Ask HN: How do you motivate your humans to stop AI-washing their emails?

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I see it more and more in email, Slack, text, etc: People too scared to share their own thoughts so they AI-wash it and send an exhausting page of "It's not X, it's Y!" slop instead.

I'm not the CEO, I can't order people to stop. The CEO does it too.

I try talking to people directly, but people get defensive and there's always the chance they didn't use AI. I need indirect means of socializing change.

Looking for anything I can use to socialize against AI-washing: Articles, memes, policies that other companies have successfully used- whatever.

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A noble but essentially Sisyphean goal, you might as well try to get people to stop playing with their phones.
I tried to write my first blog posts using AI. I created dozens of restrictions and rules so that it would produce human-like text, which I then edited. The text contained only my thoughts, but the AI formatted them. However, no matter how much I tried to prohibit constructions such as "It's not X, it's Y!", it still added them. I had to revise 10 drafts before I had the final version. When I stopped using AI for my texts, my productivity increased, and I can now complete an essay in 1-2 drafts, which is 5 times faster than when using AI.

This is strikingly different from development. In development, AI increases my productivity fivefold, but in texts, it slows me down.

I thought, maybe the problem is simply that I don't know how to write texts, but I do know how to develop? But the thing is, AI development uses standard code, with recognized patterns, techniques, and architecture. It does what (almost) the best programmer in their field would do. And its code can be checked with linters and tests. It's verifiable work.

But AI is not yet capable of writing text the way a living person does. Because text cannot be verified.

Verifiability is part of it, but I think the "semantic ablation" article on the front page really captures my problem with AI-washed writing: https://www.theregister.com/2026/02/16/semantic_ablation_ai_...

I think any use of AI "unrolls" the prompt into a longer but thinner form. This is true of code too I think, but it's still useful because so much of coding is boilerplate and methods that have been written a thousand times before. Great, give me the standard implementation, who cares.

But if you're doing hard algorithmic work and really trying to do novel "computer science", I suspect semantic ablation would take an unacceptable toll.

the important word is "scared".

if the incentive / whiff / hint from-the-top is "those not using AI are out"... there's no stopping that..

The last thing I want to do is have my emails glossed over with AI to make my boss think I'm MORE replaceable haha
You answered your own question. People are 'too scared' to share their thoughts so they share AIs instead. I suspect if you scared people about the use of AI, there may be an increase in usage.
Block *.ai at the router, and all major sites. Someone has probably made a comprehensive blocklist by now.
You’re describing a real coordination problem: over-polished, abstraction-heavy “AI voice” increases cognitive load and reduces signal. Since you don’t have positional authority—and leadership models the behavior—you need norm-shaping, not enforcement. Here are practical levers that work without calling anyone out:

1. Introduce a “Clarity Standard” (Not an Anti-AI Rule) Don’t frame it as anti-AI. Frame it as decision hygiene. Propose lightweight norms in a team doc or retro:

TL;DR (≤3 lines) required

One clear recommendation

Max 5 bullets

State assumptions explicitly

If AI-assisted, edit to your voice

This shifts evaluation from how it was written to how usable it is. Typical next step: Draft a 1-page “Decision Writing Guidelines” and float it as “Can we try this for a sprint?”

2. Seed a Meme That Rewards Brevity Social proof beats argument. Examples you can casually share in Slack:

“If it can’t fit in a screenshot, it’s not a Slack message.”

“Clarity > Fluency.”

“Strong opinions, lightly held. Weak opinions, heavily padded.”

Side-by-side: AI paragraph → Edited human version (cut by 60%)

You’re normalizing editing down, not calling out AI. Typical next step: Post a before/after edit of your own message and say: “Cut this from 300 → 90 words. Feels better.”

3. Cite Credible Writing Culture References Frame it as aligning with high-signal orgs:

High Output Management – Emphasizes crisp managerial communication.

The Pyramid Principle – Lead with the answer.

Amazon – Narrative memos, but tightly structured and decision-oriented.

Stripe – Known for clear internal writing culture.

Shopify – Publicly discussed AI use, but with expectations of accountability and ownership.

You’re not arguing against AI; you’re arguing for ownership and clarity. Typical next step: Share one short excerpt on “lead with the answer” and say: “Can we adopt this?”

4. Shift the Evaluation Criteria in Meetings When someone posts AI-washed text, respond with:

“What’s your recommendation?”

“If you had to bet your reputation, which option?”

“What decision are we making?”

This conditions brevity and personal ownership. Typical next step: Start consistently asking “What do you recommend?” in threads.

5. Propose an “AI Transparency Norm” (Soft) Not mandatory—just a norm:

“If you used AI, cool. But please edit for voice and add your take.”

This reframes AI as a drafting tool, not an authority. Typical next step: Add a line in your team doc: “AI is fine for drafting; final output should reflect your judgment.”

6. Run a Micro-Experiment Offer:

“For one sprint, can we try 5-bullet max updates?”

If productivity improves, the behavior self-reinforces.

Strategic Reality If the CEO models AI-washing, direct confrontation won’t work. Culture shifts via:

Incentives (brevity rewarded)

Norms (recommendations expected)

Modeling (you demonstrate signal-dense writing)

You don’t fight AI. You make verbosity socially expensive.

If helpful, I can draft:

A 1-page clarity guideline

A Slack post to introduce it

A short internal “writing quality” rubric

A meme template you can reuse

Which lever feels safest in your org right now?

If people are scared to share their thoughts, then that seems like the problem.

Also, how much of this communication is actually necessary? If someone doesn't care about an issue enough to write their own email, then why are they sending an email about it in the first place?

With slack and text, "Edit Message" exists. People need to get over their fear.

Email being a send once, what you said persists forever, is a little scarier. It'd be nice to have a messaging protocol used at work where a typo or wrong URL pasted isn't so consequential. I've been at this for 14 years now, and I still re-read emails I send to clients 10+ times to make sure I am not making even the most minor of mistakes.

Sometimes I ask in chats / emails etc. "are there any new proposals that I missed here, all I'm seeing is AI slop?".

I think it's totally legit to ask, and specify that you are looking for new insights, proposals, etc. and not regurgitated AI summaries.

Small nudges to steer company culture regarding AI use:

- signal disclosure as a norm: whenever you use AI, say “BTW I used AI to write this”, when you don’t use AI, say “No AI used in this document”

- add an email footer to your messages that states you do not use AI because [shameful reasons]

- normalize anti-AI language (slop, clanker, hallucination, boiling oceans)

- celebrate human craftsmanship (highlight/compliment well written documentation, reports, memos)

- share AI-fail memes

- gift anti-AI/pro-human stickers

- share news/analysis articles about the AI productivity myth [0], AI-user burnout [1], reverse centaur [2], AI capitalism [3]

[0] https://hbr.org/2025/09/ai-generated-workslop-is-destroying-... [1] https://hbr.org/2026/02/ai-doesnt-reduce-work-it-intensifies... [2] https://pluralistic.net/2025/12/05/pop-that-bubble/ [3] https://80000hours.org/problem-profiles/extreme-power-concen...

Put a culture of stopping work at 40 hours. Allow the work to be the work and stop deadlines.

Otherwise, people will take every time savings possible. If I'm using AI for anything, it's because it's important enough to someone else for me to do but not important enough to sacrifice my own time.

I don't think it's about people being scared, at least from what I've seen. It's about people being exhausted.

If people are limited in how much time they work, they'll use AI to try to get more work done in that time. You'd have to also limit how much work people are expected to do. Good luck advocating for that change in modern corporations.
If the AI does spelling and grammar fixups, I'll root for the AI.

When I was in corporate IT, I got way too much internal email that looked like it had been pecked out by an autistic second-grader, with random spelling, capitalization, and punctuation. Which wasn't as much of a problem as the chain-of-consciousness blather of jumbled words that often made no sense at all.

Some of those people were Ph.Ds in charge of multimillion-dollar subsidiaries and dozens or hundreds of employees, but they may have well have been trying to communicate by interpretive farting and tap-dancing.

I feel like this could have done without the ableist quip, however I also see this in my industry as well, especially among higher-ups. Funnily enough this was the topic of another discussion yesterday[0].

0: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47038125

Edit: Which I see was just shared by someone else here hours before me, so I guess I'm not all that safe from the brain rot myself haha.

I'm guilty of this, mostly for work, but it's a massive time saver for me and gets me out of my own head. I always proof read and modify them to get what I'm looking for as far as overall content, tone , and detail. Now that I'm thinking about it, I really don't do this at all for messaging people I actually want to talk to. I guess that says something...
Complain about long emails. Short is better. Everyone agrees.
To an extent, you can set boundaries. Boundaries are not for controlling others, but they can define what behaviour you accept. I don't accept apologies written by AI. I don't read AI-written content. I don't put my name on AI output. If you send an AI-generated wall of text my way, I will not acknowledge it.

Otherwise, have you tried politely calling people out on it? "Is this your writing?" "I'd prefer if you didn't make me read AI-generated text." Again, it's less about controlling their behaviour, but about making your boundary known.

Just be ready to accept that you are swimming against the current here. If people cared as much as you do, they would not use AI that way in the first place.

What worked for us: make brevity the default. We added a team norm: max 5 lines unless someone asks for detail, plus first line must be the ask/decision. AI fluff dropped fast because long vague messages stopped getting replies.