Ask HN: How many of you grew up with entrepreneurial parents?
Something I often wonder, how many HNers grew up with a parent who founded their own company or were founding their own while they were growing up. Or better yet, grew up with SV founders from back in the 80s or 70s. How was the experience growing up and what long term lessons did you learn from the effects of the lifestyle from your unique perspective as a child of one?
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[ 3.5 ms ] story [ 28.2 ms ] threadMy mom also took in sewing at home for years and years and later became self-employed as a cleaning lady. Her skills were in high enough demand that when my dad went through chemo about 16 years ago and she had to mostly be home to care for him, she could make one phone call and have work on her terms for the hour or two she had available on some afternoon when he was doing well enough to be left alone briefly. This helped them enormously. I think my mom fundamentally has better business sense than my dad. She also sometimes sews stuff (or did a few years back) for my cousin's gift shop, to help support their success.
* I learned that you're up some years and down others. The trick is to just keep pushing forward.
* Some people have it, others don't.
* You won't be able to recognize whether you have it or not, until you're actually doing it.
* Marry the right person (and make sure they have health insurance that covers you and your family).
* Keep your personal expenses low and maintain the ability to live off of your partners salary while you're bootstrapping, if that's the path you take.
Bonuses:
* You get to have great discussions around the business every time you're together.
* You're able to lean on your dad (or mom) and ask for advice about what they would do in particular situations. Basically a built in mentor.
* You have a #1 fan that in some ways are living their own dreams through you. And they actually "get" what you're doing.
You have to be careful though that you don't fall into some of the same traps that they may have. As a great example: the typical small business mindset is to never, ever give up equity. For what we do here, it's silly to think that way. Equity is another tool in your toolbox, and should be used when appropriate.
I have to say, my entire family tree is filled with entrepreneurs. That is all I know.
So yeah, watching my dad as a kid definitely taught me something about persistence and the value of hard-work; and certainly contributed to my desire to do my own thing.
I guess what I learned from that is a business is a series of ups and downs but at the end of the day it's always more satisfying to do your own thing. I started my first business in college and founded my first 'real' one at 25. While I don't think there's anything wrong with working for other people, I can say I'm hardwired to start new things and I'm sure my childhood had a lot to do with that.
He is gona quit the next month to launch his own venture because he doesn't feel a sense of satisfaction with what he has done.
I just graduated from college and this just reaffirms my thinking - I want to do more than walk the path other people have laid out for you. Just not satisfying enough!