You are a man and, like all men, need to refrain from imposing yourself on women's spaces. If you, and other men like you, stopped doing that, then there would be no problem. This is an issue that is entirely…
It's because JKR is a woman, and men like the one you're replying to have a particularly deranged level of ire for women who say "no". Men with similar views to JKR receive far less vitriol.
You are a man and, like all men, need to refrain from imposing yourself on women's spaces. If you, and other men like you, stopped doing that, then there would be no problem. This is an issue that is entirely…
It's because JKR is a woman, and men like the one you're replying to have a particularly deranged level of ire for women who say "no". Men with similar views to JKR receive far less vitriol.