I think it does. And even gives some concrete examples.
> you're just paying attention to what the other person is telling you they need right now, and what kind of conversation they want to have.
You argue that we should ask more "deep" questions. How come?
> Deep questions ask someone about their values, beliefs or experiences. When we talk about those things, we talk about who we really are. And they're really easy questions to ask, right? If you've met someone who's a doctor, you could ask: "What made you decide to go to medical school?" Or "what do you love about practising medicine?" Those are both deep questions, because they invite the other person to say something real and meaningful about themselves. And they make it easy for us to reciprocate to tell them why we decided to do our job.
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[ 2.5 ms ] story [ 16.3 ms ] thread> you're just paying attention to what the other person is telling you they need right now, and what kind of conversation they want to have. You argue that we should ask more "deep" questions. How come?
> Deep questions ask someone about their values, beliefs or experiences. When we talk about those things, we talk about who we really are. And they're really easy questions to ask, right? If you've met someone who's a doctor, you could ask: "What made you decide to go to medical school?" Or "what do you love about practising medicine?" Those are both deep questions, because they invite the other person to say something real and meaningful about themselves. And they make it easy for us to reciprocate to tell them why we decided to do our job.