In this case, I ran up against the 80 character limit. I do confess that when trimming it down, I went for more the more sensationalist way of editing. I think the mods changing it from "Guns don’t kill people, video games kill people" to "Video games kill people? CNN, sensationalism, and how to fix it" is probably right.
The beautiful thing about gun people is that as adamant as they are that their fantasy paranoia world exists and that children need to be armed at all times for 'protection' from 'Obummer', they are equally adamant about removing themselves from the gene pool.
I'm pro-gun, but guns can be very dangerous. They are also very easy to secure. Buy a gun safe, buy trigger locks, don't leave any of the keys at home. ( hiding them isn't enough ) an 8 year old doesn't need access to their own(or any) gun.
My dad first had me shoot the shotgun around 7 or 8, instead of trying to hide it or lock it up, which is a horrible idea for kids that age, since they can and will get keys for anything and be even more motivated to do so because it isn't allowed. He showed me how to properly hold and aim the shotgun, and then had me shoot a watermelon if I remember correctly.
He then explained matter-of-factly that it would do the same thing to a human, and that they would be permamently dead, so unless that is REALLY what needed to happen, not to use it. He then told me where it was kept, and that it was kept loaded and was not to be viewed as a toy. I could use it whenever I wanted, but only with adult supervision.
This actually worked rather well for two reasons. It wasn't forbidden, so I didn't feel a need to mess with the guns just to break the rules. He also specifically chose the shotgun, which has some insane kickback even if you are a fully-grown adult male, and it REALLY HURT when I used it.
I think gun locks are a bad idea for kids over about 5 or 6 because they WILL be able to find the key and unlock it. Just like they know where the Christmas presents are hidden and everything else that the parents think they have hidden from them.
At the age of 8 most kids are capable of understanding things like death, unless the parents have let them be too sheltered. They should have had a pet or two die already, perhaps a grandparent or other older relative, and older people they know through church or the like. I was well aware of the idea of death and that it is permament by that age.
On the flipside, I do recall my dad not liking Doom, and I was around 12 or so then, and didn't want me to play it. Games like that can desensitize people to violence in general, which doesn't go well with an unwillingness in American middle-class society to openly talk about death or experience it at a personal level. People try to insulate their kids from it, but they really shouldn't.
We would be a lot better off as a society if we just acknowledged bad people do bad things and its their fault. Accidents happen and people aren't born bad[1], but bad people could change their ways.
Sadly, its the nature of politics / media to blame something other than the person who did it. Searching for reasons is good, but don't let that blind you to that one person's decisions.
1) ok, I have heard people say this is a might bit untrue, but I'm not sure how
I said accidents happen[1]. Sadly, no, it is not hard and it happens without a firearm too. Pools and cars tend to other ways youngsters end up with a lifetime of regret.
1) yes, I classify this as an accident - the responsible party is the fool who left it out and loaded
Grand Theft Auto IV is rated "M", and they allowed for a kid to play with a gun. Even if there is a link between the game and violence there is also some serious problem of parental responsibility.
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[ 3.2 ms ] story [ 33.4 ms ] threadI would go further and say libelous. The video game companies really need to start suing.
The media loves to eat this stuff up for sure...
Also, please don't point them at people even if you think they are unloaded.
https://twitter.com/jdavidgoodman/status/369482641944227841/...
https://twitter.com/Todd_Harwood/status/369588780023312384
He then explained matter-of-factly that it would do the same thing to a human, and that they would be permamently dead, so unless that is REALLY what needed to happen, not to use it. He then told me where it was kept, and that it was kept loaded and was not to be viewed as a toy. I could use it whenever I wanted, but only with adult supervision.
This actually worked rather well for two reasons. It wasn't forbidden, so I didn't feel a need to mess with the guns just to break the rules. He also specifically chose the shotgun, which has some insane kickback even if you are a fully-grown adult male, and it REALLY HURT when I used it.
I think gun locks are a bad idea for kids over about 5 or 6 because they WILL be able to find the key and unlock it. Just like they know where the Christmas presents are hidden and everything else that the parents think they have hidden from them.
At the age of 8 most kids are capable of understanding things like death, unless the parents have let them be too sheltered. They should have had a pet or two die already, perhaps a grandparent or other older relative, and older people they know through church or the like. I was well aware of the idea of death and that it is permament by that age.
On the flipside, I do recall my dad not liking Doom, and I was around 12 or so then, and didn't want me to play it. Games like that can desensitize people to violence in general, which doesn't go well with an unwillingness in American middle-class society to openly talk about death or experience it at a personal level. People try to insulate their kids from it, but they really shouldn't.
Sadly, its the nature of politics / media to blame something other than the person who did it. Searching for reasons is good, but don't let that blind you to that one person's decisions.
1) ok, I have heard people say this is a might bit untrue, but I'm not sure how
It's also hard to murder your grandmother without easy access to a firearm.
1) yes, I classify this as an accident - the responsible party is the fool who left it out and loaded