Ask HN: Wantrepreneur who's run out of energy/ideas. What now?

14 points by mmarian ↗ HN
I’ve been trying to launch startups on the side for the past 3 years, indie hacker style. Many evenings and weekends were burnt. Yet I gained very little traction, and made a big fat 0 dollars.

Having taken a break in December, I now find that I can’t get back into working on any ideas I have on my list. Mostly because I’m realizing that they don’t solve a pressing need.

I still want to start something of my own, but I don’t know what to do next. Here are some of the things I’ve tried in the past:

- Switched careers (from sales to dev) to better prepare myself for starting a tech business. Realized that tech is the easy part.

- Looked for business cofounders. Everyone who was open to partnering wasn’t willing to validate their ideas; they just wanted me to build the whole thing in one go.

- Joined a startup accelerator. Found it’s like playing the lottery.

So here I am, asking for advice :)

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Sometimes backing off and giving yourself even more of a break may be the best way to give good ideas a chance to hit.

Also maybe go along to local inventors' clubs, uni and business seminars, and other things that might set new thoughts running...

Stay receptive to interesting things, but try less hard for a while.

Makes sense. I'm going to 1-2 business/startup networking events a week in London, and have just scheduled one in the small city I live in, as I saw there weren't any. Hoping some people will join ^_^. Thanks!
I run the inventors' club in Kingston: come and join us next week if you can get to us. You can find us online.
Oh, will have a look! I live in Milton Keynes.
Look at the problems that people around you are having. Women especially (most software is written by men for men).

Try to solve a small problem, rather than trying to boil the ocean, it may lead on to other things.

I've been trying to do that. Well, except software for women, I'm a guy who's quite clueless in that area :)

I just can't find small problems that...

1. people are willing to pay for, and

2. I can reach out to said people and they're open to trying it out

For example - I was thinking of helping content creators with content repurposing. So I met up with a guy who runs a podcast, and I told him how I could build a tool that repurposes his podcast episodes to LinkedIn posts. He said it's an interesting idea, but not something that he'd want to try out anytime soon. He's got more important things to do, and it made perfect sense.

Yes! People have recommended me to read it.

I think I followed the approach the author recommended, unless I'm mistaken. I didn't build anything before I had that initial conversation with the potential customer. And the fact that he didn't say "yes please help me" made me realize the solution wouldn't be that useful.

In a way, I'm happy I realized it early on. It's just that I can't think of anything better at the moment ^_^

Been there, feel your pain on all these points. Realizing that your awesome thing isn't landing the same way with others is humbling. First thing is don't attach yourself worth to the idea or solution. Failing is just part of the process for the vast majority of us. We're still good people who are into continual growth.

As for the next part, learning and talking to others. Go learn about things that interest you, new technologies and tools, problems people have, the competitive landscape to find gaps. I spent most of '24 in this mode and have settled on ATProtocol as the area I'm now focusing in. There are vast and open green fields and the opportunity to reshape how humans use social media and interact with each other through it.

Yeah, social media distorts what it's actually like.

I'm struggling with having the patience to dive into a new technology. I just end up asking myself "what's the actual usefulness", and I can't find an answer that's convincing for me. That's how I missed the boat with AI. But then again, even now I struggle to find good use cases for it beyond the occasional search.

There is a lot of AI besides LLMs and generative models. I work with a company that uses AI models (largely classifiers) of many kinds to double check doctors. I consider their mission very meaningful work. Learn from places that favor long form content over the short form and short term that is pervasive in the modern media landscape
All advice you read before didn't help you to start a profitable company. Why would it be different now?
What an unkind and irrational put-down! Please don't do this to other people.

You need good ideas AND 'luck' amongst many other things to have an idea 'work'.

I guess that's the pessimistic view, which I do admittedly have often. The optimistic view is that it has helped me figure out what ideas are NOT profitable, and how to quickly figure that out.
Is my statement false and it internet advice did help you create a profitable company? If it's a fact then does it matter pessimistic/optimistic.

So, basically you're asking for advice how to find more unprofitable ideas if the evidence you have shows that it helps with only that.

Build something that there is already a market for but focus on a specific niche of customers and build it only for them. There are a lot of businesses that struggle to get software to work the way they need it to. For example, inventory tracking for flower shops.
Fully agree with what you said. The challenge is finding businesses that struggle so hard, and have an urgent need, such that they are willing to pay for a product with rough edges built by a rando dude. And for there to be enough revenue potential to sustain myself (I live in the UK).

Continuing on the example - a flower shop probably manages their inventory via spreadsheets. They're not happy with it, but I doubt they'll fork out $600/year for an inventory tracking app. And I think it'll be very hard for me to get in touch with flower shop owners to validate the idea - they live in a very different world to mine. So the only path to success is to publish an app on the Apple App Store and hope it takes off.

That's similar to what I ended up doing with the last startup project I had, unfortunately it didn't work out.

You said you worked sales right? In order to validate your idea you need to write a list of every flower shop in town and visit in person. 90% will be too busy but the remaining will drop priceless info.

Sounds like your main problem is not going after a specific problem that people have expressed, not that you think would work.

I've tried that. I had an idea for a process checklist for GitHub Actions pipelines. Came up with it after seeing people complain online, also had the issue myself. I reached out to everyone I could find who complained about it. The 30% who replied said that they wouldn't be interested in trying out a solution.

I've come to realize that just because people express problems, doesn't mean they'll do something about it. You need to find something where the pain is urgent, and unsurmountable. And that's very tricky.

You need to find hair on fire problems. The classic vitamin vs. pain killer. You need to be a pain killer.
I highly recommend the book "The Mom Test" for tips on how to speak to customers and what kind of information you can get.

Just a few of the things I learnt from that book:

Don't ask if people would use your product. It's too hypothetical and people are too nice. "Sure, I'd probably use it. Looks useful. Keep working on it!". Then you never hear from them again. If you really think they'd be interested, ask for money.

Don't ask about people's problems in an abstract way. "Tell me about your business problems" is just too vague and wishy-washy. Ask about more specific things. Example: "You're having issues with double booking? Tell me about the last time it happened." Asking about the most recent time something happened is a great way to get concrete details.

Ask people how they have solved the problems or tried to solve the problem they talk about. "It was a major issue so we hired an extra member of staff to confirm all the stock lists". (Great, they're willing to spend real money on fixing this). "I searched around and tried out ABCSoft and XYZSoft but they were designed for a different kind of business and didn't really solve it for us" (pretty good, they're putting effort into finding solutions). "Oh, well, it's always been a big issue but we haven't tried to solve it yet" (Uh-oh, it's probably not really a big problem for them. It's not painful enough for them to try to solve).

>> You need to find something where the pain is urgent, and unsurmountable. And that's very tricky.

As you noted earlier, the tech is the easy part. As you note here, finding customers is the hard part.

Naturally doing the easy part first can often turn out yo be a waste of time.

You talked above about "your ideas". Don't start there. Start by walking around talking to people. Start in your local community. You're looking for pain, and a willingness to pay. Yes, it's the hard part. Yes it's work.

YC has listed some ideas: https://www.ycombinator.com/rfs
I feel the ideas there are more for entrepreneurs who want to rely on VC funding, rather than specific pain points that a solo founder could tackle on their own. I've seen what being VC-funded founder entails, and it's not for me.
Buy an existing business.

If you have any cash saved up, this would be a way to go because:

- cash flow - existing customer base to talk to - product - market fit has happened (hopefully)

You'll get a crash course in everything after the 0 to 1 phase of the business.

And you'll get some energy from talking to customers and building for them.

source: I'm doing that with https://www.fundedlist.com after many years of doing what you described.

Thanks, it's somewhat riskier than what I'd like at this point I'm afraid. I did something equivalent to that, and I told myself I'd find ways to avoid overextending financially.
Sell something online.

I have spent more than 20 years working on side hustles. I love tech and enjoyed building various prototypes and games. Building is easy part.

Never fully understood rest of the business, had no sales.

A friend who had done same thing, decided to stop doing that. Instead he started an e-commerce store. Focused on market research, marketing, etc. After his first store took off, he created more stores. He doesn’t care about what he sells, he just cares about revenue.

He is making enough to quit his EM job. He plans to keep adding new stores in his portfolio.

In other words, dropshipping?
In his case, he holds inventory for his successful stores. He is also big on branding. For example, one of his business is selling plants and the custom made boxes for shipping cost more than plants.

he did mention drop shipping to test out ideas but don’t think any of those businesses took off.

Good idea. I had thought about that in the past, but I was reluctant because there are few e-commerce products where I wish I could buy something better. I'm someone who thinks (too) hard before spending any money. I'll revisit that. Thanks!
Nobody is going to be able to give you any good advice since you don't tell people anything about yourself. What knowledge do you have? What resources do you have? What are your goals?

How can you have a sales career behind you and not been able to make any sales on your previous projects? It's not hard to make a business with good revenue. What's hard is making a decent profit from that.

Sure, I have knowledge about sales engineering, financial data, full-stack web development, and enterprise DevOps. Goal - run a bootstrapped business that's sufficiently profitable to sustain myself in the MCOL location I live.

Enterprise corporate sales is very different than startup sales. I had well-established products, and prospects were always interested in hearing about them.

Just to note, I did get some great advice from this post. Will probably add a comment to summarize everything after the discussion has died down.

All those things listed lack connection to the real world. You can use those skills in a corporate setting, working for somebody else. To be an entrepreneur your skills need to have some kind of connection to the real world. So what are your skills and your knowledge with real world connections?
Could you explain what your motivation is? Why do you want to start a business?

I think it isn't obvious why it should be a desirable thing to do.

I am genuinely interested to know your answer - because there's so much startup culture but it isn't clear to me what the drive is...

The usual trite reasons of money or independence are not compelling enough. I think most founders know the probability is failure and $0. Having clients or VCs mean independence is not much more than a trade worker.

It's the usual trite reasons of money and independence :) Sure, the probability is low, but so is the probability of me getting a great FAANG salary. I'm open to alternatives though!
I will attempt to answer what advice should I have given myself before I tried to be a founder.

Firstly, I wished I had spent more time understanding my motivation. What should we do once we win - isn't it the same question as before we try to found a business? I now have money and free time which are useful but not very satisfying. Know who you are, before wasting your irreplaceable years.

I suspect that the desire to start a business is really just a desire for social status. We see Gates/Bezos/Musk and we want to copy that. Engineers evade explicitly social status jobs (politicians or corporate). The anti-management talk of engineers is incompatible with running a business. Strangely it is socially acceptable and internally justified for engineers to do a startup. Hard to grok the contradictions. And geeks have their own status ladders (which outgroup laughs at).

I suspect my internal social status competition is actually against my close group of buddies from school (even though we have very different careers). People want what their peers want. https://thementalmodels.substack.com/p/mimetic-desire-why-pe... Following our own desires is hard because going against our norms is hard. Even knowing ourselves is difficult.

#1: if you want status then admit it to yourself and optimise for that. Choose your status ladders carefully and then commit to playing for them. Some status games are for losers. Playing some status games has high personal costs. Most status games are lose/lose if winning requires luck or you lack resources/network. Understand what you want from status. I see guys that actually just want to screw and even the "winners" seem very unsatisfied.

#2: Money is a poor goal to aim for. If you really want money then make decisions that will gain money - and avoid diversions that don't. FAANG employee is sensible. Don't be a wantrepreneur - startups is foolish game because the modal result for is $0 (independent of how smart one is).

#3: we don't live in a capitalist society. People choose jobs that give them status and satisfaction and usually the pay is less important. In our society money is visible but the important payments are invisible.

I don't know how we learn what gives us satisfaction. Money is not actually satisfying (much beyond the low necessary amount). The only way I can think of discovering the unknown payoffs is to work in as wide a variety of jobs that you can possibly trial. The more random the choice the better. For example try working in education: maybe as a volunteer or IT helper or teacher aide. Maybe try some temp work. Offer to help acquaintances at work: and provide value to them. In theory we could ask people what drives them - in practice I notice that people's stated drives are not what I believe they actually are. We are monkeys and we don't know ourselves well. Experimentation seems the best way to sound our desires. I pay a lot of attention to my friends and acquittances that seem satisfied (from all walks of life). I'm not sure I can learn from them but I make a lot of effort to.

Background: I've received a minor prize in the founder's game (I now have passive income). My trick was to do software work with someone who is much more money focused within a self-funded business (VC in New Zealand is toxic).

Good luck and good skills.

Appreciate the detailed answer!

I highly doubt I'm doing this for status. Peers from my past sales life are probably laughing at me, flailing around with little to show. And I'm fine with that.

But I agree, I'm not doing this just for the money. Otherwise I'd probably be back in sales. It's the combination of money, and control over my life right here, right now. Not 20 years down the line, after working on something that I don't enjoy.

Anyway congrats on hitting your wealth goal! Money might not give you satisfaction right now, but I'm sure there are points in your life where you're glad to not be in need of it.

> I highly doubt I'm doing this for status

I mention status so much because my current learning goal is to better understand how we tick: why we chase certain goals. I do wonder if I've been countersignalling status for a while!

> back in sales

Ahh - I presumed you were a shape rotator (I skimmed your post) and answered as though you were an engineer, sorry. I respect sales as a career path (maybe not when I was younger).

> congrats on hitting your wealth goal!

I am not sure I hit it. Need 30x post-tax return (as per VC risk-reward for one investment) to justify time investment (2 years $0 income which is negative 2 years of wages). My invisibles (e.g. satisfaction) wasn't any better than working for someone else.

> I'm sure there are points in your life where you're glad to not be in need of [money].

More importantly is having time available to help friends and family.

I find that managing money is a job in itself and it has downsides. Either you tell people you have it (causes some downsides) or you need to be deceptive (uggh). I don't yet feel I have enough retirement funds that would keep me at job level income: so I'm not ready to donate a lot (which has other issues). A metaphor might be that having more food than you can eat is not that helpful.

Most people from developed nations are given similar amounts of time. As I age I dislike the exchange rate from time to money. I donate my time, but I value my time rediculously highly in dollars (and I try to balance saving money against saving time).

> - Joined a startup accelerator. Found it’s like playing the lottery.

Yeah - we learned a lot of negative lessons by being involved with an accelerator. Fortunately government funded and they didn't demand stock. Saw lots of incubees get screwed by bad decisions related to investment (own goals, and poor investor advice).

Sorry - another spiel!

Writing up the next steps for me:

- continue attending networking events

- start reading books on technical topics that I'm personally interested in

- look into e-commerce businesses

- write some blog posts about technical/business things I have strong opinions on

Appreciate all the comments!