Holy shit, my co-founder is diagnosed with 'raging ADHD'

4 points by smileyao ↗ HN
It all began at an AI hackathon in the foggy wonderland of San Francisco. There I was, clutching my laptop like a lifeline, surrounded by the techiest bros, and then I met my co-founder. We were kindredspirits, united by a shared vision of conquering the consumer wellness space with our AI motivational speech app.

In those initial moments, I thought I’d hit the jackpot. My co-founder was like a human energy drink, and I was riding that wave of optimism. It felt like I had found the secret sauce to perpetual motivation.

But, here’s the proverbial twist in the plot — that endless enthusiasm? Well, it started to feel like I was working with a human version of ChatGPT with a maxed-out temperature that doesn’t know how to stop.

He could not stop talking. He could not stop thinking. He could not stop coming up with new ideas. He could not get shit done.

For our motivation speech app, he kept coming up with new ideas for new features. He kept coming up with new ideas for the UI. He kept coming up with new ideas for how we could monetize it. He kept coming up with new ideas for how we could market it when the app was basically an input field and a submit button that, upon click, set off an equal amount of bugs as my co-founder’s ideas.

Ideas are vital to a startup, but they’re also a dime a dozen. The real work is in the execution. And that’s where my co-founder’s brain started to become a problem. He’d get distracted by the next shiny object, and I’d be left to pick up the pieces. I’d have to remind him of the tasks he’d committed to. I’d have to keep him on track. I’d have to be the one to say no to his new ideas.

It was exhausting. I felt like I was the parent of a toddler.

Working with my co-founder was like being strapped to a rocket ship that continually veered off course. It was thrilling and terrifying.

It all made sense when his doctor pronounced him with “raging ADHD”. It was a relief to finally have a name for it, but we were not progressing with our startups, even though he was still hyped up daily.

We realized that we were just building a “wow” product that doesn’t actually solve any problem, we had to pivot.

We began focusing not on the average consumer, but on the unique breed of humans like my co-founder — those blessed with the raging ADHD that leads to a tornado of ideas.

Doubling down on helping ADHD people focus was probably the best decision we made. My co-founder announced this new journey on LinkedIn and found himself overbooked with people who resonate.

Clearly, this was an acute problem.

We started researching the market. And holy shit, there’re ZERO productivity tools tailored for ADHDers.

Literally every productivity tool out there was designed to decrease your productivity. The cluttered UI with bullshit features shouted B2B, not B2ADHD.

A Google search for ADHD productivity tools gives you a bunch of “5 best…” or “top 10…” low-effort articles that recommend solutions that were repeatedly marked as “doesn’t work” on r/ADHD.

We conducted many user interviews to find that many of them gamified Excel or physical paper as alternatives. In 2023!

That’s how our product, Complish, was born. We innovated the interface from scratch.

We want our users to focus on one task at a time and feel rewarded when completing a task.

We hide away all unnecessary information and only show the task at hand. We also use heavy animation to trigger that dopamine hit for ADHDers.

It’s tailored for the dreamers, the innovators, and yes, the slightly chaotic minds that see a world full of possibilities. Our goal is to harness that energy, help them focus, and guide them towards accomplishing their goals.

Ok, if you have ADHD and want to get things done, just try it out. Here’s the link: https://complish.ai

If you are still reading, join our Discord, where you can make an actual impact to the world by helping us bring focus to ADHDers. https://discord.gg/jSwQhAccCc

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Just a starting point. Adhd is incredibly well treated with meds. Better than any other psychological disorder because it is a brains structure and chemistry issue.

Get diagnosed. Get medications. You might find that you're working with a completely different person when that is resolved.

Meanwhile you kinda need to create more accountability for the. Have them send you reports daily or twice a day on work accomplished. Even hourly if needed. You don't even have to read them. The goal is for him to feel accountable and use that as his external motivation tool. Have him write more documentation and agree ahead of time that you set the priority.

There's a lot. Much more than will fit in this post. But a lot of it is about scaffolding his work experience to force him into a focused mental state. Do not judge him yb lines of code, only by results and consistency. And absolutely call him out to remind him.

Also tell him all this. But remember adhd people have trouble connecting knowledge and action so you'll have to remind him that this convo happened all the time which will snap him back into understanding.

ROFL: You can tell where my ADHD lies. I got about 50% of the way through thinking you were complaining about a co-founder looking for advice.

I am going to leave my reply up rather than deleting. And just to note, my ONLY productivity tool that has ever been effective is a piece of paper in front of me right by my keyboard that I can't not look at containing my notes / checklist of things I am currently working on, ordered by priority.

Definitely re-title it to "Show HN:"

Thanks! I'm still new to HN. Ya we aim to replace the piece of paper in front of you.
i get it, but the paper has a lack of friction and always in my face and I can't make it not in my face was the cause of success. (okay i can put the notebook away, but i know that works against myself so that never happens). Literally right now the notebook is below my keyboard so every time I look down I can see the list.
Ya, with ADHD its crazy how easily things are forgotten if its not in front of you
>ROFL: You can tell where my ADHD lies. I got about 50% of the way through thinking you were complaining about a co-founder looking for advice.

That was the angle they used to draw attention in, it's obvious from the choice of title. Well, it worked on me too.

Would love to join the Discord but the link you shared and the link on your site are expired :)