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As always, it's a bad time to be an imaginary person.

It's a big leap to pretend the model reflects the real world, let alone today's real world. As far as I can tell, sharing has become largely fenced into communities (reddit subs, Facebook groups). People who still share with people they know personally appear to me to be a minority.

Don't get me wrong, the principle is sound, but the world changes fast and the described model doesn't seem very relevant nowadays.

My experience watching my older family members share memes on Facebook suggests otherwise.

Also, the entirety of Twitter, in a completely different way.

facebook has billions of monthly users, there’s no way you interact with even 1% of that, so anecdotal feelings are completely meaningless!
Well, it's simpler than the real phenomenon it is simulating, but the fact that even that simplified model gives the same result we see in reality, is itself quite significant. It suggests that it is not some quirk of FB algorithm that is the issue, it's the very essence of what a general purpose social network IS, that's the issue. It suggests that tweaking the algorithm is unlikely to solve the problem.
As contrast in my social circle nearly everything is spoken / shared in private messenger groups today. From my POV this is the current trend. Then again my environment is mostly online privacy aware.
Somehow this post takes the least interesting part of the source article[0] and draws false conclusions from it.

> In the simulation, the decision whether to rebroadcast is random, rather than being driven by “virality” or cognitive bias, so the simulation is an optimistic one. > It turns out that message propagation follows a power law: the probability of a meme being shared a given number of times is roughly proportional to an inverse power of that number.

So they implement a textbook model and a textbook result comes out - surprise? There’s nothing to be drawn by this.

I may share the authors sentiment but frankly this blog post is bunk.

There’re some interesting parts in the source though once you get through all the grand-standing fluff.

[0]: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/information-overl...

The Scientific American article does bring up a number of interesting social dynamics. However the modeling described seems bogus to me. The algorithms sound like they are incredibly oversimplified. It seems unreasonable to assume that all people interact with social media in the same way or to assume that their behavior is random.

For perspective, genetic algorithms are a biased random walk and they clearly work quite well.

If it's the paper I'm thinking of then I read the original and that's not really a fair representation of what they did.

What they actually did was they started with some data on things which had gone viral but could only see how many were "infected" (number of views over time). They didn't have direct access to the granular information of who had seen what and who they shared or didn't share with. They decided to work backwards and model virality for some assumed network properties and contagiousness properties and then see which of their models had the similar statistics to actual viral posts.

Network topology: iirc they tested the case of a gaussian distribution of connections meaning on average 95% of nodes had n connections +- 2sigma and they tested a power law type distribution meaning some thin minority of "influencers" had connections to nearly everyone".

Contagious property: they tested the case where different content had a different virality property r0 with more or less contagious content all competing at the same time. They also tested the case of sheer randomness wherein all content is equally likely to be shared and which goes viral basically depends on the luck of who's eye it catches.

The end result was that a power law and random contagiousness best fit the real world statistics.

Also mind that any sharing process randomly selects a few winners. There's the famous example of "What happens, if 100 persons in a room are given $100 each and give away a Dollar to one randomly chosen person in this room each tick of the clock?" [1] Distributions become even more articulated, as we introduce any kind of market to this basic model, and wins are soon off the scale. Now start to promote those winners by algorithm…

The only means of counter-acting is human oversight/criticism/regulation, but, as the study shows, this reaches only that far.

[1] A simple simulation may be found here: https://www.masswerk.at/misc/wealth/

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Related to this, there is an intimacy of small community which makes you feel valued and a proper contributor, that social networks really seem to oppose: they want to make the network bigger, you are part of the biggest world context, everybody on TikTok is eating a habanero while watching Bob Ross, so only if I do the same nonsense do I have a chance of 100 people noticing and liking the video and maybe opting to see more of my content.

When I put it that way it feels banal, but like, you know the “fast-growing subreddits” list on Reddit? There were meetings! Someone worked on that! People literally sat in a room and said effectively, “Hey Fatimeh, what is the status of the ‘make subreddits suck faster’ feature? Management is very interested in delivering that in Q3.” Right? Like this connection from global to personal is just automatically assumed, nobody spends a waking moment thinking it could be anything but that way.

Nitpick: There's no ñ in habanero.
And in fact that informs how to pronounce the word. It's not hah-buh-NYAIR-oh, it's hah-buh-NAIR-oh.

A similar one that I used to get wrong all the time is empanada. No ñ in that either, but I always said em-puh-NYAH-duh. Then one day I noticed it was just a regular n and it is pronouced em-puh-NAH-duh.

Now for a really embarrassing one. This was back in the day when I was working with my friend and colleague Alan Cooper (of interaction design fame) on what became Visual Basic. We were on a phone call and I said something about a zhuh-NAIR of music. Alan asked "what's that?" I explained that it was like a category or a particular style. He said "do you mean ZHAHN-ruh?"

It's funny how these embarrassing moments stick in your brain. I could tell you exactly where I was, and even which direction I was facing when we had that conversation.

But I was grateful that Alan corrected me and I won't sound like a fool any more when I talk about a genre.

I had one friend who would never gracefully accept a correction like that. One time he told me about a neighbor who "took his dog to the pond." I said "that's nice, does the dog like to go swimming?" He said "no, the POND, the place where they put dogs to sleep."

He went through his whole life mispronouncing "dog pound", and many, many other words.

A Chinese colleague of mine liked to say that "there are many ways to peel a cat".
Ouch. As someone who lives with three dogs and three cats, that one hits close to home.

One of our cats thinks she is my girlfriend! When I go to bed, she immediately jumps on the bed next to me and places herself right where my hand is, so I can scratch her back and tummy.

No cat peeling here!

I love these idiom screw-ups. One of my coworkers once tried to use an English idiom and it came out, "let's not beat a horse to death."
The worst offenders are ones that can be solved logically if the person spent 5 seconds to think.

"I could care less" vs "I could not care less"

The amount of people who defend the former with their own head-canon is frightening. Ones I have heard are "It's sarcastic" and "I care so little that I won't put the extra effort into caring less"

Steven Pinker and other linguists would like a word with you:

https://www.google.com/search?q=steven+pinker+i+could+care+l...

From Pinker's book The Language Instinct (p.377 or 389 depending on the edition):

> A tin ear for prosody (stress and intonation) and an obliviousness to the principles of discourse and rhetoric are important tools for the language maven. Consider an alleged atrocity committed by today's youth: the expression I could care less. The teenagers are trying to express disdain, the adults note, in which case they should be saying I couldn't care less. If they could care less than they do, that means that they really do care, the opposite of what they are trying to say. But if these dudes would stop ragging on teenagers and scope out the construction, they would see that their argument is bogus. Listen to how the two versions are pronounced:

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> The melodies and stresses are completely different, and for a good reason. The second version is not illogical, it's sarcastic. The point of sarcasm is that by making an assertion that is manifestly false or accompanied by ostentatiously mannered intonation, one deliberately implies its opposite. A good paraphrase is, “Oh yeah, as if there was something in the world that I care less about.”

But I hear you and sympathize with your point of view. I have been there myself. It didn't make sense to me that people would use a word or phrase in any meaning other than its literal one.

Especially a word like "literally", right?

Merriam-Webster has a article on that. It's literally the best article ever written!

https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/misuse-of-lite...

I discovered just this evening that the approach I try to use to correct my kids on that sort of thing was described by Marcus Aurelius:

> From Alexander the grammarian: to avoid fault-finding and not to censure in a carping spirit any who employ an exotic phrase, a solecism, or harsh expression, but oneself to use, neatly and precisely, the correct phrase, by way of answer or confirmation or handling of the actual question—the thing, not its verbal expression—or by some other equally happy reminder.

https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_Meditations_of_the_Empero...

I just remembered a couple more of my late friend's interesting pronunciations:

"Old-timer's disease" (Alzheimer's)

"Valentime's Day"

Too late to correct him now! May he rest in peace.

I will never be able to understand English phonetic approximations. Spanish is my mother language and I don't know how they are supposed to sound like xD

In any case, "empañada" is a real word, it mean's "foggy", but used for glasses, not for the weather itself. For example, "tengo las gafas empañadas" -> "my glasses are foggy"

The proper form, when turned to 11, is haban̈ero.
>When I put it that way it feels banal,

It is banal, at least the largest portion of social media is. Originally, I could see the usefulness of FB with connecting with friends near & far, sharing, planning, etc. All sounds useful, but then FB turned it creepy with their method of monetizing their products and algos to pull the strings to make it as addicting as possible. Insta, TikTok, etc has pretty much fully embraced the dark side of social. LOOK AT ME!!! LIKE ME!!! FOLLOW ME!!! Again, with the tweaking of the algos to up the addiction factor. All in the name of "engagement".

YouTube already made me nervous, but there's definitely some people creating content there that is not about that at all so I don't lump them in with the others.

>Originally, I could see the usefulness of FB with connecting with friends near & far, sharing, planning,

honestly I would love social networks that was just that but as it is now i actively avoid most social media outside of small niche communities (certain subreddits that relate to fairly narrow interest fan communities for a couple of authors that sort of thing [i don't fallow any default subs], hacker news, and a couple of small discord servers for open source projects and small podcasts)

but everything for talking to friends and family and keeping up on there lives is either been turned into a politically toxic battleground or monetized into unusability.

Anything online funded by primarily by advertising will necessarily turn creepy or exploitive. Advertising always demands more engagement so there will be teams of people trying to game you for that engagement.
I don't know if it's just nostalgia talking, but I feel like a decade ago Facebook really was good at connecting people. I enjoyed it, because most of the content was real people you knew having conversations, or sharing pictures they had taken. I eventually left because it was honestly just boring. My timeline was nothing but shared posts from big content pages, which of course became mostly bad politics over time.
> I could see the usefulness of FB with connecting with friends near & far, sharing, planning, etc.

When I used FB, I used it as a non-professional LinkedIn. Like, networking, but for people outside of your professional network.

Being connected to people who are not so close that you shared your cell number, but still wanted to stay connected.

(Email isn't big where I live)

This strongly reminds me of Kornhauser’s three levels of social relations (Politics of Mass Society, 1959):

> We can conceive of all but the simplest societies as comprising three levels of social relations. The first level consists of highly personal or primary relations, notably the family. The third level contains relations inclusive of the whole population, notably the state. The second level comprises all intermediate relations, notably the local community, voluntary association, and occupational group.

Etc., the argument being that much of the socially important parts and ills of industrialization, urbanization, and the ensuing mass society are reducible to the dissolution of the second level and the transferral of its customary characteristics and behaviours (strong attachment, group identity, and so on) to the third.

But that’s mostly me channelling my history teachers, not original thought, so maybe someone who actually knows this stuff can say more.

Lest this be perceived as doomsaying, let me mention that Russian-language LiveJournal seemed to retain that small-town feel up until the very end (early 2010s) despite the considerable number of readers and commenters (thousands of readers for the most popular post on a slow day—much less than on Facebook, much more than you could ever possibly know). Possibly that’s because the number of writers (worth following) was much smaller, due to the higher effort required for long-form posts.

Again, people with more experience in older online communities should know more about this, as that was the only thriving one I experienced personally.

You can reduce all of this to the simple observation that:

There are little consequences when the pool of people you have access to is massive; and there remains no reason to become emotionally invested in a certain "core" of people, when you can easily jump to another if that "core" is not perfect.

This leads to a feedback loop that stunts relationship "depth."

Or further: when you have options, the default modus operandi is to not become completely invested into any single one -- you can always "jump" to another, and are always on the lookout for "greener pastures."

People have more options than they used to.

As much as I craved these "second level" (and even "first level") social relations, over the years I've become assimilated and contribute to the aforementioned feedback loop.

The "ills" of modern life have been exponentially increasing, but for the future generations they are simply "life."

Interesting, also why online dating can be difficult.
You say that like the alternative is any better. Historically small communities with high levels of "investment" had a heavy hand over the lives of their community members. They're practically cults that exist to "save" their investment from outside influences. To Kill a Mockingbird demonstrates how such societies function.

In my opinion, it's good to have options. It's good not to have an X-or-bust social investment in a particular community because, as the 20th century has demonstrated, communities don't last forever. They change, they warp, they include, they exclude, they rise ,and they disappear. Societies are built to serve an instrumental function. When a society fails to provide that function in any meaningful way, people will vote with their feet when they can find another goal that suits their purposes. Even if such a goal is outside their current limits. This his been the way of humanity for thousands of years, so I don't understand why should we stop people from having options. I don't see a reason why people risk sinking with a ship they no longer have an interest being aboard.

Ideally one would have an arrangement that mimics the Viennese Cafe societies. Strict but fair rules on conduct, but ultimately leaving personal agency to oneself and one's confidants .

Could you imagine if hypothetically, HN suddenly became the world's most popular social network? It would be unusable for it's current purpose and no amount of moderating could ever fix that.

This sounds harsh but not everyone deserves to be heard all of the time- myself included.

To quote David Duchovney:

"I think when I was younger I wanted to tell everybody everything, because I thought I was so damn interesting. Then I heard the snoring."

I like browsing HN from the Android app Materialistic because (1) I can't see votes on my posts and (2) it's difficult to find replies to my posts (you can view your profile, but jumping to a post only shows its ancestors, not replies). This combination, plus the annoyance of typing on a smartphone, means I usually * only comment when I have something that adds value to the conversation; I tend to engage more with the content and less "socially".

* Of course, there are exceptions, and I actually use hnreplies.com to get emails when someone replies to me, but there's enough of a delay that I usually am able to avoid getting caught up in a back-and-forth argument. Especially since, by the time I see the replies, someone else has already clarified my position :)

Materialistic used to be able to cache articles and comments when you saved a story (for offline consumption) but that is no longer the case. I've also only been able to export the list of stories *once* before as that feature is more or less broken at this point.
That's interesting about the votes. I find myself complying/wanting to fit in to avoid the "dinging" feeling of being down voted ha. I also just use another account.

I get it though, there are mental tiers I know where I am. Thankfully I can at least make a decent living/do my own thing.

I'm also aware of effort too. Looking into something/asking.

> no amount of moderating

There can be automated systems to fix that - to rank contributions, with the aim to boost the signal and reduce the noise, with the final aim to facilitate a lean and productive debate and information sharing; and also to connect contributions, to reduce dispersion, etc.

Such systems to rank contributions are related to the theory of voting systems (quantitative ranking of voters and options).

The aim of many big "social networks" is not «to facilitate a lean and productive debate and information sharing».

It could be automated, but would we want it to be? I don't get to see twitter's or facebook's back-end, but my guess is there is probably already a large sum of automation. Which leads to some of the very things people are complaining about. Right now, I don't see a path forward for automating moderating, meanwhile appeasing everyone. So, I think we would just see the same criticisms of HN emerge that are already present on the mainstream social networking platforms. People would just figure out a way with bots to sway the voting to suppress a voice or lift a voice artificially (something that is probably already done on twitter with people in both directions across all spectrum of opinions).

I could be wrong, I hope I am wrong.

> would we want it to be?

Do we want to live in a sophisticated democracy as opposed to a naïve democracy? Some would.

Would you like to be part of an information exchange and debate platform using sophisticated systems as opposed to an open billboard? Some would.

It is very doable. It was done in history and it can be done technically in many ways.

Take for example HN: before you can downvote, you must have consolidated your position as contributor. Very simple - yet affecting the result, the "experience". Much more sophisticated techniques can be used.

Malicious parties could attack a system exploiting its weaknesses: yes, this is why take precautions like testing systems theoretically and practically, and implement defence systems.

> automating moderating

The point is not to automate moderation - it is not about the work of DanG. It is about reducing the noise generated by users "in development" and boosting the signal donated by "developed" users.

In the area of "ranking according to the favouring of favoured users, recursively" is a way to implement it.

Interesting, I did not know that one had to be a 'developed' user to be able to down vote. I may have to look more into the history of this and see some examples of implementations. Thanks for the info!
It happens at 500 karma, and even then there are times you can't I think, such as direct responses to you.
Those are based on the assumption that votes are equal. There are a lot of people I just don't have any interest in hearing from.

No automated system is going to fix eternal September style problems. And before you suggest that I could simply follow the groups I'm interested in, that's still not the same thing because the people in those groups will still be engaging with/distracted by the people I'm not following.

How about this way to automatically address the Eternal September problem:

When you upvote an item - you connect stronger to people who upvoted that same item.

When you downvote an item - you connection to those who upvoted it becomes weaker.

The content is ranked based on how strongly you are connected to people you upvoted each item.

That way when a lot of clueless/uninformed people come in and start upvoting useless to you content - they don't create noise in your personalized content list.

The content you see comes from people who have proven to find useful content for you.

This is how my hobby project https://linklonk.com works.

I did a Show HN a week ago and that post has more details: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=28405659

On the surface this seems reasonable, but in reality I think the users would end up inside echo chambers very quickly.
Yes, an echo chamber is a concern. But unlike other systems, you are in total control of who you get your content from. You are responsible for what you see. Which I think is the best place to have this responsibility. This does not work for everyone (e.g., kids don't know what is better for them), but hopefully many people will find it useful.
> Those are based on the assumption that votes are equal

No, absolutely not. Voters can be categorized, clusterized and ranked, already as part of voting systems theory (one single example in the latter: election of electors), and more beyond it.

> No automated system is going to fix eternal September style problems

And why not. One example: views filtering contribution by score.

> people in those groups will still be engaging with/distracted by

Not necessarily, if they are given the option to avoid that.

Moderation is something I've been think about lately. So fare the best idea I've come up with is "hide all posts by default", then randomly show a post or comment to something like 5 - 20% for the other users. Only when a post then reaches some level of likes/upvotes/whatever will that post open up to comments and be visible to all other users of the platform. If it fails to reach the required number of votes in 24 hours is will just be deleted.

Most social media platforms are simply to big to moderate in any meaningful way, in my opinion. AI has so far show to be ineffective, as show by comments and open letters from Facebooks human moderation staff.

I especially hate the trend of people deliberately saying something controversial, to get more comments/likes/publicity.

One recent example is Piers Morgan in the UK, who randomly decided to criticise Emma Raducanu, a rather likeable British teenager, who just won the US open without dropping a set (including in qualifying rounds)! I can't understand why he would do that, other than to stir up some controversy, and get himself back in the public eye. Either way, it worked.

And now that you've shared it here, you've contributed to the success of the marketing campaign.
I generally have more respect for journalists than athletes, because the former group contributes more to society. But in this case, yuck.
It would be interesting to monitor his number of followers before/after the controversy. For information, John Gibson, CEO of Tripwire Interactive, which is a videogame publisher, recently tweeted a controversial opinion about abortion, then had to step down from his job, yet his number of followers increased from 2.5K to 9K in the process.

This can be seen on websites like: https://socialblade.com/twitter/user/rammjaeger/monthly Picture: https://i.imgur.com/poc1QcE.png

Edit: when it comes to Piers Morgan, it does not seem to have been worth it. The last bump of followers happened in March.

Reference: https://socialblade.com/twitter/user/piersmorgan/monthly Picture: https://i.imgur.com/s7145UK.png

It's the same with Linux. If it would be super popular and mainstream, the corporations would destroy everything that's fun with it in order to sell you things and track your data.
Like Android?
Sorta, although to get to that point it had to lose 99% of what it needs to call it Linux.
They already do. Not everything even in the server segment is unicorns and rainbows; a lot of corporate “fauxpen source” is SDKs for proprietary hosted services, and paid staff working on those “OSS” offerings is more about “building a vibrant community” (read: extracting free labor) and making sure the only contributions accepted are those that narrowly match their internal roadmaps (which reinforces my previous point).

I mean, it’s still better than closed source SDKs with bugs unfixed for years and books written about working around them, but that would be a pretty low bar anyway.

I have already observed the worst case scenario of this context on HN.

It was a thread about an application correcting for some aspects of ADHD. With ADHD persons there is already an information filtering disorder of variable degree; specifically an inability to separate ones-self from a context of conversation, subject matter, or even the logical distance therein. This means that under an extreme case it only takes a single person to mimic the effects of a social network echo chamber of heightened sensitivity. That thread was bizarre in that many comment replies were wildly on a tangent from their respective GP comment and the emotion expressed was completely off the chart for HN.

How does hackaday do it? I think it is the focus on details, the absence of popularity metrics that tend to skew in favor of distracting comedies.
Perhaps it's the light text on black background, a colorscheme that would suit a site called hacker news also.
I gave up on Usenet newsgroups when the noise in groups of interest (mainly rec.music., comp.lang. and comp.sys.*) led to me spending too much time managing my killfile in relation to actually reading and replying to news.

It really was too much to self-moderate your way through. The volume was just too much. As well, you couldn't sort through the trash to find the pearls.

The volume was a trickle compared to volume today. I don't have a source for this assertion, but I think it is reasonable.

On the basis that all the spammers have moved onto riper fruit such as Facebook and Twitter, I do wonder if Usenet will see a resurgent, after all in the good groups it's just a federated version of HN in style.
>This sounds harsh but not everyone deserves to be heard all of the time- myself included.

The exact same rules don't quite apply to real life, but they make for a nice comparison: in a small group of people (say, 4-5 people) no formal rules are needed. Generally, everyone will have a chance to speak and be heard. Imagine a a much larger group, say, 300 people. There's no way everyone can meaningfully be heard. In the real world no one goes into a group of 300 people to communicate with those 300 people. Usually there is a speaker or performer communicating them as an audience. Even if those 300 people wanted to set aside the time to listen to every audience member, it'd be meaningless: no one would remember anything meaningful from most of the 300 different speakers.

In any case, it should be obvious that group dynamics and the need for structure are modified by group size. A very large online community can never be intimate, and perfectly healthy communities can be irreparably damaged simply be in influx of people.

That sounds horrible. This place has become a little solace of mine. There’s probably some theoretical threshold for when a community grows to a certain size it becomes more and more difficult to having meaningful discourse. The noise becomes too great
The bell of death tolls whenever a site gets flooded with reposts from TikTok... Reddit reached that point this year.

Engagement stats and views are the wrong KPIs to focus on for social media aites and most of us know it yet Product Managers are just trying to stay n their jobs and collect checks.

If you want to really succeed in creating a community like HN that lasts much longer than a cheap start up like ClubHouse, the key is to stay local, dedicated to a niche, keep ads controlled carefully, and be happy with smaller-scale operations rather than trying to dominate the world. Dominating the world is a very risky and high overhead venture meant only for those who can ask for a small million dollar loan from their father.

wonderful remark.

i have this nagging feeling that nothing good ever comes out when there is a large group of people involved. and that the most successful communities, teams or groups are small. i have seen small communities ruined when they got big or niche communities wrecked when they went mainstream. time and again. but we keep pushing for larger groups, larger teams, more networking, more friends, etc...

> i have this nagging feeling that nothing good ever comes out when there is a large group of people involved. and that the most successful communities, teams or groups are small. i have seen small communities ruined when they got big or niche communities wrecked when they went mainstream. time and again. but we keep pushing for larger groups, larger teams, more networking, more friends,

This made me think of the quote from Men in Black:

> A person is smart. People are dumb, panicky dangerous animals and you know it.

I think there's some major exceptions but they require heavy-handed moderation. Notable among these is the AskHistorians subreddit. You could argue though they're the exception that proves the rule.

I will say though, I'm a frequent participant in a few topic-specific forum, and I think if anything the concentration to places like Reddit, Facebook groups, and Discord has helped these places quite a bit in the exact way you suggest. They've been insulated because they're too obscure now and that has allowed them all to largely have reasonable organic growth, rather than explosive "hug of death" style sudden growth. I just hope that lasts.

Small communities need less management. Population increase in the community offer chances of acquiring new assets: it has potential.

Management is everything: creating an environment and systems that facilitate the best allocation of resources.

Of course if your small team of three already contains "the masters", the result can be e.g. the CBM C64. And, they say, "in ancient Athens democracy was easier". But the small team did great thing because of the quality of its members, and a small community is facilitated by a reduced noise. Quality of members and noise control are the problem of management.

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I'm willing to bet that my fyp on tiktok is much different from yours.

Niche subreddits could have been the solution. It is the specific implementation suck, not the idea of openness of a subgroup to new comers e.g., there can be a feeling community while participating in an open source project even if anybody may join.

Growth is always the default expectation. It's part of humanity at this point. I personally feel that it is destructive. I hate the idea that static and stagnant are NEGATIVES. They are not. They have value.
In a niche community, even to be stable you need slow growth, even if at a trickle pace. The simple reason is that some formerly active people grow disinterested and move on, some grow old, some die.

You need such a stream of newcomers that within their first, say, 500 contributions they get savvy enough to fit in and carry the momentum. You also need enough people who understand and tend to the spirit of the community so they can successfully oppose a famed veteran who may suddenly go renegade.

"Stagnant" definitely has negative connotations; better words might be "stable", "steady", "established"...
I think humanity is meant to work to a "grow and bud model", where when a community starts getting unmanageably large, a number "bud off" and form their own. Like how the Greek city-states formed associated colonies across the Mediterranean, or how large friend groups almost always have sub0units within them. It even happens to subreddits, but since it hurts the network effect social media companies strive for they want to prevent this happening.
I've thought of creating a social network that groups people into small groups of 100 or so, by interests and location. I would advertise it as a chance to escape the monoculture and explain that the cost if you must participate a minimum amount, like 1 post or comment per week on average or something. And then you could mix up the groups every year or two. It would have its pros and cons, but it would achieve the goal of letting small groups form and create their own cultures. It would also succeed regardless of its size, so long as you have enough users to form a small group.
You're effectively describing Scuttlebutt in a nutshell. Small communities that are formed ad-hoc by peering with each other. "Follow" mean you'll help replicate their content for others who follow them + you. Scuttlebutt is already successful even though it's very small so far. Tags and other things can be used to explore content on the network, as long as you've found an entry-point.

I'm a bit split about spreading the word about Scuttlebutt, I don't want to ruin it since it's already so great. But felt it was very related to what you were writing, so here goes nothing :)

In case you wanna join: https://scuttlebutt.nz/

The client I'm using is https://github.com/ssbc/patchwork

The name is awful. I certainly don't want to spread the word about "scuttlebutt". So I guess that's a good thing, keeps it small and cosy.
You sound like the same person who could never work on a ship as there is a "poop deck", and you could of course never refer to it as such, poop is a bad word!

Also, never try archery as some people might try to use the word "prickshaft" towards you. The horror.

What is so awful about "scuttlebutt"? In the old days, when ships were wooden, real sailors were pressed, etc., etc., every ship had a water container available to the sailors -- a water butt -- bigger than a puncheon but smaller than a tun. So sailors would share gossip (probably about how misguided their management was) -- scuttle -- around the water butt, hence "scuttlebutt".

Where's the "awful"?

eta: Exactly what we today refer to as "water cooler chatter/gossip"

Having never been in the old days, the word scuttlebutt isn’t in my vocabulary, but I do know scuttle (scamper) and butt (buttocks). Scampering buttocks, the meaning I would surmise in the absence of your history lesson, is indeed an awful choice of name if the network is aspiring for general appeal.
In the US military “scuttlebutt” refers to gossip. So that’s my first reaction to this name.
The first part of what you say is similar to what's happening with some parts of Mastodon. There are many, many small instances that are (apparently) starting to develop their own cultures, but you can still see what other people are saying because of federation.

The ideas of requiring engagement, and mixing the groups, are interesting, but I'm not sure how they'd work. I've seen the "You must engage" idea applied elsewhere without success, so it needs a little more work.

Even so, I think your ideas have promise.

Louis Menand's The Free World, a history of public thought in the cold war era, recently taught me about the relationship of the masses and totalitarianism.

The relationship appears to be : destroy classes & traditional relationships -> produce masses & the mob -> totalitarianism arises out of the masses' anxiety and the mob's despotic idiocy.

Something like how too many chickens in a big barn can't form hierarchies and so live in a perpetual panic, except along comes a Big Chicken who makes everyone feel better because they finally know their place again.

I hope something different and less awful happens. But the early results are worrying.

Can we just pull the plug on this experiment, please?

This explains why the crappiest of efforts are so viral, and why things that try harder fail. When I think of the meme templates I've seen, they're all grade 2 mental level, and they don't engage your critcal faculties, but this is their point. They just pass right by. There is a kind of bias where we must think, "this is so crappy, it has to be real!" which is the complement bias to, "this looks too polished to be real." I wonder what examples of things other than memes would be the effect of that bias.
Example: free software can't be good, we should buy SAP.
> I wonder what examples of things other than memes would be the effect of that bias.

Looking at a similar phenomenon in a different medium, I'd argue that both Nickelback and Adam Sandler films fall into this same category.

People everywhere love to shit on Nickelback but when they were touring they were selling out stadium after stadium after stadium, having albums go platinum, etc. They were an outright commercial success despite being panned critically and seemingly "universally hated."

Adam Sandler films get the same treatment.

My theory is: Sometimes you just want to not think deeply about a thing and turn your brain off and enjoy, and I think that applies to music, film, and memes equally. There's something inoffensive but satisfying about mediocrity in these things.

I have no idea what the logic of this post is supposed to be. Message sharing follows a power law and so therefore... something about quality going down when messages go up? And something about filtering? What on earth is he talking about?

...Well, it turns out he's sharing the conclusions of the linked SciAm article, but the SciAm article just says "the super smart researchers plugged numbers into their simulation and this result magically came out". There's no insight or explanation.

Are we expected to just believe that computer simulations built by credentialed scientists prove things about the real world?

> Are we expected to just believe that computer simulations built by credentialed scientists prove things about the real world?

We could model it...

1) each node is an imaginary scientist with a random set of in and outgoing citations, they can only read and cite a finite number of randomized publications, the publications are assumed to vary randomly in quality...

2) ?????

3) Conclusion: As the number of publications in the network rises, the quality of those which propagate falls.

> as the number of messages in the network rises, the quality of those which propagate falls

The job of technology here should be to reduce noise, both on open platforms like twtr and closed platforms like slack channels and forums.

Computers are good at categorization -- now just use it to restrict what I see rather than recommend extra stuff.

Spam detection for things not traditionally considered spam.

That’s what they call a “filter bubble”, though. (Still not convinced that’s an inherently evil thing, yeah, but somewhat convinced an implicit and unavoidable one may not be good.)
yes fully agreed, it can be bad

but there's a political version of a filter bubble which is getting the same news, but opposite interpretations

vs things like industry-specific updates -- I get a much smaller volume of, say, biology news than someone who works in it

It's good to get some exposure to content outside of your bubble. But not to a never-ending stream of crap that is trying to hack your brain.
You can't promote certain content to the front without demoting other content downward.

The algorithmic filtering/ordering of items in a feed is really just censorship of the items that don't benefit Facebook/Instagram/Twitter/YouTube.

These tools serve their owners, not the society they ostensibly serve to connect.

It's censorship on a huge scale, and it's terribly damaging.

What realistic alternatives are there to an algorithmic feed that don't immediately devolve into high-volume posters drowning out the one status a month club?
Now compare it with real life gossiping. And things won't look that bad to you.
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I am trying to get into self hosting. Can anyone recommend a Twitter or Facebook self hosted app? The idea would be that it would be an invite only social network where I choose who can join.
Nextcloud is probably among your better packaged options. Free Software / OSS:

Share and collaborate on documents, send and receive email, manage your calendar and have video chats without data leaks.

https://nextcloud.com/

For a Twitter equivalent, Mastodon.

Facebook's a bit more of a challenge --- longer-form content, the ability to group contacts, and the like.

Principally there are Diaspora*, Friendica, and Hubzilla, all based on or near the ActivityPub standard.

https://joinmastodon.org/

https://friendi.ca/

https://project.hubzilla.org/

There are limits and compromises to these, though all should handle small-scale (family/community) sharing easily. Mastodon's at millions of users, the others are probably smaller.

At scale, moderation and administration of Diaspora* is a bit of a pain, though that's (slowly) improving.

Invite-only and self-hosted are different things.

Discord is invite-only but not self-hosted. Maybe that would work for you?

As others have said Mastodon might be what you want. You can self-host it, either "at home" or "in the cloud", and you can choose not to federate at all, or choose to federate only with instances you choose. You can choose to run as "invite only", or to allow anyone, and then eject people who behave poorly.

So you can set it up as an "invite only social network where I choose who can join", as you say.

This makes sense. The lowest common dominator is watered down to the point of banality. The lowest common denominator that gets reshared is totally batshit.
Mathew's blog post is mostly just commentary on a quite excellent Scientific American article from November 2020, "Information Overload Helps Fake News Spread, and Social Media Knows It".

This is based on a simulation of social media which shows that, at least in the model (and with strong evidence that reality follows suit):

[The] winner-take-all popularity pattern of memes, in which most are barely noticed while a few spread widely, could not be explained by some of them being more catchy or somehow more valuable: the memes in this simulated world had no intrinsic quality. Virality resulted purely from the statistical consequences of information proliferation in a social network of agents with limited attention. Even when agents preferentially shared memes of higher quality, researcher Xiaoyan Qiu, then at OSoMe, observed little improvement in the overall quality of those shared the most. Our models revealed that even when we want to see and share high-quality information, our inability to view everything in our news feeds inevitably leads us to share things that are partly or completely untrue.

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/information-overl...

That was discussed exctensively at the time on HN (166 comments):

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25153716

I don't get it.

If quality is random and decision to rebroadcast is also random - and independent of quality - then why is the result more low-quality messages?

Because quality is rare.
I'm talking about the simulation, not the real thing - and there, "low quality"/"high quality" are just markers that were assigned randomly.

Did they write anywhere that they tag posts "low quality" with higher probability than "high quality"?

/// UNPOPULAR OPINION WARNING for open-minded and “tolerant” people ///

What the fuck? The social network is merely a magnet for the retarded dredges of our pathetic organization of organisms. You ban anything that is outside of the norm, have disdain for any dissent and still are unable to observe why your idiotic consent doesn’t manufacture new ideas?

In this reality, tension makes knowledge. Critical states, self-organized criticality. Fuck your money fuck your bans you dumb fucks are going to be condescended to now.

Why are only dumb people sensitive about being reminded of their position? LOL. Y’all are really clowns.

> as the number of messages in the network rises, the quality of those which propagate falls

... if you assume people don`t read the message at all, but use a coin flip to decide if they should reshape it.

I cannot for the life of me fathom how anyone could make a model that completely ignores content quality in respect to distribution and then use that model to make a statement about average quality of content that gets distributed.

This really is the “sperical cow in a vacuum”equivalent of modeling social networks.

Garbage in garbage out. The conclusions necessarily follow from the assumptions they used. It's astounding that anyone is paying attention to this.

"Simulation shows that coinflip leads to 50/50 outcome." Genius.

You will not find someone who dislikes social media and its effects more than I do, but:

> In the simulation, the decision whether to rebroadcast is random, rather than being driven by “virality” or cognitive bias, so the simulation is an optimistic one.

Why not model the decision to rebroadcast based on something other than a simple dice roll? Why not drive it by virality? Why not drive it by quality? Why not model tribal affiliation? These things seem significant when talking about the "information hellscape" we've created.

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This is why Google cannot be compared to Facebook.
As soon as your news feed becomes too big for you to read all of it and then decide whether to repost anything, the quality of information you propagate is going to fall because of that filtering process.

I avoid this by unfollowing people very frequently. I see one stupid candid or a pout or a food shot, I just unfollow that person.

Same goes for SJW/White Supremacy types. Whether you are OP or a sharer, you get muted/unfollowed.

This is how I use Quora. When I used Facebook five years ago, I used it this way.

Twitter I use only for professional content. Very strictly. I also set the trending country to Namibia, so that I don't even know what they are talking about.

I am less and less active on social media with the passing of days, but a good social media experience can be achieved by strictly filtering normies, politics, food porn, etc.

I just use good old bookmarks for specific accounts on youtube and twitter.
> SJW/White Supremacy types

In what way are these 'types' equated?

I'm assuming they're referencing the type of content they see from opposite sides of the political spectrum. I'm also not assuming any value attribution.

In the context of the comment, it seems that they simply do not want political noise in their social network in any form.

"Political noise" is completely subjective. There was a time within the last 10 years when claiming "White supremacists are a serious problem" got you branded as a SJW.
Participation in the culture war, weaponizing social media, and politicizing every space they pollute. There is no space for science, art, culture, day to day experience, or just fun and joy when they try to recruit every social media user and their content into their cause.

I'm saying this even if I actually do agree with their cause.

They're equally removed from my Facebook feed, along with most other non-local politics. Life is a lot less stressful when you don't get shown the most inflammatory political arguments on the internet whenever you check your messages.
In the same way are they equated with food shots…
Seeing either of those pretty much puts my brain in the same place, even though I agree with the SJW side. Reading people argue about it just stresses me out and doesn’t help anyone. It’s like being in “fight or flight” mode with no option to actually fight or flee. The opposite of the way I feel after a good workout.
Ironically they are one and the same: the have extremist viewpoints, resentful and hostile.
I unfollow everyone, absolutely everyone on facebook. I do it systematically whenever somebody sends a friend request.

This way I can decide whose posts I see, and not the algorithm. Ha, take that! Facebook even displays an error message in your feed if you unfollow everyone :)

I logged on to FB a few months back because I had to send a message. I just sent that message and logged off. (I would get email when they replied)

Facebook seriously asked me if it was my own account I logged on to. Because, "when people log on to other people's accounts, they tend to log off quickly".

Yeah!

Perhaps this is unfair, but this just makes you sound a bit antisocial. You're actively trying to remove all of the personality from social media, and filter it down to just professional or single-interest posts. People aren't like that; everyone has many facets to what they're interested in, who they are, and what makes them tick. Removing them from your network as soon as they post anything from your red flag list demonstrates that you're not actually interested in the "social" bit, and really you want a curated list of facts. I guess that's your choice but I suspect you'll find it very isolating eventually.

One of the most important "soft skills" I've learned as developer over the past 25 years is that ignoring people because they're interested in things I'm not interested in makes managing a team incredibly hard. You need to be able to listen even when people are talking about "boring" or irrelevant stuff, because sometimes there's something very relevant buried in there. People aren't one-dimensional and they won't always talk about things you want to hear, so if you reject them on that basis you'll miss the good stuff too. Plus, I've found a lot of the time the rest turns out to be quite interesting too if you take the time to listen.

> Perhaps this is unfair, but this just makes you sound a bit antisocial. You're actively trying to remove all of the personality from social media, and filter it down to just professional or single-interest posts.

Does everyone have to be social via social networks nowadays in order to be considered “social”?

Can’t we just be social, you know, face to face? And then just leave online media to news/facts?

It’s so weird to me that in order to be considered “social” it’s not enough to just be social in person.

Have we really come to that?

In a way, yes.

I think about this a lot. My hypothesis is that social status is increasingly, and will be increasingly, dictated by your "follower" count. How many eyeballs you can attract. Even worse, in my opinion, it will be the primary driver of people's perceptions of you. Basically how good are you at getting attention?

It seems a bit ridiculous to say, but I observe the "high status" or high follower count people networking more and more exclusively with each other. On the other side I see traditionally "high status" people developing their online persona - whether its a youtube channel, twitter account, substack, podcast, etc.

We are in the middle of a societal restructuring (that much is obvious) in a way that the internet is now injecting itself right into the middle of social hierarchy and relationships.

This sounds like a Black Mirror episode.
If you only leave online media to news/facts, it's not a social network at all. It's an online news paper or a user manual.

You don't have to be social online, but getting angry at people for socializing on a social network is definitely anti-social.

People have spoken over the phone and have had pen pals for a very long time, so "we have come to that" a long time ago.

Your confusing having social media/phone/pen pals as alternative vs. it being required to be social.

I never implied that being social over social media is wrong.

The GP, however, was implying that by not engaging in social media (or, using your examples, phone or pen pal) is antisocial, which I argue is wrong.

If engaging in social media is the only way to be social — or, to put it another way, if by not using social media socially you’re considered anti-social — then Facebook et al. have won.

Not necessarily. IRL, If I don't enjoy hanging around someone, I just won't hang around them. same goes gor social media. If I have a few friends who share my interests, I'll keep following them, but some friend who keeps spouting stupid stuff? I'll avoid them IRL and on Social Media.

If uncle Joe keeps talking about conspiracy theories in family gatherings, I'll keep away as much as possible.

I hang withy friends on Discord. we talk daily and game together.

The conversation wasn't about filtering out people you don't like, it was about filtering out anybody who shares anything personal. The real life equivalent would be stopping to talk to your uncle because he tells you he likes Italian food or went on a trip to Europe and you only keep speaking to people who talk to you about global warming or stuff that actually "matters". That how the person treats his friends online and the argument is if it is anti-social to do that on social networks.
Does everyone have to be social via social networks nowadays in order to be considered “social”?

Can’t we just be social, you know, face to face? And then just leave online media to news/facts?

Of course you can. You just can't claim to have "a good social media experience" if that's what you're doing (as rg111 did). If you're removing all the social parts from social media then you're not have a "social media experience" at all. You're doing something else. That might be good, and you might enjoy it and find it useful, but it's not sociable if all you're doing is consuming filtered content about a topic you're interested in.

Rejecting the social aspects of social media is, by definition, antisocial. That doesn't reflect on how sociable you are in other contexts though.

> Perhaps this is unfair, but this just makes you sound a bit antisocial.

Disagree. The commenter above may as well lead a healthy social lifestyle AFK. It's just that he/she does not want to be bombarded superficial stuff. There is already too much information presented to us on social media, one can not humanly consume them all, so might as well focus on content that is actually useful in bettering oneself.

Yes, I lead a very content and happy life.

I have the best SO, caring friends (< 5), better than average relationship with parents with no social rivalry.

I just don't buy into the popular culture- soulless movies like Avengers, sports, celebs, TikTok awfullery, virtue signalling, covert racism, keyboard activism, and so on.

I am content with the social media that I use.

I happen to be a good organizer. I organize religious ceremonies despite being irreligious, I organize other socio-cultural activities and actively take part in them.

As I have grown old, I have learned that it is in my best interest to not show my full self by default- I had gotten judged for not conforming to shallow social norms, being an atheist, etc.

And while on social media, I get to be close to my true self.

For people who don't conform with social norms, either for individual traits or other reasons, social media is simply hellish in nature.

Interesting. What you say makes some sense for keeping sane where the Internet is one big room of people shouting, but for preference I'd prefer the total opposite.

I would love to be part of small social media groups with bonds of friendship and tolerance. Trends, food, non-extreme politics, in proportion to their magnitude in everyone's lives, varying with people's interests but not magnified by one-issue echo chambers. Not 100% sure what you mean by normies but I suspect I'm in favour of them.

Group chats with close friends and family fulfil this need fairly well, and are quite relaxing compared to wider social networking. But they're likely only to cover a small subset of every person's interests. Something like the infamous 'Circles' might actually be useful on a larger scale.

I just have DMs on Telegram/Signal with people I like to be close with.

For 3-4 people of my parents' generation, I just call them up once in a while.

Actually, there isn't a lot of an overlap of interests with those of the people I grew up around. I have no interests on sports, celeb culture, etc. And politically, I conform to neither side (although I am not a centrist).

People have said things behind my back and in one particular instance, I have been verbally harassed for not liking the things most people like.

So, I don't bother being "social". I do community service, donate time and money to charities, attend marriages and funerals and such and nod and smile for 1-2 hours. I also mentor 2-3 kids. One is a neighbor, one lives on a different country.

I don't see the point of a "social" media. I just want to be away from most people I know in real life.

I find better solace on anonymous sites like Reddit, HN, or new like-minded people I get to know through interest-based forums.

I do send people pictures of stuff I cook, glasses I buy, etc. tgrough DM.

I also have a private Instagram where I allow about 30 people to follow me.

I would never even think about social media like most people use it.

Yeah. I guess most people have a complex list like that. In many ways we're actually spoilt for choice when it comes to communication. And the forum we're on right now is quite excellent.

It would just be nice if the big sites were less terrible. If Facebook were once again a nice place to stay in touch with 'real life' people instead of an engagement-driven nightmare. If LinkedIn could be a wider-professional-interests place with HN-quality discussion instead of just recruiters and drivel. If Twitter remained an amazing place to connect with thinkers but not the place for outraging people into campaigning for someone to lose their job. Because of network effects, the big sites eat up a lot of what should be better discussion.

You're pretty much looking for discord servers with people sharing your hobbies.

And while they might not be small, servers corresponding to niche reddit subs might tickle your interest.

This is very nice for you, but the problem is that most people who consume social media are consuming it about as passively as possible and aren't aware that their experience can be curated the way that you are doing. Providing the tools to curate one's own social media feed is not a solution to the problem the article is explaining.

Here's an analogy: Imagine if we discovered that thousands of cars had some fatal flaw that could result in death and instead of recalling them the manufacturer just made a DIY repair kit available for twenty bucks online. How many people would just put it off or ignore the problem until their car exploded?

That's the problem we have with social media: It's got huge problems that most people are only vaguely aware of, and the solutions they offer are mostly esoteric DIY controls that very few people will care about or use.

Perhaps we really are in the (clickbait) matrix.

An blog post about a pointless research project aimed at drawing a conclusion that could be drawn from common sense without any research at all.

All of which is a somewhat circular exercise in bad content announcing itself to the world in an ontological sense.

this is actually something that's been bothering me heavily, lately. i've noticed a lot of content is created in these convoluted and grandiose borderline word vomit. honestly, a lot of the stuff frequently makes me feel a bit dumb as a reader. by the time i get through it, i realize that the main thesis is actually extremely simple but surrounded by flowery words.

furthermore, i'm also noticing at my workplace many people saying a lot of things, to the point of utter rambling and going off topic, in extremely verbose ways but communicating ideas that could have been said in the most basic of ways. i'm not sure if i'm just slowing down as i get older and get dumber, but i am feeling like a lot of information hasn't gotten more complex, but the way its communicated very much has.

I would argue the reason is because no one rewards silence, there's still a need for people to distinguish themselves from a crowd, but as the technological age starts to wane, we are at a point where less people have something worthwhile to say.

You can see the same thing in the humanities, which went through all of this before there was a tech world. There's only so much you're going to find digging through Shakespeare, Milton, Chaucer, and Ovid for the 10,000,000th time.

So people create new discourses, new fields of study, and new languages to describe them that aren't really new at all, but rather just a roundabout saying that the author didn't know what else to say.

This is cool but the next one about the Texas power grid failure was awesome. Thank you. Sorry for the off-topic.
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it’s as bad as the centralization of television or cable networks into the hands of a few companies controlling the blinders.
I would like to see a large social network tax. Any social network with more than 300 million people gets an additional 20 percent tax on profits. Any revenues from this tax can be used to reduce other taxes.

There's three reasons for this.

One, this is compensation for negative externalities, such as the Myanmar massacres, fake news proliferation and so on.

Second, social networks are the ultimate network effects companies, where their enduring success is less about provision of a fantastic product and more about the staying power of the network once the ball got rolling initially.

Third, their success is built on the exploitation of our evolved dopamine systems, similar to opiates and gambling, and their product in many cases isn't actually improving the lives of their customers. This is seen in circumstantial evidence of rising teen depression, especially among young girls.

Google, Apple, Microsoft and Amazon would of course all be exempt from this tax.