Show HN: Restaurants in Peace – leave a remembrance for a closed restaurant (restaurants.rip)

181 points by gregsadetsky ↗ HN
Hey HN! I go a bit about the project on the about [0] page, but wanted to chime in here as well.

It’s been a project long in the making - it started in 2019, before everything shut down/changed. The list of closed restaurants I found - for New York only - was already really long. So now (that I have time to work on it at recurse.com) it really felt like I needed to do something about it.

When a restaurant (or any business) shows up on Google Maps as “permanently closed”, in that bright red font, there’s always a tiny bit of a pang of sadness. It’s definitely more than a pang when you look for a place you loved and expected to visit again.

The project’s “aesthetic” is inspired by early 2000s funeral homes’ websites. The combination of funeral + restaurant is what made it click for me. Maybe what we long for is a place to share our losses? Maybe.

Thanks for checking it out! :)

[0] https://restaurants.rip/about

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We need an internet archive but for Google Maps.
It would be cool to have a feature like that, similar to how you could see previous years in Street View. Closed restaurants are preserved on Yelp, maybe there might be a way to extract that somehow and put it on OpenStreetMaps…
OpenStreetMap is for currently existing features (or currently existing remains, ruins can be mapped). So if for example sign remains, it can be mapped. But once fully gone: it is not mappable in OSM.

See https://wiki.openstreetmap.org/wiki/Nonexistent_features

In addition we cannot import data from Google Maps or use Street View due to licencing terms.

https://www.openhistoricalmap.org/ collects also objects gone without any remains remaining visible. Not sure about their handling of licensing.

That’s really interesting to learn, thanks.

If it were up to me, I’d recommend keeping it with a flag that notes it as closed, rather than deleting it. (Just as you can mark a row in a database as deleted and not physically delete it). I know it’s not that simple. :)

I’ve seen cases on Google Maps where a previously bookmarked restaurant, after having closed, will completely disappear there. It used to be that bookmarks of closed places would still work for some time - you could still read the reviews and see the photos.

But now, I’m finding more and more of these bookmarks just pointing to a lat,lng point. True digital rot/loss. It’s really sad when that happens - that was one of the impetuses for creating this site.

As long as there are traces - it can be kept `disused:amenity=restaurant` rather than `amenity=restaurant` etc.

But once fully gone it should be removed - this way OSM data can be always verified/updated by visiting a given place, without being aware of now gone objects there. And keeps it objective - otherwise you would run into big discussion "where was this restaurant closed 20 years ago?"

Or "how this castle was structured in year 1450" where you often have multiple competing reconstructions.

I would love to see one where somebody has added a remembrance, but all the restaurants I click on are empty.
I’ll definitely add a list with the latest remembrances! Thanks for the suggestion.
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When a restaurant closes that is functionally identical to every other franchisee, like an Applebees, Olive Garden, Burger King, etc., it doesn't need a remembrance because you can just go to a different one. Like, if there are twelve identical clones of you when die, is it really an occasion for mourning?
Yeah that’s an interesting point.

Although I see what you mean, I imagine that any particular Burger King etc could still have felt “significant” - imagine someone who stopped there regularly, or had memories of going there with a relative. Or the people who worked there for a year or 20.

I definitely remember a specific McDonald’s to which my mom often brought me as a child. I remember what seat we’d always pick. So… it’s meaningful..! :) If that McD closed, I’d definitely feel something.

Even chain restaurants can be special to people. Maybe it’s the McDonald’s across the street from school where everyone hung out after class, or the Denny’s that was the only place open at 2 AM in college. Maybe you met your first love at that corner Starbucks, or celebrated a business deal at that Applebees next to the hotel on a work trip.

There’s plenty of ways that people and events can make an otherwise unremarkable place memorable.

I have some nostalgia for the fast food chain place I worked at as a kid, ages ago. Same building, same rough layout, though everything else is different. I don't get the same vibe around other existing locations of the same chain.
I know of a small single-state chain of pizza restaurants with unique whole wheat crust unlike any other I’ve had, and I’ve looked. I’ve tried to recreate it at home, haven’t gotten terribly close. The chain only lasted about 15 years. I don’t know of any place that makes a substitute for what they made.

I do know a place that makes pizza pretty close to an early 90s Pizza Hut pie. It’s like $20+ a pizza, because that’s what early 90s Pizza Hut would cost if they hadn’t been cutting quality to keep the the price relatively stable, for the last two-plus decades. So that’s nice.

Too bad they don't have Toronto listed. There was a place called Il Gato Nero on College St that had been in a couple locations in the area for about 50 years. The family has a new and different location in Etobicoke, but I spent probably 20 years drinking coffee at its College bars and they were an anchor for the street and neighbourhood.

If you were from downtown, it was where a lot of our stories and memories happened. You knew legends about people who you saw there but might not have talked to much. I left the city shortly after it closed because there wasn't anything to replace the life it made possible, where you could spend a saturday morning with a newspaper at the bar that served real food and make small talk with strangers. You might learn their names and what they did after a decade of seeing them, but it didn't matter. I still pop into the new place once in a while to pick up the coffee that is like nowhere else and it's worth the trip, but the downtown chapter is closed.

Same with La Hacienda on Queen St. Those two spots were landmarks of the city and its culture, and when they went, they took a lot of the coherence of the stories of people who grew up in them with them. Brunch tables full of punks, goths, and rockers wearing last nights makeup at La Hacienda usually with some awful local hardcore blaring over the speakers and farcically hostile service were what defined Queen st. People there were legends too. You'd see them and hear stories about them even if you'd never been introduced, and everyone would always talk about how they knew each other when.

Pandemic policies killed those places and also destroyed the culture of the city, so I left. I'm sure new people will make new memories, but it takes generations to make anything like that again.

Thanks for all of this! I’ll definitely be adding more cities. I miss a lot of places in Montreal as well.
Awesome stories and writing that gave me intense second-hand nostalgia if that makes sense. I'm always pleasantly surprised to read about places I'm familiar with on HN. Thank you for sharing.

If you don't mind my asking, where did you move to?

Thanks! I went rural, but still southwestern Ontario, looking at going out west or just leaving Canada altogether next.
If I had a loonie for the number of times I’ve seen Canadians say that… I still couldn’t afford a house here.
It's not just early 2000s aesthetics (I wouldn't know specifically about funeral homes, I didn't visit those pages then, nor do I now, it's the one line of business when I still find out I need to go directly or by word-of-mouth and then just physically go there :) ), it seems the site has no trackers, no anti-social media badges, etc.

I love it, thanks for sharing!

It reminded me of Geocities, just a hobby site with no intentions other than being a hobby site. I hope you can maintain this one for a long time, and doing so gives you joy!

This is funny, nice.

Have been into Gordon Ramsay and Kitchen Nightmares lately, most of the restaurants featured are now closed. That might be a fun list of restaurants to celebrate.

The restaurant model has such incredibly high turnover and failure rate.

We think we want things to go back to the way they were, but really we just want to be young again.

To be more constructive, would be cool to tie in some connection to the present. For example, ad model for the new restaurant that is there now.

I've seen restaurants with great food close because of terrible business sense, and I've also seen a few closings recently of long-standing places where the owners wanted to retire and couldn't find anyone they'd trust that would take over. COVID amplified these effects for a time too.

I'm sure a higher fraction of closing restaurants are mid (or worse), but by raw numbers there are many places legitimately worth memorializing. Associated personal memories are a thing of course, but there are multiple closed spots that I feel were inherently very good and have not properly been replaced in my area.

I'm confused by the cities. Most of the restaurants under San Jose weren't in San Jose. And many of those were in San Francisco. But there's a San Francisco section.
Sorry, you're right! My geo math is a bit wrong, especially for cities that are nearby i.e. SF and San Jose (vs New York)

I'll definitely investigate.

Would be nice to list college campuses. At NJIT there were a few food trucks. The best one in my opinion was a blueish truck with an old lady on the side. Had amazing food and great prices. The guy who ran the truck also loved to talk to people. He was going through a rough patch and mentioned that he was loosing money. Didn't want to raise prices but it was becoming too expensive to run. Closed after my freshman year.
NJIT had some cool grease trucks. I remember going there for a gaming minicon once and the lunch was much better than anything I could have expected. I went to MSU, so I wasn't as close to it as some; but I remember the food.
(Made a HN account just for this) I recall two food trucks, either the Sahara or the Taj Mahal. Whichever one it was with the old lady with the pictures of her and happy students plastered on the truck. Their chicken over rice was a healthy portion for 11 bucks IIRC, and one line of that hot sauce would clear out your sinuses. Sad to hear that one had closed up, probably due to the campus being mostly closed during the pandemic.
Forbes Island is on there. I miss that place so much. https://restaurants.rip/r/forbes-island-restaurant-pier-san-...

Bug report: I tried to submit a remembrance there but this page it sent me to returned a 404:

https://restaurants.rip/r/forbes-island-restaurant-pier-san-...

Update: I force refreshed the original page and submitted again and it worked.

Thanks, Simon! And apologies re: 404, I just switched around the POST url route (in the Django project) :-) probably just as you were submitting.
Tempting the demo gods are we :-)
RIP East Coast Grill & Border Cafe.
Suburban versions of restaurants in town are never really the same, but you might enjoy the Border Cafe in Burlington more than you expect.

I haven't found anything like the East Coast Grill, though.

Border Cafe was cheap, good and fun - perfect for a broke college student. I remember the two hour plus wait lists for tables way, way, back in the day. Friends and I would go to the book and record stores while waiting. It was a great way to spend an evening.

East Coast Grill is irreplaceable. Schlesinger's inventive mix of tropical flavors and and bold style made that restaurant a special treat at every visit. Whereas others would drag their parents to Henrietta's Table or the like, I directed all outside buyers of meals for me to ECG. I learned I loved fried plantains and anything marinaded in molasses&lime.

The Martini from Hell was undrinkable.

If you don't have Schlesinger's cookbooks, I would recommend them - they are excellent and straightforward to follow.

It would be interesting if you could list what the restaurant was replaced by.
Ain’t there no more.

Like a New Orleans section would say.

well, I wasn't expecting to see tailwind in the source... :)

Was going to say this looks like a perfect use case for Django and yep - you confirmed in the comments - is Django :)

That takes me back: No Name in Boston. Right by the shipyard. Navy ppl would fly in allegedly to check on the schematics in person but really to get the chowder and fried mixed seafood platter there.
Cho’s Mandarin Dim Sum, California ave, Palo Alto (briefly moved to Los Altos before Cho retired). Open to suggestions for a replacement within 50 miles.
And now that I’m hungry and fantasizing, Flints BBQ on Shattuck in Oakland. Ribs in peace.
And “Toms” - The Little Garden on El Camino in Mountain View with the wall of Sun Microsystems business cards. Some folks (no doubt still around on HN) started an ISP in the Bay Area named after it.
Aux Derniers Humaines in Montreal, what a fabulous place that was, best omelettes on earth.
Cool website. Reminds me a lot of the early golden years of the internet
Beautiful project, thanks for sharing.

How are you liking Recurse?

(Also I didn’t see Trouble in the SF list, in case you’re looking for places to add.)

Thank you!

Recurse is amazing. Truly an amazing gathering of accomplished, interesting and curious folks. It’s an amazing community and setting - if you can swing the 6 or 12 weeks, and especially if you can come to the physical space in downtown Brooklyn, I would very much recommend it.

Lots of Recursers end up on the HN homepage these days - from https://jvns.ca to https://jakelazaroff.com ‘s series on CRDTs. I think there’s a connection between the Recurse and HN communities, and an appreciation of what Recursers tend to gravite towards (personal projects that are meaningful to its creators, and are typically about explaining, exploring or building something new).

Feel free to email me to talk more about it.

As for Trouble, thanks for the suggestion! I’ll be adding it, on top of all of the other places that people have been mentioning.

Really good idea

It would be nice if people could add restaurants, I guess you are worried that that would require too much moderation?

"Really good idea" - this reminds me of the south park episode where when the parents list to the children's music they hear poop sounds on top of the track and Randy says he really likes it.
No for sure, that’s a very necessary feature. I’ll be adding it today.

For now, you can email info@restaurants.rip

Thanks a lot!

Ah, to eat at Dottie’s in SF again, on Market. Absolute best breakfast.