Ask HN: How does one meet "interesting" people in smaller cities?
It has been a little bit difficult moving though. In San Francisco I was constantly meeting people who were: busting their tail in law school to become public interest lawyers; starting their own businesses; taking very advanced lessons in theater, meditation, yoga, etc. and inviting me along; traveling to foreign countries, by themselves, and coming back to tell the tale; etc.
I have a lot positive to say about my new town. It is beautiful here, there is good food, and everyone is extremely friendly and helpful. Indeed, I found that people go out of their way to offer me help with things I am used to handling by myself.
However, the pace is a lot slower, and most people seem very happy and content to live quiet, routine lives. I have no standing to criticize this, but I value constantly being pushed by people I consider my betters, and this seems to be less part of the local culture here.
I am not here to whine; there is a research university here, a weekly alternative newspaper, etc., so this place is far from totally dead. Moreover, I have only been here two weeks and I have yet to try most of the opportunities that I have heard of. That said, I am curious how HN'ers have coped with similar situations, and where they went to meet ambitious, energetic people.
Thank you so much!
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[ 2.8 ms ] story [ 18.1 ms ] threadBut hey, maybe it's a problem ripe to be solved.
Don't get discouraged if only one or two people show up at first. The first year is always the hardest for a group. The important thing is to provide value. If you do that word will spread and the group will grow.
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