Ask HN: How to find a therapist/coach who knows what an SLA is?

I have inattentive-subtype ADHD. I am trying to learn how to become a reliable person who can:

- Meet most deadlines.

- Respond to messages from friends/family in a timely manner.

- Keep physical spaces and info spaces (like my email inbox) tidy.

How can I find a therapist who is comfortable co-designing systems and learning and working with metaphors from engineering like Post-mortem or SLO Budget?