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This is an amazing story! Classic race condition :)
Those race conditions are always tricky to reproduce.
I hope 'brailsafe (whose jokey (and IMHO, low-effort) comment was heavily downvoted then flagged into oblivion) takes note -- this is a good example of a funny that this community appreciates.
I don't understand how this is a race condition, but I might need to check my old undergrad textbooks though. Props for the quirkyness, though! :>
A pregnancy doesn't show up on a pregnancy test (a read operation) until after implantation and enough fetal growth to significantly impact the mother's hormone levels. So, there was a write (fertilization) followed by a read (pregnancy test) without any synchronizing operation. The pre-op pregnancy test missed the pregnancy because of the race between the read and the write.
The odds of this happening! Beautiful. I wish the best for Lucas and the family.
Holy shit that’s the most emotional story I’ve read on HN. My wife and I are in tears over here.
I think I read that entire post in one breath. That was an emotional train that fortunately had a good ending. May the child live a long and happy life.
Beautiful and uplifting story. Wish all of you the best of times together for the rest of your lives.
That was... one hell of a rollercoaster. All I can say is I'm glad everyone made it out alive.
Wow I am not too religious a person but after reading this I have to say...when God (or some higher force) is with you, miracles likes this can happen.
God loves babies and wants us to be happy. Risked waking my 8 month old to give him a squeeze.
(1) not all of them, apparently, and (2) it seems arrogant to claim that.
Not the dunk you think it is for the billions of people who believe in a personal god and life everlasting.
believing in things that aren't true makes a lot of arguments fall flat
Another reason why it’s great to have many, you can round robin the one you wake up hugging in the middle of the night.
I call that force m'lady of large numbers and survivorship bias, or simply lady luck for short :)
It sounds like you are comparatively very religious compared to me. Rare events happen with a certain probability. What happened here was not impossible by any known law of biology or physics or whatever.
I want to give every single person in this a huge hug. What an incredible story.

I cannot imagine how excited their mother-in-law was to be there for the birth of her grandchild.

In the US that would be medical malpractice. A pregnancy test would be standard before this type of surgery.

That said, congratulations for the best outcome.

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The article mentioned it was too early to be detected
In the surgery. 5 months pregnant is VERY detectable

edit: wait sry - it also says 2 weeks, so now I dont know how to read what its saying

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The 5 month figure is after the entire summer following the surgery and recovery. The embryo was two weeks old during the surgery in May.
A standard urine-based pregnancy test turns positive ~10-12 days after conception. So the embryo must’ve been even younger. Probably 3-6 days.

Conception happens in the Fallopian tube, it takes 2-3 days for the fertilized egg to reach the uterus for nidation.

From a hormonal level, a pregnancy is undetectable, because literally nothing happens in the woman’s body at first. The increase in progesterone happens after every ovulation. The embryo isn’t connected to the mothers blood stream yet. And you can’t see on an ultra sonic scan whether the egg is fertilized or not.

What a crazy story.

It was undetectable at the time of the surgery to remove the ovaries and Fallopian tubes.

At the time of the surgery, the embryo was young enough to not be detected but old enough to be out of the Fallopian tubes and not depend on the ovaries’ hormones anymore.

Older than one week, but younger than three. A two-week window.

And after that surgery, I could understand not suspecting pregnancy for abdominal swelling.

As a recent medical school graduate and a technical founder of a medical education startup, wow. This is an "edge case" for lack of a better phrase and is the kind of stuff that becomes widespread as lore or an interesting story - at least I'd like to think so.

Thanks for sharing your story and I wish you the best with what's next.

IMHO the surest way to get pregnant is to be told by a doctor that you can't.
This is an interesting thought to entertain, but it sounds like sampling bias [0]. It's less remarkable if a doctor tells a patient that she can't get pregnant, and she doesn't.

[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Survivorship_bias

“ They Said I Would Never Walk Again And I Really Have To Commend Them For Their Spot-On Diagnosis”

The onion headline

Some fertility specialists will say on first consult, the odds that you could get pregnant naturally just went down as you walked through the door to my office.

All because the kind of people who visit a fertility specialist have lower fertility stats than the kind of people who don't (duh). The average practitioner doesn't really excel at distinguishing between correlation and causation.

Yes. I found it interesting that fertility specialists are actually quite focused on statistics. It's because in majority of infertility cases there is either no explanation at all, or no absolute blockers to pregnancy, just less chances. The entire field is in big part focused on how to improve patient's chances in this dice roll.
Wouldn't you say that's a naive application of conditional probability?
This is likely to be the best story I'll read all year. Simply amazing.
Hell of a story Dan! Congratulations on the new arrival and best wishes.
It's very important for people particularly women to test for BRCA. Men with the gene should alert female relatives. For those women that have the gene there are non surgical options today to prevent some of these cancers.

Highly recommend this documentary from PBS on the topic as well: https://inheritance-brcafilm.com/pbs-documentary

My Dad died after a long and difficult fight with prostate cancer that advanced to untreatable Stage 4 very quickly because of an underlying BRCA2 mutation. I'm so thankful the NHS tested him for this, and then tested my brother and I (both positive), and then sponsored IVF for my brother to concieve his first child with screening for BRCA2 mutation.

He now has a five month old baby girl who doesn't have the same coinflip requirement that BRCA2 brings girls of almost-guaranteed servere breast cancer and invasive life-changing surgery to reduce risk, and my brother and I both get MRIs at 40 and regular screening for when we (very likely) get prostate cancer.

This article was such a surprise to see at the top of HN, and I urge everyone to share it as both a lovely good news story and awareness of how underlying genes can cause aggressive cancers.

> But the most incredible thing: when have you seen the public health service being earlier than planned?

What would have changed about the pregnancy if it wasn't earlier than planned?

It's a joke - the public health services in places like Canada and the UK have a (mostly unfair) reputation for never getting anything done in a timely manner.
It's almost as if there are entire lobbies that pour tons of money into PR efforts to promote those falsehoods and tarnish the reputations of those public services in order to shift public sentiment towards their privatisation!
It's almost as if people in those countries have experience of how they actually work!
I was getting ready to read a tragedy but was pleasantly surprised by the ending.
Same this was going rough then so much better.
Right? In my head I had heard cancer before I clicked the article, and spoiler alert, yes, but also what a twist!
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Breathtaking! Somehow, the one upvote I'm allowed to give didn't seem enough. I read loads of "cold reality" stories every morning ( I check WSJ, NYT and Bloomberg once in the morning ) and perhaps due to this conditioning, I was expecting something depressing. But this made my day.
"Given that my wife didn’t recall talking with any angel lately..." Haha. That was a well-written tale.
What a plot twist! Thanks for sharing.
Very uplifting. Thanks for sharing this.
“Life found a way out” would’ve been a nice title for this. :)

Edit: seriously, this is a fascinating account of how unexpected some life events can be, and then turn out to bring happiness that was sought but wasn’t expected.

Sure, but that title would have given it away.
Thanks for sharing this lovely story! Our whole family was captivated as I read it aloud :). Congrats on the birth of your son and best wishes to all!