Ask HN: how to solve the psychology issues in a hacker's way

1. i saw many people complaining a lot for their life that some seems to have psychology issues; 2. in china,especially, many woman do not know how to live with their mother in law after married; but most of the time they have to live together after a child; in the forums i can see a lot of discussions on this;

anyone have any suggestions on helping people solve such issues in a hacker's way? any good examples on this?thx.