Ask HN: What life or career advice would you give yourself 10 years ago?

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Work on something that is personally meaningful instead of looking for the highest paying job.
"Abandon computer science."

Of course, that's not super valuable advice now, sunken costs and all that. But there's nothing more depressing than entering a field with all kinds of hopes and dreams for the future, only to watch them get squashed by FAANG and ultimately realize that computers are a liability, not an opportunity.

Do you mind expanding what you mean here? I think you are touching on something but I can't be sure.

What would you tell you younger self to do instead?

The more you learn about the modern state of technology, the more horrified you become. I studied fields like cryptography and surveillance for a few years, and it's destroyed me. I show every symptom of a paranoid schizophrenic, but there's nothing that could ever treat me. The only way I could have stopped myself from becoming so horrified would be to never learn about it at all. This fear constantly permeates everything I do, everywhere I go and everyone I interact with. These days I border on completely socially dysfunctional, simply because I can't give my phone number to someone without having a mental breakdown.

If I could do it all again, I'd learn to love the earth and embrace naturalism. I might have a shot to live a truly fulfilling life, free from the neverending purgatory that we call the internet. But I've breached that contract with God, and my penance for such an affront is being stuck with knowledge I desperately want to forget. It really is true what they say, Ignorance Is Bliss.

I have been thinking about this quite a bit. Thank you for your answer.

It is sort of funny that collectively, people whose minds are so good at synthesis and analysis never lifted their heads up to see what we were creating.

"Run Forest, run!"

Does this count? lol

Apart from the joke, I second @smoldesu 1000%.

Keep looking for new opportunities and keep growing. It’s very easy to focus on your work and develop strong expertise at one place, but this benefits your employer the most. Make sure that you focus on doing the things that help you.
Work at FAANG. The stock gains in the last 10 years alone would've allowed me to FIRE
It's interesting what FAANG looked like 10 years ago. People kept saying that Facebook was going to fail, all the numbers certainly pointed that way. And who thought Netflix was going to be one of the top companies to work for? Amazon's low profit margin approach seemed like it could implode any moment, but never did.
Yea hindsight is 20/20

But even 10 years ago, I think Apple/Google/Microsoft were pretty safe bets

Don't sell out to a corporate job while your young. move somewhere cool and then move again. once you start a family your dreams need to be measured against the rest of your families goals and dreams. and your kids usually out way everything.

personally, I would go do something in crypto, because honestly that's where most of the action is.

polygon, solana networks have low transaction fees. I imagine it will be a race to the bottom on network fees.

- Nothing that seemed super-important at the time was really that important.

- Don't stop going to the gym

If you're a CS student or software engineer: don't go for a grad degree (MS or PhD). Start work right out of college, whether it be at a startup or FAANG. Get some work experience, savings (and stock if you're lucky), you can always go back to higher education later if you want to, and that work experience will be worth it when you do go back.

I understand some might disagree with this advice, but having done a grad degree 10+ years ago, this is what I would advice my younger self.

I would love to do a grad degree.

Being a frontend/backend dev after coming out of a CS degree in uni is insanely boring, I feel like I'm barely using my brain at this point.

But the opportunity cost is also crazy high in the current job market.

Masters I can see but PhD would really set you back considering time value of money.

Listen to your friends pushing crypto, go all-in. Work more.
Work at small startups to accelerate your growth then once confident start your own.
Don't waste time reading too much news / non-useful trivia on the 'net. I may say that to myself in 10 years time of course. ;)