Ask HN: What's Your Personal Motto?

23 points by kklisura ↗ HN
Do you have a personal motto and what it is?

> While our immediate problems tend to distract us in everyday life, having a mantra can help us stay in touch with our deepest goals. Mottos ultimately can do many things, such as increase your productivity, inspire you, or help you change a habit. [1]

[1] 9 Reasons You Need a Personal Motto, https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/changepower/201508/9-reasons-you-need-personal-motto

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Shit Happens.

All philosophy boils down to those two words in the end.

I tend to say this in Spanish as "Cosas que pasan", which can be translated as "Things that happen". It's similar to French expression "C'est la vie"

Edit: of course that I use it mostly when something bad happens, something that's maybe unlikely but possible. That's when I tell my peers «these are things that happen». Like, after a robbery or something. Son cosas que pasan

I don't know who to attribute this to, but these certainly aren't my words, but they have been the words to help me re-center myself when I'm having "one of those moments" and my lizard brain is running the show:

"It all works out in the end, and in the end, we're all dead."

It ain’t easy bein’ cool.

(But someone’s gotta do it).

Armor fati.

In our age of digital Devices and social media, we are used to having instant access to information and news. This can be a good thing, but it can also lead to information overload and anxiety. The constant stream of alerts and notifications can make it difficult to focus, and we can become bombarded with so much information that it becomes difficult to process it all.

The Latin phrase "armor fati" means "to armor oneself against fate." In other words, it means to be prepared for the worst. This is a good mindset to have in our fast-paced, constantly-connected world. We should take the time to step back and assess the situation, rather than blindly following the latest news cycle.

Of course, this is not to say that we should live in fear or ignore the news altogether. But we should be mindful of how much information we consume, and make sure that we are taking the time to process it all. Otherwise, we may find ourselves overwhelmed and bogged down by the constant deluge of information.

At first I thought you misspelled "amor fati" which means "Love your Fate", popularized by Nietzsche. For me this phrase helps me look at my childhood (trauma) and my more recent life choices, in a positive way. Something like "things happen for a reason" or "what does't kill you makes you stronger". I like yours too. Wise words.
Amor fati, momento mori and "this soon will also pass" are the three phrases I think about constantly. Helps keeping me grounded on good times, and hopeful on bad ones.
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Does it have to be an original personal motto? Here's an unoriginal one that's entered my mind almost daily for a while now:

"If the world hates you, remember it hated me [Christ] first."

"Let he who is without sin cast the first stone" is another good biblical one
Walk down, fuck them all. I know it's a cliche (maybe "slow and steady wins the race" is more PC, but it's not as motivating), but it's a helpful reminder when getting too excited about something.

(I don't really have a "motto", this is a good mantra though)

Edit: also, "if you dislike change, you'll like irrelevance even less" - General Shinseki, US Army

And

"If you don't lie, you never have to remember anything" - attributed to Mark Twain

I'm not really a fan of stoicism but I read this quote when I was a kid and it has stuck with me:

"The noblest kind of retribution is to not become like your enemy"

Marcus Aurelius

Avoiding stupidity is easier than trying to be brilliant.
Strength with empathy
“I hope he gets where he’s going.”

Said when a maniac flies by me on the highway.

(the whispered “hell” after that sentence is understood.)

I don't speak for all maniacs flying by you, but when I did this back when I owned a motorcycle, on some level I was also hoping for that.
"Have you ever noticed that anybody driving slower than you is an idiot, and anyone going faster than you is a maniac?" - George Carlin
“It’s not as bad as it seems.”
"Be stupid"

I realized that super-dumb and super-smart people often get to the same conclusions. So often times, when I find myself stuck, I remind myself to think stupid before making a decision.

Whatever goes around, comes around.
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No, but I have 2 saying I like:

Move fast and break things. Prove them wrong.

I’ve been a believer in move fast and break things for most of my life, but I’ve found as I have moved into larger roles, the fear of others of breaking things has led to stagnation. I’m still trying to find a better saying to assure people that failure isn’t the end, but only a beginning, and that there is always an appropriate time for failure.
Mine is “This to shall pass”. Like the old king, I’ve found it keeps me humble in the good times, and hopeful in the bad.
one of them is 'Think strong, be strong'