Ask HN: Practical Tips to Stay Productive?

Todo lists. Say what you want done today, tomorrow, etc. If you miss it, do it the next day as well as what you planned.

/etc/hosts blocking reddit, twitter, hn, etc. The DNS cache means there's a delay before unblocking works, too.

Reducing compile times and other waits that trigger procrastination.

If your phone is the issue, set alarms to say "get off", maybe mess with screen time features, etc.

I used to have the same problem as you when I'd get home from school/sixth form (mine had uniform). I found immediately changing from school uniform to casual clothes helped me code switch.

Oh, and merry Christmas!

I’ve concluded that the culture we’ve built for ourselves, and the tech that permeates it, prevent human flourishing. So it should be no surprise that many of us struggle with what you’ve described. So I rely less on discipline and more on controlling my environment. I strive to make helpful activities the easiest thing to do, and unhelpful things the most difficult. I use MacBooks and iPhones and they have Screen Time where I can lock down anything I want and give the password to my partner to protect.

Below are two resources that have greatly influenced my opinion, the first is a lengthy podcast episode about dopamine, the second is a book about reversing “downward spirals”, specifically focused on depression but it applies to anyone. There’s a workbook that I highly recommend if you want high focus on application and less on the neuroscience

https://www.hubermanlab.com/episode/controlling-your-dopamin...

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/21413760-the-upward-spir...

I slowly deleted all social media apps from my phone. Started with Facebook/Insta (many years ago) Twitter/X (when Elon bought it) and TikTok (around the time election campaigns started).

It is absolutely remarkable how much of a positive impact this has had not only on my productivity but general well-being

It may or may not be pseudoscience, but I’ve noticed brain.fm really helps me stay focused.

I’ve been working on a puzzle game pretty consistently while using it.

Perhaps you really do need that me-time? I myself try to replace endless scrolling with reading (fiction) books. This way I get rest and don’t feel guilty about it.

Surprisingly - Be kind to yourself.

It’s becoming the far more important lesson I have to apply, for me to actually be productive.

I’m incredibly focused when it comes to things I’m interested in.

I’m incredibly dumb when I’m forcing myself to do something.

Especially when I’m ignoring the reasons I’m not doing it already.

Don’t make todo lists, use your calendar to plan / time block when you’ll do things and try to stick to it.

Honestly if you are struggling to work on your side projects you are most probably doing just fine in your life and you don't really want/need them.

In this case why force it?

If your spare time projects don't feel important, that means they aren't. So ignore them!

Consider deactivating or taking a break from your social media accounts.

I've been trying out the Harvard Timebox thing, not for side project, but for keeping on top of work tasks. When I remember to fill it out in the morning it works really well. My issues is always setting goals, because really don't care enough about pretty much anything for goals to motivate me. I do know what I need to do in many cases, and writing the steps and tasks down and prioritising them seems to work really really well.

A few articles:

* https://archive.li/nenFp

* https://hbr.org/2018/12/how-timeboxing-works-and-why-it-will...

And here is a template here: https://www.docdroid.net/SYMuub7/timebox-template-pdf

On the less practical side: Some of us need peace and quite for a time to become creative. I find that this is increasingly difficult to find in a busy world/life. It's hard to tell other than they need to shut the fuck up for a few hours while your brain reset.

Cut down on drinking which results in better sleep. Wake up more refreshed and motivated to get stuff done. (Of course, it’s Christmas so you don’t need to start this tip today.)

Work on stuff you enjoy. The rest comes easy.

Yeah, coming from a 44-year old who lately realized hated most of his jobs or, more accurately, never loved a single one in his life.

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I've been enjoying using Theater Mode: Before getting started (morning, after lunch, after meeting), make sure you have used the bathroom, have a drink, maybe have a snack, turn off your electronics.

I suggest you learn about self conversation audits:

We all have a constant and ever present self conversation running in our heads. There is the issue with some people, their self conversation can become biased. That bias is reflected as exaggerating negatives, minimizing positives, and in general the downward spiraling a person's ability to both enjoy life and to see reality without bias. Often this is called "burnout". It's a subtle gentle progression that can require years, and due to his one might think it would also take years to dig oneself back out. Not so with this form of self deception...

Dr. Aaron Beck and Dr. David Burns introduced the concept of “cognitive distortions” - they identified various methods humans use to lie and deceive themselves in their self conversations.

Dr. Burns publishing of a book titled “Feeling Good” that kick started the entire Cognitive Therapy movement, which is the idea that one can talk themselves out of unhappiness with the right guidance.

It is all about learning how to identify self deception; once one learns how to be truthful in your own self conversation, the emotions and unrealistic expectations fall away leaving a more stable and logical individual.

Here’s a summary, but be careful searching this topic online as the “fraudster community” loves to prey on people seeking self help information. The essential mechanism is that deception, any deception, including self deception, requires itself to be hidden to work. If deception is known, it does not deceive. Dr. Aaron Beck and Dr. David Burns give us a checklist one can ask themselves simple questions that if the answer to any is "yes" then you've identified self deception and "poof" that specific deception no longer works. It's kind of freaky and amazing, how it really does work. Deception, including self deception is easily defeated by identifying it. Here's the forms of self deception:

Filtering. We take the negative details and magnify them while filtering out all positive aspects of a situation. For instance, a person may pick out a single, unpleasant detail and dwell on it exclusively so that their vision of reality becomes darkened or distorted.

Polarized Thinking (or “Black and White” Thinking). In polarized thinking, things are either “black-or-white.” We have to be perfect or we’re a failure — there is no middle ground. You place people or situations in “either/or” categories, with no shades of gray or allowing for the complexity of most people and situations. If your performance falls short of perfect, you see yourself as a total failure.

Overgeneralization. In this cognitive distortion, we come to a general conclusion based on a single incident or a single piece of evidence. If something bad happens only once, we expect it to happen over and over again. A person may see a single, unpleasant event as part of a never-ending pattern of defeat.

Jumping to Conclusions. Without individuals saying so, we know what they are feeling and why they act the way they do. In particular, we are able to determine how people are feeling toward us. For example, a person may conclude that someone is reacting negatively toward them but doesn’t actually bother to find out if they are correct. Another example is a person may anticipate that things will turn out badly, and will feel convinced that their prediction is already an established fact.

Catastrophizing. We expect disaster to strike, no matter what. This is also referred to as “magnifying or minimizing.” We hear about a problem and use what if questions (e.g., “What if tragedy strikes?” “What if it happens to me?”). For example, a person might exaggerate the importance of insignificant events (such as their mistake, or someone else’s achievement). Or they may inappropriately shrink the magnitude of significant events until they appear tiny (for example, a person’s own desirable qualities or someone else’s imperfections).

Personalization. Personaliz...

I've gotten a lot of value out of co-working. The simple act of being in a room or on a call with others who are focused on work, helps me to stay focused on work.

Rest.

Realize news/posts on websites and social media bring so little value it is the same as watching funny cat videos.

Try to recall how much you learned by scrolling through social media this month/year and how useful it was.

Maybe you need this, or maybe you will be fine with way less me-time. Only you know this and if you don't - you probably need to think more about your feelings, routines and goals. Or you probably should attend therapy to understand yourself better.

You could also try to find a hobby that would make you stop scrolling the web, just to break the existing pattern.

Either way, this is normal unless this procrastination ruins your life or makes you very unhappy long-term.

I've been working on a persistent solution for this for a few months now, which involves changing lifestyle habits. My programming and system administration is fully recreational but still requires disciplined focus.

The solution seems to be between strictness of discipline and what enables a creative joyful flow state of mind. Fundamentally I aim for a bedrock of supportive routines within which I can enable a creative flow state contrary to haphazardly shifting from one thing to another. To be driven by determination with focus at will rather than submission to the path of least resistance with hours wasted on amusement. Identify what gives long term reward. Then break away from all that is clearly not having long term reward. Exchange it for anything else that is productive, and like simply going for a walk or cleaning the room.

Key factors to solve are:

Easily resume a project and switch between different ones. A way to structure and manage projects.

Cultivate and further psychological and physical supporting focus at will.

Minimize work related concerns spilling over into spare time. I discipline to keep concerns within their respective time frames.

Reduce energy going to things not prioritized and spend that time on recovery and rest in a suitable form.

Make serious use of a calendar to structure at least the basic events. Do moderate physical exercise after work time. Take breaks from programming; breaks that don't involve the computer (for example go for a walk, house cleaning etc).

Finding the complete solution still is an ongoing project of mine. I basically I think it's about mapping out and solidifying a daily routine that is constantly being refined.

Don’t have kids.

There are many tips but people are different and different things work better for some than others.

Things that help me:

- todo lists

- breaking each task into smaller and smaller pieces until you get to such a small tiny first step that it feels embarrassing to procrastinate such a simple thing. Once you start going it is ofter easy to continue.

- set up your environment so that it is easier to get started

The hardest part of going to the gym is putting on the left sneaker. After that it’s down hill. Leave the shoes in the middle of the living room to motivate yourself.

Give yourself a daily list of goals to accomplish. It should be something that you know is achievable.

It’s very simple, but it’s not easy. But it will change your life.

1) Get rid of your TV.

2) Get rid of *all* social media, including LinkedIn and Reddit.

3) Get rid of your smart phone.

4) Block /blacklist all those sites on your PC/Laptop. Block the news sites too. Do it at a network level with something like NextDNS etc.

5) Go to work an hour or two earlier, and leave an hour or two earlier.

6) Make your side projects a different area/focus from your day job.

You will have so much free time if you do this. And you will live more thoughtfully. You will come back here in a months time asking how to fill your remaining free time.

This is what I have done. Got rid of TV 1 year ago, most social media 2 years ago (finally reddit too 4 months ago), and smartphone 2 months ago. It is all possible.

Life has drastically improved since