Ask HN: Career change for elderly UK ex-convict?

267 points by throwaway301010 ↗ HN
I'm looking to get back into an IT career but I have lots of serious impediments. I'd like to ask HN readers for their views on my hopeless(?) situation.

Am an ex-solicitor. I got out of UK jail a couple of years ago, I did some whitecollar stuff and I have a permanently un-unspent conviction for money-laundering. I'm over 60 with law & a science degree plus several post-grad qualifications. I'm currently doing a masters in data science for interest. I used to be a programmer back in the 80s and keep up with the topic (Erlang, OCaml, F#, Python Golang etc).

I'll never pass jobs with DBS checks due to convictions. plus I guess I'll never get a job coding due to ageism (I'd wondered about COBOL but banks and government wouldn't take me), and I dont fancy doing all the BS prep needed for interviews anyway. But I like stats ML and data so I'd love to try for that. But the age and convictions are a serious problems.

I don't imagine anyone on HN has anyone with my collection of problems but does anyone have any suggestions that might help?

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Random idea, have you tried applying at a university? Sometimes big research groups have additional employees (not Ph.ds or postdocs) who just assist in software development. Due to the low salaries they are always desperate for hiring. Also there are a lot of older employees in the IT departments at universities, so maybe ageism would be less of an issue. Not sure how they deal with ex-convicts.
Unis are more open to inclusive hiring from what I hear so that may be worth exploring, but they also have safeguarding issues as they have young people there - though as a money launderer not a kiddy-fiddler I'm not sure how worried they be, unless they'd worry about moral corruption!
On the other hand, in academia you are nuch more likely to find the moral relativistic nihilists that wouldn't care a past white collar crime conviction.
Most nihilist would be likely to say "stuff it, have the job, I don't care, it's all pointless."
Sorry to hear about your situation. It really sucks.

I don't have a specific answer to your question, but a couple of stray thoughts:

1. You could attempt to find an open source project of interest to you, and start contributing, make yourself part of the community, make some friends so to speak. If/when you later confide your secret, you're already known and proven yourself to the community, and will probably be received in a much more positive light.

Not sure where that leads you, but a network is always useful. Maybe you can raise money and get paid to maintain that software. Maybe your community will endorse you to your new employers.

2. You are more likely to be employed in projects that involve the penal system, in which case your handicap turns itself on its head, and becomes "insider experience". I've seen many startups and charities relating to this. Perhaps there's an ML project out there in this topic that would greatly benefit from your insight.

Yes, penal system rehabilitation projects is good suggestion. People do that, and it may be possible to do a UK cons-to-coders ML project (there was one in the US). I've seen people on HN cast doubts on OS projects as a portfolio approach but it's worth contemplating.
Keeping with the theme of insider experience, you might want to reach out for companies doing auditing, fraud detection etc. A domain expert who knows ML is a hot find
In case this is of further interest, the big issue mentioned two social enterprises that are ex-convict themed and employ ex-convicts.

Working chance, and The Skill Mill

Can you email me? Check my profile and add an "a" between the dots in my email. I don't have a big gig right now but can tell you more and present myself.
I think it US centric, but with the recent remote trend, you'll never know :

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=14911467 ( Launch HN: 70MillionJobs (YC S17) – Job board for people with criminal records )

In NL, banks have been expanding their anti-fraud division for years, maybe this would be a good fit?

Banks won't touch this guy with a ten-foot pole. I'm not saying it's right at all, but big banks are among the lowest of low in terms of ethics and integrity.
> I guess I'll never get a job coding due to ageism

I wouldn't assume that. Demand for coders with experience is through the roof at the moment, and from what I can tell the ageism issue is less severe in the UK than it is in the US.

I can see your conviction being an issue for data science jobs as such a job inherently requires trusting you to have access to the data. But perhaps you could find a job that's working on public datasets? Perhaps it would be worth considering trying to find a government / civil service job? They will have lots of public data, and probably have good non-discrimination policies too.

> > I guess I'll never get a job coding due to ageism

> I wouldn't assume that.

I can't add a lot to this discussion, but my colleague, who is in his 50s, got hired around the same time as me here in the UK.

My experience of UK government and government contractor jobs is that they follow a recruitment standard where they are much more likely to check convictions. Many need some low level security clearance too which would be a problem.

On the other hand for more generic startup jobs in the UK, you might not even be asked about criminal history except "so what is this period on your CV", and they are much less likely to care as long as you tell a good story about why it won't happen again.

I'd lean towards smaller companies as far from government and finance as possible...

Ironic that the easily available jobs for you would be illegal underground ones.
I would set up my own shop under a limited company and try to land programming gigs. You can sidestep most personal checks that way.
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In my experience most contracts require you to confirm that the director and/or representative doesn't have any unspent convictions. It's of course up to him whether he wants to lie and deal with potential consequences. In practice there are very little checks though.
I'm a freelancer/contracter in the UK working through my own limited company. Most of the time I try to use my own contract, but if clients insist on using their own, I will sometimes use them.

I've gone through a few of those where the client supplied the contract and only two out of maybe a dozen had any caluse related to convictions (from a quick search of them).

One was a clause about people working on the project being:

> fit and proper persons for the tasks assigned to them, and in particular have no unspent criminal convictions for any offence involving dishonesty or computer crime

Another had a clause about terminating the contract early if the contractor is:

> being convicted of any criminal offence other than a minor driving offence under the Road Traffic Acts

None of the others I looked at had anything else like that. I don't think any convictions would be a major barrier for OP if they are working with typical private sector companies. As other have said, it's likely any public sector work or specific industires such as education, defenece, or finance might have more checks in place.

Many convicted white collar criminals are barred from being a director of any company. Using a company for money laundering would be a good basic example.
theres various ways of going around it, which I might consider in OP’s shoes
>theres various ways of going around it

This kind of thinking is what got him in to this position in first place. There's a reason convicted money launderers shouldn't be allowed to run companies.

I'd say forget about getting "a job" and write your own apps, or do consultancy work where clients engage your company - not you.

Though I'd check about you being able to be a company director.

The law is a little vague. It says that someone convicted of money laundering may be disqualified for acting as a company director (ish). I assume that would be part of sentencing, or it may be a decision made by Companies House (or whoever vets that). Certainly ex-prisoners can start business in general.

A bigger issue may be things that require credit checks, like business loans, bank accounts, insurance, etc.

Some good advice here: https://unlock.org.uk/advice/things-think-becoming-self-empl...

That indeed is a good link.

If you’re setting yourself up in a consultancy, you don’t usually need start up capital and hence no loans required.

Bank accounts and insurance are a requirement however!

You'd only be disbarred from being a company director if the court ordered it or if Companies House applied to the court to disbar you. Max 15 years disbarment.
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Is finding work for ex-convicts with coding skills a startup opportunity? Perhaps doing coding jobs for small businesses?
I happen to know about job training for incarcerated folks through a family member and also working with an adult basic education program. At least in the USA, the number of incarcerated people who happen to have coding skills of any level is going to be small, like very small.

The vast, vast majority of incarcerated people need basic skills training to even be able to look for a job. Functional illiteracy is high, most have at best a grade-school level of reading/writing and math skills. There are many reasons why folks end up in jail, typically for each person a multitude of things went sideways early in life. One of the most common of these is a completely derailed education. It's never too late of course, and most people getting out of jail are still in their 20's and 30's.

They're hungry for legit work, so yeah, there's enormous untapped potential. The organizations working in this space get government and private funding but are always on the verge of vaporizing. They are, AFAIK, non-profits with very strong social-work, basic-education, traditional vo-tech focus (because that's what their clients need most).

This 100%. Basic literacy & numeracy is stunningly low in UK prisons & improving basic education has been shown to improve reoffending rates greatly, in policy terms it ought to be a no-brainer but as you say the NGOs & charities in this space are starved of cash, mental health & addiction charities would slash offending rates, - but the government throws hundreds of millions of £ at contractors like Serco & G4S who can afford to lobby hard & donate to party funds, but who squander it.
Seems like the total addressable market would be far too small to make for an interesting startup.
I've been coding for 20 years (UK) and done mainly contracting primarily in the private sector and never once had to go through any checks. Also in 99% of gigs i've taken, the number 1 factor in getting hired is "can you do the job", thats it. While obviously the industry skews very young, i've worked with plenty techies over 50 that have been hired because they have experience, and quite simply, they can do the job.

If you stick to the private sector, the convictions wont even come up unless you bring them up and i think it would be rare to come up against ageism, and if you do, then simply, you dont want to work for those companies anyway.

Talk to some recruiters, tell them your skillset and see what they've got, I wouldnt bother mentioning the convictions because i personally dont see them as relevant (because whats relevant is, can you do the job), and they'll come back with options. If they talk about government or bank work, just say you'll pass on those and would rather work for a private company. I have the same preference purely due to my distaste for paperwork and beaurocracy, private companies are easier to deal with.

I suggest trying to reframe your mindset to evidence based, rather than assumption based. Right now you're making a lot of assumptions that you wont be successful without having any evidence of such. You have a lot of valuable skills, go and assess the marketplace, in my opinion, you can be successful.

Great answer, can only confirm this, even for employment, not only contracting. Go for it!
good answer, I would say that ageism is definately reducing in the UK

one extra tip would to try and get some experience that you can put on your CV. eg do some opensource programming - looks good

To be fair, a lot of contracts have a clause to confirm that you don't have any unspent convictions. Granted, you can lie and indeed it probably will never be discovered but that's fraud.
> fraud.

Depends on locale. In the UK (IANAL) it wouldn't be _fraud_, but would be grounds to terminating the contract. But not criminal.

Employer could potentially sue for damages, but there must be some damages for that.

Thanks - this is a very good point and looks hopeful for the OP. To the OP I suggest to confirm this with a lawyer; if it's indeed not criminal and the worst outcome of a lie is termination and a civil lawsuit (which requires proving damages) it might be worth betting on it.
The advantage of being an ex-lawyer is I do know this to be a criminal offence!
And in Germany, it would be illegal to ask unless it was specifically relevant to the job – and courts have specifically decided that you can lie if you're asked and it's not relevant. The US tends to really overreach on that sort of thing, but it's not universal. It may even be that picking contracts in the EU would be useful.
> It may even be that picking contracts in the EU would be useful.

After Brexit he'd need a work permit for that, and I assume convictions are a factor with those.

One only needs a work permit if physically in the EU country, not working remotely from the UK.
People describe anything and everything they don't agree with as 'fraud'.
Fraud by false representation is a thing in the UK so I suspect that it might depend on the circumstances and the seriousness of the case but IANAL.
I just checked 5 contracts I had from around 2015, and only one mentioned convictions. Specifically:

> The Supplier warrants:

> that the Consultant has no criminal convictions which would reasonably affect the Company's and/or the Client's decision to allow the Consultant access to the Location(s), the Client's Systems or to provide the Services;

I have never seen that clause.

And that may not be fraud of you have a lawyer analyse it.

Having had a conviction I don't want to pick up one for lying on my CV. In jail I knew someone convicted for just that, though I think it is rare.
Lying on resumes is so common, how on earth did someone go to jail for it?
yea, definitely struck me as odd too, most people bullshit a bit on CVs so whether there was more to it I don't know: TBH you don't usually ask people for details of why they're inside - it can get ... problematic.
In finance/fintech and anything related, DBS checks are very common in the UK.

FWIW I've been checked by several employers throughout my career – and generally none of them warned me beforehand, I just got the letter from DBS letting me know they had

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I'm pretty sure that they can't do it without your consent (and cooperation) - they at least have to verify your identity documents (name, address, DOB, etc), get a list of your addresses for the last five years, enter your driving license number, and probably other information too.
In NL the background check is very specific. If you've been convicted of drink-driving the record won't show up if the role is finance related due to the narrow scope.
I've been working in the UK for just as long, if not longer, I've gone through multiple DBS checks.
Sure but in what industry? Fintech, or other tech?
It doesn't matter about industry as much as size and maturity of the organisation. There are different types of DBS checks listed on https://www.gov.uk/dbs-check-applicant-criminal-record and pulling a basic one is the default. In any event, I'd get the information that is being shown in the DBS check so that I could see what an employer may be seeing. That makes it easier to challenge.

That link also mentions the requirements around an ex-offender policy that the company needs to have. I'd request that if I was declined, to ensure the employer is actually following a process. If not, there could be some room for negotiation.

Smaller organizations that are not in regulated industries will be better bets for the original poster. Finance, pharma, healthcare, education etc. are all regulated industries and will have to maintain some level of compliance. How well they do it will vary, but if you aren't flagged initially, you may well be flagged later on. This happens all the time. Small FinTech specialises in trying to skirt the boundary of compliance at times, so you may find that some are laxer than others.

A sweet spot might be software efforts supporting manufacturing or marketing. There are a lot of agencies that build smaller software for large organisations that don't do these in-depth checks and are often building/demoing in their own environment before handing everything over to the company or providing the hosting so that a department can run shadow IT.

I have a completely different experience than “pulling a DBS check is a default”. Fintech yes, other startups and tech giants have never asked me.
Actually never in fintech! Cloud, broadcasting, consultancy, engineering services, pharma and the like.
Great advice and wholly agreed that a recruiter is the way to go. I'm more familiar with the US than UK employment market, but if things work similarly, this is the obvious path.

1) Good recruiters will bypass some of the HR confusion (misunderstanding team requirements, etc)

2) You have a valuable set of skills and are looking for a specific type of job. Recruiters are better about this than blind applying

Furthermore, the "What industry?" question will be an excellent opportunity to avoid processes where your conviction is likely to impact. People have legitimate reasons for wanting to avoid heavily-regulated industries (boring, slow), so it's not an odd question.

I would say if you go through recruiters, be aware (in the US at least) there are good recruiters (who have a line on positions and work hard) and bad recruiters (who are trying to bootstrap a rep by "representing" as many people exclusively as they can). Be extremely suspicious before signing any exclusivity contracts with one.

Any suggestions on good recruiters in the US?
I would also be interested to know this. All the recruiters I have interfaced with (granted, not many) have been crap.
Recruiters in the UK are not the same as recruiters in the US.

As a contractor in the UK, I've had to deal with them many times. The recruiting industry here has a reputation for cut throat, scumbag practices. Lying about open job applications, cold calling to fish for info on your current role, ghosting you after you make an application with them, chronic time wasting/giving false hope. These are some of what you can expect. There are, of course, good recruiters - more 'human' ones. They're rare, but you'll know when you've got one. I have some saved in my phone.

If you are firm with them you can avoid them wasting your time. But to rely on them is a mistake.

Good luck OP. Also +1 for contracting in private sector because the B2B nature of it avoids checks.

Edit: seems like other people have had contracts with clauses around prev convictions, so maybe ask for a blank contract ahead of time.

OP will have solicitor on their CV followed by a period of unemployment. Also if their name is Googled, it seems likely their conviction or disbarment would show up.

I would expect that they need to be honest about the conviction when asked. There are a lot of ways to present that as a positive. For example, saying that they will be very committed to a position because it is so difficult to get a job.

The pandemic has worked in your favour. I’ve got a >£500/day contract job at the moment with no background check, never met, they don’t know my age.

Start your own company (<£20 registration fee) then find outside IR35 contracts via LinkedIn recruiters: find a role that uses the intersection of your skills + experience — i.e: a data science contract with a law-adjacent firm. Very quick and easy, if you have skills then you’d have a job before the week is out.

Don’t reject yourself before anyone else has the chance to: the bar for these jobs is very, very low.

Probably not what you want, but webdev skills are more marketable for freelancing, which seems your better chance of avoiding deep scrutiny.

Best of luck.

Large corporate and government jobs are probably not available to you now. But, you can work for yourself as a consultant or contractor. There are pros and cons to being self-employed. Many people find it freeing, but maybe a bit less stable.

Criminal convictions just limit your job options. They are not a life sentence. If you have paid your debt to society and follow the law now, you can still have a great life. And, I hope you do.

Edit: I would also encourage you to never lie if asked about the conviction. If you lie, people will know and they won't trust you. Never lie about it.

I'm confused. You say that you're an ex-solicitor that is over 60 and served time for some "White Collar Stuff" as well as being convicted for money-laundering and you just got out of jail two years ago?

What exactly causes someone seemingly so successful to fall down so far? Greed? Drugs? Illness?

As far as the age situation goes, depending on how much over 60 you are...That could mean 80 and I wouldn't normally think that but well...but in any case if you are healthy you probably have another 10-15 good years ahead of you.

If you are currently working on completing a masters degree for interest sake, I assume this means you have a means of support in place and are not supporting any dependents.

I would think that looking into charitable organizations may be a good fit for someone with your past who is wanting to give back to society. I would not be looking for a career as I think unfortunately that ship has sailed and possibly sunken after crashing into the penitentiary's rocks.

Working or volunteering for a charity might make up for some of the "White Collar Stuff" in the grand scale of things (Especially if that "stuff" resulted in putting Widows and Orphans into the Poorhouse/Workhouse).

Here, you're supposed to see convicts solely as victims. I noticed, too, that he's specific about courses he's taking, but vague about the crimes -- and detect no remorse whatsoever.

What he does describe sounds like he does indeed want to work, and I hope he finds an employer, somewhere.

I was not trying to be mean or negative. I am aware that HN is not the place for such things. My question and comment was sincere, normally around now when the bullies pound my comment to the bottom of the thread I would rethink it but not this time.
> unfortunately that ship has sailed and possibly sunken after crashing into the penitentiary's rocks.

That is the comment that sounds unjustifiably mean and negative. I'm surprised you are doubling down on it.

No one past 60 should be seeking out a career, that is just a fact of life.

Crashing into the prison rocks could be taken as cruel I suppose but the fact is this person was a lawyer who broke the law at least twice got caught and the crime was substantial enough that it was judged they needed to be locked up for committing it. It is very unfortunate for everyone involved and most likely a career ending event.

I have personally witnessed the effects of so called white collar crime, it is not a victimless crime and should not be discounted.

TBH I'm not thrilled with the fact they are working on a masters degree, it seems like a waste of public resources spending them on someone who had it all, threw it away and still wants more. It feels like they are taking away an opportunity from someone more deserving just to feed their EGO.

Now to actually be cruel I would have to say something like, "You can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear" or "You can put wings on shit but it still wont fly" but I wouldn't want to come across as mean.

Oh don't imagine I'm not sorry but HN is not a church confessional. I'm looking for ideas to move on, not lectures, or tut-tutting, about my poor previous morals.
>>>Oh don't imagine I'm not sorry but HN is not a church confessional.

It is also not a sounding board for sociopaths presenting themselves as victims of ageism.

>>>I'll never pass jobs with DBS checks due to convictions. plus I guess I'll never get a job coding due to ageism

A friend of mine had a class a drugs possession conviction that was unspent at the time he was applying for jobs as a graduate. He just lied on the form about criminal records. Small firms don't bother with checks. Obviously this doesn't apply to financial institutions etc who do check.

He's still employed now and has had a fairly decent career.

If I was an employer considering to hire an ex-convict who was jailed for fraud, my main worry would be that they would pull some stupid shit again. Especially with code there seem to be many opportunities (adding backdoors, access to sensitive databases...).

Lying in the application process would do little to alleviate that worry. Sure the, employer would have to find out first. But is it really the first thing an ex-convict looking for a job should do?

> is it really the first thing an ex-convict looking for a job should do?

Well the first part of your post describes why that might be necessary (i.e. you imply you would be unlikely to hire an ex-convict because they might do 'stupid shit', while OP is trying to find a job to get his feet back on the ground).

Nobody wants to lie, but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do to sort your life out.

Sure if nothing else works, but sorting your life out by doing the same thing that landed you in prison to begin with really strikes me as a bad idea.

It's maybe sort of a fundamental attitude, either you are honest or not.

Also this "I had no other choice" rationale also seems like a risk factor for slipping into crime again.

Pragmatically, I'd not be prepared to lie because it is a criminal offence, fraud, and I doubt a court would look kindly on a repeat offence. But I tend to agree: "you gotta do what you gotta do", in my case feed the kids.
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I think your solicitor and money laundering background might be valuable in the modern world trying to digitize everything.

- Have a look at LegalTech companies: https://www.maddyness.com/uk/2020/10/05/legaltech-12-startup.... I guess there is a small but existing ecosystem and community in those communities and you could get there.

- (Anti) Money laundering is a very hot topic in fintechs, and my experience is suggesting it is the most ML and AI intensive sector (trying to understand if a given transaction is related to money laundering is a non-supervised ML domain), there is a decent amount of graph algos involved and also the regulation is still quite archaic. I would say if positioned well, someone with backgrounds in legal and tech is a very valuable asset for any fintech.

I also believe your conviction could be turned into your strong asset - you already have a unique and genuine story to tell. If you are ok into public speaking, you could get a speaker slot any any AML|Legal + tech related conference.

I also believe going informal networking is more efficient then going through the formal recruitment process - this is where all your unique selling points would turn into disadvantages. Recruitment is designed to be scalable and you are an outlier there.

this is a fantastic answer for several reasons and I’m commenting because an upvote alone just doesn’t do it justice.

> I also believe your conviction could be turned into your strong asset - you already have a unique and genuine story to tell

I so love this. It reminds me of Frank Abagnale, Jr., whose story is told in “Catch me if you can“. He went from convicted felon to savior of the banking industry and implemented a ton of solutions to the very things he exploited.

> you could get a speaker slot any any AML|Legal + tech related conference.

this is also a wonderful suggestion that could help you rapidly reframe your story.

> I also believe going informal networking is more efficient then going through the formal recruitment process

Can confirm this is crucial. I am the son of an executive recruiter who placed a ton of CFOs into midsize startups back in the dot-com days. When Mom was teaching me how to land jobs she suggested only using job boards and the like to get a feel for who is hiring and then networking in.

Would be even more important with special circumstances like yours. People hire people, not resumes for the most part.

I also know at least one company who specifically hires only ex-cons (in construction so this isn’t directly relevant to you) to help them get on their feet and keep them from repeat offending out of desperation.

----- The rest of this post is wonderful too but I don’t have much more to add to it.

The nice thing about jobhunting is you only need one person to say yes.

Reframing your problem into an asset and thinking about how you could uniquely help the industry could set you apart in a positive way.

> It reminds me of Frank Abagnale, Jr.

Possibly not the best comparison; from past discussions here on HN (and wikipedia), I gather that Abagnale was an exaggerator and may have fabricated much of his myth.

That said, I think grandparent comment is right - you have some very unique experience that would be of specific value to somebody. The trick is figuring out who that somebody is and then pitching your experience as an asset, not a liability. It may be very niche and it may require relocating, but it's going to be more fun than trying to hide a big secret.

Ironically, Abagnale's biggest con was fabricating the stories of his previous supposed cons.
Fabricating stories is a crucial skill in the book writing and screenplay writing industries. And Fox News hires professional story fabricators, too!
Great suggestions & solid advice. Informal networking may work well if intergated with a speaker slots (I'm a decent public speaker) but I'll need to devise a strategy.
There seem to be quite a few employers in the UK that encourage applications from people with convictions:

https://www.ex-seed.co.uk/recommended-companies.html

Some of them are pretty big (e.g. Tesco) so I'd maybe try scanning their job pages and see if any of them have opening for entry level data scientists?

Good list! Thanks. I'll run through those. As you say, some big names.
Are you in reach of London? If so, look at start-ups in London, there's a lot of demand for experienced devs, a lot, and while you might find ageism in some of them, in many others being an outlier or oddball is a positive advantage, really depends on the culture of the particular place. I speak as an old-git senior dev working in start-ups in London (and really rather enjoying it).
I fully agree, I don't think many London companies can afford to reject good candidates only because of age. Recently, I had the exact opposite experience, where an older candidate turned down an offer because they didn't want to report to a significantly younger manager.
Hi, interesting post. I don't think ageism is an issue - if you can get work done (and show it), you'll be hired. I'd suggest diving into a problem that interests you. I'm playing around with Companies House and Land Registry data at the moment. That's going to be an area you are well familiar with. Perhaps get in touch with some of the people working on OpenData stuff - Anna Powell-Smith might know someone who needs a data wrangler - https://twitter.com/darkgreener

I have a friend in a somewhat similar position - a highly educated, disbarred UK lawyer who did few years in prison. Drop me an email if you want me to put you in touch - me@alexmuir.com

Well, I'm not in your situation, only you know what is the "right" thing to do. If you don't feel comfortable working with children in their 20s and 30s, you can always try starting a business or working as a freelancer.

Here is a good starting point. https://www.hostinger.com/tutorials/best-freelance-websites

Keep in mind that these types of websites always keep a relevant part of your money. Think of them as a Google Add investment. Try to create your own brand and make it clear that you have a website where they can contact you in the future.

Best of luck!

You likely won't be able to get work with any firm that has customers in the financial, military, and medical spaces. This rules out a lot of sectors common to the UK and major cities. No hosting companies, Cloud vendors, service/consulting companies of reasonable size, etc.

However there are large industries in the UK that will offer a solid job, the ones that spring to mind are academia and the charity sector. These industries aren't the top paying, and that's exactly why these jobs aren't being fought over. Additionally as you'll not come into direct contact with vulnerable people or children, DBS checks are unlikely to apply and the sector based restrictions like those in the financial industry are not present.

The work in these industries also isn't the most challenging for coding, the challenge is typically it not being funded well enough and having to find cheap and pragmatic solutions you can maintain. In the charitable sector you really need to know Drupal and PHP... and then a mix of how to glue things together, run IT systems, etc. In academia it can be a real mix of work, from IT services, through to website and email services, all the way up to "PhD student knows what they want to run on a supercomputer but doesn't know how to get it to run efficiently on this (slightly older) supercomputer".

It's very likely organisations in the charity sector will need to run DBS checks, even just for looking at back-end systems/data.
> You likely won't be able to get work with any firm that has customers in the financial, military, and medical spaces. This rules out a lot of sectors common to the UK and major cities. No hosting companies, Cloud vendors, service/consulting companies of reasonable size, etc.

What is this based on? I've had 2 checks in 19 years of working privately, including contracting for 15 of those, many of which were outside the UK. Nobody in the chain, not HR, hiring managers or recruiters are incentivized to examine a candidate deeply once they've been accepted for a role, and for contracting HR rarely even enters the picture.

In both cases where a check was carried out, it was for a company I could not recommend working for regardless of income. One of these resulted in the only time I have needed a solicitor to ensure timely payments. From this angle failing DBS sounds like it might be a blessing in disguise for OP

It's really trivial for an employer to do, and it's required by compliance regulations.
Which regulations and applying to which sectors?
FCA Screening for those working in "controlled functions" for services providing financial services.

On the strictest interpretation it isn't everyone and only applies to a few roles.

However just like other compliance it tends to be applied by financial firms in a risk-averse maximal approach rather than a minimal approach. So it's not uncommon for background checks to be applied to all staff at a company or who provide services to such a company.

I don't agree with such maximal interpretation of the compliance rules, but this is how it happens and having that conversation with HR during interviewing is just going to get you excluded.

The original poster likely wants to avoid US travel too... given that it will require a visa due to moral torpitude.

US doesn't seem to have access to UK criminal records as I've travelled to NY without declaring convictions and been OK. No idea if just lucky or there's no data sharing.
There is data sharing, what you've done is given the US the ability to refuse access and additionally to refuse a visa - as they required you to self-declare and they consider it a fraudulent attempt to gain access to the US if you have not done so.

That they do not consistently enforce at time of entry is luck on your part in that entry instance, but either way they now have the ability to freely deny entry forever due to you not following their rules.

Sucks to be you now, the US system does not believe in rehabilitation and if you've been arrested you need a visa. You are not entitled to use the visa waiver program that exists between the UK and US and allows visa-less movement with only an ESTA.

If you want to visit the US in the future, or your career requires such visits... I suggest applying for a B1/B2 visa, if they think you're no risk they may even grant you a multi-year multi-visit one. If they think you're too risky they'll only grant a single timed visit visa, or you'll be fully declined.

Just one thing, regarding your age: your age brings wisdom to the table. Things that we have seen, encountered, overcome can never be replaced or thought by any kind of diploma. Most of my coworkers are 15-20 years younger than me. I'm the oldest one in the company and I don't feel discriminated.