Tell HN: Happy Thanksgiving Everyone

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I have been really thankful for hackernews. This place has been full of great knowledge and people.

I really appreciate the efforts of the people who are running this platform.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING

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It's pleasant to see something like this on here mixed in with all the technical posts. Happy thanksgiving!
hows this thankful thing work? is it a specifically Christian thing or is it secular?

I'm peripherally aware it has something to do with (North American first nation) Indians and early settlers plus it tends to involve feasting on turkey and pumpkin dishes.

> is it a specifically Christian thing or is it secular?

As far as the US holiday is concerned, it's secular, by which I mean it is celebrated by pretty much everybody regardless of religious persuasion (or lack thereof).

Thanksgiving is a bit like Christmas Eve. It's the evening before Black Friday.
Now, let us pray to the one True God of the United States, Consumerism.
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It is Christian in origin, albeit a minor local Christian tradition (developed in the US) rather than a major near-universal one. Like many Christian traditions, it has been secularised, just as Christmas has been. I think the big difference between Thanksgiving and Christmas, is the Christian origins of the later are much harder to forget. That’s why relatively few Jews (for example) are willing to celebrate Christmas even in a wholly secularised form, whereas the majority of American Jews have no problem with celebrating Thanksgiving-Christmas is still identified with its Christian origins in a way in which Thanksgiving is not.

That said, not all American Jews do view Thanksgiving as acceptable. Among ultra-Orthodox Jews, the belief is widespread that celebrating Thanksgiving violates Jewish religious law against observing non-Jewish festivals. Likewise, some conservative Muslims (Salafis in particular) view Thanksgiving as haram for parallel reasons. You might say these Jewish and Muslim objectors are paying more attention to the festival’s Christian origins than most Americans do.

Thanksgiving isn’t the only example of a minor American Christian tradition being secularised - the same is true of Mother’s Day and Father’s Day. Unlike Thanksgiving, which is rarely observed outside of North America, Mother’s Day and Father’s Day have spread to most of the rest of the English-speaking world, even if not always on the same date. Many cultures have indigenous traditions of festivals to celebrate motherhood and/or fatherhood, going back centuries or more; but in Anglophone countries, Mother’s Day and Father’s Day are generally American in origin, and only date to the 20th century, not due to one of those older traditions.

interesting. So its an American Settler Christian event thats been, as usual typically watered down for the mass marketability.

We dont have it here in Australia (except apparently on a small island off to the side of the mainland). We don't really have any sort of festival or celebration that is comparable.

I think the equivalent for the majority of Australians really is Christmas. Americans tend to see extended family on Thanksgiving, whereas Christmas (for those who observe it) tends to be a smaller affair more likely to be spent with immediate family only. By contrast, Australians are much more likely to see extended family at Christmas. Also, our traditional equivalent to the Black Friday sales is the Boxing Day sales, which is another way in which Australian Christmas = American Thanksgiving. Very many secular Australians celebrate Christmas in a completely secular way, with no religious component.

Of course it is not entirely equivalent, in that Thanksgiving is a more religiously inclusive holiday than Christmas is. While there are people with a religious objection to both, there are many more with a religious objection to the later but not the former.

thats twice I've seen black friday mentioned along side of thanksgiving... I'll have to look up exactly what started black friday now :P
Day after Thanksgiving when stores reopen having been closed the day before. Traditionally called “Black Friday” because it put retail businesses books back into the black.

I think this recent adoption of Black Friday in Australia is dumb, for two reasons:

(1) It makes zero sense given we don’t celebrate Thanksgiving

(2) Given the term’s historical association in Australian culture with mass death (1939 Black Friday bushfires that killed over 70 people, 2009 Black Saturday bushfires that killed over 170 people), using it for sales could be seen as disrespectful and culturally insensitive

> It is Christian in origin, albeit a minor local Christian tradition (developed in the US) rather than a major near-universal one.

It is Christian only in the sense that the people who celebrated it were Christian. The events that led to the festival were purely political in nature, and not necessarily wholesome either.

1. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/11/thanksgivi...

2. https://www.salon.com/2016/11/23/thanksgiving-a-day-of-mourn...

Thanksgiving, as a consistent national holiday formally observed every year, was established by Abraham Lincoln’s proclamation in 1863, which declared it a day for “Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens”. Clearly religious in nature, although no doubt Lincoln had political motivations as well - the two are not mutually exclusive. 1621 was in itself a one-off event; the fact that it was later cited as justification for a regular observance says more about those later times than about 1621, and how 1621 was presented at those later times (such as in 1863, but also various earlier times too-it was observed at the state/local level, and intermittently nationally too, before Lincoln made it a regular national observance) is more important than what really happened for the purpose of determining whether it should be classified as religious. Abraham Lincoln appears to have not believed in Christianity personally (his personal beliefs are obscure, but he may have been some kind of deist); but when he made that proclamation I think he was expecting most Americans to understand it in Christian terms and most Americans at the time in fact did.
Interesting. Money in the US has "In God We Trust," and it's not inherently religious. So I'm not sure the proclamation makes Thanksgiving religious. The origins might, though. I don't know enough about it to tell, and I'm not sure I care enough to research it. I don't really celebrate it as other than a day off from work though. Travel is a nightmare at that time, and, although this may sound like humblebragging, I try to be grateful at all times anyway.
> Money in the US has "In God We Trust," and it's not inherently religious

US currency in itself isn't inherently religious, but the decision to put that phrase on the currency was religious, and so is the decision to keep it there today. Now, it is not just religious, it is also very political, but the two are very often intertwined: it is a form of politicised religion, or religious politics.

> So I'm not sure the proclamation makes Thanksgiving religious. The origins might, though

I think to most Americans in the 19th century and earlier, the idea that Thanksgiving was a religious festival would have seemed obvious–it was about giving thanks to the deity, assuming a Judaeo-Christian conception of deity. Now, no denying that it became quite secularised through the course of the 20th century, and to many 21st Americans it is an entirely secular occasion, and if "thanksgiving" is anything more than an empty word, it is thanks directed at one's friends/family/colleagues/acquaintances/community/etc, maybe even at the cosmos, but not at God in whom one quite possibly doesn't believe.

As I said in my original comment, other religious festivals, such as Christmas, have also become highly secularised. But, even though many celebrate Christmas in an entirely secular way, people still remember its association with Christianity, which makes many non-Christians feel uncomfortable celebrating it even in a secular form. Thanksgiving was never so explicitly Christian, so Jews and Muslims and others feel more comfortable in celebrating it.

Yep, it’s weird to see all the cheerful “Happy Thanksgiving” comments. I mostly associate the holiday with genocide. And when people talk about Black Friday I think of the poor working conditions of workers overseas whose country has been turned in to a factory for cheap goods for Americans and Europeans. The consumerist excitement for the next shiny good trains us to see joy in consumption even as our consumption is destroying the most beautiful thing we know, the Earth. It’s depressing seeing all the ads for more landfill fodder and doubly so to see people excited about it. New technology can be liberating but Black Friday is a celebration of overproduction as fantasy and practice and it’s grotesque.

EDIT: Flagged? Have I broken a rule? Or just raised an uncomfortable subject?

If @usnectus1 asked this here is because they wanted to initiate a conversation about thanks giving in this very light-hearted post (which, gasp, happened). It's not like they are spamming or cluttering a technical post with an "easily googleable question".

This year I'm thankful I don't have to deal with that kind of behaviour outside the internet.

I was actually curious of the personal views on this. Sure I can google and delve into different non-authoritive sources. But HN is a community i value their points of views (mostly).

The only thing that comes to mind about my knowledge of Thanks Giving is from the Addams Family Values film... I'm pretty sure I shouldn't be taking that revision of a historical event too seriously.

Many cultures celebrate the annual harvest although maybe not all of them combine it with gratitude.
Many cultures in temperate climates do.

Much further away from the equator, you can't really do agriculture to harvest stuff. Closer to the equator you can often do multiple harvests a year.

Mentioning this not just to be pedantic (though I enjoy that), but also because the connection between our physical surroundings and culture are endlessly fascinating.

See eg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ghmjIBD2Fd4

Let's just be thankful for what we have.
I mean, you clearly know exactly what the holiday is about. What's the point of your comment?
(A British person ponders …) “Why do Americans have two Christmas-type celebrations (travel, food, family drama) a month apart? It seems … odd.”
To be fair, both New Year's Eve and Christmas are essentially the same holiday (a solstice celebration missing the mark by a few days).
Thanksgiving is more of a (somewhat late) harvest festival than a solstice festival.
If you’re recommending we add another two in June and July for symmetry, I’m up for that.
Agree. As much as this place drives up my anxiety and displeasure everyday, it is still my #1 source for news that I care to hear about. Kind of a low bar, but hey, still above the bar =)
HN is the best place I've found to discuss medical stuff in a serious and sciency manner, for which I am endlessly grateful.
You might like https://astralcodexten.substack.com/ and Slate Star Codex.
Ah yes, the people who keep promoting ivermectin despite a mountain of evidence that it doesn't do what they wish it would. The idea that something is effective in one place but not in another, because although similar it's different in several important ways, seems to just be too much for them. It's unfortunate, really. It's also amazing to me that these people don't seem to have thought of the most obvious proof that it doesn't work: a publicly traded American big pharma company is saying very clearly "do not buy our product for treating COVID-19".

One of the most distressing things to me about the last 2 years is the bright line that has been drawn under the innumeracy of the general population of the world.

https://www.merck.com/news/merck-statement-on-ivermectin-use...

Thinking about all the folks on call for the Black Friday/Cyber Monday crush. They were some of my favorite days working in e-commerce but, then again, everything always went smoothly during my tenure. Thanks for holding down the fort for the rest of us!
Was up at 1:30am fixing that blocker in production last night. Never a dull moment!
Aw, what was it? (Roughly)
Bug in the Black Friday promo code logic that made the deal unavailable. No bueno.
Thanks to you, and everyone who is on call today!
I've been in that trench too. I'm thankful to be out of it, and able to enjoy the festivities without always having an ear out for that PagerDuty ringtone.

(EAS tones, I always used, the SAME FSK chirps followed by the attention tone. Wake the dead, that will. If you never want to miss a page again - and never want anyone in earshot to doubt it's important, besides - give it a try! Bonus side effect: you'll immediately be in the correct frame of mind if the real balloon ever goes up.)

853 + 960Hz? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sbegB49B1TY

(If you do check, maybe turn it down to be nice to your nerves :D)

Oh, I don't need to check, I looked it up ages ago while I was implementing my SAME encoder. It's definitely that frequency pair, and they're deliberately chosen to be exactly as unpleasant when mixed as they are.
Ah, https://github.com/aaron-em/same-encoder :P

Wow, SAME is very interesting. (I live in Australia and have never been exposed to a comparable system. I think the closest we have is an SMS-based thing.)

With the advent of wireless emergency messaging, EAS no longer has the ubiquity even here that its predecessor the Emergency Broadcast System did in my childhood.

With TV at that time offering in many places, my childhood home included, only about a dozen analog VHF and UHF channels many if not all of which participated in the system, you were all but guaranteed to see and hear a system test sooner or later - I might have been five or six the first time I did, and it frightened me so badly that I ran and found my mother.

As mentioned in the README to that project, there's a smallish and somewhat creepypasta-adjacent Youtube subgenre of fictional EAS messages, and I've wondered sometimes if experiences similar to mine are where that found its genesis. If video content hasn't all moved to VR by a couple decades from now, I wonder if we'll still see the like being made.

Let's be thankful for being alive.

EDIT: "We are a way for the cosmos to know itself." –Carl Sagan

I wonder what Carl Sagan would say about Black Friday.
Interesting bunch, thanks for good discussion and thanks to the HN team.
discovered this site this year! super thankful for that :)
Hackernews is simultaneously the most cantankerous and, imho, highest quality response on average public forum on the net. I absolutely love it here and sincerely appreciate this place. I feel like I’ve grown up on this site in so many ways.

I am continually humbled by not just the consistent quality of content but also the comments. It’s a testament to the moderators that this site has maintained this level of quality for so long.

I am thankful and happy to use thanksgiving as an excuse to express that notion.

HN is a great place to learn new things. And new words! This is the first time I’ve ever heard the word “cantankerous” :)
Agreed. I can think of a few words off hand I learned here. Rejoinder has probably been my favorite.
Can often learn the most words from the magniloquence of cantankerous rejoinders.

I’m actually just as thankful for all the words I don’t have to learn here. This is often the first place I go to when I want to look for a distilled, “real” take on something by people capable of communicating with a lot of jargon but generally choose to speak simply and succinctly.

This resonates for me.
It's definitely one of the only places on the internet where you can ask a question or insult something, and have either the creator or most renown SME pop out of nowhere to explain everything. Never seen anything quite like it in any other field of interest I have.
SME = subject matter expert?

Please spell out your abbreviations for those of us who are not familiar :)

Everyone else seems having fun with it, but yes - subject matter expert.
This is why one should watch our for TLAs ;)
Temporal logic of actions?
TLA is a TLA. Only slightly less popular are FLAs.
If by FLA you mean Macromedia Flash Files, then yes, they're less popular now!
Worse, at least in the government circles I work in, people pronounce "SME" as "smee." Almost like you're saying the first syllable of Smeagol. Good luck googling that.
You are not alone in this... The first time I heard "smee", I thought my ears had gone.
HN is quite enjoyable to read, the only exception I observed is any topic political or someway a topic is diverted into that trench.
Don't worry I take care of that
This is the only platform I frequent where I read more than I comment and I learn a lot from people, too. I always come here to find interesting takes on things and I'm very rarely disappointed. A lot of times I delete my comments instead of posting because I worry ot might not be a good enough contribution and that I might sound dumb. That's very humbling.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Hackernews works. I respect the mods and appreciate their work keeping everything running. We're living in increasingly volatile times, and while a lot of us are stubborn and hard of hearing - myself included - and people like Jonathan Blow like to hate on that, I still think this forum is a bastion for real discussion and understanding on all kinds of topics.
It's bizarre how many times I've come across someone just randomly hating on Jon Blow. I don't know what this guy does to attract such attention considering his relatively niche space of work.
I'm not hating on him, I like him almost as much as John Carmack. I think he brings criticism on himself though because he's very negative on some topics, obviously not making friends. While he's doing his niche work he's shooting off strong opinions all the time.
Well, even if you're not in the industry it's still difficult not to have strong opinions on some fields of software developments; especially the shitshow that is the web.

That said, very few programmers today recognize or admit the atrocious quality of modern software. I think That's why people like Jonathan Blow or Casey Muratori are disliked by developers who see themselves as champions of "modern" software development.

Sorry for misunderstanding.

My proudest work-achievement of the year was getting to #1 spot of my favourite website with termsandconditions.game

I love HN. Happy thanksgiving!

Even the worst comments on HN are far better than the worst comments on Reddit or Twitter.
I agree on everything, but the moderation. Personally, I have seen very few times where their assistance is even needed.

I have seen them squash interesting debates.

I had one guy email me, and tell me at home to stop commenting so much. (Never forgot that one, and there are no TOS. I will probally pay for those last two sentences? Then again if HN is what it claims, maybe not?)

What makes this place special is there are a wide range of people here interested in many subjects. What I love most is cutting through the bull. I doubt there's a person here who doesn't know about The Scientific Method, or The Placebo Effect.

We don't automatically give credit to the wealthy boys unless they did something really spectacular in their lives, and we want to know exactly how much help the wealthy family had in the success. We don't let them pontificate ad nausium because they made money. We scrutinize and investigate everyone, and every idea. From the best in class PhDs to lost disenfranchised souls. Everyone has a chance to make their point.

Hacker News is by far the best site for technical discussion.

(I do spend too much time here. It's my fault though. I don't have much of a life, and I am lonely. I am looking for new sites besides Reddit. Reddit would be so much better if everyone wasen't trying out for a SNL contract.)

Didn’t really read you post but this jumped out at me, “Hacker News is by far the best site for technical discussion.”

Indubitably true.

Frankly, even if I’m forever shadowbanned, I can’t think of a better place on the net. It reminds me of the old net, the best parts. The current fashion and culture change a bit over the years but not too much. It’s hard to not mess up a good thing but they do well to do that here, even if there’s a strong pro-CCP bias evident at times in some of the moderation.

You’re not shadowbanned yet. Unless we both are together…
If you're lonely I can't be any more emphatic when I recommend real life groups.

Tech meet ups, gym classes, insert interest here groups and anything else you can think of.

Online connections just don't fully satisfy the human need for connecting.

Yup, you all on the whole teach me a ton and keep me honest. You call me out on my shit and also submit really cool things. Here's to more.
>> Hackernews is simultaneously the most cantankerous and, imho, highest quality response

In other words, exactly what the internet was and (for people like me) hoped it would continue to be. I don't think it's entirely the moderation (though that certainly helps) but somehow the conceptual integrity has been maintained and has a powerful shaping force.

I never completely agree with the content and opinions, but we all seem really well aligned with the rules of the game.

Happy United States Holiday to you too good fellow. I hope to live to see greetings for obscure Ghana holiday on the front page as well.

Yeah I got karma to burn, but this is the hill i want to die on. Too many a good place went to ruin due to eternal septemberites coming from one place geographically and inadvertedly creating a monoculture. I get that ycombinator is US based, but hacker culture is so much more than just US.

I really do not understand why someone's comment about how Native Americans view thanksgiving, and my response to it, got flagged. Is it off topic? Is my concern for consumerism over Black Friday not relevant? I understand it's not a cheerful subject but there are many historical aspects of this holiday that are in fact not cheerful. I found it unsettling to see pure positivity when to me this feels like a day of mourning. I thought it appropriate to discuss, or is there some rule in violation?
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Flags are typically by users, not staff.

I hesitated to leave my comment here because I'm part Native and aware that it's complicated. The kind of comment you left is not the best way to broach such subjects.

I would like to see more articles about Natives generally without focusing overly much on the victim narrative. I think I'm alive in part because of my Native heritage, for which I am also deeply grateful.

My other comment that I'm talking about: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29338387

I appreciate your comment. I guess I am frustrated because I grew up with the colonizer mindset, that the Europeans who came here were nice people that did nice things and everyone had a big party together. I did a school play when I was a kid about making friends with the Natives.

It wasn't until after school that I learned what was really going on, and now when I see celebration for this day I really do just think of genocide. Probably not the best way to approach this but I was surprised at how strongly users are flagging any comment that mentions it. It makes me feel like people want to keep up their cognitive dissonance, and it feels like that mechanism is what allows our nation to continue harming first nations people to this day.

Redacted for privacy reasons.
I understand the people were not exterminated. Genocide does not require extermination, a partial extermination still counts as genocide.

"Genocide is the intentional action to destroy a people—usually defined as an ethnic, national, racial, or religious group—in whole or in part." - Wikipeda

In my comment I mentioned that I am concerned about how widespread willful ignorance of these matters allows our nation to continue harming first nations peoples today. So certainly I am not spreading some extermination rhetoric.

And I agree with you that my comment was not the best approach for getting people to understand. But I was responding to someone who already understood, and commiserating with them. Unfortunately my comment was flagged and killed, so others could not see how I feel.

That knee jerk desire to bury discussion of the truth is what concerns me. That same reaction allowed police to mass arrest protesters fighting Enbridge's Line 3 oil pipeline.

It seems clear to me the culture in the USA is one that wants to ignore what really happened. I think it is good that you post positive articles about Native culture and history, but I know too there must be a time to look at the facts head on, without blinders, and acknowledge what happened. I say this not to look back, but to look at those today who hold our founders in reverence every holiday season as bastions of freedom, even when their crimes are well known. The people must hear stories of George Washington and think "Town Destroyer"[1], not "cherry tree".

My aim is not to convince, but to show the strength of our cognitive dissonance by telling the truth. And this thread today has done a lot to illustrate how strong that dissonance is.

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Town_Destroyer

Hi Taylor!

Clearly you touched on a very sensitive subject. I was also surprised that my link was flagged by this much people, as it was a very informative blog post about the fact that some First Nation tribes might have a different point of view about what Thanksgiving actually means to them.

I did email dang and asked if he can take a look at down votes in this thread. But either way, keep up the good work and don't get disappointed by the sheer amount of injustices!

Today celebrates thanksgiving and the apocalypse for Native Americans. On one hand, sad, on the other hand, proof that people can live, perhaps even thrive, beyond the apocalypse. It may become more relevant to us after the end of climate change or other world events.
I'm with you, as probably are most people outside of the US.

To my knowledge it is the only celebration of the beginning of a genocide today.

Just to be blunt: because eventually nobody wants to hear it anymore.

This has been an extremely brutal couple of years for everybody, and by most estimations the brutality is going to continue. People want something to be happy about, and the idea of sharing things they're thankful for is that. You don't need to take that from them.

Historically, American's have never wanted to hear the truth about what the colonists did to the indigenous people of America. I would not say this is a recent phenomenon. But giving ourselves a pass to forget it allows us to perpetuate the violence against indigenous people.
If it feels like a day of mourning to you, then go ahead and mourn. You seem to believe that we are celebrating what you are mourning; we're not.
I promise you I don't have any opinion about what you are celebrating. I do not think people here are celebrating genocide, I think they are ignoring it and then downvoting and flagging comments that mention it. That behavior does not seem appropriate to me.
Man, why don't you just go outside and get some fresh air? Seriously nobody wants to hear this. Don't yuck other peoples yum.

Nobody is celebrating genocide. People want to get together with their families and be happy.

You are celebrating a holiday commemorating western settlers committing genocide against the indigenous nations of America, whether you choose to recognize it or not, that is indeed its historical legacy.
That is absolutely not what the holiday is for. If you believe that, you are either lying, or are suffering some sort of paranoid delusion. Go outside.
> Is it off topic?

Yes.

> Is my concern for consumerism over Black Friday not relevant?

To a post about being thankful on Thanksgiving? It is absolutely not relevant. Let people be happy.

That's what the Dutch say about Black Pete. It's just a bit of blackface, and the children are happy.
Users flag and I would assume I mostly associate the holiday with genocide. did it. Then you have the wrong association given the current tribal views on the holiday. This view doesn't help anyone and actively hurts the perception of the tribes. Can we just have one day where we are thankful and get along?

I work at a TCU and we gathered canned items as a staff to distribute to the less fortunate. That's the actual spirit of Thanksgiving.

I'm stating a flat fact about my beliefs. It is how I see the holiday.

> Then you have the wrong association given the current tribal views on the holiday.

Which tribal views? I was responding to a comment that linked to a purportedly indigenous American view that mentioned the link to genocide.

> actively hurts the perception of the tribes.

Tell that to the people who wrote the article linked in the comment I was responding to.

> we gathered canned items as a staff to distribute to the less fortunate. That's the actual spirit of Thanksgiving.

How do you define "actual?" My understanding of indigenous life in the Americas before colonization is that people would have been cared for based on need year round, not once a year.

4/20 is also traditionally celebrated as Hitler's birthday by white supremacists, but that doesn't mean all the stoners and hippies who celebrate cannabis on that same day are also celebrating Hitler trying to exterminate the Jews.

Decent people have reclaimed the day 4/20 and number 420 for better purposes than celebrating Hitler's birthday, the same way "queers" have reclaimed that term as our own and use it in the acronym LGBTQ+.

So let's please not let the white supremacists who celebrate American's genocide against the original natives maintain their exclusive claim on Thanksgiving, which literally means giving thanks, which is a good thing for everyone to do in general.

While Thanksgiving is indeed partially a celebration of the yearly harvest, to say "Thanksgiving is just about giving thanks" really misses the point of what people are rightly complaining about - which is that much of the folklore relating to the holiday amounts to a celebration of collective denial around the historically dismal and dishonorable ways English settlers behaved towards the natives. And the controversy about Thanksgiving is not even new: Mark Twain acknowledged it as early as the 1920s! https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thanksgiving_(United_States)#C...
> Mark Twain acknowledged it as early as the 1920s!

He died in 1910.

Sure, but the portions of his autobiography where he had remarked on this were only published in the 1920s. So these remarks were not known prior to that timeframe.
So you are technically correct. Which is, of course, the best kind of correct.
Here's a good article about reclaiming Thanksgiving written by a Native American.

As A Native American, Here's What I Want My Fellow Americans To Know About Thanksgiving

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/native-american-thanksgiving_...

>“I can choose how I feel about this day, but it is a choice. I can either let the holiday claim me, or choose to reclaim it.”

>If I could ask one thing from my non-indigenous fellow Americans when it comes to Thanksgiving, I would ask that you refrain from teaching the romanticized version of the holiday. Read to your children about what it means to be thankful, what it means to heal and be a family. Learn as a family about the tribal nation that is local to where you live. Take time during dinner to recognize whose traditional lands you give thanks on. Take this holiday into your own hands and understand that not every Native will have good feelings about this day, and be accepting of that. We can all choose how we feel about this holiday, but it is always our own choice.

They never had an exclusive or even a meaningful claim on Thanksgiving. I grew up on rezs and have never heard such. Thanksgiving has always been a celebrated holiday that shows Native American generosity.
It's one of the unspoken rules here ("Thou shalt not bring up painful or inconvenient truths", related to "Thou shalt not be controversial in a way that doesn't reinforce our beliefs"). But now you're violating an actual rule too ("Thou shalt not comment on being downvoted/flagged").
People don't want to deal with an Ebenezer Scrooge saying "bah humbug" after a year of lockdowns and not seeing families. Interesting topic but maybe one for after the holidays.

Cool robots in your bio :)

I'm not saying "bah humbug", I am saying this country was founded on genocide and that our celebrations of early american life have too often ignored the truth about how we behaved. To celebrate only the positives during the holiday with the expectation that we will talk about atrocities later, we let ourselves off the hook to face the reality of what happened. Doing so only allows us to perpetuate the violence our nation has visited upon indigenous peoples since its founding. You need only look at the treatment of indigenous people protesting against Enbridge's Line 3 Oil Pipeline to see that violence continue. [1]

The cool robots mean nothing if we cannot find our humanity and understand our past behavior so we may stop repeating it.

[1] https://www.nytimes.com/2021/06/07/climate/line-3-pipeline-p...

First thanksgiving in the US. My wife and I have stocked up on some of the worst looking pre-made things from Safeway to easily make tomorrow so neither of us have to cook. Excited to have a long weekend :) Enjoy yours too!
The most important part of Thanksgiving is spending time with the people you care about, the food is all secondary; it sounds like you're doing things right.

That being said, in the future I recommend seeking out the best pies that you can, my personal favorites are blueberry and apple.

Welcome to America and happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving. Please remember that regardless of the "difficulties" the western world is facing now, you have it better than almost everyone on the planet. I've been to some of the poorest countries on earth in war and peace. Never take anything for granted. Please be safe, and be thankful.
As an Immigrant to the USA, I did not get the whole thanksgiving thing. But then as I had a kid there, I warmed up to it.

Then now I've been living abroad for almost 10 years without returning home to the USA and if I did not see this post I would not even have remembered.

It's strange how we can so quickly adjust to holidays from different countries in just a few years -- while forgetting the ones back home so easily. And it's not because we were ingrained with them as kids, because while I grew up in Jamaica, I've totally forgotten the holidays there now.

I guess the main one is Christmas - it's hard to forget because of all the shopping - and that's kinda celebrated here in Asia too.

Anyway... Happy Thanksgiving everyone!!

In the same boat myself. I immigrated from india to Canada many years ago and since then, Christmas is the only one I can actually remember and usually celebrate. The other traditional ones like Diwali, Durga Puja, Holi, Eid etc are all forgotten to me unless my family reminds me of it.
UK immigrant to the USA here. I heard about and celebrated Diwali for the first time this year (by going out for Indian food). I'm up for any and all holidays. Especially ones that involve food and no other commitments :) Happy Thanksgiving to all!
Hello fellow expat. The American holiday that amuses me is July 4th as that is basically "Fuck The British" day.
I can relate as I am an immigrant as well. I do not know if it is me getting older or the fact this year was especially eventful ( new title, first baby ), but, despite all the stuff going on in the world today, I feel especially thankful.

It is funny, because only few years ago I was more cynical about it and reduced all holidays to the 'feast' part.

Citizen of the Earth, member of the Cherokee Nation - let us not forget the spirit of the day. Everyone viewing this post has something to be thankful for. Be humble, be kind. Happy Thanksgiving.
Happy Thanksgiving to all Americans!
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Why the downvote? Not everybody here is from US.
Can’t say I agree with the downvote. Nevertheless, even though Thanksgiving is a US holiday, the spirit of Thanksgiving is to invite and include everyone. You don’t have to be a US citizen to celebrate Thanksgiving.
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It’s a nice reason to recollect what you are thankful for or can be as other people share

To me i can appreciate that far more than worrying about the origin story, but the version thats told is inspirational too

Happy thanksgiving, HN! Hoping for a safe and happy weekend for everyone, and praying for anybody daring to brave an airport! Good luck, and reminder: take as much leftovers home as you possibly can. Stuffing a Hawaiian roll full of cold turkey and cranberry sauce and eating it over the sink is a godly act.

For those of you who have to work to keep this giant machine running, just be aware: legally you are allowed to have one drink at your desk at all times during the holiday weekend. I don't make the rules.

"Stuffing a Hawaiian roll full of cold turkey and cranberry sauce and eating it over the sink is a godly act."

what i would pay for that experience while walking home after a night out.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone. I hope you can spend some time with family this holidays.

You are all beautiful, bickering, nerds. And I love you all.

I – like other people have reported – have grown tremendously intellectually by reading HN through the years.

Happy Thanksgiving!

For those that are alone, remember the world is full of serendipity and the desolate years can change.

For those in groups, be thankful for those you break bread with and the paths that led them to your table.

Some people are both at the same time. You can be in a social group yet feel bitterly alone at the same time. That's essentially what I used to feel like.
That's a hard place to be in, for those in that situation, know that at least one internet stranger cares enough to chat for a bit - emails in my bio.

Can't promise to respond instantly, but will respond before I go to bed tonight.

I may not celebrate Thanksgiving (not American) but I would still like to say thanks to hacker news. I don't remember how long ago I discovered it, but it's been an amazing journey. Let it never end. Thank you to this amazing community.
Thank you, HN, one and all. You’re my favorite online place.