Never split the difference is fantastic. Voss gives a good amount of tangible conversation tactics that you can try out nearly same day on people. I got it as an audio book too so I can listen to it every now and then in the car.
Pick one of the Discworld Series from Terry Prattchet. I have read it as a teen/tween, my wife discovered it a year ago, and we both really like it.
Depending on your tastes:
* if you like straight up fantasy parody, you can go from the beginning, and follow Rincewinds journey, a mage hapless at magic, running away from peril of mostly his own making.
* if you want different take at folk-tales, with a hint of Shakespear and a dash of, dare I say a dash of feminism, follow Witches of Lancre. Granny Weatherwax is an icon!
* if you like noir and urban-fantasy, follow Ankh-Morpork city watch led by daring Samuel Vimes and then continue with introduction of newspaper, resurection of post office, rebuilding of banking system and ushering in the age of steam.
Having reached the stage where you are able to distinguish between opinion and fact, i would suggest reading a bit of philosophy. You might find it illuminating and interesting in a different way. Worked for me at a similar stage though your mileage might vary.
My goal for 2019 is to be even more deliberate in what I spend my time reading. This year I started being deliberate in my reading habits and read a lot less than I would in previous years when I was just consuming books en masse, but I find I'm retaining a lot more, or if nothing else, have less Dunning-Kruger cognitive dissonance.
What I would really like, is a streamlined workflow for incorporating spaced repetition into my reading. I usually read on my Kobo so not sure how feasible it would be to integrate it with Anki. I would welcome any ideas.
Apart from that, I'd like to read some more Neal Stephenson. I LOVED Cryptonomicon (read it 2 years ago) and I've been unable to find fiction books with a similar style. Neal Stephenson has written a lot of stuff so I'm not sure which book to attack next.
It allows me to keep track of where I am in the text book, even if I jump around through something called 'pagemarks'. Which are like bookmarks but for a region of the book.
It also supports annotations, comments, highlights, and flashcards which can be sync'd to Anki.
This way you can keep an important fact in your brain forever.
The goal is to reduce lower the "I'll probably forget it anyway" problem with reading and text books.
This way I'm more encourage to read complex material s the chance of me keeping it is higher.
I'm not reading any book in 2019. I usually find a moment of quiet during lunch and I would read then. But it developed into an eating habit and, as a side effect, a weight gain. I want to focus on building practical things this year instead.
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[ 3.7 ms ] story [ 65.1 ms ] threadb) Way of the Wolf, Jordan Belfort
c) Never Split the difference, Chris Voss
d) Radical Honesty, Brad Blanton
e) Outthink the competition, Krippendorff
I'll prefer fiction any day.
Recommendations?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Culture_(series)
Depending on your tastes:
* if you like straight up fantasy parody, you can go from the beginning, and follow Rincewinds journey, a mage hapless at magic, running away from peril of mostly his own making.
* if you want different take at folk-tales, with a hint of Shakespear and a dash of, dare I say a dash of feminism, follow Witches of Lancre. Granny Weatherwax is an icon!
* if you like noir and urban-fantasy, follow Ankh-Morpork city watch led by daring Samuel Vimes and then continue with introduction of newspaper, resurection of post office, rebuilding of banking system and ushering in the age of steam.
I loved most of them. Didn't regret reading a single one. You might or might not want to refer to a reading guide: https://www.reddit.com/r/Fantasy/comments/8900fu/the_discwor...
My favorites are the second set of the Mistborn series (Wax and Wayne), the Stormlight Archives and the Rithmatist.
[0] https://brandonsanderson.com/sandersons-first-law/
What I would really like, is a streamlined workflow for incorporating spaced repetition into my reading. I usually read on my Kobo so not sure how feasible it would be to integrate it with Anki. I would welcome any ideas.
Apart from that, I'd like to read some more Neal Stephenson. I LOVED Cryptonomicon (read it 2 years ago) and I've been unable to find fiction books with a similar style. Neal Stephenson has written a lot of stuff so I'm not sure which book to attack next.
I started a project directly for this purpose:
https://getpolarized.io/
It allows me to keep track of where I am in the text book, even if I jump around through something called 'pagemarks'. Which are like bookmarks but for a region of the book.
It also supports annotations, comments, highlights, and flashcards which can be sync'd to Anki.
This way you can keep an important fact in your brain forever.
The goal is to reduce lower the "I'll probably forget it anyway" problem with reading and text books.
This way I'm more encourage to read complex material s the chance of me keeping it is higher.