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There is only so much people will put up with, and it seems that we're inundated with advertising from all sides. When most ads were in print, it was easy to avoid them, but now they are forced into every electronic media stream available.

On the web, I have never used an ad blocker and have just closed the page if the advertising gets to be too much in my face. It seems that it is getting worse all the time, because it is a war between the advertisers and ad blockers and people like me are stuck in the middle.

And then YouTube is showing longer ads every day, with many in the 5 minute range. And when you're trying to watch a video that is only 3 minutes long, why would you watch a 5 minute advertisement?... it doesn't make any sense.

Attribution is the problem. Lots of ad spend is a waste of money and, despite the advent of various tracking technologies, advertisers still don't seem to know which ads are actually bringing in the sales.

This, of course, isn't a problem for the third-parties providing all this tracking because they get their slice regardless.

This is the gist of the issue. Ad companies sell advertisers tracking and reporting, not real return of investment. I bet an ad agency could beat google by throwing up vast dashboards with tons of nonsense graphs.
The easiest and arguably best way to do that is coupon or promo codes per advertiser but that involves taking a haircut to the profit per item on top of the nominal ad expenses.
...and a fee for the 99% of sales you already had in the bag before your customer launched his search for a coupon code.
For Youtube it makes sense to pay. I did the jump and it was worth it - no ads, play music with locked screen on the phone.
It almost looks like Youtube intentionally raised the number and length of ads before and after videos while heavily pushing Youtube premium alerts to make people sign up for their subscription. No matter what you do, they win.
> "No matter what you do, they win."

What if what you do is use youtube-dl?

They can just suspend your account. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=21247759
They theoretically could, but there is no real reason to think it actually happened to that guy. His story is full of holes, and furthermore tons of people use youtube-dl daily while only this single guy claims to have been banned.
I don't mind if they win as long as I do as well.

Relationship between consumers and business don't have to be adversarial : I'm glad to pay for a product that I consider worth it, and having the choice to pay with money instead of brain time with ads is a clear positive to me.

For me a much better solution would be to get content out of the hands of profit-seeking companies.
Unlikely. YouTube premium seems like an afterthought at best. Just a few months ago they finally rolled out the program in a bunch of rich EU countries. If it was important for them then I really don't see why it would take them years to offer the subscription service for rich countries.
> If it was important for them then I really don't see why it would take them years to offer the subscription service for rich countries.

When you pay for something, you expect service and support. Google is not known for support, especially if providing support requires staffing of actual breathing humans, so the rollout was delayed until at least a minimum of support standard could be met.

I signed up for youtube premium as soon as it as available here. Same with a lot of other sites.

Definitively worth the money and I won't have to have a bad consciousness for running ublock.

>On the web, I have never used an ad blocker

Why? My recommendation to every single person is to install an adblocker right now and never ever turn it off again. It's such an easy thing to do which immediately significantly improves your quality of life.

Personally? I'm willing to watch or see an advert for a newspaper, YouTuber (especially this!) or small blogger. Usually I use my adblocker's counter as a measure of how awful a page is and if it's reasonable I'll turn it off.
Malware is frequently delivered by advertising, so there's good reason to keep your ad blocker on even on sites that you want to support.

Tracking is yet another thing you can avoid to some degree by using an ad blocker (and, better yet, by disabling javascript).

Finally, the best reason to use an ad blocker is to opt-out of the advertising ecosystem to make it less viable. We have to find a more ethical way to fund media than supporting this manipulative, privacy-invading industry.

> Why? My recommendation to every single person is to install an adblocker right now and never ever turn it off again. It's such an easy thing to do which immediately significantly improves your quality of life.

The same reason that if I go into a cafe to sit down for a while, I'll buy a drink even if I'm not particularly thirsty. The cost of having a table in a downtown location for you to sit at is far higher than the cost of the beans and water; a drink for a place to sit is part of the "implicit deal".

Websites cost money to run, so I think it's only fair to accept a reasonable amount of advertising. But I don't think being silently tracked for just happening upon your website is fair, so I block trackers. If your advertising works without trackers, I'll see it just fine.

You paying for a service, and you letting them attempt to manipulate you into making a purchase decision for something else are severly different things. If the only value of something is that it was capable of making you look in its direction for long enough to show you something you might actually be interested in spending money on, it actually has no value, I argue.
In my experience the best information is always in websites with no ads. Like personal blogs, old pages, you name it. Seeing ads in a newspaper website? Why would I want to watch ads in exchange for being fed manipulating, half-true information?
> In my experience the best information is always in websites with no ads. Like personal blogs, old pages, you name it. Seeing ads in a newspaper website? Why would I want to watch ads in exchange for being fed manipulating, half-true information?

To extend the metaphor: Malls often have common areas where you can sit and just hang out. They also often have cafes with tables. The common areas are often nicer than the cafes -- less loud and less cramped. If you like common areas better than cafes, by all means, sit in the common areas. But if you do sit in a cafe for some reason, you should buy something, even if it's just a bottle of water.

By a similar reasoning -- if you prefer websites with no ads, then by all means only go to websites with no ads. But if you do go to a website supported by ads, I think it's part of the implicit bargain that you be willing to view ads that are presented in a reasonable manner (where "tracking you across the internet" is not reasonable).

I don't like the concept of tipping -- I think people's salaries and/or bonuses should be determined by their managers, not random people who wander in. But if I go to a restaurant where tipping is expected, I tip, because that's the implicit agreement I made when I sat down.

I did not make any implicit agreements by clicking on a link to see what is behind it.
"Malls often have common areas where you can sit and just hang out."

I've always found it super depressing that in so many towns and cities virtually the only places where people can just hang out are commercial in nature.

It would be so much nicer if the towns and cities invested more in to providing such places themselves (beyond merely having a park here and there), where you didn't have to be a walking dollar sign to someone in order to participate.

"Websites cost money to run, so I think it's only fair to accept a reasonable amount of advertising."

Do you also make a point of buying some percentage of the products advertised to you? After all, isn't it ethical to support the advertisers that are supporting the websites that you read? It costs money to run those ads, after all, and without the ads the websites wouldn't run, according to your reasoning. Or would you rather externalize the cost of supporting those advertisers to others while you get a free ride?

Even the print ads seem to have gotten way more intrusive over the past few years. Amazon puts ads on their shipping boxes. I got a fortune cookie in a restaurant the other day with an ad printed on the back of the fortune!
>And then YouTube is showing longer ads every day, with many in the 5 minute range.

Uhhh, can't you can press 'skip' after 5 seconds? I've never seen an unskippable YouTube ad longer than 30 seconds.

Although yes, they are upping amount of ads: a couple months ago they started doing two back to back pre-roll ads every once in a while.

I hate ads because they are so, totally, unbelievably irrelevant to me.

I’m a daily YouTube user, I have a rich watch history of (probably) 10,000s of videos.

Then it serves me an ad for beer with a bunch of beautiful woman, at a loud party, drinking with men.

I’m a non-drinking, introverted, gay, who hates loud parties. The advertisement couldn’t have been more irrelevant if it tried.

People complain (not that OP is complaining per se) because the ads are irrelevant, but also object to tracking and profiling. You can't have targeted ads AND be anonymous to the ad companies.
I didn’t complain about tracking. I’d gladly, willingly put my demographic data into a platform that gave me interesting ads
We should of course consider the possibility that some of us are outliers.
I assume I am an outlier; it must be the case that advertising works on most people, otherwise merchants wouldn't pay for it.

But it's interesting that most people commenting here seem to loathe advertising. Can we really all be outliers?

> Can we really all be outliers?

Yes, absolutely.

People who have something to complain about will often do that waaaaaay in excess of people who don’t.

Compounded by HN tending to attract people who enjoy a text-only interface.

You could have targeted ads on YouTube without Google tracking your entire Web history, with the video subjects or your recent viewing history.
AFAIK you can switch web, Search and YouTube watch history on or off independently of each other.
I have had that with web work browser - amusingly it clearly pegged me as female as I got me birth control, tampon ads, and similiar. Along with Prager U but that fake non-accreddited university seems to target everyone.
> You can't have targeted ads AND be anonymous to the ad companies.

But the reason I started blocking trackers was because the ads from tracking were basically antirelevant. I would spend an afternoon investigating what model of a specific tool to buy and where, then I would go buy it. For the next month, all the ads were for that exact tool; at which point, I was probably the least likely person in England to actually respond to those ads.

And that was before the whole Cambridge Analytica thing. I have money and I like to buy cool and useful things, and "good" advertising helps me find cool and useful things to buy. But I definitely do not like the idea of being targeted for psyops.

Instead of psyops you could see the ads as a friendly reminder you wanted to buy that. They even pay to remind you. They often have no way of knowing you already bought (enough) of the same product/type.

Most ads have sophisticated analytics, and not only about individual users. That means, basically, that they wouldn't spend their money advertising this way if it wasn't working at all or if there was a more profitable way.

If ads were only a friendly reminder, then why don't they go about it in a different way, which is completely "opt-in"?

Also, if I'm on a subway and start "reminding" the people around me that their clothes are out of fashion and they can buy new ones at my shop, do you think that people would consider that as friendly? Would you?

> Instead of psyops

The 'psyops' was related to Cambridge Analytica using hyper-targeted messages to affect the outcome of elections; see the "Do So" campaign designed to decrease Black voter turnout in Trinidad and Tobogo [1].

As I said, I don't mind finding out about cool things to buy. I definitely don't want to be sucked into misunderstanding and hating people, or being fooled into acting against my own interests.

[1] https://advox.globalvoices.org/2019/08/06/netflixs-the-great...

Not ‘hyper-targeted’. Cambridge Analytica never did that. The (non-technical) salespeople kept saying they were to impress (non-technical) campaign managers but there wasn’t anything like that.

The “Do so” is a far better example of what they really did: develop a talent for race-based dog-whistle type messaging that _anyone_ could see but where one group would respond differently. The main differentiator that Cambridge Analytica would introduce was Social media vs. traditional press to split messaging by age-group. They tried to improve it using magazine subscription and car brand (from credit reports) but it wasn’t much better than using party registration datasets.

You can have targeted ads and be anonymous to the ad companies.

Ads can be targeted to context, not user - web developer ads on JavaScript blogs.

Ad profiling and targeting can be done client side.

Users' could opt in to what they are targeted for to ensure it is the relevance they want. You will often find ad tracking technology on some very privacy invasive websites. I've seen it on HIV support, rape support, prayer, single parent dating, cancer advice, alcoholism, political party membership pages and many more; even tracking military intelligence recruitment. Are the relevant ads and infosec risks for these topics good for the user?

Tackling anonymised delivery and fraud prevention is a problem, but it's something that can be overcome with accepting it already happens and then minimising it through privacy respective methods like using auditors and testing, copying anonymisation protocols (maybe Tor), payment style validation (Brave?, zerocoin) and server side metrics.

> Users' could opt in to what they are targeted for to ensure it is the relevance they want

So much this. I would turn my adblock off, if I had a directory with checkboxes/weights against interesting product topics. I would even browse the topics themselves regularly, as I did in google directory before it was gone. I (and the economy) want me to discover, not to hide from pushiest pushers around.

Modern marketing is just a slowpoke idiot who stalks me for two weeks after I already bought a <productname> via search.

For what it’s worth: it’s the same here and I only allow ads from Google and Facebook.

Google’s system isn’t perfect but I can x-out individual ads. I’m hoping that Google will move away from a purely embedding-based targeting system into something more deliberate.

Facebook has [1] which is the closest to what you are asking for, although not used nearly enough to justify more investment in improving it.

[1] https://www.facebook.com/ads/preferences/

This is false dillema created by advertisers. Ads don't have to be targeted to be revelant.

Now they are trying to create some magic algorithms to determine user interests and serve same ads everwhere, independent of current page context (including vacuum cleaner you bought last week, but maybe you need another?). But why they won't do the obvious thing, serving ads revelant to the page they are shown on..?

>Ads don't have to be targeted to be revelant.

They pretty much do. Non-targeted ads will either require an unreasonable amount of effort to disseminate or they will not be relevant to the vast majority of people that see them. Contacting different sites about a specific topic to show your relevant ads is going to take an incredible amount of work.

What's probably even worse is if we get a situation like on YouTube, where it's just the same 5-10 companies buying ads for their products. This means that content creators will advertise NordVPN on their site, even if the product itself is bad, because you only have these few options to choose from.

> Contacting different sites about a specific topic to show your relevant ads is going to take an incredible amount of work.

I see a great opportunity here.

Simple answer: because they are lazy and they want a cheapest way, and ad giants like Google convinced advertisers this is the only way. Of course it's not, and ad deals with no middlement can be extremely efficient and financially advantageous to both parties. Not to mention they're often adblock-friendly because of being served locally.
You can't have targeted ads AND be anonymous to the ad companies.

You absolutely can, the ad just needs to match the venue. If you are selling fishing tackle you buy an ad on Total Carp (a real magazine!) and you have guaranteed targeting to fishing enthusiasts. This is the same for any ad for any product.

The idea that tracking is needed for ad targeting is pure deception on behalf of those whose real objective is the tracking for other reasons.

> The advertisement couldn’t have been more irrelevant if it tried.

That's because there is a mismatch between what advertisers want to sell and what the people want to buy. Your topics of interest don't pay for them, so they shove something else in your pages in the hopes of making a conversion.

Sounds like the time me and my co-workers kept getting ads for the F-18 Super Hornet... -.-
Worst kind of ads when you realize they don't ship F-18s over night and not to your country.
IF they're shipping F-18s to your country then, most of the time, that means big, big trouble...
I hate ads because they use psychological tactics in order to manipulate people into buying things they would not have bought or thought they needed to buy. I feel it especially disgusting when ads are target at kids who are most vulnerable to these tactics. I also believe ads are in part responsible for the low self esteem of many people and that they deepen feelings of inadequacy in all us.
True. I built a product and my partner "growth hacked" it, and eventually the algorithms he built resulted in merely targeting the most vulnerable audience: retirees. I felt so disgusted by it (we had no idea ourselves and definitely never planned for it) when we realized that nearly every person who bought it was 60+. Most of them never used the product, and felt too shy to ask for refund. That is the algorithmic optimization at it's worst: we did evil having no idea we were doing it.

Needless to say, product still folded in the end.

I think thats a dark secret of a lot of products. You disclose all this stuff to be “transparent and cool” and then your support inbox or forum is full of non native speakers and other people that fundamentally misunderstand everything said
In the world of affiliate marketing it is indeed more common than not.
What was the product if I may ask?
A webinar platform.
I wonder if you could then approach it from the other side. Product market fit is hard, sales is hard. If you can find sales in a niche, develop your product to fit that niche. Could there be a market for communication tools for the elderly? It's a high bar to make things easy to use, and a very high one to make it easy for the elderly.
Weirdly, about 10-20 people still use it for coaching and they seem to absolutely love the product. And yes, all of them are retirees. Although i have gave up on it long since (was abandoned for 8 months), maybe there's a chance?

And yes that's out of about 900 people who bought. But only about 100 used even once, and only about 40-50 maybe used meaningfully, ever, so these customers almost don't churn.

Congratulations for having empathy. Unfortunately, for every one of you there are twenty that would not hesitate to go straight to their nearest VC and pitch their newly-founded predatory idea.
It's easy to blame founders and VC (and they certainly deserve a great share of the blame), but few of them could do anything without an army of supporters in the form of employees, and the sorry fact is that most of them have little trouble finding them.

Look at companies like Facebook and Google. They thrive on advertising, and despite that and having a myriad of other ethical issues, plenty of people consider these companies to be some of the most desirable to work for in the world.

How many Facebook and Google employees read threads like these and feel even the smallest pang of guilt? What percentage of those will actually take action based on what they know is right, quit, and go work for more ethical companies?

There's a reason the internet is a cesspool of advertising. Most people would rather have a big fat paycheck than do what they feel is right, if they even feel that what they do is wrong.. which I bet most people who work for these companies don't.

If the thing didn't exist then they wouldn't have bought it or thought to buy it either so I hope you level that disdain at anyone who makes things as well.
Around Christmas, cinemas in my town show these ads which are designed to move you (children with their grandparents, family reunions in slow motion, etc). But they are shown in sequences of three or four. It starts to get ridiculous. It actually makes me laugh.
I read a description of advertising which really resonated with me: "Advertising attempts to make the person you are envy the person you could be with their product. In other words, they try to steal your contentment and then offer to sell it back to you."

That's from memory, and I don't remember who said it, so I can't give credit where due. But I think it's a great description of what you're saying - that ads are killing our self esteem and self image.

I think that quote captures the feeling I have towards advertisement completely, thank you for sharing that.
I disagree. I generally know what content I want to consume and mostly am not interested in ads in any situation. Also targeted ads would require the advertiser to have information about me, which I don't want to provide.

This can even be generalized further. I am not a fan of targeted content anywhere if it goes beyond similar content that I recently watched.

The only context where ads don't leave a negative impression is while shopping. The way ads dominate topics if they happen to also match some random products name is infuriating.

But if ads must be played, just show the random content that you show everyone.

Why would they advertise something to you you are interested in? If you are interested in something, you would presumably seek it out yourself.
I'm currently on holiday in Bali and YouTube is now showing me ads in Indonesian.

I'm astounded that YouTube has spent billions of dollars over a decade on the best software engineers and still cannot manage this simple optimisation.

I raised that point at Facebook when I joined (I had lived in Finland soon prior and didn’t speak a word of that terrifying language). My back-of-the-SQL estimate was several percentage points of ads were shown to someone who couldn‘t understand them.

It took six months for the company to ask someone to investigate further; he confirmed my estimation and had “the most impact anyone junior had within two months of joining the company”.

But isn't the problem the person who ordered the ads? If they pick a geographic region, but not a language, then don't those ads make sense?
Pick an IP block via APNIC, e.g. one allocated to Indonesia, and hit everything using those IPs with certain kinds of ads in the local language.

If they hit a couple of lone gringos and other ex-pats, whatever; the point is a wide net. Targeting you specifically isn't worth the trouble until your net worth is measured in 5MM or more, me thinks.

That isn’t what’s important.

What’s important is that YouTube had another user to show ads to thereby inflating their metrics so they can sell more ads at a higher price.

Ads aren’t about you, they’re about convincing marketing departments to spend more money on more ads at a higher price.

The good thing with youtube is that you can pay for youtube premium and it will not show you ads (you also get google music, and the ability to run videos in the background on your phone, which is great).
I was listening to a playlist of chill music recently with a friend, and as soon as the ads started rolling the mood was just lost.

The ads were basically a fast slide show - they were changing frames so fast that I didn't even have time to see what the actors were doing. It seemed to be flashing - each frame had actors with different color clothes than the previous frame, there was no continuity. The audio was just as intense, lots of compression and high frequencies. A background narrator (salesman) was nearly shouting in a harried tone, bombarding me in their allotted 10 seconds with reasons I should do something. It was noise without rhythm.

Maybe this ad was the result of my friends automatically generated ad targeting profile and it reflected her search interests, demographic, digital purchase history, automated microphone/camera data collection, and location data history.

But it's also evidence that even the ones making the ads are probably bored with their own jobs (unless ads are automatically generated deep fakes by now).

I don't watch TV, but I'll go to public places where there are TVs playing and people in the room to respond to the content. A Dos Equis ad came up last week, father and son fishing sharing a meaningful moment that turned out to be the father telling the son that the glass beer bottle was recyclable for 5 cents in Iowa, Maine, and Georgia. The son says that means alot to him.

I really couldn't stop laughing for a good 45 seconds. And I remembered it. The pace of the ad was pleasant, gentle (which ultimately sets up the punch line), predictable, and had a format for television which means no skipping which translates to more thoughtful and competitive content (sports channels push 3-4 commercials in a row, YouTube interrupts you with one, maybe two). The room didn't feel like it was pulled into an unorganized frenzy for 10-20 seconds (though the channel will matter, this room was a casino sports betting room - there are so many TVs that I felt like I was sitting in Public Sentiment Mission Control).

But these ads are probably directed at people who have their hands on the controls, unlike hands free TV. A YouTube audience target is probably expected to be alone confined to their device, and the severity of the ad's information overload may reflect the high-bandwidth-internet-surfers reluctance to focus on one thing.

Chicken before the egg?

I do my best to block ads. But YouTube is most likely to leak through.

Within the past week, I've actually opted to watch more than one complete ad on YouTube, because it was relevant. (More to the channel than me, but interesting for the same reason that the channel itself was. Channel about making things, ads about high end (multi hundred thousand dollar?) CNC tools and the such.

I've often tried to explain to marketeers at work that marketing to the wrong people will create negative sentiment and lower sales, but I can never get them to do any tests of it. It's all about having the maximum number of people to spam.

Personally I'm trying to avoid products where the ads manage to penetrate my "firewall" either by breaking the law (DMs even if I am registered not to accept those), public space advertisement or email spam where I didn't sign up for it. Both the email spam and DMs are illegal to do here if you don't sign up for it so I report them all to the local authorities.

I am rooting for someone to find a way of making ad aversion measurable so that marketeers can finally take it into account.
I often get the feeling that they don't want to know this because it invalidates large parts of their work.
Yeah - people look at me like I am crazy when I mention it but the marketing of the /advertiser/ is actually more relevant than the actual conversion rate given fuzzy attribution.
Facebook and Google do that and try to limit showing ads to people who will care enough there’s a chance they’ll click it.

Both have x-out options on every ad: feel free to use it, it helps training aversion models.

They never have the reason I want, "I hate ads" ;)

Maybe they changed that but I gave up on that strategy quite fast.

Just the other day, my wife found some enjoyable series of super short story jokes on Facebook. For once this was actually nice, original content, sliced in <2min videos, one per story. The ads were inserted somewhere in the middle of each one, for 30~45s, every single time completely ruining the gag delivery. Eventually we gave up, it was ridiculously obnoxious.

Ad platforms are killing content: seems like to generate any revenue you either get very generic stuff at high audience, or a long tail of dark-pattern riddled crap. The middle ground where really good creative stuff happens basically doesn't exist/quickly dies, relies on Patreon and such, or gets so many ads it's unconsumable.

Talk to them about “uplift modelling”.

Most of the time, the campaigns will be estimated through some AB-testing. It could be a before and after test, or something even less significant like attribution. All of those have one thing in common: you assume that either you run a campaign, or you don’t. Given week enforcement, being louder wins.

If one the other hand you decide to only send that email to people with a high chance of being interested and changing their behaviour, you limit your messages to a much smaller, more relevant subset. There typically is some pushback: “Why not also try people with a less than 0.1% of responding?” In that case, you want to introduce a cost: the fraction of a penny is costs to send an email, chances of being blacklisted, legal process, etc. Even with a conservative estimation of that risk, most of your targets become not worth it.

> I've often tried to explain to marketeers at work that marketing to the wrong people will create negative sentiment and lower sales

That's the same thing as a marketer approaching a dev at work trying to explain that shit code will create poor product experience, negative sentiment and lower sales.

What most people don't realize is that marketing isn't a input > output solution.

That's not how people work. That's not how society works.

No one wants to waste budget to reach the wrong people, because, just like on any other job - no one likes to do a bad job. Specially marketing/sales jobs have a direct measurable result.

I know that a lot of IT people have a lot of difficulty understanding this, but that's part of some marketing roles, to deal with all stakeholders and try to explain it to them (when/if necessary - else they should just say: "How about you do your job well and don't worry about other's people job?").

When you understand that when Coca-Cola approaches you with a briefing to sell "happiness in a bottle" and that poses a media challenge, then you're one step closer to understand the difficulty of the task.

Now, are there bad practices and bad professionals? Just like in any other job.

So what's the difference? Well unlike many other jobs, the outcome of a bad advertising is seen by a lot of eye balls, because that's the end goal.

A good analogy of a bad engineering job that received a lot of public attention and anger is for example the Boeing 737 Max Q. Or when ever there's a data leak from X company. Yet most poor/bad engineering jobs aren't noticeable to a large audience, aren't up for public scrutiny.

To sum up: when people are affected by bad practices, they don't like it.

Most people don't categorically hate ads. They hate some ads, and really like other ads.

Here is an ad, a movie trailer, that has 232 million views: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ZfuNTqbHE8 People voluntarily seek out some forms of advertisement and jump through hoops to avoid other forms of advertisement. The nature of the ad in question is a huge factor. If the ad industry has a problem, it's being bad at their jobs.

I wonder what it says about me or about the product you're linking to, that I guessed it would be an Avengers trailer before I clicked the link.
It seemed like the best example since the mass market appeal seems undeniable.
Another problem: GDPR more or less prevents tracking by requiring informed consent by the users.
How is that a problem?
For the advertisers and those that rely on that revenue, this is definitely a problem. Without gathering information about users, targeting is a lot worse and ad revenue will generally decrease.

I'm not saying I'm opposed, just stating this observation!

Why don't "they" ever ask what ads I want to see?
Because the ads someone wants to see, like movie trailers or new products of interest to them, you go looking for yourself. The big tech and media conferences are viewed by a ton of people completely voluntarialy. The "value" of advertising next to things you are seeking out, is showing you things you don't have an active interest in seeing.
Are there actually ads you want to see though?

I guess around SuperBowl time there are some funny ads, but that's about it for me.

I don't hate ads. What I hate is when ads track everything I do and everywhere I go and then keep a running dossier of all that and sell that information to third parties. It's a complete breakdown of trust between a seller and a buyer.
I don't hate ads.

I hate to be tracked, I hate to be harrassed (blinking, flashing ads, inappropriate ads), I hate to be exposed by malware.

There were times, when I actually liked ads - when they appeared in reputable magazines for specific topics, be they hifi, sports I have interes in or the national geographic magazine. They all were tasteful and actually interesting, as they were targetted. But not targetted by the stories some cookies seem to tell, but by the topic of the magazine. Much higher chance to show me something which actually interests me.

The cardinal mistake was selling off add space to networks which would decide which ads to place instead of traditional add placement. And to be too greedy and overdo ads until they couldn't be tolerated any more.

Bonus points in the almost globalized age: show me ads for things not available in my region.

Hear hear. I don't mind ads as a concept. I sign up for several email newsletters because I like seeing the ads and knowing what's going on. I have a Nintendo Switch, and I go to their "News" section to look at what new games are coming out.

I hate that giving an inch for ads means tracking, malware, harassment, etc. I hate that I have to be skeptical to give any personal information to any company/institution, as 999/1000 its sold and used for ads. I hate that this is a wealth of information for people to steal and use for nefarious purposes.

I get that the capitalist system needs advertising, so that merchants can draw the public's attention to the existence of their product.

But it's not acceptable for dozens of dodgy ads per page to crash my browser (so I use an ad-blocker). And it's not acceptable for fraudulent email spam to take up more space in my inbox than messages from friends and relatives: I've spent a lot of time over the last 20 years fine-tuning spam filters. Most of the phone calls I get seem to be from criminals, telling me that ISP X is about to close my account, when my provider is ISP Y. I haven't found a solution to that.

Youtube ads seem to have become more frequent and longer in just the last few months. My response: avoid Youtube. TV ads: I pre-record and fast-forward.

I don't understand why merchants and advertisers seem to think it helps their pitch to infuriate people.

Perhaps if the advertising industry would get together to drive out these crooks, fraudsters and scammers, and perhaps not treat everything on the face of the earth as an advertising medium, the honest merchants might get a clearer run at their consumers.

As far as I'm concerned, they missed the boat a long time ago - if you advertise at me without my permission, then I will remember your name and NEVER consider buying your product.

> if you advertise at me without my permission, then I will remember your name and NEVER consider buying your product.

Unfortunately it seems that their tactics work, because we subconsciously remember their name but then lose track of whether it was a positive or negative association. Plus when "everyone does it", it becomes impossible when actually shopping to reward those who don't do it, because they are indistinguishable from a fly-by-night/fraudulent brand. So everyone continues to advertise in the most obnoxious way possible and the noise floor is permanently raised.

Well, brands came about because merchants were adulterating everything - brick-dust in flour, that kind of nonsense. It was a lemon market - you had to adulterate to compete. A well-known brand was an assurance that "our stuff is OK".

So you have to make your brand well-known, otherwise branding doesn't help. I get it. But covering everything in shouty ads isn't that - it's trying to manipulate people.

If everyone would adopt my "NEVER consider" policy, the problem would be gone in six months.

"Youtube ads seem to have become more frequent and longer in just the last few months. My response: avoid Youtube."

Try youtube-dl. It's free and there are no ads.

Ooh, never heard of that. Thanks for the tip, I will try it out.
For me, the problem is that there are just a few categories of ads, each with their own problems. Video or audio ads (YouTube, popups, Spotify, etc.) - usually way too loud or too long (hey, listening to Judas Priest? Now check out 30 seconds of Ed Sheeran's new song), and seemingly totally random.

Sidebar ads - usually something completely useless at best or outright spammy sometimes ("You're our 5000th customer, click to win!")

Feed ads - Twitter, Instagram, other social media. These actually manage to offer things that I care about because they probably have good tracking algorithms.

I've found that the few cases where I've actually paid attention to an ad or even, gasp, clicked on it were the feed ads. So, yeah, I hate the first two categories. Of course I do, they're absolutely useless and the first type is also intrusive.

The catch is... I dislike the third kind as well. Because it leeches off of my privacy. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

I dunno. I'm indifferent to mildly annoyed by ads themselves. On the other hand, over my lifetime, I've probably consumed tens of thousands of hours of content and made use of countless services paid for by advertising that I'd be hard pressed to afford if I had to pay directly.

So I guess I'm pretty strongly pro-ad, even if they're occasionally annoying.

Plus I've gotten a decent chuckle out of some of those Geico ads.

If we abstract away and understand that we are not representative here, then we realize that people actually love ads in general. Just take a look on some Instagram star profile with thousands of active followers, it is full of integrated ads and sponsored content. Then check some general/tech news, non-professional one, sponsored content sometimes is more than half of the whole website.

So actually people hate those old-fashioned ad banners and pop-ups, but currently the advertising industry is more about integrating hidden ads everywhere and personalizing it as much as possible. That speaking, if you are not deeply into privacy and anonymity or just turn off you ads/track blocking stuff, then you will see how personal ads could be. They are not entirely correct, but more and more often I found them horrifyingly personal and targeted.

I do hate ads, but I don't hate them because they're irrelevant, not personalized enough, too silly, too frequent or anything like that. I hate advertising as a concept and nothing is going to change that.

I don't care how much the advertising industry tries to adapt, it's not going to help. I just want that entire industry to stop existing and I know many people (especially young-ish people like me) who share that view.

The worst is when an ASMR video lulls you into a sense of relaxation and vulnerability and a loud obnoxious ad suddenly obliterates you and sends your heart racing
I like influencer marketing where people just do things because someone they are entertained by does it

I was surprised at how effective that is for conversions

Its been hilarious to watch grifters think they could do it just by having followers

The NYtimes may feel immune to advertising woes because they have a paywall now (even though they still make tons off advertising), but what is the paywall other than an obnoxious, loud, obstructive full page ad?

I 'm glad to see they are tackling advertising itself though, rather than fabricating stories about social platforms. The ad industry seems to be very much lacking in real metrics, and seems to be particularly dumb in innovating, holding up appropriate standards and protecting their art.

I really do hate ads, and I've even worked doing ads both for web and TV.

I want to pay for my services, and would like real micro transactions, maybe I read an article i really enjoyed - I want to be able to pay for this, as a donation.

I'm pretty sure we need to look beyond ads for funding services and websites. I'd much rather pay, and while I know not everyone wants to pay... if we could push this behavior, it would really make the web better.

Personally, I have adblockers, privacy badger and even AdGuard/PiHole on my network.

So to all creators, let me pay you, even a tiny amount. I'm aware that transaction fees are en enemy here, so maybe that's a problem to fix?

> So to all creators, let me pay you, even a tiny amount. I'm aware that transaction fees are en enemy here, so maybe that's a problem to fix?

There are models for this (e.g. Blendle), however they suffer from the same problem as Spotify did and Netflix does: the content creators (newspapers, studios, labels) lose the direct connection to their audience and cannot upsell them any more or gather data about them.

This is why newspapers employ massive amounts of trackers and why studios build their own crappy streaming service instead of licensing to Netflix.

The only idea I see to fix this is regulatory: require rightholders to license their content under FRAND terms to aggregators. Otherwise the negative incentives of modern capitalism will block a user-friendly solution.

I'm generally for heavier regulation vs. rampant capitalism, but regulating what media companies can & can't do with their content isn't the answer. That feels like it'd be heading down the path to a state run media.
> So to all creators, let me pay you, even a tiny amount. I'm aware that transaction fees are en enemy here, so maybe that's a problem to fix?

The bigger problem is taxes. A website getting paid directly by its viewers is selling something to each of those viewers, and has to worry about sales tax or VAT in every place those viewers reside.

A website getting paid by selling ad space to ad networks generally only has to worry about taxes in the country it is in.

The latter is orders of magnitude less of a pain than the former.

Google Business Model:

"Get dominance on the market, establish a Monopoly"

1) Invest long-term, offer free attractive services, don't expect any profit during first several years

2) Implement locked-in methods

3) Wait until monopolic position secured and majority is locked into your free service

4) Start monetization and track feedback. Optimize to find perfect tolerance with long-term profit maximization as objective.

5) Enjoy! You are Monopoly.

There should be a Step 0 to indicate that every product idea lives or dies on the degree to which it can be tied back into Google Ads.
This article has 5 ads on it, from the top and then every 3 paragraphs. The irony...
i hate ads i cant avoid seeing because my agency to do that has been subverted. i will attempt to acquire tools to avoid that in future.

i dislike ads as 99.??% are effectively automated insults.

"buy this or you are lessened"

over my lifetime the ad industry has offered insult to me perhaps 100s of 1000s of times.

I generally dislike online ads and block them aggressively, but there is one case where I tolerate (and even enjoy) them: podcast ads. Among the podcasts I listen to, their ads fit the context of the show, and the producers sometimes add their own entertaining twists to them (see: Reply All). This effort and editorial control make me feel respected as a consumer. The advertisers and producers have skin in the game in terms of their reputation. It’s also nice that this format doesn’t really allow for individual behavioral tracking.
The problem is that ads are the reccomendation system for products and services, but the reccomendation algorithm is biased toward whoever pays the most to have their ad shown, not what might be the most most useful product or service for the person to see.

This is fundamentally broken.

I will, on occasion, see an AD that runs on something of value, or that engages in some common sense advocacy.

If you can figure out how to do either one better, faster, whatever, I do not mind those. And I remember who took the time to be considerate enough to create them too.

Got nothing else. Hate inane ADS right along with everyone else.