It's 10 minutes minimum for me, and it's still painful. 20-30 minutes works best. How can one even open their eyes clearly after just a few minutes, let alone think?
If I'd get asked what I've done yesterday and what I'm about to do today merely minutes after waking up, you wouldn't get a coherent reply from me. Preparing notes the day before may work, but only if I don't get any random question or have to actually listen to anyone else during the meeting (which would be kinda missing the point of those meetings, right?).
The only exception would be an adrenaline-powered "oh shit I'm late / in danger" moment, I guess.
I miss this about working from home. Wake up, put laptop on my legs, I'm at the office. Now I gotta burn gas, wake up earlier, get dressed. Just to do the same exact thing only in a different box. Maddening.
I left a job a year ago because they were forcing us back to the office. I am happily working remotely with a company that coincidentally decided to go fully remote right before COVID, so there is no going back since the teams are now distributed.
Congrats! WFH is here to stay. And this newly found benefit is threatening managers and companies in general since this gives us bargaining power now that even SMBs and startups can offer you WFH as a benefit. Thank God we're learning that quality of life >>> more money but in a cubicle.
I understand what you are saying. Especially as someone with ADHD, the level of self control required, and lack of routine, in WFH make each day feel like a tiny battle that I’m always almost losing. The aesthetic of that strictly ordered salary man lifestyle is quite beautiful from here.
I was making a caricature out of it but honestly, I would like 1) A quiet place at work (not at home) 2) Formal meetings with agenda and strict meeting notes 3) Telephones, yes real clunking telephones that you can pick up and call your coworkers. No slack, no non-sense. 3) Great email system that isn't tied to Google Suite 4) Excellent stationery 5) No HR department. None. Zero.
in some areas people are doing exactly like that. I know some teachers, doing exactly like that. Back to the 90s. No whatsapp, no mobile, just a phone to be called from 8-15h. Parents cannot call the teacher at 19:30 to talk about little Hans that got a 3 in science, and no whatsapp at 3 AM from the school director saying that a teacher is in sick call and somebody have to jump in.
But there are no old school cubicle offices to go to anymore. Offices have turned into hotel lobbies where nothing happens except terrible software engineering using Jira and some HR bullshit to deal with. Great coffee though. Actually, just realized, if an office space has bad coffee, it'd probably be my type of a place.
My company turned their office where every engineer had their own room in an open-space dance floor. 60% of the engineer team became remote after that. But HR and Marketing loved this change.
I hate Jira as much as the next guy, but I think you are confusing what you hate about some type of company with what you think the reasons are for 'terrible software engineering'. The coffee at my office is very bad though, so maybe you want to apply there.
Maybe that works for your dad, but not everyone has the same chronotype nor do they have the same preferences. Don't impose what you want on everyone else.
I respect the point in the articles regarding remote work leveling the playing field for people who are more productive later in the day. I myself find my best work is done between 8-11 pm.
> There are thousands like me and we don’t care what you think
If the author truly didn't care what others thought they wouldn't publish this article using such a humble-brag tone in Fortune IMHO. The same article could have been published without the egocentric narrative in the beginning and end and had the same effect.
I didn't find the introduction to be at all egocentric. You're reading a turn of phrase literally. "I don't care what you think" means "I will live this way regardless of your disapproval." Given that its a common phrase, I'm pretty sure you already knew that, so I don't know what the purpose of your comment is.
I lost 8kg during the lock down... because every morning i had time to go for a bike ride before "start time".
The lack of commute was amazing for my health lifestyle.
Now that I'm back in the office.. I'm still down 4kg but its going back on.
This is how it should be. "Daily status updates" regarding what you're working on are useless. It should be a short message or email containing roadblocks or small updates to let others know you unblocked them that is sent to people on a need-to-know basis, which does not include your manager (it may include your project manager) unless they are also a developer. The whole team does not need to know what you're up to
Living in Australia, I had a phase of working for US clients that often required early morning meetings (7am), but then the rest of the day was up to me. I'd often do something a bit similar: Alarm for 6.50, slam down a bowl of cereal, and on the call at 7. Finish the call at 8, a bit of follow up stuff, then wander around in a daze until 11am, when I'd do a couple of hours work.
Then I'd take the afternoon off, and settle back down to work around 5, and do my most productive work from around 7 to 11pm, then bed.
I didn't love the early meetings, but I did like the bit where no one would bother me during my work day because they were all asleep.
The trickiest times were when I had to catch both a 7am US west coast meeting, and an 11pm US east coast meeting on the same day. Hard to go straight to sleep after an intense meeting.
Same experience as me, I'm living in Australia but my own clients (as well as my employers) are mostly in the US. Most of them are Mountain Time but there's clients on both east and west coast.
I've told both sets of clients there's a pretty good chance I'm going to be still awake at 2AM AEST so book meetings for their morning time and I'll likely be able to attend, even without much notice.
It probably seems a little odd to most but it's working well for me, I like 2AM AEST meetings. I don't like 7AM AEST meetings.
I've always thought it had something to do with the cyclic nature of my daily routine. At 7am I am preparing for a day of getting ready and working and cooking and driving and cleaning, so having to be fresh and ready for a meeting is another thing to do.
But at 2am I have no other impending obligations; all I need to do is take the meeting and I already fulfilled all of those other things earlier in the day.
Also an Australian here. Scheduling meetings to be respectful of both timezones is the bane of my existence... The # of times I've woken up at 6/7am or 10/11pm to cater for a director who's based in Austin or Seattle... I'm stressed even thinking back on it now.
I love the freedom it gives me during my day (like you explained very well) but looking back, I'm not sure if it's even worth it at the end of the day.
I've lived in Australia while working remotely for a UK company for the last 6 years, so I was legally permitted to go "[chuckle] that's not a night owl - THAT'S a night owl" while reading the friendly article, brandishing my 6pm starts at it.
Personally I really appreciate that work from home has been normalized, but I also have started to go to the office as often as possible.
I'm currently on a half empty commuter train and have just finished the worst task I can think of for the week (time sheets) and now I'll continue working on something else.
But if I was at home I'd probably have accomplished nothing yet, and even if I tried to do something, I'd expect to be repeatedly interrupted for the next 1.5h, by people that I love and can't turn away.
My brain is funny that way. Just the expectation that I might get interrupted prevents it from even starting on anything.
Edit: this is for me. I personally encouraged someone else to use the opportunity to work from somewhere else so they could be with their child last week.
I love that remote work is now both technologically possible and socially acceptable.
Agreed. When working from home I have to keep half a brain dedicated to what is happening around me at home. I typically get at most 90-120 seconds between interruptions of some kind from my family. You can't easily shut that out.
I guess having really small kids (babies and toddlers really) is the "issue" here, but I can't imagine it being much better until they are physically at school... but at that point you may as well just go to the office
I’ve been remote since pre-Covid and a detached office space has become a must for me. At my last house, I had a finished shed in the yard. Now I have a space above the garage. Having the option of physical separation is key.
Make it clear you are at work and not to be bothered when the door is closed.
Growing up my mom ran a small business out of the home and told us that while she was in the garage with a client we were not allowed to enter or bother her for any reason. It was like she was at a different location.
I love that remote work has given me the ability to access more jobs in better paying areas but I really do miss the human interaction of being in the office. Not enough to take a local lower paying job.
This is another unplanned benefit of WFH: Job pool is larger since you can literally create software regardless of your location. It's like we were blind to this fact and COVID got us to see the "light".
There's a push from the media (paid by companies, of course) to demonize WFH. It's like they like their workers to be miserable.
Feel free (you or others) to let me know if you find anything that works :-)
Pomodoro used to work somewhat when I was alone, but when you risk getting interrupted multiple times during 25 minutes it doesn't feel worth it even if most of the times (i.e. over 50%, not 99%) I can do a full 25min.
Somehow it feels so "painful" to be pulled out of focus I rather just wait until they leave and stop working when they get home 4-6 h later.
I’ve been working from home for a long time (originally since 2008 while it was still a college side job that I started in 2006), when I was younger, I would only start working at 10 or even 12 (10 is roughly when my boss starts working). This was also the time when I used an alarm that required solving math questions to turn it off.
Now? I wake up between 4 and 5 (30-60 seconds after I wake up I’m fully dressed) and spend the time until 6 to read the news, play games etc. Then I start working at 6 and stop working around 14:00 when I start preparing dinner.
I have some time for myself in the very early morning, later the afternoon and evening are work-free.
How did you get better at waking up? I’m still in the category of requiring many alarms that take hours to wake me. Have done a lot of stuff like move to a room where sun shines on me in the morning, additional automated lights, an alarm playing talk radio. Considering buying a machine for thousands of dollars that will make my bed uncomfortably cold and vibrate my chest.
The one thing that worked for me is to go to sleep earlier and wake up naturally. If you're still tired however, see a sleep doctor, many have undiagnosed sleep apnea.
Reading an article about 1.5-hour sleep cycles and going to bed earlier. The article said, that your circadian rhythm works roughly in 90 minute increments, since then I set my alarm for 6 or 7.5 hours (9 if I’m extremely exhausted for some reason). I don’t know if that’s placebo, and I don’t care, but it worked for me in a way 8h of sleep never did. While I was getting used to it, I was also getting tired earlier. So everything moved a bit towards earlier times, and I’ve stayed with that. That change happened around 4-6 years ago.
I think you're not committed, you're not feeling that waking at that time is important. You keep giving yourself second chances with snoozes and multiple alarms. Try not to.
What do you do when you need to catch early flight and be in the airport at 5.30? Do you manage to get up in time? Most people do because the cost of missing the flight is just too much. Make waking up for work as important.
I went from sleeping in person to wake at first chime person after sleeping in for several important occasions which put other people in bad light. That really made me revaluate my priorities. After a while it become second nature.
>I think you're not committed, you're not feeling that waking at that time is important. You keep giving yourself second chances with snoozes and multiple alarms. Try not to.
I don’t think I’m really a fully conscious being during the period when I’m waking up. If someone tells me important information, I’ll forget it. It’s not until I’m fully awake that I remember my priorities and what I need to do during the day.
>What do you do when you need to catch early flight and be in the airport at 5.30?
I set the alarm at 3 AM, or more commonly just stay up all night.
I have mixed feelings on remote work as a whole. I have worked remotely for nearly a decade, but before that, I worked at a sort of artisanal bakery/ice cream shop for 4 years.
It was small enough that one person could prepare the ingredients and run the place on their own. We opened at 10:00, which meant that I needed to arrive around 6:00 or 6:30 to get the dough prepared, chop the fruit, make toppings, etc. The messiness of the work prevented you from using your phone too much, and as it was super early, no one wanted to text with you either. Even the early morning walk there (I lived nearby) was pretty peaceful.
So, from about 6:30 to 10:00 everyday, I was disconnected from society and the Internet and working with my hands. While remote work has paid 10x the salary and provided infinitely more flexibility, I still miss that experience of waking up early and working physically on real objects instead of popping open my laptop at the last minute. In the future, I hope that we rethink computer work and make it less cut off from our nature as physical beings.
I work remotely, core time starts 11:00 but I wake up at 5:30 to study, do sports, and when I start to work around 9:30-10:00, I'm really productive. For sure I have to go early to bed, to get at least 7 hours sleep, but thats a nice trade-off.
What's stopping you from getting up at 0530 now and doing some hobby? This is exactly what I do - I absolutely love that first hour, it's like you're the only person on earth. I'm a natural early bird so your mileage may vary.
Nothing is stopping me and indeed that is usually what I do. But there is a difference between “getting up early and going to work” and just getting up early to sit at your desk or go to the gym. You miss the rhythm of the working world, of early morning delivery drivers and quiet city streets.
> Nope! I want every last millisecond of sleep I can get
Here is a radical thought: Value the first minutes of your night sleep just as much as the last ones and just go to bed a little earlier.
All this "but it's in my genes" may not be entirely false but its significance is dramatically overemphasized and mostly serves as a covenient excuse for people to not get their act together.
I value my sleep time, which is why I'm not going to bed earlier than when I actually feel like it, as it usually results in hours spent on useless disorganized thinking about everything and not sleeping much.
That “useless disorganised thinking” is very important. It’s the first time all day your brain has had a chance to ponder things and not being bombarded with constant stimulus.
No, this is not the welcome kind of "disorganized thinking" you get under a long shower. This is the useless kind that prevents you from sleeping and seems to always have some terrible faux pas from 15 years ago prepared to randomly remind you about.
> Value the first minutes of your night sleep just as much as the last ones and just go to bed a little earlier.
What a weird suggestion. That person clearly prefers nighttime to morning time. Why would they trade being awake in the night for being awake at morning?
I have determined that my unproductivity is just "warm up" time.
If something is due tuesday I'm guaranteed to spend most of monday angry about all the meetings "in my way" knowing damn well even if I didn't have the meetings I'd just be ruminating about the remaining work instead of actually doing it.
As a result, monday night is when everything gets done. This warm up dramatically increases the quality of the work delivered.
This very much resonates with me and I find it ridiculously frustrating about myself. I can more easily deliver well-received work at the last minute than I can a steady pace of work that would be sometimes higher quality because of the opportunity to put it down for a few days and then review and improve at a more leisurely pace.
But the procrastination monkey inside skips most of the chances to do the latter.
Ironically, not having a deadline at all has given me a chance to deliver some of my best work (or work I’m most proud of), but I can also understand why a world with no time commitments wouldn’t actually work globally better.
Working from your bed or your couch is not ideal for your back. If you exclusively do remote work, make sure you get an ergonomic chair and table and start a workout routine to strengthen your back muscle.
I know several people who developed severe back pain during Covid lockdown. Disc prolapse is a real risk for us office workers and is even worse if you stay at home all day having removed all physical routine from your life. I like to commute with my bicycle to the office every day (16km round trip) which gives me physical exercise w/o me forcing myself to go to the gym.
Why was this written like I should care what a grown adult does with their life? If I could sleep in until 8:59am every day I would. All the more power to them!
When I was going to the office I'd usually get up, bathroom, clothes, out the door (I'm a shower-at-night person). Alarm clock at 7:30 when I need to leave at 7:40 wasn't uncommon. Sure, there's the commute but I don't think it's THAT different from what the author described, because I still take these 10 minutes before work now.
I mean, I contrast this with people who like/have to get up way before they strictly need to, to go for a walk, or running, or reading, or whatever. I hate that, I don't even drink coffee at home before leaving.
I think the point is he doesn't have to get up at 7:30 any more, a point I'm in agreement with. If you're a person who's comfortable getting up at 7:30 then it probably is meaningless. My way of explaining it is how would you like to work through till 2 in the morning, for me its no drama, but getting up in the morning is work. I've always thought that it probably harkens back to our early days, it would have been useful to have people awake most of the day, keeping an eye on things, watching out for predators and so on.
I hate that. In the company where I work, the meetings are 11 AM, and you can clearly see that people wake up 10:59 and have no clue where they are, what they did yesterday and what they have to do today. It is such a waste of energy and time to have to go through all "hmm, yesterday.. I.. hmm"
I envy that sort of a remote late-to-rise ethos (or circumstance). I've a couple of kids and the youngest dictates the sleep/wake cycle of the rest of us - usually he's up around 5:15am and full of restless energy. On the plus side, any calls I have with the West Coast or Asia usually happen with the kids are asleep, so the house is nice and quiet.
However, without remote work I'm not sure I could function, a commute and physically being in an office from 9 to 5 would mean all the family schedules would be seriously re-worked. Plus, I'd see the kids only at the weekends since they'd be in bed by the time I got home.
I currently wake up at 4:55 am, 5 minutes before my daily standup -- this is self-inflicted. I was in Greece when I took the job (contract) and I'm now in the UK. Daylight savings has also gone against me.
Client is in Australia where I grew up (and have a strong network).
The first job I ever had required me to be someplace at 4am to start loading meat into a -30 degree freezer, and I’d do that until I lost all feeling in my hands, take a fifteen minute break, go back into the freezer until I couldn’t feel my hands again, take another fifteen minute break, then go back into the freezer a third time, then drive as home as soon as I got back enough feeling to get my car key into the door.
Decades later I get to sleep until 9, stay warm, do tech stuff all day, DoorDash brings lunch and dinner, take a shower and go to bed. No more commute. No more trying to drive in downpours and snow storms. If my stomach feels bad or I stayed up too late watching movies I can shut my eyes for a while. If I’m in the middle of a tough problem I can power through without worrying about having a parking space, or missing the last train, or having to shell out $300 for an unexpected hotel stay.
A world of difference from where I started, remote work is the best thing that ever happened.
It's interesting that we consider people waking up later in the day to be the lazy ones, and not the people going to sleep early to be the lazy ones. I've still got heaps I can get done, and you're in bed? Lazy sod!
I think we should all get up after a healthy amount of sleep, and leave some wiggle room in there for nights where sleep didn't go to plan.
It doesn’t really matter what time you get up, the most important thing is that it’s consistent every day. What I have observed is that people who wake up later tend to be all over the place for schedule.
It's very difficult for me to sleep well, so I naturally end up with a marching sleep schedule. To compound that issue, if I get 8 hours of sleep I am usually wide awake even after 16 hours. So your observation rings true here, but having a routine doesn't help unfortunately.
I've had 9-5s for years at a time, so I can pretty fairly say that getting up at the same time every day and trying to fall asleep at the same time every day just doesn't work for me. I end up laying in bed for hours awake, wasted time. A 9-5 for me looks like 8hrs sleep, 6hrs, 5hrs, 4hrs, 8hrs, 6hrs, 5hrs, 4hrs... etc.
For what it's worth, I have a good diet, I go to the gym 4-5 times a week, and I spend hours outdoors and walking during the week. If anything, it just gives me even more energy and focus.
I know the feeling, nonetheless it's good to keep in mind that falling asleep is ultimately something that can be trained as proven by people in the military since forever.
You're not so much a nightowl as you're a person that cba to change what you've naturally gravitated towards because of your lifestyle. Which is fine as far as I'm concerned, i just dislike this victims perspective wrt sleeping patterns immensely.
And just to be even more clear: I'm aware that there are biological sleeping disorders that actually makes sleep challenging. they're generally not what people have if they're self identifying as night owls however.
I do have some things I do to help me sleep, one I learned from a veteran, it helps in certain scenarios, but I'm also not in the military so I don't actually need to be that regimented.
There certainly can be a woe is me attitude attached to it, but many people aren't feeling like victims, me included, they're just telling you what they prefer and how they'd rather set up their life. I prefer not to be so laser focused on regimented sleep as I find it's just not useful. For my job it doesn't matter if I'm there at 9 on the dot, but it does matter if I have my wits about me, so I need to make sure I get enough sleep rather than sleep at the right time.
That’s because they’re trying to conform to a day schedule. They weren’t ready to wake for the day and now they’re disorganized. Morning people have chill time to drink coffee, work out and read the news/emails.
I know because Waking up before 10am is tough for me regardless. Before 8am and my day is ruined. Before 7am and I probably will climb into bed before eating dinner. Something about it is draining all day long. On the other hand, if I wake after 10am I’m super energetic all my waking hours and will even stay up most of the night. I probably only need 6-7 hours of sleep instead of 8-10. Rarely I get to choose my schedule and it always reverts to full nocturnal. I will sleep from 10am-4pm and all is well. I don’t see it happening again until my kid gets older. But that’s my firmware.
I'm similar. I can function perfectly and have a lot of energy and brain focus if I sleep 3:00/4:00 to 10:00 consistently.
I will have a half wasted day if I wake up before 9:00 even if I slept 8-10h that night. This is true even for a single night.
I don't need a lot of sleep. I need the right sleep. I have been months on a consistent 5h30min-6h per night and feeling great. Working out a lot with little to no injuries and quick recoveries, and getting a lot of work done.
During the early pandemic I was very consistent. I woke up every day at 11am and went to bed around 4am-5am. But that was because I was running my own business and the only person I had to interact with was my partner, so we just set our daily meeting at 1pm.
The kids would wake up around 11am as well and go to bed around 2am.
Sadly I live in a society of mostly morning-birds so I can't do that anymore. Kids have to be in school early, meetings start early, etc, etc.
Why does that matter? And why does being “all over the place for schedule” matter, assuming you don’t have a flight to catch?
This sounds very much to me like the voice of the American puritan which is still very much alive, well, and the reason other people cannot have nice things.
The issue isn't people waking up later, but getting out of the bed 1 minute before the meeting. If you have your first daily at 10:00, you don't have to wake up 9:59, but maybe 9:00 and get mentally ready to work.
I think it's contextual, there are meetings where my presence is all that's needed from me, and after that I have plenty of time to mentally prepare for work. Of course if I have a meeting with a client or something like that, I would want to be up, showered and have any notes, docs and context prepped.
During the pandemic, when part of India was on lockdown, I had to go up very early to cover for our Indian team not being available. I started work at 05:00 A.M. and got up half an hour before that.
It was tough in the beginning, but after some time I started to really enjoy it. I have my home office window towards the woods, and waking up when the forrest was most active, was inspiring. Every day I would share the morning with different animals.
Tell me about it. But not just that I'm a night owl, I mean to lead a normal adult life you pretty much need some sort of rhythm unless your partner is also a night owl.
But I've already worked remotely for 6 years and I find that with our nordic winter darkness I can be outdoors and enjoy the sun during the day and put in my hours when the sun sets. This I feel should be the norm up here in the nordic lats, when the sun starts setting at 3pm.
Be outdoors during the day, work later during the afternoon.
I stay up late about as often as I wake up early. I think this is far more common than being an "early bird" or a "night owl".
Working from home has taken away most of the pressure of an 8 hour schedule. What's actually important is just getting things done by a due date and being available for meetings. I very strongly prefer it this way.
Results and hours are very loosely correlated. There are times where my mind is so fresh I can do more than a day of work in just a few hours. There are other times where I am so mentally foggy I must work 10 hours straight only to still be behind. In both cases I am just as engaged with my work. Neither should be the expectation. It all evens out by the deadline, as it should.
It seems this article pushes for more asynchronous communication and it seems to be the healthiest way.
Something todoist's CEO has been pushing for a long time (no affiliation other than I like his work) - https://twitter.com/amix3k
It does have a potential to be a night-mare for the middle managers tho. But I'm betting on human ingenuity to solve that as well.
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I know it’s a weird place to find a newsletter exactly for you. The transition is off, but I'm working on putting myself out there more ruthlessly. I guess it’s true what Seinfeld said, like when we can make our own people we just care less lol
I remember when I was younger I would often work until 7am because due to startups nature the work includes a lot of communication with founders, and I myself used to live in Russia, while the startups were in San Francisco / Los Angeles.
Today, If I stay until 6am the next day I am almost guaranteed to have a headache and be worthless, but working in the evenings is still my prime time. My colleagues often tell me "dude, it's 11pm where you are at, go to sleep", but at this point that's my 2nd nature.
Still, many people in the same company manage to work the "normal" 8am-6pm days, so I guess to each their own.
There are several chronotypes, not everyone is wired to wake up early in the morning but society is organized that way and hurts those who don't conform. Remoting allows each to better adjust, even if it's just a couple of hours.
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Oh and I got a salary bump with it.
Suppress: in order to stay abreast of the changing world.
Maintain: in order to have a sanity-saving anchor to the real-world I'm familiar with.
> 4) Excellent stationery
Just thinking about this gave me the kind of excited thrill that could passingly be mistaken for sexual.
> There are thousands like me and we don’t care what you think
If the author truly didn't care what others thought they wouldn't publish this article using such a humble-brag tone in Fortune IMHO. The same article could have been published without the egocentric narrative in the beginning and end and had the same effect.
Now that I'm back in the office.. I'm still down 4kg but its going back on.
Also, The culture of chop and changing jobs in Australia is nowhere near like it is in the US.
for instance.. I've been here for 17 years :-P
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Then I'd take the afternoon off, and settle back down to work around 5, and do my most productive work from around 7 to 11pm, then bed.
I didn't love the early meetings, but I did like the bit where no one would bother me during my work day because they were all asleep.
The trickiest times were when I had to catch both a 7am US west coast meeting, and an 11pm US east coast meeting on the same day. Hard to go straight to sleep after an intense meeting.
I've told both sets of clients there's a pretty good chance I'm going to be still awake at 2AM AEST so book meetings for their morning time and I'll likely be able to attend, even without much notice.
It probably seems a little odd to most but it's working well for me, I like 2AM AEST meetings. I don't like 7AM AEST meetings.
But at 2am I have no other impending obligations; all I need to do is take the meeting and I already fulfilled all of those other things earlier in the day.
I love the freedom it gives me during my day (like you explained very well) but looking back, I'm not sure if it's even worth it at the end of the day.
It's absolutely insane how hard 6am meetings are for me compared to 7am or 8am starts as when I'm back in Sydney time.
When I have to get up early, I'm just less productive, end of story.
I'm currently on a half empty commuter train and have just finished the worst task I can think of for the week (time sheets) and now I'll continue working on something else.
But if I was at home I'd probably have accomplished nothing yet, and even if I tried to do something, I'd expect to be repeatedly interrupted for the next 1.5h, by people that I love and can't turn away.
My brain is funny that way. Just the expectation that I might get interrupted prevents it from even starting on anything.
Edit: this is for me. I personally encouraged someone else to use the opportunity to work from somewhere else so they could be with their child last week.
I love that remote work is now both technologically possible and socially acceptable.
I guess having really small kids (babies and toddlers really) is the "issue" here, but I can't imagine it being much better until they are physically at school... but at that point you may as well just go to the office
Growing up my mom ran a small business out of the home and told us that while she was in the garage with a client we were not allowed to enter or bother her for any reason. It was like she was at a different location.
I take them to daycare.
There's a push from the media (paid by companies, of course) to demonize WFH. It's like they like their workers to be miserable.
I feel this so much. I realized this about myself a few years ago, and even with that knowledge it's been really hard to fight.
Pomodoro used to work somewhat when I was alone, but when you risk getting interrupted multiple times during 25 minutes it doesn't feel worth it even if most of the times (i.e. over 50%, not 99%) I can do a full 25min.
Somehow it feels so "painful" to be pulled out of focus I rather just wait until they leave and stop working when they get home 4-6 h later.
That's what I experience going to office! WFH is only place I can focus.
Now? I wake up between 4 and 5 (30-60 seconds after I wake up I’m fully dressed) and spend the time until 6 to read the news, play games etc. Then I start working at 6 and stop working around 14:00 when I start preparing dinner.
I have some time for myself in the very early morning, later the afternoon and evening are work-free.
What do you do when you need to catch early flight and be in the airport at 5.30? Do you manage to get up in time? Most people do because the cost of missing the flight is just too much. Make waking up for work as important.
I went from sleeping in person to wake at first chime person after sleeping in for several important occasions which put other people in bad light. That really made me revaluate my priorities. After a while it become second nature.
But that's obviously true most of the time, at least not as important as waking up for a flight.
I don’t think I’m really a fully conscious being during the period when I’m waking up. If someone tells me important information, I’ll forget it. It’s not until I’m fully awake that I remember my priorities and what I need to do during the day.
>What do you do when you need to catch early flight and be in the airport at 5.30?
I set the alarm at 3 AM, or more commonly just stay up all night.
It was small enough that one person could prepare the ingredients and run the place on their own. We opened at 10:00, which meant that I needed to arrive around 6:00 or 6:30 to get the dough prepared, chop the fruit, make toppings, etc. The messiness of the work prevented you from using your phone too much, and as it was super early, no one wanted to text with you either. Even the early morning walk there (I lived nearby) was pretty peaceful.
So, from about 6:30 to 10:00 everyday, I was disconnected from society and the Internet and working with my hands. While remote work has paid 10x the salary and provided infinitely more flexibility, I still miss that experience of waking up early and working physically on real objects instead of popping open my laptop at the last minute. In the future, I hope that we rethink computer work and make it less cut off from our nature as physical beings.
Here is a radical thought: Value the first minutes of your night sleep just as much as the last ones and just go to bed a little earlier.
All this "but it's in my genes" may not be entirely false but its significance is dramatically overemphasized and mostly serves as a covenient excuse for people to not get their act together.
What a weird suggestion. That person clearly prefers nighttime to morning time. Why would they trade being awake in the night for being awake at morning?
Jury's still out on that for the rest of us but glad you have the comfort of such certainty on the matter
If something is due tuesday I'm guaranteed to spend most of monday angry about all the meetings "in my way" knowing damn well even if I didn't have the meetings I'd just be ruminating about the remaining work instead of actually doing it.
As a result, monday night is when everything gets done. This warm up dramatically increases the quality of the work delivered.
But the procrastination monkey inside skips most of the chances to do the latter.
Ironically, not having a deadline at all has given me a chance to deliver some of my best work (or work I’m most proud of), but I can also understand why a world with no time commitments wouldn’t actually work globally better.
I know several people who developed severe back pain during Covid lockdown. Disc prolapse is a real risk for us office workers and is even worse if you stay at home all day having removed all physical routine from your life. I like to commute with my bicycle to the office every day (16km round trip) which gives me physical exercise w/o me forcing myself to go to the gym.
When I was going to the office I'd usually get up, bathroom, clothes, out the door (I'm a shower-at-night person). Alarm clock at 7:30 when I need to leave at 7:40 wasn't uncommon. Sure, there's the commute but I don't think it's THAT different from what the author described, because I still take these 10 minutes before work now.
I mean, I contrast this with people who like/have to get up way before they strictly need to, to go for a walk, or running, or reading, or whatever. I hate that, I don't even drink coffee at home before leaving.
However, without remote work I'm not sure I could function, a commute and physically being in an office from 9 to 5 would mean all the family schedules would be seriously re-worked. Plus, I'd see the kids only at the weekends since they'd be in bed by the time I got home.
Client is in Australia where I grew up (and have a strong network).
"I wake up at 4:59 am, 1 minute before my standup".
Instead I felt the need to explain exactly what was going on (and that it was self-inflicted).
if it is fully remote, surely a laptop and internet are all you need.
Decades later I get to sleep until 9, stay warm, do tech stuff all day, DoorDash brings lunch and dinner, take a shower and go to bed. No more commute. No more trying to drive in downpours and snow storms. If my stomach feels bad or I stayed up too late watching movies I can shut my eyes for a while. If I’m in the middle of a tough problem I can power through without worrying about having a parking space, or missing the last train, or having to shell out $300 for an unexpected hotel stay.
A world of difference from where I started, remote work is the best thing that ever happened.
I think we should all get up after a healthy amount of sleep, and leave some wiggle room in there for nights where sleep didn't go to plan.
I've had 9-5s for years at a time, so I can pretty fairly say that getting up at the same time every day and trying to fall asleep at the same time every day just doesn't work for me. I end up laying in bed for hours awake, wasted time. A 9-5 for me looks like 8hrs sleep, 6hrs, 5hrs, 4hrs, 8hrs, 6hrs, 5hrs, 4hrs... etc.
For what it's worth, I have a good diet, I go to the gym 4-5 times a week, and I spend hours outdoors and walking during the week. If anything, it just gives me even more energy and focus.
You're not so much a nightowl as you're a person that cba to change what you've naturally gravitated towards because of your lifestyle. Which is fine as far as I'm concerned, i just dislike this victims perspective wrt sleeping patterns immensely. And just to be even more clear: I'm aware that there are biological sleeping disorders that actually makes sleep challenging. they're generally not what people have if they're self identifying as night owls however.
There certainly can be a woe is me attitude attached to it, but many people aren't feeling like victims, me included, they're just telling you what they prefer and how they'd rather set up their life. I prefer not to be so laser focused on regimented sleep as I find it's just not useful. For my job it doesn't matter if I'm there at 9 on the dot, but it does matter if I have my wits about me, so I need to make sure I get enough sleep rather than sleep at the right time.
I know because Waking up before 10am is tough for me regardless. Before 8am and my day is ruined. Before 7am and I probably will climb into bed before eating dinner. Something about it is draining all day long. On the other hand, if I wake after 10am I’m super energetic all my waking hours and will even stay up most of the night. I probably only need 6-7 hours of sleep instead of 8-10. Rarely I get to choose my schedule and it always reverts to full nocturnal. I will sleep from 10am-4pm and all is well. I don’t see it happening again until my kid gets older. But that’s my firmware.
I will have a half wasted day if I wake up before 9:00 even if I slept 8-10h that night. This is true even for a single night.
I don't need a lot of sleep. I need the right sleep. I have been months on a consistent 5h30min-6h per night and feeling great. Working out a lot with little to no injuries and quick recoveries, and getting a lot of work done.
The kids would wake up around 11am as well and go to bed around 2am.
Sadly I live in a society of mostly morning-birds so I can't do that anymore. Kids have to be in school early, meetings start early, etc, etc.
This sounds very much to me like the voice of the American puritan which is still very much alive, well, and the reason other people cannot have nice things.
During the pandemic, when part of India was on lockdown, I had to go up very early to cover for our Indian team not being available. I started work at 05:00 A.M. and got up half an hour before that. It was tough in the beginning, but after some time I started to really enjoy it. I have my home office window towards the woods, and waking up when the forrest was most active, was inspiring. Every day I would share the morning with different animals.
But I've already worked remotely for 6 years and I find that with our nordic winter darkness I can be outdoors and enjoy the sun during the day and put in my hours when the sun sets. This I feel should be the norm up here in the nordic lats, when the sun starts setting at 3pm.
Be outdoors during the day, work later during the afternoon.
Working from home has taken away most of the pressure of an 8 hour schedule. What's actually important is just getting things done by a due date and being available for meetings. I very strongly prefer it this way.
Results and hours are very loosely correlated. There are times where my mind is so fresh I can do more than a day of work in just a few hours. There are other times where I am so mentally foggy I must work 10 hours straight only to still be behind. In both cases I am just as engaged with my work. Neither should be the expectation. It all evens out by the deadline, as it should.
Something todoist's CEO has been pushing for a long time (no affiliation other than I like his work) - https://twitter.com/amix3k
It does have a potential to be a night-mare for the middle managers tho. But I'm betting on human ingenuity to solve that as well.
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I know it’s a weird place to find a newsletter exactly for you. The transition is off, but I'm working on putting myself out there more ruthlessly. I guess it’s true what Seinfeld said, like when we can make our own people we just care less lol
Today, If I stay until 6am the next day I am almost guaranteed to have a headache and be worthless, but working in the evenings is still my prime time. My colleagues often tell me "dude, it's 11pm where you are at, go to sleep", but at this point that's my 2nd nature.
Still, many people in the same company manage to work the "normal" 8am-6pm days, so I guess to each their own.