Ask HN: Am I the only one baffled by the long term usage of Twitter?

126 points by recvonline ↗ HN
I am on and off Twitter for years now. I tried to build a following, went until around 2k followers, but than got sick of constantly thinking if "thing x" in daily live is worth tweeting.

I deleted my account, but then created a new one because some tweets and threads were more easily viewable with an account. This lead to build a more serious Twitter profile again.

However, I realised the actual ROI of using Twitter is so negative, it's shocking. Even interesting threads turn out to be half-wrong. I see takes from 10k+ follower accounts who are not well researched, one sided and all. Tech twitter things just because they are good at programming, they have a valid view on topic Y.

Now this is all common knowledge I believe. But Jesus, I stumbled across accounts which I used to follow, and these people post still every few hours or days the same take on public outcry and nothing changed. They do this for 8+ years now, you can scroll back by years and it's the same over and over again.

I wonder if someone has a take which changes my mind or what makes them do this stupid things? Imagine looking back on your life when you are 60 and seeing that you tweeted stuff with no effect WHAT SO EVER and you did this for 30 years of your life. Isn't this so depressing?

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Twitter is the one platform that I never understood. Every time I get pulled in to read an individual tweet I'm blown away by how miserable the conversation is.
I've gotten sucked in once or twice and then I come to my senses and back away slowly. It's really harmful to mental health.

I call Twitter a "hate laser." Hate bounces back and forth between camps of angry people and is amplified until it shoots out and causes damage in the real world. Twitter isn't the only platform like this or even the most toxic, but I think it does the most harm by virtue of its size.

Virtually all discourse on there is toxic, but especially anything that touches politics. The political position doesn't matter. No matter what it is the content is always a barrage of lazy memes, brutal ad hominem, and the violent dismemberment of straw men.

I have expressed this same sentiment to some friends who use Twitter. I don't know how much they use Twitter, but they seem to have the hang of it. The general consensus has been that to use Twitter effectively, you have to only follow accounts that are informative (a friend of mine follows obscure linguistic stuff) and be brutal about unfollowing people that aren't providing value. I also know that there are blocklists and ways to in general tame the rowdiness.

It seems like sound advice. I tried it, but Twitter still didn't "stick" for me. Primarily I did not find curating my own experience to be work I enjoyed doing, and it certainly did not net me a return that justified the investment of my time or mental energy. So I stick to re-directing individual tweets to nitter.net.

FWIW, I only ever created an account on Twitter because I thought "maybe I should have one", but never felt compelled to do anything with it in the end. I mean, I sometimes read some Twitter thread that is posted here on HN, but even then still just plain can't understand the thing's appeal. I'm quite curious what's the underlying difference between me (plus any other people who apparently don't get it too), and those who are there and enjoy using it.
I used to be one of those people and I quit.
To me, Twitter is a guy in a crowd saying something. There will be followers nearby who presumably like what he says (or why are they there?). Then there are others away from the followers who overhear the (potential crap) he says. They respond. Or not. It is like being in a crowded bar and walking past discussions: just snippets of text with zero context (by and large). It is "communication" for people without RL friends or who have zero interest in responses to their statements. It is the ultimate self-validation: you actually don't care about dialog, just monologue.
>It is the ultimate self-validation: you actually don't care about dialog, just monologue.

Very true. Even Twitter replies are often like a "dialog" of monologues.

I've been looking for a good analogy for twitter, and this fits the bill almost perfectly. If I may add:

As you walk around hearing people talk, everyone is getting a bit drunk, so their conversations sometimes get a bit out there and more extreme out of context.

Also, the bar gives free drinks for people that get into arguments, so there's incentive to interject randomly into conversations with your own view point.

And anyone that drinks socially knows drunken arguments aren't particularly productive most of the time.

The sprawling conversation graph inevitably leads from something constructive and light to something that fosters outrage. One of the things I like about TikTok is how much friction there is against getting too deep in the outrage zone, since discussion threads are bound to a video post.
Twitter is like Reddit. Very little value in posting, decent value in a harshly curated list of people to watch/listen to.
It's also like Reddit in that a huge percentage of posts are not made by genuine people with authentic motivations.
This is my take. Less than 100 followers, been a user since 2008, and have 998 tweets.

I'm a news junkie Twitter is my main source of current events/news. I mostly follow journalists from outlets I consider trustworthy, subject matter experts in areas of interest, and comedians who I find funny on podcasts.

I like infosec twitter and funny twitter. The rest is meh.
I like Twitter. It's a fun place for jokes and there are some good communities on there.
I enjoy being on Twitter a lot. In the past year I've started "taking it seriously" in terms of growing an audience, and it has been a blast. I've set up three rules for my being on Twitter[0]:

• Encourage other people - if you like the work someone is doing, tell them!

• Be positive - a feed full of negativity is zero fun to follow.

• Share what you're working on - people are drawn to other people in motion.

I also am very careful about who I follow. I don't "hate-follow" anyone. And I'm pretty liberal with regard to muting stuff.

There is a big trend right now (or always?) of people grifting on Twitter, and I mute every single one of those people. It's all the engagement-bait stuff that you're probably super familiar with. Questions that aren't questions, half-baked thought threads, and hot takes that are only there to gin up "engagement."

I recorded a podcast[1] with some friends recently about how to use Twitter as a human being and not a grifter. They were both super anti-Twitter and I was able to swing them my direction a bit. I think most people just follow the wrong people and get sucked into the hate machine.

There are definitely corners of Twitter that are a lot of fun and very valuable!

[0] https://twitter.com/aarondfrancis/status/1434287141887021058

[1] https://share.transistor.fm/s/c854b56e

I'm on a similar philosophical trajectory and I think there are enough folks like you that make Twitter interesting and fun without the caustic parts of social media.

Another excellent example of this positive and no BS version of Twitter (though probably well-known on HN already) is Andreas Kling [0] (creator of SerenityOS).

[0] https://twitter.com/awesomekling

Thank you! I agree, I think there are a surprising number of people on Twitter that just want to make stuff and hang around other people that make stuff. Perhaps the loudest people are the hot-take / outrage / breaking news folks, but I just don't follow them! I follow other makers! It makes it a lot of fun.
This sounded oddly similar to my Twitter experience and then I noticed we're more or less in the same Twitter bubble
Haha yeah, I've been following you for a bit! Small world. I think I found you through Adam Elmore maybe? Speaking of positive people... Adam Elmore!
Sounds like a great strategy. One of the advantages is that you’re differentiated from the accounts that are feeding the hate machine. There is a hunger out there for authentic positivity, and it’s in short supply.
> There is a hunger out there for authentic positivity

I think you nailed it with that.

One of the things I'm fond of saying is "being excited is underrated." If you're actually excited about something you're working on, or something cool that someone else is doing, be excited! I think lots of people try to hard to be "cool" instead of potentially letting themselves look silly by being excited. (Also this goes well beyond Twitter, into real life.)

> I don't "hate-follow" anyone.

It blows my mind that anybody would actually do this, but I guess it's a thing.

I really loved clunky twitter when it launched. It felt like a kind of collective consciousness... like you could suddenly be mentally connected at a superficial level with users geographically near-by. When it started being more about influence,famous people and ads that initial excitement wore off but I stuck with it for a while. Then they started blocking third party API access and clients... and that kind of ruined it entirely for me.
The reason people keep using Twitter it's because it's designed / evolved to be very addictive. Most of us don't engage our rational mechanisms to go "I am about to spend X minutes engaged on Twitter, what's the cost/benefit?" We just do it, and later feel bad about it.

If you've been on Twitter since the early days, you have noticed how it has become more and more about dunking and hate-quoting. Once you have an algorithm that decides what content causes the most engagement, you learn that negative emotions make people act. It's hard to scroll Twitter and not want to yell at something you disagree with. The medium itself does not lead to constructive conversation. This comment would require a Twitter thread, which is a scary thing to write. Every single tweet in a thread can be taken out of context, and you have to write accordingly.

As a company, Twitter has stopped innovating a while ago. The product has been stagnant, and so has the market cap. I expect that eventually it will collapse when the most interesting people to follow simply stop engaging, but that might take years.

My solution is to engage as little as I am capable of. I deleted the app from my phone, and I have a personal rule of only posting inoffensive shower thoughts that almost never get any reactions. I never get involved in an argument there.

Why are you considering "gain a following" to be the purpose of using Twitter?

I use it to collect people I follow, post some snarky tweets that amuse myself and my wife, and occasionally interact with people I normally wouldn't otherwise.

In that regard, it's successful.

For the people you're following, it's massively successful as a platform of promotion. I'm constantly looking to the people I follow for their takes on current events, and I love how unfiltered/direct it is, given the length restriction. If I like someone consistently, I'll seek them out on other, probably more-profitable for them, platforms.

If Twitter depresses you, I think then life is probably generally depressing; there's nothing uniquely "useless" or "meaningless" about Twitter, no more so than posting this comment on HN or literally anything else that's to be swallowed by our sun going supernova in a few billion years...

> post some snarky tweets that amuse myself and my wife, and occasionally interact with people I normally wouldn't otherwise.

If you don't occasionally go back and prune the former tweets, you may find yourself interacting with many new people!

With whom you probably really didn't want to ever get to know.
I have exactly the same experience and I am baffled how people get value from Twitter. I keep creating an account, going in, getting baffled, then leaving.

Why are so many smart and insightful people on Twitter? Because it's easier than blogging or microblogging? I see links to their interesting threads referenced on Reddit or HN and I follow those links, but I can't bring myself to care enough about Twitter (or Nitter) to actively follow anyone.

I guess if something is valuable enough on Twitter I'll hear about it elsewhere. Not sure if that approach holds up.

I'm looking forward to whatever replaces Twitter. I've been waiting for that thing for about a decade.

I have also deleted my account several times. Thing is, there is unique and interesting niche content on Twitter. The retrocomputing Twitter community is vibrant and entertaining. I am now trying to get comfortable with nitter.net.
Twitter is one of my favorite things in life.
I don’t post. But I find Twitter invaluable for learning about everything that interests me. Business, marketing, development, AR, and the list goes on. Coupled with ThreadReader, I’m able to save great tweets compiled to PDF for further studying.
I post my art daily on twitter; I rarely post anything just textual other than explaining why I missed a day, and I retweeted one thing from another artist who is learning from my work to help him. I refuse to use instagram/meta but so far twitter has been good to me. I look at anyone who follows me or likes a piece to see what they are doing and like anything interesting or follow. Most of my followers are artists or NFT folks plus musicians and the occasional more famous person. I pay no attention to all the BS outside of art.
I totally understand your experience on Twitter and a lot of the comments here reflect it.

However I do not relate to your experience of it. Over the years I've curated a nice set of people to follow and I've had extremely rewarding experiences. I've learned a lot, invested in companies, received investment, all stemming from interactions I've had on Twitter.

I definitely occasionally see some of what you're talking about and it creeps into my bubble but I'm diligent about tracking down how it got there and unfollowing whoever pushed it into my field of view.

If I can be frank your post here is an example of the kind of stuff I usually push away. Fairly absolute stance with little articulation/empathy of the opposing viewpoint. Taking some of the genuinely negative behavior and implying it must be the entirety of everyone using Twitter.

Twitter tends to reflect yourself and if you're honest with yourself you'll often see that you seek out the things that upset you.

Yeah I think what a lot of people mess up on Twitter is not curating their list either through people or block words. You can drastically change your experience of twitter by carefully choosing who and what to follow and by judiciously pruning anything that you don't want to see.

The one major gap in that is I'd love to be able to follow or add to a list just an accounts tweets but not their retweets, there are some people I follow that I love their work but they retweet to boost a lot of random chaff I don't really want, so I can't follow or add them to a list because they just dominate/pollute the feed.

Lists in particular are a good tool because you can quasi-follow someone on a private list where a) it doesn't show up in your follows if they're someone/thing you don't want showing up in your follows and b) you choose when to go see those things so you can self regulate easier if it's not something you can/should see all the time.

Twitter has a place. There's nothing else that gives deep reach into professional niches. I've learned a lot from epidemiology twitter (no pre-existing knowledge base from me) and from science and applied math twitter that's adjacent to my profession. That knowledge has real value!

Like HN, keeping it short has its advantages and I've also learned-by-reading how people say it short and with impact.

One has to be super careful about pruning accounts that are predictable, RT too much, or waste time attacking straw men.

Twitter is useful to access various communities that create and share art, and seems to be becoming the preferred platform for some of those communities. I like this - people post art they've done, a few comment on it, these arts retweet other artists, and it works well. Positive ROI for me here.

Of course I don't post anything other than comments on art.

> However, I realized the actual ROI of using Twitter is so negative,

I have a private account with about 100 lists which I step into at my own leisure. You don't get promoted tweets when viewing a list, and the signal to noise ratio is better than Twitter's 'You may like' / Topics BS. I don't use Twitter to chase fame and reject any follow requests I get since I enjoy my privacy.

Any little thoughts I have during the day are kept in my journal, not broadcasted publicly where I would probably regret tweeting it a year later.

I deleted my account because I ended up wasting too much time using it. I do think its a great resource for direct communication for people who have messages public service providers(utilities), Politicians(local and presidential), academics, companies etc. Especially in this post-newspaper world.
Much like every other kind of media, it's largely in your best interests to actively avoid the stuff targeted at creating a brand or a following or a mass audience. This is not snobbery, I definitely have plenty of "low" culture interests (we all do).

But this kind of problem is also not unique or even particularly aggravated on Twitter or social media in general. Funnily enough I think it was the post-modernists like Baudrillard who first forcefully articulated this problem, but most of the time people talk about post-modernists as if they enjoy the fact that culture and politics have become dominated by symbols and simulacra. I've barely read anything on the topic, but that's my understanding.

I should add the important caveat that mass non-symbolic politics is possible, so I'm not advocating some kind of blunt "anti mob and everything 'popular' is the mob" position. But wherever you find that, it probably won't be on Twitter.

I understand why most people use Twitter, but I never could identify with it. Back around ~2017 I made an account, but my preconceptions of the platform were immediately reinforced. Even if I followed people I thought I'd be interested in, Twitter just doesn't seem to be conducive to the kind of material I appreciate, as opposed to the digital finger pointing and one liners.

Shortly after I made that account, I decided to do an experiment to see how quickly I could gather followers, even though I had next to no tweets. All I did was click through random accounts and followed them. Surprisingly, many of them followed me back. It only took me a few days of clicking around to get a few hundred followers. If I had kept it up, could I have amassed thousands?

I stopped that experiment quickly because I didn't really care. It told me everything I needed to know, and I had no motivation to go back.

Its continued relevance is a bit depressing, IMO. It's hard for me to imagine that the average person actually gets more out of it than they put in, despite how clearly it can be beneficial for certain individuals and circumstances (as can be said of nearly anything). Overall, my impression of Twitter is that it is largely composed of negativity and snark, and the way it works seems to create more collectivism and mass social illness. If Twitter went belly-up, maybe I'd be kind of happy about it?

It's the only place my friends stuck around after they all left Livejournal. I fucking hate it but it's where I gotta go to talk to them now. I guess there's also Facebook but (a) I know everyone via their pseudonyms and (b) it's Facebook and fuck Facebook.

A while back I made it a lot better by running a script that turned off retweets for everyone I followed at the time. New people I follow are on Retweet Probation and it's always kind of amusing when I decide to turn off someone's retweets because they're mostly sharing stuff designed to create outrage and I see next to nothing from them any more.

I miss Livejournal.

Ironically, this "Ask HN" post isn't much different than the kind of rant thread one sees on Twitter all the time, including the comments from people piling in to agree with the rant.

There's nothing particularly constructive, no suggestion for "fixing" the problems you articulate, it's a human being—you— talking about their perfectly valid feelings—that Twitter is a waste of focus.

If you can understand why you feel it's valuable to post this rant on HN and have a conversation in public with those who choose to reply to it, you can understand why people post rants on Twitter.

p.s. If HN was nothing except these Ask HN posts, it would be Twitter. What makes it HN is that this kind of post is infrequent.

p.p.s. I don't object to this post on HN or the value of having a conversation about what makes another social media site good/bad/meh.

Maybe he's looking to get a more thoughtful analysis than can be had in the twitter verse. It is a common problem and might be aided by better UI or custom features to encourage better discourse. It's also a question of lifestyle. That being said, I am admittedly out of ideas on this one. Never been a fan of twitter.
Absolutely positively one would expect different outcomes here than there. Even if the exact same people see this comment here as there, the platforms systemically optimize for different outcomes.

For example, this forum is moderated, Twitter is almost completely unmoderated. This forum allows for longer replies but bans pictures. Twitter forces you to create threads, but allows pictures.

This platform is definitely more awkward to use, but, in many ways, I find it to be a feature. I rarely comment, but even the upvoting/downvoting/flagging I find to be a distraction. NOtifications are definitely convenient, but they no doubt encourage arguments that go on too long. HN doesn't make for an easy back and forth.
It has other anti-yelling-past-each-other features. For example, after a comment is made, there's a delay before anybody is allowed to reply.

I doubt anybody in the middle of an argument would cool down and change their minds, but it does provide an opportunity to go look at something else and forget about going back and dropping that zinger you planned to launch...

I suspect there is something about the social dynamics of a small community vs. a widely used public network. Social network platforms (used loosely) have had this issue for a long time - consider "eternal september" and usenet. Reddit has some sub-reddits that are well moderated and have great contributors, as does HN (at least at its best). I'm not sure what twitter could do that wouldn't also reduce its audience and overall engagement. And one of the big factors with a small community are social norms - these aren't technical - though the platform can influence the incentives to maintain the norms.
This is true, but the comparison also raises a further question: do Twitter, HN, other places support kinds of discussion besides this, and to what extent? And depending on the answer, are they worth participating in? I think that part of the OP's point is that Twitter is strongly inclined to this kind of interaction, which has to factor into a person's decision whether to use it.
I don't disagree, I'm joust pointing out that it should be easy to see why people post the kinds of things on Twitter that the OP is posting here.
Eh, don't lionize HN too much; it's not the intellectual bastion folks sometimes pretend, it's just the advertising arm of YCombinator (though dang will disagree with that if you ask him).
Who's lionizing HN? I've been here for fifteen years and could write fifty of these rants about it.
I recently concluded that there may be "too much" when it comes to the democratization of communications - particularly when reaching a wide audience.

It's pretty orthogonal to my views otherwise, but its the only thing that can explain how social media distorts things. Giving every Tom, Dick and Harry a mouthpiece that can reach millions is probably a maladaptation to a healthy and productive society.

A person who before might have before just been a village or local kook, can now be a guiding voice to millions, with little effort on their part, and little way for the rest of us to push back.

Hilariously true. I upvoted you and the poster just so this point gets more attention. Had to comment as well to make sure it stays ranked highly enough to see under “Active” as well.
I've run an account for an old job I had (promoting a bar), but beyond that I haven't really interacted with twitter, ever. Everything I hear of it is negative. (Note: I only know what happens on twitter from people on podcasts talking about what happens on twitter. So it's possibly not an accurate reflection of the platform.)

I've seen people that I respect appear to lose their sanity from things being said on it. An example is Sam Harris, who is of course a brilliant author and neuroscientist.

He's gone from a person I respected a lot for his thoughts on atheism and spirituality to being a person who I've heard dedicate hours of podcasts to basically complaining about what people say on twitter. As an adult, it's almost shocking to hear someone intelligent revert to anguishing about the same things misguided teenagers might concern themselves with.

He's not the only one. It appears famous people who use twitter end up using it as a scope into what they might perceive the real world to be like. However, what seems to be the discourse on twitter has no relation to the discourse in my neighborhood (in Western North Carolina) or my previous neighborhood (East Village, NYC).

So no, OP, you're not the only one baffled. I'm extremely baffled.

> Even interesting threads turn out to be half-wrong

The trick is to not follow accounts that talk about politics and to ignore people when their opinions are not based on their expertise. Also ignore accounts that are too sure about their own opinions.