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Back in the late Vietnam (War) days, you might not score with the ladies by talking about your highly-paid job at a munitions company, or making Agent Orange.
And the leaders of those industries really weren't in the same league as many of today's top tech zillionaires, for public perception of being alpha sociopaths.
It's entirely reasonable for women (and men) to choose partners they want to be around. It's not about money, or career choices. It's about the fact that being around people who are diametrically opposed to your world view just isn't fun.
The problem is that 'tech bro' types want to date left-leaning, idealistic women rather than the much more suitable career-oriented, right-wing women who share their outlook. It's really hard to date people outside of your world view because they don't find you attractive.
You don't get to have all the money and status of a well-paying tech job, and also date people who don't find money and status attractive.
You're getting downvoted because of the asumption that left-leaning women are not career-oriented.
Everyone has skills & interests (tech, building things, sales, marketing, etc.) and everyone needs to survive (rent, mortage, food, etc.)..so why in the world would you assume that these things are only the domain of the right?
I wouldn't assume that. Left-leaning people want careers and a good quality of life of course, but generally ones that don't come at the cost of breaking down society or killing the planet. When I say 'career-oriented' I mean 'people who put their career first'. Other people want a career, but it's not necessarily what's driving their left decisions.
Tech bros who put their personal gain ahead of everything else (other people, society, privacy, the environment ,etc) need to realise that people who don't think that way won't be attracted to them, so they should look for partners who are. I've worked with plenty of tech bros who want all the money, status, and prospects of founding a unicorn, and who are happy to sacrifice all of society's good parts to get there under the guise of 'disrupting an industry', and yet have no clue why the cute hippy UX designer who goes on environmental protests at the weekend has zero interest in dating them. They think the money and wealth means people will overlook their lack of ethics, or even lack of interest in ethics.
The only people who will are the career-oriented, right wing ones. People are generally attracted to people who are a bit like themselves. It's a cliche, but cliches are usually cliches because we see them a lot.
> "23-year-old Gary ... explained to a woman why he took an engineering job at Palantir... $250,000 salary would allow him to help pay off his parents’ mounting medical bills, he explained."
> "that line about the medical debt. His parents don’t have any, nor are they ill."
Area man who builds oppression machinery and is a liar is sad that other people care about more than just his paycheck.
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[ 0.23 ms ] story [ 17.6 ms ] threadIt's like "here, everyone read this interesting thing ... oh wait 99% of you can't read it, ha ha".
Can't is a strong word. https://archive.ph/IY18i
And the leaders of those industries really weren't in the same league as many of today's top tech zillionaires, for public perception of being alpha sociopaths.
The problem is that 'tech bro' types want to date left-leaning, idealistic women rather than the much more suitable career-oriented, right-wing women who share their outlook. It's really hard to date people outside of your world view because they don't find you attractive.
You don't get to have all the money and status of a well-paying tech job, and also date people who don't find money and status attractive.
This isn't complicated.
Everyone has skills & interests (tech, building things, sales, marketing, etc.) and everyone needs to survive (rent, mortage, food, etc.)..so why in the world would you assume that these things are only the domain of the right?
Tech bros who put their personal gain ahead of everything else (other people, society, privacy, the environment ,etc) need to realise that people who don't think that way won't be attracted to them, so they should look for partners who are. I've worked with plenty of tech bros who want all the money, status, and prospects of founding a unicorn, and who are happy to sacrifice all of society's good parts to get there under the guise of 'disrupting an industry', and yet have no clue why the cute hippy UX designer who goes on environmental protests at the weekend has zero interest in dating them. They think the money and wealth means people will overlook their lack of ethics, or even lack of interest in ethics.
The only people who will are the career-oriented, right wing ones. People are generally attracted to people who are a bit like themselves. It's a cliche, but cliches are usually cliches because we see them a lot.
> "that line about the medical debt. His parents don’t have any, nor are they ill."
Area man who builds oppression machinery and is a liar is sad that other people care about more than just his paycheck.
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