The movement coordination phenomenon has been replicated in a general sense. I think I was reading some articles a few weeks ago about general movement coordination (body, face, head) being predictive of increased attraction.
I'm less sure about the music part. My guess is it's not about groove in particular but something else about music preferences or something, but who knows.
I do something I call “rapid synchronization” to do street photography as a Huli Jing. If I am getting a 60% take rate I think “damn, I am off my game and need to regroup” and can usually get to 80-95% statiatically and 100% emotionally.
I understand how to project a “glamour” by using relaxation and grounding exercises and that is pretty powerful in itself but I don’t quite know how to articulate the rest of it. Sometimes people freeze up in my presence, but 90 seconds of rapid synchronization are safe and effective. 90 minutes is a different matter. It does have something to do with physiological pacing and synchronizing.
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7812630/
There's also stuff like this:
https://phys.org/news/2024-05-movement-strong-togetherness.h...
I'm less sure about the music part. My guess is it's not about groove in particular but something else about music preferences or something, but who knows.
I understand how to project a “glamour” by using relaxation and grounding exercises and that is pretty powerful in itself but I don’t quite know how to articulate the rest of it. Sometimes people freeze up in my presence, but 90 seconds of rapid synchronization are safe and effective. 90 minutes is a different matter. It does have something to do with physiological pacing and synchronizing.
I've long suspected a bias in science against people like me.