I’m going to venture a guess that you haven’t ever applied a single patch to any existing operating system, and that your knowledge of operating systems is pretty much based entirely on your experience as a user of them.
Ah, I think it's just a misunderstanding, then. Confidently != consistently. If I walk up to someone and say "there are lots of ripe apples on the tree outside, I'm going to run out and grab some", then that is me…
I'm curious what you think about the post that you replied to. Are you assuming that the author is lying? Have you weighed the likelihood of that against the likelihood that the author actually saw what they said, and…
I have no idea what you read in my post to come to such a conclusion. I was talking about career because the blog post was about career. I am not singularly focused on work, quite the opposite. The older I get, the more…
Note that this is just one perspective. I also have almost 25 years under my belt in total, now, and I consider myself very successful. Yet I am a very different person than the author here. A lot of the points don't…
I'm curious why you seem to be looking for a web/web backend development position, when clearly you're an operating system developer.
> She may have something more, she isnt honest with anyone including therapists so its certainly possible. That, by the way, sticks out to me a lot. Read the article you linked, and see if you find anything that matches…
Yes, I have strong experience with that. You can look at my other comments in the thread for a bit more insight, but I'd also gladly help answering any other questions, as much as I can from own my experiences of…
> Did you experience BPD as a romantic partner? Yes. (We broke it off, but for reasons entirely unrelated to BPD. We're still friends. It's not my only experience with BPD.) > To butcher it, they feel great anxiety that…
That is bad. But again: From the people I know, from the papers I read (yes really), from the videos I watched, it does not sound like BPD to me. BPD-afflicted people are terrified to be abandoned, for one thing. Why…
I agree, and I should not have made a definitive statement about what I think it is instead. I don't know whether their wife is narcissistic. But having close experience with BPD-afflicted people, I feel the need to…
I am familiar with the symptoms. I still think you deal with an actual narcissist, not with someone with BPD. The symptoms may have some overlap, but it's different. For example, where in that article do you see that…
> I read that it’s kind of like if you had no skin and thus all your nerve endings were exposed. That seems to be exactly right. However, it also seems that, with some intelligence and introspection, people can totally…
Honestly, that sounds a lot different from BPD, like a separate disorder altogether. Sorry, I don't mean to belittle what you go through, it sounds terrible. But I have to "defend" people with BPD against it, because I…
It can be fixed, if the person is willing to.
Too bad, because from my (close) experience with people with BPD that I talked about elsewhere in this thread, good therapy can totally fix that. However, that probably also needs a great deal of introspection, and from…
I have close experience with not one but two people with BPD, over a long time, and before and after treatment (no medication involved). You wouldn't know they have (or "had"?) BPD. One thing I noticed is that the…
Don't put words in my mouth. OP mentioned significant equity and the possibility to be acquired, without any details. This could both provide them with something to show after enduring all the suck, as well as with a…
No it's not, it's a false equivalence. What the original commenter described has way more pathologies than "startups are hard", and it does not smell like success to me. To pick up on your analogy, it's more like a rock…
Right, but the point of the comment you answered to, is that this cynical take does not work if Montenegro does not actually happen to be a dictatorship, friendly to the west or not. Note that I have absolutely no idea…
What does, under these constraints?
That is a significantly different issue from slowing a residential road down.
Don't take it too personally, but you, and many others here, need to rethink their approach. You see a short tweet without context about a topic you clearly know nothing about (which is totally, fully okay, it's a…
If that is ever the case, which I honestly think is doubtful (though I could be wrong), given that it's an open standard, I don't think there's anything preventing people from writing a passkey implementation that saves…
It sounds like you just want to continue randomly generated passwords, instead of passkeys? They seem to already solve exactly your problem?
I’m going to venture a guess that you haven’t ever applied a single patch to any existing operating system, and that your knowledge of operating systems is pretty much based entirely on your experience as a user of them.
Ah, I think it's just a misunderstanding, then. Confidently != consistently. If I walk up to someone and say "there are lots of ripe apples on the tree outside, I'm going to run out and grab some", then that is me…
I'm curious what you think about the post that you replied to. Are you assuming that the author is lying? Have you weighed the likelihood of that against the likelihood that the author actually saw what they said, and…
I have no idea what you read in my post to come to such a conclusion. I was talking about career because the blog post was about career. I am not singularly focused on work, quite the opposite. The older I get, the more…
Note that this is just one perspective. I also have almost 25 years under my belt in total, now, and I consider myself very successful. Yet I am a very different person than the author here. A lot of the points don't…
I'm curious why you seem to be looking for a web/web backend development position, when clearly you're an operating system developer.
> She may have something more, she isnt honest with anyone including therapists so its certainly possible. That, by the way, sticks out to me a lot. Read the article you linked, and see if you find anything that matches…
Yes, I have strong experience with that. You can look at my other comments in the thread for a bit more insight, but I'd also gladly help answering any other questions, as much as I can from own my experiences of…
> Did you experience BPD as a romantic partner? Yes. (We broke it off, but for reasons entirely unrelated to BPD. We're still friends. It's not my only experience with BPD.) > To butcher it, they feel great anxiety that…
That is bad. But again: From the people I know, from the papers I read (yes really), from the videos I watched, it does not sound like BPD to me. BPD-afflicted people are terrified to be abandoned, for one thing. Why…
I agree, and I should not have made a definitive statement about what I think it is instead. I don't know whether their wife is narcissistic. But having close experience with BPD-afflicted people, I feel the need to…
I am familiar with the symptoms. I still think you deal with an actual narcissist, not with someone with BPD. The symptoms may have some overlap, but it's different. For example, where in that article do you see that…
> I read that it’s kind of like if you had no skin and thus all your nerve endings were exposed. That seems to be exactly right. However, it also seems that, with some intelligence and introspection, people can totally…
Honestly, that sounds a lot different from BPD, like a separate disorder altogether. Sorry, I don't mean to belittle what you go through, it sounds terrible. But I have to "defend" people with BPD against it, because I…
It can be fixed, if the person is willing to.
Too bad, because from my (close) experience with people with BPD that I talked about elsewhere in this thread, good therapy can totally fix that. However, that probably also needs a great deal of introspection, and from…
I have close experience with not one but two people with BPD, over a long time, and before and after treatment (no medication involved). You wouldn't know they have (or "had"?) BPD. One thing I noticed is that the…
Don't put words in my mouth. OP mentioned significant equity and the possibility to be acquired, without any details. This could both provide them with something to show after enduring all the suck, as well as with a…
No it's not, it's a false equivalence. What the original commenter described has way more pathologies than "startups are hard", and it does not smell like success to me. To pick up on your analogy, it's more like a rock…
Right, but the point of the comment you answered to, is that this cynical take does not work if Montenegro does not actually happen to be a dictatorship, friendly to the west or not. Note that I have absolutely no idea…
What does, under these constraints?
That is a significantly different issue from slowing a residential road down.
Don't take it too personally, but you, and many others here, need to rethink their approach. You see a short tweet without context about a topic you clearly know nothing about (which is totally, fully okay, it's a…
If that is ever the case, which I honestly think is doubtful (though I could be wrong), given that it's an open standard, I don't think there's anything preventing people from writing a passkey implementation that saves…
It sounds like you just want to continue randomly generated passwords, instead of passkeys? They seem to already solve exactly your problem?