Ask HN: How do you get over the fear of launching?
I seem to have a fear of launching to the public. I have been doing customer development and I am about to do a private beta. But the thought of going public really scares me. I've analysed this fear and it seems to me that its a combination of the following:
1. Fear of not having thought of ever legal angle.
2. Fear of no one using my website. And then someone else coming along and beating me in this area and making me look stupid and like Friendster.
3. Fear of the product not being polished enough.
4. Fear of rejection from lots of people at first look which leads to people never coming back to the site.
5. Fear of knowing that there are unknown unknowns which will come at time of launch and bite me in the behind.
6. A hacker or spammer will take down my site.
7. Fear of the fact that I havent thought of every possible outcome.
How do I get over my fears?
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[ 2.8 ms ] story [ 50.2 ms ] threadParalysis by analysis. Stop thinking about it and just do it. Launch, then find out what users say about your product.
I don't currently have a business but I am a lot less of a perfection-obsessed neurotic since spending a year at death's door. It was very freeing and empowering.
Best of luck.
To try to put it in a nutshell:
I have a genetic disorder -- "atypical cystic fibrosis" -- which is a relatively mild, relatively recently identified form of a very deadly condition (life expectancy around 36 or 37 currently in the US for the traditional form of it). I had to nearly die to finally get a diagnosis. This empowered me to finally leave an oppressive marriage at a time when I was still too sick work. I'm currently facing eviction and have a mountain of personal debt related to getting myself well when doctors say that cannot be done. It's entirely possible I will be homeless come January 1st. I am continuing to function and even work overtime rather than taking a lot of personal time to have histrionics over the latest stressors in my life.
I saw a TV show once about a guy who made millions in (commercial?) real estate. In the interview, he indicated he had been career Air Force and flew over 100 live missions, all of which involved people trying to shoot him out of the sky. He decided that compared to that, the stresses of real estate should be a piece of cake to face. Apparently they were as he was wildly successful.
In addition to getting some life experience that makes you somewhat less thin-skinned, I highly recommend you work on getting information/expertise for any areas that concern you about your business. I am hesitant to say that because people who suffer 'paralysis by analysis' can interpret that to mean "study it more while doing nothing". I don't mean that. Talk to people. Show it around. Get real world feedback. Do research if necessary, but don't get mired in useless "academic" exercises. I guess, in a word: Launch.
Best of luck.
I launched a new site last week (http://www.dialshield.com). Nobody's using it yet; oh well. Nothing scary about that.
There's a lot of pressure to succeed, that you feel before launch, but what I found useful is to look at what exactly do you mean by "launch". I discovered (more like realised) that launch can mean "opening up your site to the public", which I did. But then it struck me that even though it is available, you are never really launched until you start to market the thing. Why? because - and here's the crucial bit - nobody knows it's there!
So I just opened up the project, and guess what, all the fears went away. I'm not really sure why, but I think it's because if someone does stumble upon it it no longer matterswhat they think because I haven't formally started the promotion effort. Sure if they give me feedback that's all good, but that's something else.
Now I think I understand the sentiment about iteration to make improvements and failing fast that were not clear to me before I opened it to the public.
>1. Fear of not having thought of ever legal angle.
You pay your lawyer to figure that out. If you get a C&D figure out then what your solution is, don't pre-optimize.
>2. Fear of no one using my website. And then someone else coming along and beating me in this area and making me look stupid and like Friendster.
Then you just have to advertise. Or, you'll realize you designed this in a bubble and you never had any users to begin with. At that point you've learned something.
> 3. Fear of the product not being polished enough.
Or it's so shiny right now that the glare is pretty bad. That's why it's called a minimum viable product. If you put another 100 hours into polish, why does that even matter if you end up iterating and tossing the existing UI. Or you could have used those 100 hours to make the awesome new feature that all your users are clamoring for.
> 4. Fear of rejection from lots of people at first look which leads to people never coming back to the site.
A/B testing. You didn't design this in a bubble, right? There's obviously some value that you're looking for. And if those people bounce, don't spend too much effort because they're not your target customer. There's an argument for pushing higher conversions on a limited market segment rather than trying to convert a lower percentage of all visitors.
> 5. Fear of knowing that there are unknown unknowns which will come at time of launch and bite me in the behind.
Learning opportunity! If they're unknown what are you afraid of? You don't know it, so how can you think of it to be afraid of it?
> 6. A hacker or spammer will take down my site.
Backups solve that one. Or you can get something like CodeGuard, which monitors your site for code modifications.
> 7. Fear of the fact that I havent thought of every possible outcome.
Why do you need an exhaustive list? Have you at least thought of the most likely scenarios? If something comes out of the blue it's because of your #5, and you can't ever predict for something that you don't know is coming. But if you have the most likely scenarios covered you can plan for how to work with those results.
2. Fear of no one using my website. And then someone else coming along and beating me in this area and making me look stupid and like Friendster. > if nobody uses your service and someone comes along and does it better than no one will ever know you tried it first.
3. Fear of the product not being polished enough. > If you are passionate it will never be polished enough. Just make sure it doesn't break if 10 users hit it up at the same time.
4. Fear of rejection from lots of people at first look which leads to people never coming back to the site. > You can't please everyone. Find and target your core audience.
5. Fear of knowing that there are unknown unknowns which will come at time of launch and bite me in the behind. > This fear is just a part of launching something new.
6. A hacker or spammer will take down my site. >if you're site isn't known this probably won't happen.
7. Fear of the fact that I havent thought of every possible outcome. > its impossible to know every outcome. You will learn as you go.
NO MATTER WHAT, ITS ALL ABOUT LEARNING. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE. GOOD LUCK.