You need glasses!"
Stupidly I hadn't considered that they wouldn't put pupils that far from the blackboard if it were impossible for them to read from that distance.
I just figured they put the smart kids in the back rows because they could get by without reading the board and I spent the whole year transcribing as the teacher spoke, and passed my sixth grade without ever being able to read the blackboard.
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[ 2.9 ms ] story [ 80.8 ms ] threadIt hadn't always been that way, either. :/
I wore them from 4th grade until my third year of college.. when I went to a LASIK center for a free consultation. She was very eager to sign me up. I said, "Well can i go home and think about it first?" She said, "We get busy so I'm just making you an appointment. If you have any doubts before the appointment, just call and cancel. Otherwise, see you then!"
I've not worn glasses since 2009... I love it. I still wear gamma ray glasses because I stare at computer screens all day. While the eye doctor has said my eyes have gotten a bit weaker, and says I may need glasses in another decade, he said that my eyes are still in good shape from the LASIK.
When I got my first glasses in, I was shocked to see that trees across the street were much more detailed than I realized. :)
Same for me, it was looking the whole world got updated to HD.
The final thing that made me realize was my monitor getting harder to read, but in hindsight the first indication being really sensitive to light on bright sunny days. Since getting glasses I can walk around on those days without my eyes watering.
This was one of the most illuminating bits to come from getting glasses, because it pointed out a serious bias: we project our sensory abilities onto the people we interact with.
In other words, I assumed everyone else could see about as well as I could see, so if I couldn't make out some gesture from X distance, i felt safe assuming for example that I could do that gesture at X+1 distance and not be seen.
The idea that other people could perceive my actions with more clarity than I could perceive theirs was a real shake-up. It invalidated all kinds of assumptions I had made over the years. Every time you think you're being slick, or don't recognize a friend at a distance -- that could be one sided. It made a lasting change on how I think about the world.
After that I loved walking around and just looking at things. I could read street names on signs, read billboards 100+ meters away, see individual power lines, etc.
But, driving at night and in the rain got to be a real challenge and I realized I was going to hurt someone else if I didn't do the right thing.
Unfortunately, I don't qualify for LASIK or some of the alternatives due to the nature and the causes of my vision impairment. Fortunately, I don't need to wear coke bottles and stylish glasses have become more affordable.
I definitely had perfect vision somewhere earlier in my 20s, so it seemingly deteriorated rapidly relatively to my -1 on both eyes that I am now.. but slow enough that I didn't notice for quite a while. I had basically decided things just get blurry further away and not really noticed.
Probably does not help that I am in front of a screen 12 hours a day like most :)
As a side effect of the astigmatism, I did not have stereoscopic vision for most of my life, and thus terrible depth perception. A few days after getting glasses, my brain adapted, and I saw the world in 3D for the first time. It was like getting an going from an old school TV to 4K - there was so much detail in the world that I could not see until now.
I still don't see 3D movies in 3D, but that's not something I miss.
Oh, as I write this comment I realize that the piano event occurred around the same time I started losing interest in school. Given that the distance between a piano player and the score is significantly less than the one between a student and the blackboard, I might have started being affected by myopia months before discovering it; maybe I started losing interest in school because I could not focus the board?
I still rarely use my contacts because it's somewhat overstimulating to see so well; it feels unnatural, though contacts and/or glasses are an obvious inevitability I need to accept.
Last 2.5 years I'd been sick, and one of the medications I had to take on and off was prednisone, an anti-inflammatory steroid. Although it was a temporary miracle for my problem, the long list of side effects are less "these things might happen" and more "pray that not all of these things happen". Amongst others, 2 side effects were general brain fog / headaches and poor vision.
I got my eyes tested 2 years ago when I was first on it and the prescription needed was so slight I was told not to bother and live with it. This time around I had the headaches again, and attributed it to the drug. After realising they weren't going away as much as I would expect whilst tapering off the drug, I got my eyes checked again and this time my eyesight was significantly worse than before. I should also mention that I was having a hard time reading anything illuminated at night, so I just assumed that was something that glasses wouldn't solve.
I picked up my glasses 2 hours ago, and whilst I have a bit of a headache adjusting to it, I can't believe how clear everything is. Feels like I have superpowered vision. I took a walk to the park and looked across the bay to a mass of houses and apartment buildings. Just looking at it gave me a headache because there was so much detail at such a far distance it felt like my brain was struggling to process it all at once.
Best of all, I can now use my computer again without headaches. I'd been putting off going to work until the headaches resolved, but was surprised that my distance glasses made everything on my computer perfectly sharp, despite only sitting ~1m away from a 34" monitor.
Interesting thing is that I am told that I may not need glasses once I am off prednisone, however I suspect I will as I can't recall seeing this clearly in years. Probably will just have to get the prescription changed in a few months.
I dislike the current eyewear trend of large frames and lenses. I've worn double digits prescription all my life and try buying frames and expensive lens to avoid "big" glasses to no avail; and current trends are to wear large fashion statement eyewear with a 0.15 prescription lens. Meh. Get off my lawn :P
And screw IOLs or sharp things carving up my eyes. No thank you :D
One day I was head in a panel trying to work out a problem and realised it had got to the point where I could not get my head far away enough from the wire markers to read them.
Got a set of clear bifocal safety glasses for about $14, made life heaps easier.
Apparently you can get stick on bifocals that you can apply to any glasses as well.
But I stammered too and hence very shy to share this "deficit" with anyone. It continued for a long time before things got worse and couldn't transcribe anything from the blackboard. I started crying so, they called my dad. He took me to a doctor and I got glasses.
Luckily he was at about my prescription.
Then got glasses.
However, it turned out that my eyesight got worse and I increasingly failed to read other colors as well. That was when I told my parents. Around 18 months had passed from the first moment of realizing until I took any action to actually correct my eyes instead of just sitting closer.