Ask HN: What do you do if your parents keep asking for money
About a year ago, I left to go work on a startup as a cofounder. We bootstrapped the whole thing so there was no income other than money I had saved up so I stopped sending my parents the money and they understandably stopped asking for it. The company I bootstrapped didn't work out so I'm again jumping back into the workforce and getting paid around what I was previously making and my parents are once again asking for money saying that they really need it (father works btw).
I know I'm well payed but I work very hard at what I do; but then again, its my parents that I'm helping and after all, I'm single and have no other obligations to take care of than myself. I'd feel extremely guilty if I didn't send them money and just kept it for myself. So my question is, has anyone else been in a similar situation and if so how did you handle it? what should I do?
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[ 4.5 ms ] story [ 8.5 ms ] threadThat is true, it definitely helps more than just me as I do have a siblings that still depend on my parents. I still can't help but I feel a bit indentured.