Ask HN: Performance psychology in the workplace?
I've been a SWE/Research Engineer for a decade or so, but I come from a sports background* and I would like to carry over the gratifying elements of that world to my day job. This includes things like optimizing sleep and nutrition, deliberate practice, mindfulness, and more. In the end, it's about pushing yourself to be the best <something> you can be, in the same way athletes push themselves.
My question is: are there others who have similar attitudes towards their jobs? What is the best way to connect with them, e.g. is there an existing community here or on Reddit? If not, is there enough interest that I could create one?
Thank you!
*not professional, but Division 1 and then semi-professional. Good enough to be dedicated, not good enough to be impressive :)
PS: I want to make clear that this includes working in a healthy, sustainable way. I'm not pushing for rise-and-grind or hustle culture.
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[ 3.7 ms ] story [ 102 ms ] threadYou seem to be interested more in the physiological aspects and it makes sense to combine the two. I can imagine a new department within companies with a CHPO (chief human performance officer) role.
Any biography of GOAT athletes I've read inevitably depict tremendous personal sacrifice. Whether you call grueling schedules, pushing themselves nearly to their physical and psychological breaking point, as "hustle culture", it's undeniable that the road to greatness is filled with incredible suffering.
We would all like to wish ourselves to greatness without putting in the effort that goes with it. Unfortunately, that is not how the world works. Having said that, while positive thinking only goes so far, it's a good salve for anyone in dire straits. In other words, positive thinking won't solve your problems, but it might make you feel momentarily better. Best of luck.
First, GOAT means greatest of all time, which, by definition, means bring beyond impressive. Having a GOAT as a reference for how to conduct one's life sounds nice on Twitter, but in reality it is meaningless for good, great, excellent professionals. Phelps trained 8 hours a day for years, and that has no effect on what I do in my job.
But take soccer as an example, where the GOAT could be Pele, Maradona, maybe Messi. All incredibly talented players who didn't work particularly hard, surely not harder than the vast majority of their colleagues. Cruijff was an extraordinary player and then a revolutionary coach who smoked two packs of cigarettes a day and went from one woman to another. An attitude not similar to the "mamba" mentality pushed in endless videos and whatnot.
One of my favorite authors, Arturo Perez-Reverte, talked about working five hours a day—tremendous consistency, but I bet there are many "amateur" authors who write for more than five hours a day. He seems to lead a pleasant life.
And you can find similar examples all over the world. Where I grew up, not in the U.S., there was certainly a focus on dedication, but without the toxic and reckless focus of U.S.-centric Calvinism (now unfortunately quite popular outside the borders of the U.S. as well) on suffering, exhaustion, the "pursuit of greatness," and assorted biblical stories that sound rather ridiculous to those who are not getting high on United States culture day in and day out.
"it's undeniable that the road to greatness is filled with incredible suffering." - Nah
Pardon my inquisitive behavior, but a quick peek at your comment history shows that you have spent some time thinking about pedagogy. If your comments can be taken at face value, would you care to elaborate on the path to progress within a field? Surely, a person can't just wish themselves better.
I have read many biographies of successful people, I have studied the issues of "success" academically, and I have been interested in performance in general for a long time. I have also performed pretty well across physical and mental disciplines.
Pedagogy depends on the subject, we know in many fields what works and what doesn't, and anyone who has spent as I have a few decades on this earth cannot but curse, benevolently of course, the many incompetent teachers and coaches and teaching methods they have had to endure in their younger years: those teachers and coaches had no clue. Or they were teaching for the masses, that is, to get their salaries and call it a day or a year.
But I think it is more interesting to think about "sacrifices" along the road to greatness" and "suffering." Let's take sports again and think about the incredible suffering (or not) that some people go through to achieve greatness. In many sports, it is not empirically true that the best suffer and sacrifice more than others, and I have provided a few examples for team sports. I could provide 1,000 more, but we get the point. For example, Messi, who is 1,000 times the soccer player I am, or rather was, I can guarantee that he did not train much harder than I did. He was only 1,000 times better than me and 10 times luckier to have a chance to perform: a bad knee injury at age 14 or hormone injections that did not work as planned, and we would not have had a Messi.
I recently read a pdf published by current world record holder and 10k speed skating world champion Van der Poel (https://www.howtoskate.se/). In his writing, he documents his training in the years immediately leading up to the 2022 World Championships. It is an extraordinarily instructive read because we can read from an analytical sports champion about his training, his mindset, his way of looking at things without the unnecessary "cultural" expectations and bravado of others who need to relate to Navy Seals, Kobe Bryant, Jordan, a couple of coaches who have been dead for 50 years, hard-nosed NFL players with CTE, and the "hustle culture."
One can start reading from the epilogue.
Mind you: his training was about as grueling as it gets, the very definition of physical suffering. He writes, "The hardest thing about this program was being able to complete it with a smile on my face. When I found a way to enjoy it, I was unstoppable [...] To me the challenge was not about suffering, but finding a way to endure hardship with ease [...] Be courageous. Don't overtrain, but stick to the Limit." Grueling work, yes, but with a smile on his face. Is that suffering? Or "just" grueling work?
Recommended performance material: "Speed Trap," written by the late Charlie Francis, Ben Johnson's coach and performance mind extraordinaire. Van der Poel's "How to Skate 10k" pdf. All you can find written by Julio Velasco, probably the best volleyball coach ever. "Finding you Zone" by Lardon. "With Winning in Mind" by Bassham. If one reads Tim Grover's book "Relentless", "Winning", they get the impression that high performance is all about suffering, sacrifices, the dark side. It sells well to an audience favorably disposed to this kind of U.S.-centric nonsense, but it is simply, in theory and practice, wildly not true.
Given "talent," the road to improvement and performance often goes through more work, but it always goes through better work-more effective, focused, deliberate-than that done by the competition.
There is nothing wrong with that. Taking care of oneself to be good at what you do while maintaining your own health sounds like a terrific goal for its own sake, regardless of where that puts you in comparison to others.
The Rise of Superman
Art of Impossible
Unfortunately I don't know of communities like this other than the workplace environment, and HN :)
Anyway if you know groups/sites to join, count me in.
ps: beside me or us, I think this could have deep implications to society. I believe the status quo (rot mentioned above) is a pain for many but culture made them forget how things could be, and they'd be healthier and happier going back to perf (and fun) oriented job life.
Seems to me that the most important step will be to find a vocation where your goals a few allignrd with the bottom line.
[0] I only pushed high perf in small jobs, not in programming so I can't speak with a lot of confidence. But in some clerk duties, what took 3 weeks became 3 days and a half (2 days the next time because it took me 1 day to converge on high speed layouts).
> Seems to me that the most important step will be to find a vocation where your goals a few allignrd with the bottom line. I agree with this, I actually spent a lot of time making this happen and am happy with how it turned out :)
Freelancing?
It’s also been an observation of mine that most people have too much reserve capacity to notice they are running down until it is too late.
For myself, I’m bipolar. I have no reserve capacity. Every day requires finding the balance between being productive and not burning out. As a result, I am keenly aware I need significantly more downtime than I want to allocate.
I suspect this is the also the case for neurotypical people. Downtime feels like a waste to a person trying to maximize their life.
The way I’ve chosen to optimize my productive is to not focus on optimizing it. Instead, I try to enjoy life and stay conscious of small changes I can make. I know every decision is a choice that changes who I will become. But know I don’t need to make the right decision every time. The trend just needs to be in the right direction. :)
I have done a lot of self-reflection in the past and a while back I realized that the thing that brings me the most joy in life is to improve at something that I work hard at. However, after looking into Stoicism, I find myself asking if I'm not being honest with myself, and that in reality I focus less on chasing "more" and more on mindfulness and enjoying life's moments. I'm very fortunate in that I've never been depressed or struggled with mental illness, but I feel that this tension between "I want to be the best" and "I should focus on being grateful and present with what I have" is a core question I have yet to really answer. For now, I'm very happy with my life being around the former, but a future me may look back at this and laugh :)
What I would do is ask who you would be without the thing you’re doing now. For me, no matter what I do, I like to build things, learn things, and reach people. To inspire creativity, to teach, to bring joy. These are the things I need to do to be happy and fulfilled.
But these are not the things that give me energy. They use it. They can consume me until I look around and wonder what all this is worth.
As humans, we have more needs than what we strive for. I need to hang out with friends and do nothing meaningful. I need to touch and be touched. I need solitude when everything becomes too much.
Maybe it’s because I’m bipolar, but trying to optimize for one thing results in the others being neglected.
I guess this is what others call mindfulness? :)
To be clear, I suck at ultrarunning -- I can do 100km runs but I usually place near the end. What I love about it is that nearly anyone can run an ultra if they simply train long enough... It's why I call my personal performance blog "10 Million Steps" -- if you do enough steps, you can usually do an ultra (barring any deeper health issues). It's almost always about consistency... and I bet you are a better SWE than you are willing to admit because you sound very consistent. :)
A lot of professional coaches come from this space. I highly recommend following Steve Magness[1] and Brad Stulberg[2] on Twitter...
Alas, no communities that I know of.
If you're thinking of starting one or would be up to chatting about organizing something, I'd be 100% down to do so. You can reach me at w --at-- phaseai --dot-- com
[1] https://10millionsteps.com/
[2] https://twitter.com/stevemagness
[3] https://twitter.com/BStulberg
I'm not at all into sports, and from the title I expected a psychology of competition and wanting to beat the others, which sounds horrific in the workplace. Instead it almost sounds like people would even do sports without medals.
How much of sports would remain without striving for worthless tokens and aggressivity?
Thanks for your comment and this great question! In my opinion, almost all of it would remain, as the true draw of sports is to push yourself to new heights, to do things you didn't think possible. My evidence for this is the intensity and dedication that goes into non-mainstream sports (such as my own, beach volleyball in the U.S.). The athletes in these areas aren't striving for fame and fortune, because there really isn't that much to be had even at the top level. They just want to be better than they were yesterday, and worse than they'll be tomorrow :)
Striving for higher performance and longevity physically and mentally, especially in work-related aspects, tends to be my default state and I find the idea of optimizing myself very interesting. However, I have not managed to find a good balance between that and just relaxing; that default state of self-optimization comes at a detriment to my peace and wellbeing. Over the years I've realized that this is not sustainable, but I can't manage to stop. I would be very interested in taking part in such a community, and hopefully learning more about both performance optimization tactics as well as how to let myself switch off and stop churning.
That's great! Although I'm focused on creating "intensity" with everything, I think a big part of that will be figuring out what it means for situations where slowing down is the right thing to do. What does "intensity" look like when I'm hanging out with my daughter, or recharging after a long week? Probably something like putting away any distractions and being wholly focused on whatever we are doing :)
> I would be very interested in taking part in such a community, If you're still interested, what would be the best way to contact you to chat more?