Google security algorithm, I am an adult. Please disable yourself

How, pray tell, I am supposed to tell Google that it is me trying to send an email through msmtp? Offlineimap? Chromium within Debian? That I moved, am on the other side of the world and would like to speak to my friends and family? That I don't want to tell it my real location?

I used TOR once. Outcome: account blocked and only verified through an online process which costs money, meaning that an attempt at hiding resulted in my giving my credit card information.

I live in a sad world, where I need to learn how to behave like a machine designed by well-meaning engineers expect me to. Except that there is one thing there don't expect me to do: to know my login and password, and not loose them.