Tell HN: Recruiters are lying about remote positions

580 points by nineplay ↗ HN
I've spent the last several months going though a FAANG interview. A recruiter from the company reached out to me and said they were hiring for remote. I got a hiring manager on board, spent evenings and weekends preparing for the coding and design interviews, and made it to the last step - my application had to go through a hiring committee.

The hiring committee said no, they didn't want remote hires.

I have friends in arguably worse situations. They were recruited for remote positions, accepted the jobs, and are now being told they have to show up onsite. When they pointed out they had been hired as remotes they were met with a collective shrug - the job opening didn't say remote, the agreement they signed didn't say remote. The recruiter was wrong but that's not the company's problem.

I'm not sure what the compensation model for recruiters is, but it seems to encourage bringing in as many candidates as possible over treating them with honesty and respect.

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This is just another thing in a long line of scrupulous things that recruiters do. If bad actors will edit your resume before sending it in then lying about the remote nature of a job is just another part of that.

Which FAANG? Name and shame.

And, which recruiter?
I'm still holding on to a slight hope that the recruiter will find a hiring manager willing to override the committee and all of my time and effort will not have been wasted. They said they'd keep looking but they were probably just trying to get me off the phone.

I'll put it this way. One FAANG I wouldn't work at under any circumstances. One FAANG has been very clear that they want employees on site. One FAANG has a recruiting proc where you are hired once you pass the interviews, you can figure out your team later. One FAANG doesn't really fit in the FAANG acronym.

> One FAANG I wouldn't work at under any circumstances.

Uh Amazon? I hope it's Amazon, not Facebook.

> One FAANG has been very clear that they want employees on site.

Both Netflix and Apple.

> One FAANG has a recruiting proc where you are hired once you pass the interviews, you can figure out your team later.

Google?

> One FAANG doesn't really fit in the FAANG acronym.

Amazon? Apple? Facebook because they've changed their name to Meta?

> > One FAANG has a recruiting proc where you are hired once you pass the interviews, you can figure out your team later.

Google?

That's definitely Facebook.

>One FAANG has a recruiting proc where you are hired once you pass the interviews, you can figure out your team later.

I suppose Google fits here, but Facebook is even stronger in that you generally have to accept the offer not knowing what you're going to work on and team match after boot camp.

This is really not true for either. You can be pre-assigned teams before bootcamp/hiring in both. Many/most don't. And sometimes the pre-allocated team does not exist anymore when you finally show up to work.
I don't really feel like solving a riddle.
Can you just name companies? You haven't given any personally identifiable information and you're not the only person given an offer from a FAANG recently. It's also not unique to say you'd never work at Amazon/Netflix/Apple/FB (like me). I'd only work for google if it were fully remote, and it would be super helpful to know if your experience was with google
> One FAANG I wouldn't work at under any circumstances.

Amazon

> One FAANG has been very clear that they want employees on site.

Apple

> One FAANG has a recruiting proc where you are hired once you pass the interviews, you can figure out your team later.

Meta/FB

> One FAANG doesn't really fit in the FAANG acronym.

Netflix

QED

Everyone's trying to figure out which is which, so here are my takes:

Wouldn't work ever - Amazon

Wants on-site - applies to Apple, Google, Netflix. My guess is Apple.

Team assigned later - Facebook/Meta with its bootcamp process

Doesn't fit FAANG - Netflix, it's not uncommon for folks to exclude it due to much smaller size

So most likely op interviewed at Google, which seems all the more likely given a months-long interview process that the company is infamous for, and usage of a hiring committee. My general sense is that their remote story has been somewhat inconsistent over time, so I'm not particularly surprised at internal misalignment.

Facebook/Meta can for sure assign team before bootcamp. The candidate can still change teams during bootcamp, but there will be a spot ready for them. At least that is how I have seen it.

One thing to notice about FAANG and other large companies is that the team assignment is not as important as you think. Reorgs are often large and frequent so suddenly you work on something completely different. How much choice you have in this process varies based on many factors, the company being one of them.

For sure, I was one of those preallocated folks. That said, bootcamp allocation is far and away the most common way people get assigned to teams. Good point in not focusing too much on it, so many people switch teams in their own every 1-2 years on their own.
> One FAANG I wouldn't work at under any circumstances. One FAANG has been very clear that they want employees on site.

...One FAANG to bring them all and in the darkness bind them.

This happened to me with Amazon.
Me too, but they actually connected me with 1 hiring manager hiring remote. His team seemed very new and disorganized (and not in my expertise) so I preferred not to join it. The recruiter said they couldn't find any other remote hiring managers, kinda blamed me for not taking the first. Now every month I get a email or inMail from Amazon recruiters :)
Don’t worry, remote WFH is ending. Soon, this situation will never happen.
Hardly. I work at a startup that doesn't even have an office. We are distributed around the world, and everyone, CEO included, is WFH. Perhaps your comment was sarcastic, but that doesn't make it any less incorrect.
Not a startup, but my (small) company is absolutely hiring remotely, preferring EU timezones. We have an office, but it's generally unused. We've got people in at least 4 countries now, maybe 5 by next week. They were supportive when I took a ~year~8 months with the family to drive/airbnb around europe precovid.
I have the same deal here.

Pre-COVID, they had a WeWork office, but some employees were remote around the USA. Once COVID hit, they left the WeWork and became fully remote. We don't have an office, and now have people from all over the world.

HR and the C-suite make a big point of advertising both internally and externally that we are a 100% remote company. They've also arranged full-company gatherings so we can meet each other and put an actual person behind the face we see in Zoom. A couple months ago, it was in Chamonix, France.

You realize WFH was a thing before the pandemic, right?
My company more than doubled its workforce during COVID and we don't plan on leasing any more office space.

Not to mention we hired people all around the country, so most of them don't have a place to come in to.

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I was offered the opportunity to work 100% remotely for a large financial corporation which has the bulk of its operations in my home town. This was back in 2006. One of my best friends was outfitted with a DS1 to his house back in the mid '90's so he could work remotely.

tl;dr: Telecommuting has been around for decades and is only going to become more common, not less. The pandemic merely accelerated the trend.

Can confirm. Buddy of mine was good, lived far away, and basically threatened to walk if accommodation was not made. Remote existed for a while, but it was considered a 'favor' bosses bestowed upon you. Now it is the norm and suddenly not only normal order is upset, but also one carrot is gone from the manager's quiver.

I completely agree with your post.

yeaaaaaaaaah buddy i haven't been in an office since before covid

If you're good enough that they need you, they'll hire you anywhere with a net connection.

I once got hired for a remote position at a company in TX (I'm in WA). I was to fly into TX on Sunday to start 2 weeks of training on Monday, and on Friday evening I got an email saying "Sorry, we changed our mind about hiring remotely." That really sucked. I'm guess I am just glad they didn't do it a week into training.
I'm curious, what level was the position? The process was months long and went to a hiring committee? That sounds like a what you'd have for a faculty position or something, was this a research position?
Sounds like the standard google process to me.
SWE. Some of the time I needed so I could answer leet questions and system design questions on the fly. A lot of time was spent scheduling, particularly around the holidays. There were some 'bonus' rounds of interviews I took because they f'd up.
Thank you. I had someone reach out to me from one of those companies recently and was considering going through the process (or trying to). I had no idea it was this long.
You definitely need to name the company that did this.
Why? This isn't Twitter, piling on a company doesn't add much to the discussion, it just lets people focus their outrage better
I'm not seeing why that would be a problem.
In what context is focusing ones outrage at all useful, ever? This is just reinforcing destruction, promoting group identity, enabling a mob mentality, and sometimes promotes violence.

Honest critique is one thing, mob mentality outrage is not an honest critique.

The company is doing what would be illegal in most places, and definitely immoral here.

They deserve the outrage and the outrage is the only thing that's gonna fix this.

Also to answer your question. Literally every single positive change in this country has come out of focused outrage.

Civil rights movement LGBT rights Women's rights The basic amount of worker and consumer rights.

So we've escalated from "top paying tech company decided I can't work remote" to the civil rights movement... this thread is an interesting study in internet discourse
Individuals can choose to do the actions you describe and that needs to be dealt with at an individual level.

What is being discussed is responsibility for actions.

You can't figure out why, in a community full of developers, that it might be useful to know which employers are lying about remote work?
That wasn't my point. I think that would be part of an honest critique.

The other commenter basically said focusing outrage was not problematic. I don't have any issue with honesty and transparency around hiring practices. However, I do think the appropriate place to do something like that would be on a site like glassdoor, and not a platform like twitter. I think as a country we have way more than enough "outrage" at the moment, I don't see any benefit to adding fuel to fire and communicating it a way that is likely going stir up hashtag vomit.

Mob mentality outrage is one of the few things that produces effective change.

Would you encourage the same policy of not naming the the accused parties with the #meToo movement? Because it's not productive or worthwhile to focus on a few individuals? And where would that movement have gotten if none of the parties involved had ever been named?

Because it helps people make better decisions about where they apply and how far they get before getting commitments like remote working in writing!
The Recruiter could have left, they could have been told it was Remote and the company changed their minds later, could have been a simple mistake. Why burn a company without knowing the facts?
The company and only the company could have prevented it, but they didn’t.
Yep. I don't care what the reasoning behind the scenes is. I care that a candidate got bamboozled.
Because companies going back on their word during the hiring process is a bad thing. It's a bait and switch.
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This has happened to a number of folks that I have known over the years, and long predates remote work.

I have known many people that have picked up and moved across the country for "the dream job," only to return, a couple of months later, tail between their legs, because the job turned out to be unsuitable in any of a dozen different ways (usually, it was because the duties did not match what they were told, but I know of at least one case, where the pay was drastically reduced, or they were hired as a contractor, even though they were told it was a salaried employee of the corporation).

Sounds like a bunch of excellent reasons why such companies should be named.

Companies are huge and they can hurt many people at scale. Individuals are small, relatively powerless and easy to manipulate. Especially if they don't organise themselves. Spreading information is the first step of getting organised.

I agree, but it's also a good way to get "blackballed" in today's tech industry.

I would not encourage people early-to-mid-career, to do this.

I'm sceptical as to whether you can actually get blackballed, unless your misdeeds achieve a Hans Reiser level of publicity.

I've had recruiters claim that if I use the offer they got me to negotiate a raise from my current employer, they'll make sure I never work in this town again - and yet recruiters keep calling.

>unless your misdeeds achieve a Hans Reiser level of publicity.

Really. I know people with felony convictions for serious crimes who got back into the industry they offended against. It turns out that background check firms are only reliable when the applicant has no criminal background, heheh.

I've seen it happen.

Maybe it's less prevalent than it has been in the past, but managers hate "troublemakers," even if the "troublemakers" are 100% correct.

Also, this is a FAANG company. Get problems there, it's likely to metastasize. It would be another thing, if it were BillyBob's WebApp Emporium.

It adds the most important thing to the discussion: Which company is it, so we - the other people working in the same field, applying for the same jobs - can avoid it.
And without it the post is pointless. Recruiters lie. Yes. Sales people lie all the time. It's not news.
It might even be read by employees of that very company that are in a position to improve things.
It lets you know not to trust the recruiter, at least, I know I'd like to know who did that.

Credibility is paramount on these things, and a recruiter doing this is wasting people's time and money.

I would like to know if a company is willing to waste thousands of dollars (interviewers' time, hiring manager's time, hiring committee's time, not to mention the candidate's time) knowing full well that they will not commit to terms (at least verbally) agreed upon upfront. That is a clear sign of a dysfunctional organization.
So that other people don't waste their time on that company, of course.

Why do you believe the company should be able to keep bad behavior secret?

It'd be really valuable for me, personally. I suspect I know the company (Google) as I'd seen a Glassdoor review mentioning the same thing. It'd be really nice to know if the sample size is > 1 as I'm considering going through the application process myself and this would suck.
OP dodged a bullet frankly, but it really sucks when most big companies all shoot at you.

We don't even need to promote much discussion on it TBH. If OP is to be believed, the company blatantly lied to OP and wasted a large chunk of his time.

Just like in anything else in life, if someone is not held to the consequences of their actions, they'll keep doing it.

It's frankly pathetic if this remains the norm for our profession.

It's not like most of us applicants go in, blatantly lie, and waste the companies time. We, and every other worked applying to any job, should at least be treated the same as a bare minimum.

Society runs on example making, sadly. For all the good or ill that entails.

Someone deserves to be named and shamed, with the caveat of, there must be an agreement to actually accept the results of further digging.

If the recruiter said yes to a remote position that wasn't, the fault is rightly on the recruiter. If the recruiter was told remote was fine only for eventual reneg when ink was being put to paper... That is absolutely a reputation hit the client of said recruiter needs to take.

Fixing a fault requires identification, localization & characterization, and remediation.

This fault has been identified, but not localized and characterized.

Ergo, if remediation is the goal, naming and shaming absolutely needs to happen.

And everyone involved, up to the company execs making the decision themselves should understand the importance of this dynamic unless they've all been playing games to get to where they are, in which case, the callout is doubly needed.

As much as it pains me to say it... In my experiences if the recruiter email has an Indian name, it's going to be an uttar shitshow.

They will lie to you, blatantly.

They'll use non-standard English that will have tons of ambiguities and brokenness. I believe this is a benefit to them, to provide ambiguity.

The remote/hybrid/in-person status is whatever you ask, and will be updated to the real answer when talking to the client.

The job will flip/flop from to w2 and c2c by whatever you seem to express.

Pay is whatever they think you will like.

There's "benefits" until it flips to contract with no benefits.

Now, that's not to say that a standard American recruiter is somehow good. They're also pretty sketch as well. But so far, in 2y of looking for a new job, 100% of the Indian recruiters have not "did the needful" for me.

> it just lets people focus their outrage better

Sounds like a 'win' to me.

Or inform the company of the recruiter who is wasting their staffs time interviewing incompatible candidates.

This doesn't seem to be the companies fault.

The recruiter worked for the company.
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"hiring committee" = Google.
Haha you'd be surprised of the amount of Google cargo-culting happening in the industry. Lots of companies have 'hiring committees' now.
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I'll bet I know which company (I won't name them, but I get regular automated contacts for them. They used to be onsite-only, but the contacts recently, have been stressing "remote-only." I don't believe them, at all).
Thanks for the heads up. I'll be sure to get it in writing if I find myself in the job market.
If I could do it again, I'd probably still go through the interviews but I'd have spent little if any time on prep. If they asked the knapsack problem and I couldn't code up a solution in 40 minutes, oh well - I tried.
And if you could do it the time after that you'd probably make it the first thing you say when you speak to anyone from the actual company
Recruiters are lying about positions all the time at first place.
That's brutal. We're on the other side of it right now trying to get exec and HR to actually commit to something so we can hire remote. We had multiple good people in the pipeline who we had to pass on, because they won't actually say if they'll demand these people move to Toronto (one of the worst housing markets in the world) as soon as they sign the papers. It's like we're supposed to surprise them with that?
Rents and prices in Ontario are absurd and unless a company is offering remote - or is a satellite dev shop for a US company taking advantage of currency and R&D tax credits and can pay US salaries, they just aren't going to be able to be competitive for talent. If your product market is global like any product has to be right now, Toronto is more of a constraint than a strategy. I'd be skeptical of how much leverage that HR approach has for tech staff right now.
They don't have any. We're bleeding talent and destroying our pipeline for more. We don't pay well to begin with, so asking people to relocate for a worse quality of life is just ... mind boggling.
That’s rough. The housing market there is like the SF Bay Area’s housing market, but with extremely abysmal pay. I’m surprised you guys didn’t go remote sooner.
Maybe we should get a list going of scummy recruiters.
I would be on board with this. I would even pay a small fee to have access to this list.
It would be a whitelist more than a blacklist, frankly.
A whitelist (or whatever the correct term for that is now) would be more effective.

Frankly, I'd say the vast majority of recruiters are bad. They are worse than a used car salesperson, and I will never deal with any of them again besides the occasional one that's actually working directly for the employer, as opposed to third-party recruiters from large recruiting firms.

A few years ago, I was working on some software that would find quality job listings and auto-apply for them (in theory; I don't believe I finished the form-filling part). Part of that filtering involved removing any listings from third-party recruiting firms. Blocking on the person-level really wasn't practical. While it worked somewhat, it seems that more of these firms appear and change names every year. It would always be imperfect unless someone was constantly monitoring the countless number of recruiting firms.

My best experiences were with small-time recruiters who worked for themselves. I'd much rather identify who these recruiters are and then ignore all the other ones by default.

Maybe we should gamify it. Actually I was thinking of places with the same posting for months or years. My inspiration was remembering the amusement that FuckedCompany provided... and it was surprisingly accurate.
My Amazon team (based out of Toronto) is hiring remotely. I know the hiring manager won't change their mind because I am the manager.
Yeah but you're also amazon
And?
Amazon trains its employees to be back stabbers. I'm at the point where if I see a long stint Amazon on your resume, I count that as a point against you, because if we work together, you're probably gonna try to give me the runaround and/or fuck me over.
I doubt anything I say could convince you otherwise, but I've had no experience at all in 8 years at being "stabbed" in the back. Nor have I any way to prove I am not an evil one. Amazon is large, you may be judging on a small sample size.
By definition, your experience is a small sample size.

I won't say my sample size (about 5 people who worked there and 10 people that have interviewed) is massive either, but mine is 100% negative. Yes, all IT people, so I'm not even dealing with the poor line workers.

Their turnover numbers IMO validate the negative views of Amazon. The ass-covering and lying during their downtimes over holiday also show a degrading culture.

Their UIs also show a poorly managed IT staff. I can understand warts, but why not gradual improvement? The biggest sign was their awful redesign of the console, which was demonstrably worse and has not improved.

"You're not supposed to use the UI in AWS"

Well OK, their APIs are not well documented. When you have a command with literally 100 options, you need a LOT of examples. The documentation of their error codes is basically "stackoverflow", and change over releases with no warning. And this is for their most used services, who knows what the various other crap is like. And they only show examples of invocations, they almost never show the OUTPUT format.

This is something that should be actively improved for the leading cloud provided that will probably hit 100 billion in revenue in 2022. You can't invest .0001% of your revenue to better documentation and tooling? Like that HASN'T cost you 1000x that in services and revenue already with people unable to get their prototypes off the ground or fix problems to scale more quickly?

They show management, they show low worker motivation, their marketing and press is so bad that Walmart seems like a good corporate citizen in comparison.

All of their policies can be glossed over with growth.

Unfortunately, AWS isn't a startup company anymore, it is a utility, an important core component in the foundation of the internet. Their culture and hiring and communication show that their growth HR policies are going to backfire in the coming decades as all their systems are likely on the their third or fourth "generation" of people being responsible for it.

Consider getting a software job at Amazon: likely you're getting shunted onto some "legacy" (you know, written 4 years ago, 2 employee generations ago) and are expected to know a big complicated messy codebase with no docummentation and no organizational memory, and then you get saddled with ridiculous expectations.

You either get to greenfield redevelop it (if you have a nice manager) which is risky, or you are utterly fucked from an advancement perspective and you are just meat to chew.

Curious: have you ever worked elsewhere, particularly anywhere that is generally praised? It's possible that your experience has genuinely been wholly positive or it's possible that what you tolerate as a normal working environment is entirely unhealthy compared to other companies.
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every single manager i've had whose sole managerial experience was Amazon/AWS before i encountered them was a raging turdwaffle, and having 20+ years of experience i've seen my share of shitty managers to compare them to.

please, any readers, i beg of you: think three times before diving in that swamp.

https://www.inc.com/jason-aten/amazons-controversial-hire-to...

I don't think most of us want to go for the lottery.

Also:

Majority of amazon alumni I've had experience with (to be fair it's not a lot) has been extremely toxic and a they've been a jerk. I don't blame the individuals. They are probably required to be a jerk to survive at Amazon and unlearning that is hard as fuck.

That report is nonsense. For one thing, hiring takes a lot of work. No manager is going to invest the time in hiring someone just to have an expendable on the team to sacrifice. No manager is going to accept the drag on the team that arises by having a below-standards person on the team. Everyone here is clear that we'd rather do without than have a low-performing co-worker. Finally, even if some misguided manager did want to do this, each Amazon hiring loop has an independent person to enforce the policy that each new hire be better than half the people in a similar role.

It's true that some people leave, and sometimes you're not sorry to see them go. This is true in every line of work.

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Can confirmed the others that pointed out ex-Amazonians aren't pleasure to work with/for.

Will avoid 10/10.

I believe they were molded to survive the Amazon culture, unfortunately.

I found Amazon's culture - in particular the relentless obsession with solving actual customer needs - to be a perfect fit for my own engineering training from day one. I was not "molded" to fit it. As I see it, as an engineer I have expertise my customer can't truly know or measure. They really have to trust me. I earn that trust by taking on their problem as if it were my own. That's how I've worked my entire career, and that's what I love about the parts of Amazon I have actually observed.
This reads like a marketer wrote it. "A perfect fit for my own engineering training". It's vague and feel-goody and adulation for the company.

What parts of Amazon did you not like?

He's an Engineering Manager of Amazon trying to recruit people for Amazon that is losing people at the moment.
I mean, do you really get anything out of hiring more people?
It is interesting to me that the tens of thousands of people that work at Amazon with their obsession of solving customer needs are not worried about solving the problem of customers not being able to trust where the goods are being sourced from.

Leaving aside the efficiencies of commingling inventory, even the simple filter option to only show sold and shipped by Amazon.com search results was deemed not to be a customer need. In fact, it was removed. Quite a puzzling “culture” of solving customer’s needs.

> I found Amazon's culture - in particular the relentless obsession with solving actual customer needs - to be a perfect fit for my own engineering training from day one.

So... Where's the "Report counterfeit" button again?

Oh yeah. That's right. There isn't one. Intentionally.

"Amazon's a normal workplace"

- NYSE Trading Desk Employee

"Amazon cares about you"

- A deep water explosives petroleum rig diver

"Amazon is a supporting and caring environment"

- Ukrainian volunteer soldier

"Amazon cares about the success and long term health of every employee"

- A Russian soldier digging trenches near Chernobyl

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Nice of you to post. I hope you find good folks.
So what you mean is, "A Recruiter lied about A position"?
This +10 (if I could). "Remote" from a recruiter is no different from "35% annual raises", "perfect match for your skill set", "insta-vesting stock options", or anything else a recruiter tells you.
I see a few possibilities:

1) Recruiter was misinformed and/or policies changed while you were interviewing. A lot of companies, including some of the big names, have been changing their remote policies in 2022. They're also playing off each other and the hiring market, so the situation is evolving quickly. Given what I've seen lately, it's possible that they were hiring remotely when your process started but they ended that policy before you crossed the finish line. (EDIT: Op mentioned scheduling interviews around the holidays in a different comment. With such a long interview cycle, I'd expect changing policies is the most likely explanation)

2) Recruiter was lying. I actually don't think this is likely because the recruiter would just be wasting their time. Recruiters don't actually gain anything and lose a lot of opportunity cost by running dead-end candidates through the pipeline for jobs they know won't be accepted.

3) You might have been switched to a different opening or department during the interview process. If the initial hiring manager declined you, they may have found someone else who wanted to pick up the thread. They should have notified you about the difference, of course.

4) Finally, it's possible they decided you weren't a good fit for remote work. Hybrid remote/in-office companies are becoming more picky about who they're allowing to work remote because not everybody can handle it. Usually the strongest candidates are afforded remote opportunities, but borderline maybes will be asked to be on-site at the start so they can be closely mentored.

Number 4 is an interesting point. Personally, as a hiring manager who works exclusively remote (though my company does have offices) if I thought someone was borderline or even under the line at handling remote work, I would not make them an offer at all.

Well, I might if we were talking about an internship and there was someone on site I trusted to keep an eye on them. Otherwise, one of the most important things I look for in any direct report is the ability to do their work without the need for a lot of hand-holding. IOW, if I don't trust them to work remote, then I just don't trust them.

> IOW, if I don't trust them to work remote, then I just don't trust them.

It really depends. There are a lot of good people out there who don't do well with remote work. A lot.

If your company is mostly remote, it makes sense to pass on people who aren't great at remote work. But if you have in-office teams where they'd be a good fit, it can still be worth bringing them in if (and only if) they're interested in an in-office position.

It's really hard to tell if someone can handle remote work during an interview, though. People who have successfully worked remote and have good references are easy. People who have only worked in offices and want to go remote are much harder to evaluate in an interview context.

scene, ten years ago

I apply for a job at a university. Job description says a college degree is required. I state in the cover letter that I do not have a degree, but hoped my experience would make up for it.

HR emails a few days later. Phone interview? I disclose NoDegree. Not a problem, she says.

Phone interview with her goes fine. She passes me off to the department and a C-level dude who apparently has to sign off on all hires for this category.

Phone interview with the C-level dude. I disclose NoDegree. Not a problem, he says.

Email from the department business manager asking for an in-person interview. Disclose NoDegree. Not a problem, when can you come in?

In-person interview with the business manager, a lab assistant, and about 6 or so faculty members. The faculty in particular love me. Disclose NoDegree to each of them. No problem, they say. Lots of experience.

Two weeks later, not a peep. Email the business director.

Response: "sorry, we went with a candidate with a degree."

Fucking assholes wasted easily 40 hours of my life on that bullshit.

You likely made the degree a deciding factor by voluntarily raising it as an issue with every single person you spoke to.

In the future, I would suggest not even mentioning that you don’t have a degree (unless there’s a legal/licensing requirement for one).

Simply do not include an “education” section on your resume.

You’re not being dishonest, and given sufficient work experience, most people won’t even notice the section’s absence. The few that do notice, won’t care.

That’s a pain. I recently went through an active search and I have to say this was not my experience. There was one mixup about remote that we figured out in the first 15 minutes with the internal recruiter. For the rest, both the recruiter and the company explicitly assured me the positions were 100% remote and part of the interview was about each party’s experience and perspective working remotely. I had LinkedIn set to remote only, which may have helped.
Since you are referring to the HC, and mention FAANG, I’ll assume this was Google. If so, it’s not that they don’t want remote hires. It’s that you didn’t qualify to work remote / without closer guidance. This is a typical way these rejections are worded.

Throwaway account for obvious reasons.

In the EU at least, you get a contract that specifically mentions place of work (and many countries have standardized remote clauses now).

What you sign MUST reflect the terms you agreed to…

It's the same in the US, if only for tax reasons you need to specify in your offer letter where you'll be working from.

The author's friends were a bit careless.

When I joined my current company, I made sure to have it specified in my offer that I had the option to be fully remote in perpetuity. I know it doesn't actually make a difference — they can fire me for any reason, and I'm not going to take them to court over it — but it makes me feel like at least we have agreed on terms.
And if they aren't willing to even write it into the initial offer (despite how toothless that promise is in the long term in the US legal system), you know they aren't really serious about remote.
When I went looking for a fully remote position last year, I was worried that exactly this might happen.

Then I heard that Shopify had literally shut down and sold their offices. It's not actually possible for the company to go back to the office because they don't exist.

So that's where I work now.

+1 On this. Find somewhere that was remote before pandemic or that shifted fully.

I've worked fully remotely for the same company for almost 6 years now. Having worked in an office before, one belief I've formed over the years is that working at a place that doesn't have remote at the core and that has staff that's remote and staff that isn't, would create a two-tier system and I'd be very afraid of trying it.

In fact for a lot of the company history, we've had an office in a location next to the founders, that people were not allowed to use as a work place. You could go there for a day here and there but not as a group and not as a regular activity. There weren't even spots for more than 5 or 6 people at the same time in there, so mostly used to receive mail. This sort of thing won't even be in the minds of a huge corporation that is only doing remote because the pandemic forced them to.

So my advice if you want to go remote, is to find a company that was either fully remote before the pandemic, or a company that has truly embraced it and shifted completely.

edit: seems like there's a bit of attention here, if you're struggling with remote or starting something and you want to exchange some war stories for fun, I'm always up to share some thoughts even though the internet is full of experts on remote nowadays. I've done it as an engineer in a company of 12, later as an engineering manager and more recently being manager of managers and we've surpassed 250 people, so I have thoughts about it from multiple angles. You can figure out how to contact me from my profile.

The company I'm working for is struggling with this. They firmly believe in no remote. They won't entertain it for juniors, and generally to get approval you need to be pretty vital. But at the same time they've also opened up multiple offices (that are all in different geos, timezones). What the end result is that in my section of the company I'm effectively remote working from the off as my team has a remote contractor, and the other teams in my area are all dispersed between home and the new other offices. It's frustrating being told to go into work and getting no benefit from it besides a change of scenery. I'm not sure I'm cut out for full remote at least in my current housing situation/skill level.

I suspect other companies are in a similar situation, and it's part of the growing pains of getting larger. But fuck is it hard to be happy with it.

Dude, you're an employee. If management doesn't respect you, look elsewhere. You're working in IT, it's not like you can't change work. You'll risk getting less money, but if you're happier who cares?
Small note: there are people who cannot change work in IT because it would affect their visa or immigration status.
H1-B transfer is possible if your potential new employer will perform the transfer with USCIS.

(Edit: typo corrected, thanks kaapipo)

IIRC the transfer can affect the green card process depending on the stage you are at. IANAL, check with your immigration attorney.
(this also assumes that the person is on H-1B and not on L-1, which cannot be transferred)
A person on L-1 should've known they will be moving home soon. This works exactly the same in EU and IMHO it's only logical - you'd be able to skip the usual "queue" otherwise.
L-1 can be extended a couple of times (up to 7 years total I think?), so "soon" is relative (especially given that it gives you a couple tries at the H-1B, but only if you can hold on to the job).

I think my main point still stands: you can't always just pack up your things and leave (or rather, you can, but the consequences aren't always a simple job hunt, sometimes they involve relocating internationally) so you may be willing to tolerate more abuse or conditions that are less than perfect for you.

You can also get denied and get kicked out, it's not a guaranteed process AFAIK IANAL.
Thanks for pointing this out. I'm a U.S. citizen, but I have had friends that were not, and I was horrified to hear the stories of how companies (that I worked for at the time as well) were using that 'leverage'.

I will no longer work for those sorts of companies.

It does not necessarily need to be something that companies actively do, it's also that the process is set up that way. For example, I know I was not actively seeking other opportunities until I got my green card. IIRC, even transferring to a slightly different role within the same company could affect how quickly the process progressed (I think part of the paperwork would need to be re-filed).
yup, I have to bear with the bullshit. I love my daughter man.
It's a combination of: I really like my manager and have had much worse, I'm using the company to move me to one of the other locations, and not really minding the going in. I'll probably start looking after the move.

My manager doesn't have much control of the WFH thing, it's the CEOs directive. I'm just a junior engineer with not much sway so my remote request was denied by their bosses boss who has never met me.

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+1, similar situation here and I agree completely. I've been working for the same remote-only company for almost 10 years now. In my opinion, it's very important/essential that the company culture has "remote" in its DNA.

(anybody who may be interested in working at such a company, check my profile)

Focusing on remote-only, remote-first, remote-from-scratch companies is how I ended up at my current, and literally best company I've ever worked for, gig. Obviously the pool of such companies is smaller than in-person and they tend to have more competition for roles, but my unscientific guess is that pool is growing larger.

Bonus points for those companies because they didn't have to "figure it out" or change upper management corporate culture to go remote.

I am still flabbergasted that more companies have not gotten it through their skulls yet. Even if you keep an office, all-remote is simply a better model. Not only do you have access to a global labor pool (including the best candidates), the communication is better and work is more flexible (which literally everyone appreciates), you can lower overhead or even hire people for less based on location. The only major downside to going all-remote is the initial pain of the culture shift. You can keep an office for those that need in-person coworkers. It's all been figured out already so it's not a mystery.
Here is why: extraverts who need constant hyperactive human interaction are the only people psychopathic enough to ascend into the leadership tiers that make decisions about remote vs. in-person.

So they just can't, and I mean CAN'T, handle the idea of all-remote.

At all.

That‘s very drastic. I‘m a rather extroverted head of engineering and would fight tooth and nails to keep remote for my teams.
Agreed. Except it's the quiet intro-psychos that are the most dangerous.
I'd think introversion correlates more with psychopathy than extroversion
That story is told by an extrovert.
A funny thing in this regard is that companies using an open office to save money are often not willing to go remote because they are worried it will hurt productivity.
I find it bizarre that so many (American?) companies make such an issue out of this. I have no idea if my experience is typical for my country (NL), but both companies I've worked for since the start of the pandemic were eager to let everybody work remotely. Both are very big and traditional: a major bank and an international accountancy firm, and one is selling off their HQ office. Both let the teams decide, and generally aim for one day at the office per week, with the rest remote. But that day is pretty optional, and we've never had the entire team present.
I would love to go to a remote first company. How do you even find such a thing without just being super lucky?

I'm actually onboarding at a remote position right now where the people I work with are clearly used to everything happening in an office. It's Thursday, I started Monday, and I have spent a grand total of maybe 3 hours speaking to my teammates or direct manager.

I've been dumped with a ton of documentation and stuff to read, but I feel extremely isolated. No one on my team has reached out to welcome me or make themselves available for questions or anything.

If this is what some people are experiencing in the remote world I don't blame them for wanting to go back to the office. It certainly is not how I've experienced remote work in the past so far.

If there isn’t an IRC, Slack, or other instant messaging system in place, that should be the first step. Without that, I cannot imagine how remote work would actually… work.

From there, start being proactive about asking questions or starting conversations. Do not wait for others to reach out. You must initiate. That is a huge part of remote culture.

If you are initiating on instant messaging and not generating feedback or conversation, then you have a much bigger problem.

There is a Slack, of course. I've found people quite slow to reply so far.

Expecting a new hire to initiate is pretty unrealistic imo. Even in an office, leaders should be encouraging employees to reach out to the new hire and make that connection. In person new hires would be getting a team lunch of some kind at most companies I've ever worked at, some kind of scheduled time to meet and interact with people.

I don't see why remote should be different really. Onboarding should be a hands on process for the whole team to participate in, remote or not.

So, yes. I am kind of wondering if this is a bigger problem or if once I have stuff to work on things will improve.

Remote and office work are not the same in my experience. Your expectations need adjustment, if only because they conflict with the reality that you have observed.

Moreover, senior roles absolutely require you to initiate. If you are in a junior role, proactive behavior will help you advance past those who wait for things to come to them.

In general terms, initiating is an active behavior, while expecting others to initiate is passive. If you want “hands on” from others, tell those hands that you need their engagement.

In general, I strongly advise against passive behavior, unless you want your career driven by the good graces of others.

The problem at your new company isn’t to do with location, it’s that for whatever reason, their culture is terrible. There are zero scenarios where a good-culture company doesn’t very effectively welcome new people into a team.
Yours is a bad example. I on-boarded at a remote-first company (they were remote pre-COVID) a year ago and my experience was nothing like yours.

I was warmly welcomed and immediately partnered with a senior person. People were extremely helpful and if I needed help, people were always open to hopping on a call to get me unstuck. Most people respond to slack messages quickly.

The only downside is the codebase/tech stack sucks and the technical culture leaves something to be desired. But they have really nailed the remote experience.

I will never willingly go back to the office. My employer definitely gets more productivity out of me than if I were in office. It really is a win-win in my case. [Edit]:removed repetition

> Yours is a bad example. I on-boarded at a remote-first company (they were remote pre-COVID) a year ago and my experience was nothing like yours.

Mine is not a remote first company, it's a an office-first company that moved to remote for covid and is trying to embrace it.

That's why I was expressing a desire to find a remote-first company instead, to get the kind of experience you are describing.

I started searching for remote-first companies and specifically targeted them. I have 10-15 years of experience (depending on the specific needs of the company) in software, I was in a stable position at yet another zombie startup so I had time to hone my resume, interviewing skills, etc. Took me 2 tries and 2 years to land this particular position but it was worth it.

Interviewing can definitely be a numbers game but in hindsight (and just my experience) it's important to only go for companies where you think you'd be happy working.

As for onboarding, whether it's a remote first, omg-remote-because-of-covid, or an in-person company I've had varied results. My experience at most startups is that onboarding is pretty low on the priority list and quality is very dependent on the hiring manager and the team you've been hired onto.

I've been in all remote companies since '12, and will never go back unless forced. For what we do, it's pointless to travel to an office. Same goes for a huge majority of corporate work. It's gonna simultaneously trigger and require the economic destruction of a huge amount of office real estate investments to enable the change to remote work to become the majority.
> It's gonna simultaneously trigger and require the economic destruction of a huge amount of office real estate investments to enable the change to remote work to become the majority.

Baring in mind this could be worse than 2008. It's not going to be pretty and workers will ultimately feel the brunt.

Yet, if that cooperate real estate were converted into mixed use residential, the corporations might save themselves at the expense of every single family homeowner and investor. This is a likelihood because the single family real estate market would normalize to 1970 home prices with the amount of corporate real estate that could be converted. Don't underestimate corporations willingness to save themselves at the expense of everything else, including our planet.
Shopify is an excellent company to work for. Congratulations!
Similarly, I focused on companies that were based abroad but hiring in the US. Can't be forced to commute from Seattle to Mexico City.

And if anyone is interested in for real remote work, we're hiring SDE & Sr SDE frontend (React) and backend (Python). See my profile for contact info if interested.

> See my profile for contact info if interested.

No contact info on profile (not interested, just saying).

Same story here. I was interviewing through much of 2021 and got a _fantastic_ offer from a local startup but I ended up passing because I just didn't believe their remote work promises. Ended up taking a position at a fully remote company and I'm very happy with it.
Would love to follow you on Twitter what’s yours?
HackerNews is the most 'social' network I do these days. Facebook and Twitter trigger some very unhealthy buttons in my brain, so I stopped using social media.

Frankly I need to back off on HN as well.

I am in this process now. Only looking for companies without offices and who will put in my contract that I never have to come in even if they do buy one.

I am beyond sick of my current company pretending like everything is going to go back to normal one day. We have 75% of people working from home although not labeled remote and maybe 25% back in some offices. The CEO pushing that we are an office company has destroyed communication and meant that over the last two years instead of adjusting how we work just pretending like nothing every happened. So now we have terrible communication even within teams and no one who wants to fix it because that would be a waste of time since soon everyone will be in the office. This has been going on for over a year.

Maybe they will fix this but it’s completely destroyed my desire to work for what was once a great company. They have over 1k employees. It’s unbelievable how much time and energy have been wasted because management has refused to accept the current situation. If i had taken this same approach when things changed at this current job or others I would be fired. I need to switch to management.

> I am beyond sick of my current company pretending like everything is going to go back to normal one day.

> management has refused to accept the current situation

You don't state what country you're in, but in the US, the pandemic is effectively over. Everyone (that wants to be) is well-vaccinated, many 3 or 4x, Omicron blew through the country and left us mostly unscathed, and the news hasn't talked about daily numbers in at least two months. There is little reason to wear a mask indoors unless you want to lessen your chances of catching the flu - which is ticking up a bit.

We probably don't meet the scientific/medical definition of the end of a pandemic, but socially, we're there.

However, if you're in the US and still feeling this way, you may be suffering from some low-grade PTSD. Don't be afraid to reach out for help.

My remote option is a global team. We have offices at my location, but since management and the rest of the team is spread around the globe, the risk of me needing to show up at the office is minimal.
My wife's employer shut down their office and my employer did the same. It really helps build trust that they're not about to make us go back to an office.
> [...] the job opening didn't say remote, the agreement they signed didn't say remote.

I don't understand. Do people sign a contract that states something differently than they were being told verbally before?

Imho what isn't in writing doesn't exist. Especially when it comes to "promises" from potential employers.

For example I would not trust a promised raise in 12 months when nothing was done in writing. Even with the best of employers I would not agree to anything if they didn't agree to writing it down.

That's a pretty hard standard to hold. I've never had a company promise a particular desk to me in writing, but I trust that if they show me their nice office space and verbally tell me that's where I'll be sitting they won't put me on a folding table in the broom closet.
Surely you can see the difference between things like salary, whether you're expected to commute several hours a week, etc. and whether you're sitting next to a window or not.
My contract specifically states that my primary work location is the company office.

If I had applied to a remote position and the contract did not specifically state it's primarily a remote location, I would demand the contract was changed to reflect this before signing.

I think you've crossed over into the unnecessarily absurd.

When I got my offer and contract to sign which stated remote work I made damn sure it was in the contract along with compensation, holidays, sick leave etc. If any of these differed from the job advert, interview discussions etc then I'd be bouncing it back to the employer to correct.

These are not "pretty hard standard[s] to hold" a potential employer to.

you are right. if it’s not in writing, don’t accept it.
> Do people sign a contract that states something differently than they were being told verbally before?

Yes. All the time.

And verbal agreements are valid contracts too, if you can prove they exist (but good luck in that).

Anyway, this particular case looks more like the OP believed on the promises of a 3rd party (the recruiter), so it's not actually a contract.

It would surprise me very much if the written contract didn't have a provision about superseding any previous agreement.
"Entire Agreement" clauses are quite common.
I agree that verbal contracts are valid. But difficult to prove.
I'm sure that at least Facebook, Amazon, and Microsoft are hiring remote engineers. I got offers from them and I'm located in Canada.

However, I'm a pretty senior engineer so it may be harder for more junior roles.

> I'm not sure what the compensation model for recruiters is

There are three models of recruiting, first-party, retained and commission. You do not want to speak to recruiters working on commission, because they take the shotgun approach and have the least information and least incentive to tell the truth. One of my first questions to third party recruiters is "are you retained or on commission" and if the second, end the conversation.

This happened to me. The interview process went well but the company's closest office was 15 miles from me, which in Atlanta traffic is over an hour. I said I would need to be remote, they wanted me in the office full time. We were using an external recruiter, which I had never done before. Eventually the recruiter negotiated that I'd be onsite for the first month for onboarding and then remote after that.

My first week I mentioned something to my boss about being remote after the first month and he had no idea. The recruiter had simply lied about "negotiating" so that I'd accept the offer.

Luckily it all worked out. Although company policy was officially no work from home, my directly manager didn't care at all. And shortly after corona hit and they company ended up going 100% remote anyway.

> 15 miles from me, which in Atlanta traffic is over an hour.

Sounds like bicycle speed.

If I had to drive into Boston or Cambridge from 15 miles out at rush hour, it would almost certainly take me about that long.
Welcome to Atlanta. There isn't an easy way to get from Gwinnett to Alpharetta.

I did try it via bicycle, and it did take about the same amount of time. But the streets here are vary narrow and southern hospitality ends when you get in a car.

Sounds like a situation asking for some dedicated bike paths. Make it easy for people to bypass the heavy car traffic, maybe even introduce a shortcut from Gwinnett to Alpharetta, and reduce the pressure on the roads.
Spray and pray works until your reputation takes a hit. Recruiters definitely have incentive for quantity over quality and are basically the sales branch of HR. They're your friend just as much as the croupier is. Just business.

Not sure what the solution for us is. Having someone promise you something that is totally disconnected from what you later receive in writing reeks of exploitation of your sunk cost. Not accepting it is the first necessary step.