Ask HN: Science fiction movies that are appropriate for 12 year olds?

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So, my older son is almost 12, and while he reads a good amount of science fiction (Three-Body Problem, Asimov, Project Hail Mary etc.) - he does not enjoy Science Fiction movies as much.

He found 2001: space odyssey kind of slow and tedious, and I have not introduced him to The Matrix etc., as I think it has some strong adult language and themes.

However, I would like him to be introduced to a world of movies beyond Star Wars and the Marvel Universe. What are some well-made science fiction movies appropriate for 12-year-olds?

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Enders Game might fit the bill
Best to read the book before watching the film.
The Martian, Men in Back, Jurassic Park, Stargate, Minority Report
Minority Report is 15+ in some places, the climactic “crime” deals with some pretty heavy themes as I recall
It's rated PG-13...
He said in some places. Countries have different rating systems and PG-13 doesn't exist in many.
Blade Runner
even though i'm a massive blade runner fan, it is most certainly not appropriate for kids whatsoever
Huh, I guess there are certain aspects of it that may be too edgy for a 12 year old. I had first seen by the time I was 12 or 13, and it left me with a lot to think about in a good way. Watching Blade Runner with a parent who can talk through the themes could be a wonderful activity for a twelve year old. The Final Cut, of course.
It's fine for kids. What is wrong with people?
Also

* Event Horizon * Terminator 1 & 2

Event horizon and terminator 1 are more horror than sci fi
Umm,if you're looking for something a 12 year old would find non tedious, maybe not bladerunner.

Edit: and to be clear i say that as someone who loves bladerunner. But its a very artsy movie, and it would take a really dedicated 12 year old to appreciate. Not to mention if you think the matrix is not age appropriate...

Maybe something less "other worlds"?

These should all be suited to a 12 years old, though of course it is up to you:

Back to the future (1, 2 and 3), Time after Time (1979), Gattaca

Can't speak to movies but at this age I loved Star Trek Voyager. Lots of episodic episodes facing real issues/moral decisions.. insightful.
You could probably make this case for Star Trek: The Next Generation, Deep Space Nine, and Enterprise as well. TNG and Voyager probably fall closer into the "highly-episodic" category, while DS9 and Enterprise tend to be structured around larger ongoing plot lines. I think they all have the same kind of merit as Voyager with regards to discussions about issues and moral decisions.

Depending on the 11-year-old, you might be able to make a case for Seth Macfarlane's The Orville, which can be a bit more hit-and-miss, but does have some truly excellent episodes, particularly in Season 3.

The newer Star Trek series coming out are probably too gritty if the parent is worried about age-appropriateness (I believe Picard has a TV-MA rating?) and unless you really like The Original Series, it's pretty noticeably a product of its age and I personally had trouble staying engaged by it when I was that age.

Start Trek Prodigy is aimed at kids and not bad either.
I actually find it very interesting as an adult. It's obviously aimed at kids but the story is not bad considering other current star trek series (discovery in particular)
Contact (1997) is one of my favorite films of all time. I watched it as a teenager for the first time, so that would be my recommendation.
This is one where Sagan’s book has the opposite conclusion.

In the book a team of international people are selected to go (rather than just one) and it ends with them doing science to gather evidence to prove their story (whereas the movie ends with an emotional speech about accepting her story “on faith”)

> If people continue to abuse these terms, they are watering down important terms for something that is really, really harmful.

The book has a lot of characters with weak connections together. The movie has fewer characters, more strongly connected. I think it's one of the few cases where the movie is better than the book—they're still both excellent, however.

Interstellar is rated 12, and I think it’s enjoyable regardless of how much of the science you understand
My 9yo has seen Interstellar 4 times and if asked will tell you it’s his favorite movie before you can finish the question. Strong recommend if OP’s kid hasn’t seen it yet.
The recent Dune movie is excellent and is rated PG-13. Same with Gattaca.
E.T., Flight of the navigator, Ender's game,
In its defense, I saw The Matrix at 12 or 13 and adored it because I felt like it was something more serious—-that I could appreciate it was a sign I was maturing, and I was grateful for that

Of course all kids are different. I always loved the Back to The Future movies from a young age. Moon is also harder fare while being less violent than The Matrix.

You might also enjoy watching the modern Doctor Who together? Or Star Trek?

As for more books, maybe introduce him to Hitchhikers Guide?

Arrival - best science fiction movie in recent memory (maybe ever?)

Ex Machina - also great.

Her - different style, but still very good (also with recent LLM developments maybe closer than we think).

The Martian (not as good, but entertaining)

Also I know parents have their preferences, but 12 seems old enough for any of this (if they’re reading Asimov)

I was disappointed in interstellar (but it is a beautiful movie) just dumb in a lot of ways and the “but what above love” subplot really annoyed me.

I’d give gravity an honorable mention. The director’s other movie Children of Men is one of my favorites but doesn’t really qualify as scifi.

For shows, the expanse is probably the best recent thing.

I’m not sure if Super8 qualifies, but I think that’s a generally underrated movie.

Arrival and Children of men are also both in the rare category where the film is better than the source material.

I also forgot about district 9 which I haven’t seen in years, but remember being good.

Not sure about Ex Machina for a 12 y/o:

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0470752/parentalguide

I also seem to recall that Her was thematically aimed at adults.

Wasn’t there any entire scene where he jerks off while she talks dirty to him? Maybe I’m misremembering or its another movie.
I was confused about the movie you were talking about - in “her” yeah there’s this scene, but the screen is black (and it’s more uncomfortable than anything else).

Parent can always watch first. 12yo is middle school right? 8th grade? I doubt this would be a 12yr olds first exposure to this kind of thing (and the context of the movie’s story is not a bad place for it).

Rereading the OPs request they mention “adult language” in the matrix so you’re probably right that my recs won’t be a good fit.

I think that if OP finds The Matrix too adult, Ex Machina is even less appropriate.

Her is a good recommendation but I struggle to imagine a 12 year old identifying well with alienated-middle-aged-man-malaise ;) (although I loved Lost in Translation at 14 or so)

Arrival is a great recommendation. I had some quibbles with its science, but it’s good Sci Fi. Then he can introduce him to Ted Chiang’s other writing

Ex Machina has some nudity, but less gun violence? It’s a lot more idea driven than action/violence driven (matrix). And the themes are different. Depends on what people culturally mean as adult I suppose.
Its been a while, but isn't the main theme sexual slavery? I could understand why people consider that adult.
Not really? Main theme is a general intelligence that’s not aligned with you may trick or deceive you.
I admittedly don't have kids, but media is so saturated and oversexualized that I personally feel that thought-provoking fiction that dissects and critiques urges is possible and good to explore at some point, in safe company, ammended with brief discussion. I'm certainly thankful I got offered these conversations.

That said, Ex Machina might be a little intense in that regard, even though I seem to remember that the explicity is mostly some nudity. It's a great movie, but probably not the first or fifth I would show a 12-year-old with the above discursive parameters included. The themes of corruption and "fucking around and finding out" are so heavy that you don't want to just leave a child with it.

It could be your tenth pick, though, or perhaps something for 6-18 months on of successfully watching and discussing movies and their depiction of life in an open way.

Ex Machina is rated R. It's a great movie but the language, nudity, and sexual content might not be appropriate for a 12 year old.
Your 12yo will look at Asian chicks a lot differently after Ex Machina.
Ghost in the Shell, Sunshine, Children of Men, 12 Monkeys, Edge of Tomorrow, Moon

The Expanse show/books are great

I’m waiting til 13 for Akira

Mine is 11 and matrix, terminator, back to the future, arrival were all too slow. He liked the Jurassic Park books but the movie was “too hokey.”

GitS for 11 y/o?

A bit too early, IMO, a not because Major's tits, but because besides a nice artwork it would be a dull, slow, non-sensical film with 99% of the plot over the head because 11 y/o doesn't know yet and doesn't know how to process that.

But while we are here, I would advise Violet Evergarden then, it's rough sometimes, but for a kid who already seen GitS I doubt it would be a problem. It's very beautiful both visually and story wise. And watch past the credits, ffs.

Ghostbusters, Back to the Future
Wall-E

Children of Men

Planet of the Apes

> He found 2001: space odyssey kind of slow and tedious

So do most adults. That and bladerunner are probably the two slowest sci fi movies in the canon (i love them, but they are high effort watches). Maybe literally anything else.

That said, i'd suggest trying to find out what aspect of the books he reads that he likes and go from there. We all read books for different things, and it helps to know what parts the kid likes.

Maybe the expanse tv show is a safe bet (i thought it was better than the books, but that is just me)

If he really likes the unitended technical consequences aspect of asimov, primer might be good, although the plot is very complicated. Predestination is also good.

> That and bladerunner are probably the two slowest sci fi movies in the canon

Silent Running: hold my beer.

(I say this with love for Silent Running and Blade Runner. I find 2001 to be the hardest one to watch.)

A lot of recency bias in the suggestions. Here's some which are older or more obscure that I enjoyed and that I wouldn't have minded showing my kids at 12.

Gattaca, Moon, Gravity, Contact, Space Camp, Andromeda Strain, the original Westworld (1973), the first two Star Trek movies, the STTNG TV series, Another Earth (2011, PG-13), The Man from Earth, Fantastic Voyage, War of the Worlds (1953), The Day the Earth Stood Still, Close Encounters of the Third Kind.

Demolition Man is foundational to growing up and having good taste in movies

See also: Star Trek the next generation (series)

They showed is Gattaca in school around that age, for some reason.
While it isn't sci-fi, it'd probably be right up their alley: October Sky.
Every kid is different and every parent is different.

At 12, I found most horror movies silly or disgusting rather than horrifying. But ALIEN and ALIENS are both great. A few scenes from THE TERMINATOR were disturbing, but it's a good story and TERMINATOR 2 is very good. PREDATOR wasn't for me at 12, but certainly was at 14.

THE TRUMAN SHOW, THE MARTIAN, BILL AND TED'S EXCELLENT ADVENTURE, THE INVENTION OF LYING are all well-made, entertaining, and should be thought-provoking.

Free Guy, story line is similar to Matrix, however it is a much better execution, plus it is a kids-friendly movie (no bad words, depressing topic, etc)
Free Guy might work, but I would consider just saving the whole simulation concept for whenever he is old enough for The Matrix, or other AI movies such as Her and Blade Runner. Free Guy is quite lazy with the Hollywood tropes. Lazy might be fine when he hasn't seen that many movies yet, but still I would prioritize watching something "better" (many other good suggestions here).