I don’t have notifications enabled, nowhere and never

137 points by Curzel ↗ HN
I never was much into notifications, and since it became possible, I have only ever allowed a selection of apps (IM, email, calendar) to send me notifications.

Since 2020 I disabled notifications completely on every device I own.

I'm not more focused, nor more productive, but, at least, they stopped popping up in the corner of the screen.

This included browser-based notifications, which not only are the most annoying kind, as they pop up virtually on every website, but I also have to regularly disable them on phones of friends and family, as they come and ask me to "remove the notifications virus"...

I can understand IM, email, calendar, even order tracking push notifications. But do you really use ANY other notifications?

Do you use ANY notifications in places other than your phone?

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Pretty much the same. Only standard phone, IM, reminders, calendar, alarms, and also banking apps can notify me. For order tracking I manually turn it on when putting order, and off after receiving, otherwise too much spam, literally 2-3 times a day per app.

Btw, what are notification places other than my phone? A desktop/browser? Always off for everything.

Desktop in particular bugs me... I would love to see usage stats of the macOS notification "area", I'm pretty sure it is only ever tapped by mistake...

Well, at least I am not alone, thanks! haha

I don't even have the "notification center" icon on my Windows 10. And I removed the new email popup alert
I use Apple's Scheduled Summary for most notifications (Android may have something similar, but I don't know the platform). Scheduled summary collects notifications and then delivers a summary at a time of my choosing. You can choose which notifications go into the summary and which are delivered immediately.

I turn off notifications for most apps, put non-urgent ones in the summary, and leave only a few to be delivered immediately ( e.g. iMessages from VIP contacts). Then I glance through the summary when it arrives after work and deal with anything that needs a response.

Also, I turn off all browser notifications. I never need them.

Interesting, so you also use features like focus modes?
I barely even use them on my phone, everyone except close friends and family are muted.
I use notifications almost everywhere, but I also have some variant of ‘Do Not Disturb’ enabled at all times on most of my devices. It’s handy to have a list of new information, but I don’t want it to know about it until I choose to.

On my phone I only have Do Not Disturb enabled when I really don’t want to be disturbed, but otherwise I only allow audio alerts for phone calls; everything else either pops up on my Lock Screen quietly, gets a badge that I can sort out later, or doesn’t matter enough for me to spend any time on unless I open the app.

You're the first commenter how actually "likes" notifications it seems... What apps other than IM/email/calendar/... do you allow?
I do the same. Focus modes on iOS are a really good addition!
Here no sounds at all, I have instead priority settings on 4 family contacts which are the only ones which will vibrate on calls/whatsapp. All the rest will register their popup in complete silence for when I feel like checking the phone.
I have been advocating and helping many others, ever since I started the idea in 2014[1]. A few years back, in 2019, I went a tad more and went total DND[2]. The exceptions are tiny and very specific instances, and reasoning.

1. https://brajeshwar.com/2014/missing-step-productivity-activi...

2. https://phone.wtf

Yeah, fair and simple advice! Mine was not a complaint about productivity per se, I just can't be bothered clearning them or picking out the ones I need, but I understand where you're coming from.
On my phone I only have notifications for the phone app, and text. That's it. Nothing else.

On my desktop I have zero notifications.

It's been that way for years, it's perfect.

I'm not a first responder. All things can wait.

Just reading this gives me Zen vibes :D
What about banking or F2A?
I'm curious: What's the use case for those two specific things? I personally don't even have a banking app installed on my phone - I use online banking and/or a desktop banking software. For 2FA, I have an OTP app installed that I simply open whenever I need to do 2FA.
I used to not have a banking app too but my bank made me ;-(

They started to require to type my own account password into websites to be able to pay via credit card! Incredible but true. As this was of course completely unacceptable I resisted for as long as I could. But at some point I had to use my credit card on a website with no other option (it was for a collective present, I couldn't select another website; I could not participate but that would have been incredibly rude and unkind).

It's not too horrible though. The app is much less bad than I expected.

Do you mean the confirmation window that asks you to login with your online banking credentials after after putting in your credit card details in an online shop? The first time I saw that thing, I cringed as well and decided that I didn't really need whatever I was trying to buy at the time (I was lucky that there were no social factors invoved like in your case).
With banking, a lot of it is notifications when money is transacted on your account.

One of my banks (Starling) is app only.

Some F2A I've used only operate using notifications, which while is a bad design, requires notifications to work

Thanks for the reply - makes sense. Just in the interest of sharing (not trying to make an argument here): I tried the "app only" bank account thing and didn't like it. My "fancy fintech bank account" lasted less than a year before I closed it, I think. As for checking my balance and transfers, I only do that every few weeks when I fire up my desktop banking software in order to pull all bank statements and archive them away. I don't think I've ever come across a 2FA thing that was app only (if I did, I probably would just refuse to use the service).
The text app has notifications enabled. The banking app doesn't, but I open it when I need it (which is, extremely rarely, now that many ecommerce websites allow wire transfers).
In IOS even if you disable notifications from unknown senders, when a TFA code arrives it still shows up for you to paste when you're in an app.
No notifications at all - phone is on silent at all times.

Though I do have a good habit of checking messages and emails every hour, so it isn't that bad for others. (Desktop is different, teams / slack is on all the time with popups).

I do the opposite... Desktop is always muted, Slack and Email are on a second monitor, so I can check every hour. Phone slack notifications are set only for mentions
I use screen zoom, which magnifies a portion of my screen around my cursor. As a result, I miss most desktop notifications. I've turned on the thing that flashes the whole screen when they come in, but pan+scanning over to the notifications pile makes me lose context with what I was working on, so I typically ignore the flash too. I should just turn off all the notifications.

There's a lot of "I turn most of them off" here. In parallel, notifications are regularly talked about as a major sticking point around web vs native apps (because Apple). If we, here, aren't using them, why are we building customer-facing tools around them?

Not that I'd advocate for using notifications, but the problem with screen zoom seems easily solvable by showing notifications on an overlay layer that's placed independently of the screen zoom.
Some people use them and some are very, VERY effective. Problem is, that's like for the 1% of what gets sent out.

I've been working with iOS apps for 10 years or so now, I've seen apps where push notifications alone drive 20%+ of the revenue, and other projects where the opt-out rate is ~90% with an open rate of ~10% (meaning literally 99% of users ignore the notification)

Same here. A long time ago I decided I want to be the one in control of my life, not others. When I want to check my mails etc., I do it - not when someone creates a false sense of urgency.

The only notifications I'm using are for phone calls from selected contacts, mainly my family.

Less discussed but similarly controlling of your life are all the nasty visual tricks apps and services use to grab your attention (bright red notification bubbles) or to annoy you into submission (so you download their mobile app or upgrade to pro).

I've gone the extra mile and set my phone to be entirely in grayscale, and have never been happier.

(Doable on Android at least, look under "Developer Settings")

I hate virtually all notifications, and go out of my way to disable as many as I can. My devices are in permanent DnD mode.

Only exception is for phone, some IM (not all), and some mail.

The only notifications I ever use are IM, SMS and work e-mail (with all work-related stuff only showing up when the client is open) - and this includes my phone. I don't know why would I ever need anything else; maybe aside of calendar - that one I can understand, I just happen to not use it.
Yes, I use notifications from my bank and credit card so I know when someone is taking my money.
Ok, I guess that's another important use case! Anything else comes to your mind?

I am currently working on a project where we have 90+% of opt out from push notifications with <10% open rate, and for good reasons.

I am try to build an argument here for my manager haahah

The CC company has a fraud dept for that. They can leave a message. It’s important but not critical so can wait twelve hours.
I am more likely to identify a fraudulent transaction than the banks fraud department. If I didn't have these notifications on, in case they don't identify a fraudulent transaction, I'd have to do so myself by reconciling everything manually at the end of the month. That's a lot more effort for me than simply responding to unexpected transaction notifications as they happen.
Same here. Those notifications are great. I just disable sounds and vibrations for them.
I have a severe ADHD, so nearly all notifications are disabled, except for reminders, which I use heavily. This is literally a matter of survival for me.

But I don’t know anyone who doesn’t switch off most of notifications.

I recently migrated to a degoogled ROM and since many apps use google for push notifications, I've just been going without. And JTS honestly been quite freeing. If someone needs a quick response they can reach me on signal.
That's just not truth, i use phones without gapps for 5-8 years and hardly missing any notifications, both Whatsapp and Signal can push them, same with various email clients for instance Aquamail I use Business calendar pro and various other app, though I disable most of those to not be bothered. It's actually quite difficult for me to find app which could not push notifications on my no gapps phones.
Which rom are you using?
Calendars and emails usually don’t need push to show notifications. Email clients usually use imap streaming (if supported) or just poll your inbox every x minutes.

We are specifically talking about push via GCM / Apple here. Afaik signal opens a websocket in the background if GCM push is not supported. Or at least that’s how it worked a few years ago.

Google Cloud Messaging features (push) only work when you have gapps installed or use an alternative implementation like microg.

I assume that whatsapp also has some kind of fallback strategy built in.

This has been my experience as well using a degoogled ROM for the first time. I feel I got so much time back. Now I'm really using my phone and not the other way around.

I prefer Session for messaging and for family I ask them to reach me on Telegram FOSS.

So how do you get calendar reminder about important event? Same goes, how do you figure out you have new email or IM message?

Does this mean you have to open calendar, email and IM app all the time to find out there is nothing new? Seems like waste of time/energy to not use notification just to show some statement.

I have 24/7 DND mode with notifications only on my watch with email, calendar and IM (and on IM i mute people who bother me too much). Well also SMS, but I'm receiving only verification codes there rarely.

Not the OP, but:

1. General awareness about what's on your plate. You don't need a reminder, you just need to know that you have meeting X at Y hours, or Z appointment on this date.

2. The difference is that you check email/IMs on your terms, which means that you decide when you want to take a break from whatever you're doing to look at and respond to anything in your inbox. If you have notifications on, your focus will keep getting taken away from whatever you're doing. Depending on what you're doing, this may or may not be important to you.

1. I can' keep general awareness with dozens of reminders each day, I'm using calendar reminders to my benefit 20+ years, so i don't have to hold these things in my head and worry about forgetting something.

2. You can check/ignore notifications on your own terms.

It sounds like your workflow works great for you, and that's great!

You asked how some people to live without notifications, and I gave an example of how. That's it.

You may as well ask "how do you know if you have mail" e.g. physical mail.

I see it when I go to leave the house. Maybe I hear the postbox ring.

I don't need an immediate notification of e-mail, it's quite fine to batch it and see if anything interesting is there. Daily, or a few times a day, or maybe after a week, depending on what I'm doing.

No, I don't allow notifications for any app or function on any device.

I'm highly technically competent. When I look at my older parents' phones and see the notification hell they're dealing with, I wonder how anyone ever thought notifications were a good idea?!

Back when notifications meant email, IM, and updates they were fine. Now everything wants to grab your attention. So now none of them get my attention, not even calls or text messages.

> I wonder how anyone ever thought notifications were a good idea?

It is a good idea if one assumes notifications is a high signal/noise ratio communications channel where only important stuff gets sent.

Of course, what happened is advertisers discovered this new exciting opportunity to spam people with their offers and drive up "engagement" so now notifications are actively hostile to users to the point they're better off disabled. Just like phone calls: there's no point in picking up the phone when 99% of all calls are automated advertiser calls.

Why are you allowing advertisers to hijack your notifications?
I'm not. I disabled notifications for everything but WhatsApp. That's my point: I couldn't trust any other app because of their spamminess so I just took away their privilege. Had they behaved themselves, I would have allowed them to notify me, but they didn't.

It got to the point my phone carrier started spamming me with ads via SMS so I rooted the phone in order to disable SMS and phone call notifications. I would have uninstalled the telephony apps if I could.

Do Not Disturb mode. 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. No notifications, no texts, no calls, nothing at all begging for my attention. Once you've tried it, you'll never go back. I now use my devices when I want, on my own terms, and on my own schedule, not when some app company product manager or other rando people want me to use them. To me, using a computing device should be a deliberate act, with a purpose and limited duration, not some mindless response to stimulus. I'd say my quality of life has increased since making this change--I'm no longer being trained to allow (and get anxious about) arbitrary interruptions throughout the day. I feel I have more time in the day to do what I want without my device constantly begging me to "check in".

I go home and visit my parents and their devices are beeping and buzzing and vibrating every 5 seconds or so. It's like living on the Las Vegas strip. I see people out in restaurants together constantly picking up their phone over and over because it's dinging at them. I can't even imagine myself living like that anymore.

This looks too much for me. Your parents can't reach you on phone.
On my wife's iPhone, they have groups that allow _certain people_ to contact them with _everything else_ being disabled. I would assume there's similar settings across devices.
I have been using similar settings on a Pixel 3 (Android 12). I'm not sure if it's provided by the OS or Google's dialer app though.
Yes, it’s on iPhone, you can filter by contact type or what you’re doing:

https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT212608

https://www.theverge.com/2019/9/26/20883331/iphone-do-not-di...

iPhones have a "Silence Unknown Callers" feature now which sends anyone not in contacts straight to voicemail. It's also a bit smarter so if you call someone it will allow them to call back even if they aren't in your contacts list.

https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT207099

called "starred contacts" on Android.

Concept old as dirt, everyone should use.

There are very easy to setup rules on Android to let specific selected contacts through DND mode. I assume apple has this too.
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Ok so your parents can’t reach you. They can leave a message.
Same for me. But I end up never getting a call and needing to check cellphone every 5 mins. What is working great for me now is to turn off everything and just leave calls on loud (like phone was originally designed)
Yup that's a good solution. I want to make sure the wife can reach me or my kid's school or other parents when my kid is at a friend' place.

But I hate notifications with a passion.

Now I have a landline phone again (it came for free with the fiber optic plan / router so why not), so most of the time people can reach me there too.

> Once you've tried it, you'll never go back.

Whenever I try this, I keep checking if something is waiting for me. For me, it is not as simple as turning off notifications. I also need to train my brain to stop thinking about new messages and that is turning out to be harder than I thought.

Old habits die hard but they do die. Try keeping your phone out of sight and out of reach for a while.
i keep it in a different room.

i've become accustomed to not checking it.

All of my daily 2fa auth happens through my phone. :'(
Yes, this is infuriating. For the most part I've got 2fa set up to go to a Google Voice number or an email address because of this, but there are random exceptions.
Get a dumb phone and see how magical pre-smartphone era was.
Which one? KaiOS is another google data mining OS. Other OS's on dumbphones are useless. You can't even save notes and sync with cloud (DAVx) or use synced calendar. Which is crucial for my work.
>> ...no calls...

You must not have kids / spouse then. You can get a call from school / daycare any time that your kid is sick or hurt and needs to be picked up immediately. Or your spouse can call you that their car broke down and (s)he needs help. I want to be notified immediately of such situations.

That's a good point, I make an exception only for calls, and only if they are in my contacts (school etc. are in my contacts), but I leave all other notifications always off on all my devices.

PS at least where I leave (Australia) allowing all calls including numbers not in my contacts, would mean receiving several spam calls every week, so I gave up on that.

Several spam calls per day here, also Australia.
Several a day here too, USA
Do you not have something similar to Truecaller to block all the spam?
I get one generic spam phone call every month or two. My phone number has historically been on whois records for a couple of domain names, so I sometimes get related spam (your website is broken, you want to pay us to make another, right?), largely from only one or two entities despite being asked to stop it and being reminded that they’re breaking the law (I’m on the Do Not Call Register, have been as long as I’ve had the number, over 7 years), almost always from 07 or 08 phone numbers, but just occasionally from 02 or 03 (just a couple of days ago I got two in one day from the same company, even the same person I think, once 07 and once 03). I don’t know if I’ve ever received a legitimate call from outside 03 (Victoria, where I live) or 04 (mobile). Since I started using it for business as well, I’ve got a very small number of other calls as well (maybe three or four in a year).

My phone number can be trivially found, if someone wants to target me, in all its 2¹⁵‐suffix glory. My only defence is presence on the Do Not Call Register. If you’re not on it, try it. (I don’t really understand, from a serving-the-people perspective, why they don’t just abolish it and apply it to everyone—I can’t think of any reason why anyone would consciously choose not to be on it.)

Thank you, I wasn't aware that there was a Do Not Call Register, I'm registering my number right now. I too have noticed that spammers prefer 07 or 08 (I'm in NSW so legitimate calls are usually from 02). I hope this will work as well for me as it did in your case!
Here in Europe, I have 2-3 spam calls in year. I always asks where did they find my number and then ask politely if they know something about GDPR. Usually they don't waste my time anymore and hang up.
Several calls per day on Brazil but I kind don't notice it because Google app is super effective at blocking spam. Here we can't even talk to someone most of the times because those dirty spammers calls many numbers at the same time, transfer to whoever answer first and terminate the other calls with zero explanation.
You can set contacts and emergency numbers to bypass DND.
I always have do not disturb on but I add my family, friends and certain coworkers to my favorites list. There’s a setting that allows contacts in your favorites to bypass do not disturb. Calls always come through.
I only have WhatsApp notifications enabled and only for specific people. Phone doesn't make noise or vibrate ever, I only see messages when I pick it up.

> I go home and visit my parents and their devices are beeping and buzzing and vibrating every 5 seconds or so.

I know exactly what you mean. I even tried to get them to disable that noise but it turned out they wanted to be notified. I will never understand it.

> Do Not Disturb mode. 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. No notifications, no texts, no calls, nothing at all begging for my attention.

What do you actually do during the day, that warrants such a brain-in-a-jar lifestyle with no need to interact with other people?

There are other ways to interact with people than through texts or calls. Besides, GP did not say that he doesn't text or do calls he just said that they aren't begging for his attention.
You can interact with people in ways other than the immediate interruption that come from phone notifications. Asynchronous communication (answering E-mails, texts, voice messages) can happen on your own schedule when it's least disruptive. You can do it as frequently as you want, too, if responsiveness is important. The point is that you are in control of when that interaction happens, not the device.

I'm reminded of the band Kraftwerk's strategy for dealing with interruptions, from their Wiki page[1]:

"... anyone trying to contact the band for collaboration would be told the studio telephone did not have a ringer since, while recording, the band did not like to hear any kind of noise pollution. Instead, callers were instructed to phone the studio precisely at a certain time, whereupon the phone would be answered by Ralf Hütter, despite never hearing the phone ring."

1: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kraftwerk

How does not liking notifications and engaging with messengers, social networks and other sources of high-volume input translate to not interacting with other people? There's still, you know, real life?!
So you never talk with your friends when they're not physically close to you?
Why wouldn't I? We talk on the phone, sometimes have video calls (usually in groups) and occasionally use SMS as a fallback if a call is not an option. E-Mail is also sometimes involved if it's a more in-depth exchange or something involving E-Mail anyway (booking confirmations and the like).

edit after re-reading: I didn't mean to make my original comment sound like there is only real life. Just that not liking and not engaging with more or less continuous modes of communication and notifications does not equal not interacting with people.

This is telling. A generation has had interruptions so normalised, that for them it's a given that you're interrupted as part of interactions with other people.

Were you to _call_ them on their phones though, they'd stare in horror at the device, wondering who could be so mentally deranged. The irony makes me smile :)

A call requires immediate attention, which is not always possible and often unnecessary. A notification lets you know that there is something to check out, but you can choose when to check it out.
That's fair, though I think what most of us are talking about is the interruption itself.
I'm probably one of the oldest people on here. Certainly I'm far older than the "kids these days with their beeping pinging phones, how can they stand it" demographic.
>> A generation has had interruptions so normalised

When I was growing up, the phone would ring and you would answer it without knowing who it was because people didn't have answering machines or caller ID. Interruptions were much more intrusive then.

I know a friend who had "speaking hours" where he'd respond quickly to messages, outside of that, writing to him over email/IM was asynchronous.

OP can also schedule time (and place?) to chat to others.

What do you think people did before smartphones, or even before the internet? It wasn't that long ago, you could ask someone. You know, in person.
We had these things called "phones", which were attached to the wall with a bit of wire, and made a loud chiming sound when someone wanted to talk to you. They didn't have a "Do Not Disturb" mode as such, but typically if you wanted to use it to talk to someone you would do so if it was important.
People spent significant periods of time away from phones, and those calling did not have strong expectations of being answered right away.
I follow a slightly relaxed version of yours.

- One social media app: Reddit

- One chat/call app: Signal.

- Notifications for every app, except Signal, are disabled

- Do Not Disturb from 7PM-8AM with one exception: my wife's phone number

If only I could...

Unfortunately, it's a device for work, and I need to be able to respond to calls and texts from people that are not in my contact list, even outside working hours.

I don't have any apps producing alerts other than messaging, calls, email, and calendar, but Monday I got twelve texts from seven different people in less than five minutes. All needed responses within five to ten minutes.

I could ditch it, but then I'd have to carry a pager.

Pagerduty is an important notification app for me. But most other, including e-mail, are disabled or just noise.
Focus mode in iOS and Mac OS was a blessing for me. Easily one of the most underrated features from apple.
I use sleep mode to avoid getting any IM while falling asleep, never tried focus mode, but I think I should
It's literally the same except that you can name it differently with a nice icon that goes with it. You can also determine which apps should/shouldn't send you a notification and which persons can slip through. It can also be enabled automatically based on certain factors (like time for example).
Focus mode is more configurable by application, contacts, and so on. So, I can still be notified about slack messages and calls for some contacts while the rest is silenced.
On Android I use Do Not Disturb mode but people I really need to hear from (like my elderly mum) are put on a starred list and they get through[1].

I can then turn it off, have all the cached notifications appear, deal with them and then switch on Do Not Disturb again.

1: https://support.google.com/android/answer/9069335

There is a middle ground, and understanding it requires detangling the nature of notifications by urgency and relevance:

* urgent and relevant: enabled, show me this now. examples are: IM and phone calls and earthquake monitors * urgent and non-relevant: "sale ends in 5 mins!!" * non-urgent but relevant: "your package has been delivered to your mailbox". Use an app like Daywise to BATCH these notifications to arrive at X hour intervals, so you're only checking 24/x times a day * non-urgent non-relevant: disable all these

I started to eliminate notifications from my life when a sound enabled banner notification from a keyboard I had installed on my android phone wanted me to know about all the great features of the keyboard app going from 3.0.1 to 3.0.2 (or whatever minor version).

Anyway, I disabled everywhere except calendar alerts, alarm clock app, and a "favorites" list that is exempt from DnD in my phone.

My preference is for technology to be a tool that I use when I want. It is here for me not the other way around.

Turned them all off except for a select few app - WhatsApp, messages and the like, and even then my phone is on silent mode all the time.

I only noticed that i had notifications turned on for Uber, and was notification spammed by them for some sort of promotion - disabled immediately.

I've disabled them on everything but my phone as much as possible. My IPad Pro has none, my MacBook has the bare minimum the system will allow, and my phone only has them for messaging, email and time-sensitive stuff (like food or Amazon delivery).

First thing I do whenever I'm forced to use Slack or anything like it is to disable notifications on anything but direct messages or mentions.

My time is more valuable to me than other people's desire to take it up, especially for anything that isn't urgent.

I still don't know how to make my iPhone ring only on phone calls but keep notifications silent.