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All I can say as an artist is that there is a huge difference between constructive criticism and mindless putting something down.
Yes. Although learning to take C&C well is hard.
I think a bit of a tragedy about modern society is that social media outpaced our social development, and we've not adjusted to that yet.

Say you've just exited from a cinema, and vent to your friend/SO: "Sheesh, that SUCKED. I want my 2 hours of life back!". Overall, a perfectly common, normal sentiment. Not profound criticism, but it wasn't trying to be. And sometimes you'll have a friend in a group that'll rant about how much they hated this for a bit.

Now in modern times, you get a million do the same thing except on Twitter, or the subreddit for that particular work, and suddenly the creators get flooded with an absolute torrent of hate that can go on and on for days. And then when 1% decides to discuss their thoughts at length they can create discussions spanning months, videos, and conversations with people who actually participated in the work and have that last for years.

That can be awful for the people at the receiving end of it, when most of the people participating aren't really doing anything unusual. It's just incredibly magnified due to the new ability to have a million people spontaneously gather up and discuss how much X sucked.

That is a very good point. But, I think one must consider the context and medium of a statement. For example, personally if I read a book and I hated it I wouldn't go on Amazon and say "hey this book was trash", whereas I would say that to a friend. The problem is, posting something on Twitter or publicly is *not* saying it *just* to a friend, but rather to your friends and possibly many other people

I think it's just common courtesy to be more restrained in a more public setting. Just like I wouldn't say "hey this book was trash" to the author's face, because that's a possibility when posting online. Also, when you say something online, it's easy to take something out of context, like a joke. Therefore, isn't it reasonable and decent to be a bit more restrained when posting on a medium with a wider reach?

True, but I think that also needs us getting used to it.

For example Twitter can be very public or quite tight knit depending on how you use it, and you can move between spheres pretty much by accident. Respond to the wrong person, use a popular #tag, and suddenly you went from talking to your 10 friends to the entire world.

Or even somebody else can do that to you, if some well connected person thinks your take was hilarious and retweets it.

What is an invalid reason to feel an emotion? And what does that mean exactly?
Oh there are plenty nowadays. One reason to feel guilty for an emotion is that it classifies as unauthorized thoughts aka WrongThink.
This is about art. Art is about aesthetics, taste, and emotions evoked. All of those are subjective and personal.

Therefore, there are no invalid reasons to hate on art.

The only valid question is: which social circle can you share that opinion with?

> The only valid question is: which social circle can you share that opinion with?

Social circles are two-way streets. In my opinion you can share your opinion with the entire world but no one has to engage with you or listen to you. The law even protects your right to disengage from an individual who is hell-bent on getting you to engage with them.

Few people want to hear an unsolicited opinion about anything, not just art.

This has suddenly become a public conversation, for the first time that I can remember, because of the advent of social media.

Hot take alert: We hear a lot about social media creating echo chambers, but I have a pet theory that the real problem with "the news feed" style Facebooks and Twitters is that people actually aren't echo chambered enough. Hear me out.

I think it's a good thing that the Internet has given everyone a voice, but it's a double edged sword because everyone, as individuals, needs the tools to be able to listen to the voices of their choosing.

I'm a huge fan of pre-mobile / pre-social media forums. In my opinion they more closely mirror the way that people tend to socially organize offline: through shared special interests and hobbies.

Outside of work, my wife and I are performing magicians by hobby. We are members of our local Magic Circle. I can't remember ANY instance in the 12 years that we have been a part where a conversation has devolved into a flame fest of people shouting at each other over their personal opinions about art and/or politics. We are there to bond over a common interest. Nothing else matters.

Social media opens a firehoze of unsolicited opinions and while you can block and mute certain individual voices that you find persistently annoying, it is very lousy, by design, at giving you a narrowly defined topical feed. "The algorithm" is constructed purposefully to take that control away from you. And as we all know, it tends to push the most controversial, incendiary, emotion-inducing content to the top because that's what people engage with.

To compound that problem, people visit social media mostly on their free time as a form of entertainment. They just got off of work, or they are taking a break or they just had to deal with their 2 year-old throwing a temper tantrum. They come in, pre-exhausted, looking to unwind and all they want is cute cat gifs but instead they get some random asshole's unsolicited opinion about current President or Star Wars.

So yeah, I just went off on a rant about social media when the topic is whether we have valid reasons to hate on art. My point is that I don't remember anyone ever telling anyone else that can't hate on something prior to the social media era for fear of hurting a stranger's feelings.

I'm not quite sure about it, but I also think that the whole "if you cannot say anything nice, don't say anything" thing is very much an anglo thing.

Around here, Germany, art critics are celebrated for their often acerbic criticism. E.g. look for Marcel Reich-Ranicki on youtube, though I don't know if translations really convey everything properly :) Also, talking about the quality of anything isn't considered "intelligent" or "honest" around here if you don't talk about negative aspects. If you just say nice things, you are quickly considered dishonest, a salesman or dimwitted. Of course you need to state some valid-sounding reasons for anything negative, same as for the positive aspects, otherwise you'll be considered shallow or dimwitted as well.

> "if you cannot say anything nice, don't say anything" ...is very much an anglo thing.

Not sure that's true from what I've observed but I've always taken that advice as meaning "if you're going to criticize, find something positive to say first", not "never say anything negative". And I've never really thought of it as applying so much to criticizing art that's in the public sphere.

Disagree. Some art is great art that I don't like, some of it is great art that is expressing something that I think is morally depraved, and some art is just bad art. The trick is, first, to know the difference, and second, to be honest about the difference.
>>>> There are some folks in my life that believe that if you don't like something, you are not allowed to express your dislike....

I try hard not to be that person.

I like a lot of "weird" art, architecture, music, etc. I'm a jazz musician, and my preferences within jazz are somewhat on the experimental / artistic side of jazz.

It's amusing but sad to watch people in conversations, including friends and family members, struggle to say something when they find out that I like jazz. Or they're trying to work out a nice way to say that they'd rather not attend one of my performances.

Honestly it's OK to tell me that you hate jazz, since I already know it. Most people hate jazz. It's OK to tell me that my lengthy, obnoxious bass solo was a bit much. It's true. My feelings are not hurt. The world needs weird art, someone needs to make it, meaning that some kinds of art won't please everybody, or sometimes even anybody.

Have you thought about which of these is closer to the truth:

1. What you like in art/music happens to be weird, so by definition only liked by a small minority

2. What you like in art/music has to be weird because you want to feel like you're pushing the boundaries, which is a very "art-y" thing IMO

We need people pushing the boundaries of the weird. I don’t even think it’s bad to like weirdness for weirdness’ sake.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_classical_music_concer...

It is also funny to read about how historic audiences responded to weirdness – and almost all of this music modern audiences would listen to and go "yep, that's classical music."

"Weirdness" is what pushes art forward, sort of by definition. And people will dislike it, also by definition.

You know I find people that like weird music actually just LOVE music generally. So they like pop music as well (if its good) but then they also like weird shit because they like damn near everything interesting
Have you thought about which of these is closer to the truth:

1. People like different things for different reasons.

2. You think people who appreciate things you don't like are forcing themselves to like it to be twee and artsy, because you can't actually imagine someone who has radically different tastes from yours.

Your comment has a lot of the same energy as this xkcd guy: https://xkcd.com/1534/

People actually do like beer.

I find it entertaining how many people there are who apparently have this need to psychoanalyze things like musical tastes.

Apparently if you like whatever's on the radio this week, this requires no special analysis, you pass as normal. But if you don't, that must be a reflection of attention-seeking.

What makes it funny is that people who think like this never seem to notice the neuroticism and empathy-weaponization inherent in the need to bucket other people's taste like that.

Probably 2 or 3. ;-) The weird becomes normal by repetition, and I don't like repetition. Also, the boundaries mainly involve the boundaries of my own abilities and the sensibilities of musicians who are gracious enough to tolerate hiring me.

I'm not good or prominent enough to have a hope of affecting boundaries in a widespread fashion.

I should add, after reading the other comments here, that it's definitely 3. The notion of being "art-y" sticks in my craw, and would seem out of place if you actually observed the process of preparing for a performance, and the performance itself. You wouldn't guess that it was a jazz performance by looking at or talking to any of the participants.

The things that propel this activity are really pretty primitive: A love for the music itself, a feeling that it "deserves" to be performed, even if to a limited audience, pride in the craftsmanship involved, and the social hang.

During my Computer Music class in college, the professor asked what we thought of an especially unorthodox piece.

I responded that it was "just noise", barely music. He challenged me to get precise about what I meant; all music is "just noise" and I should strive to articulate what I meant by it.

A lot of the stuff we listened to was bizarre - e.g., someone slowly lowering a metal chain onto a cymbal and running that through an effects chain.

But it was clear that that's really some people's jam, and while I'm allowed to hate it, it's good to have a clear picture of why I do.

The article makes good points. One more point is that you have to be tactful, depending on the context. A lot of what separates appropriate criticism from just being a jackass is in how it’s delivered.
I don't get it. People tell you to shut up in many different scenarios, but they are always wrong, for different reasons in each scenario?

You jump in fetish porn channels telling them they are gross, but you have moral responsibility to do that. You shittalk Star Wars while watching together, but you are just bonding with the people on the internet that gave bad review. You comment under official channels on twitter, but this doesn't matter, they are rich anyway.

You never dislike indie, or even if you do you never comment it, because that would be bad. Except you do because feedback is important, and artists always thank you for your negative feedback.

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I kinda think that it is good if groups can create spaces to themselves where random people don't show up, and shit there. (Not taking to the extreme, and also not groups bonding against vulnerable minorities.)

While your 5th point is valid, you have every right to talk, even after they told you to shut up (and they have every right to tell you to shut up over and over again), also this is a very important right that is worth preserving in general, you still can be considerate. It's just you hurt people for a moment of satisfaction. (((And they choose to be hurt also for a moment of satisfaction.))) If you have better things where you can feel good, why not do those instead. E.g. where are your arts?

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> When you release your work, as an artist, you are tacitly agreeing to those terms.

They choose to be vulnerable, not because they want to be hurt, but despite of it. They want to please people even if some assholes will jump in and insult them only because they can. It just hurts people and makes them to create and share less value, for no benefits?

Don't get me wrong, as someone who likes to art as a hobby, I'm _ALL_FOR_ pissing on things for any number of reasons.. Including such irrationality as it simply not suiting your fancy.

But I must comment on

> Reason No. 2: The Work is Morally Abhorrent

Is this ever a sign of our times? On with the morality! All_the_time, must we not ? I think the morally abhorrent should be celebrated in its own right, for it provokes in you emotion, and that's one of the things art should do.

Curiosity forces me to push the limits of your acceptance of the morally abhorrent -- Are you OK with "sufficiently artsy" CSAM?
The arguably greatest prose work in the English language, Lolita, fits exactly that description and for decades puritans have thrown it out of libraries. Yes you ought to be because, and this is also a major point of the book, the apporpriate context to talk about art is an aesthetic, not a moralizing one.
Isn't this conflating the work with the methods used to produce it?
I think it's critically important to consider by which method such material was created.

By the putting of pencil to paper, entirely from the imagination of some feeble mind ? Whatever, it's not for me, and I'd maybe piss on it for a lot of reasons, but not from a point of some moral superiority.

Something created from actual abuse of real, living beings, or using such material as a reference, that's beyond the question of morality, that's beyond criticism of art, that's ethically wrong and should not enter into a discussion of art, and the police be informed.

Agreed. It reminds me of Bill Hicks and his comments on comedy as art, which went something along the lines of[1]:

[asked where a comedian should draw the line] "There are no lines. There are no lines. I say, erase all the lines."

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Art does not all have to pretty landscapes.

https://m.imdb.com/name/nm0382805/quotes

How about the arts are mostly funded by public money and they facilitate the most tax dodging of any public sector
Public funding for the arts exceeds spending by Hollywood and the video game industry?
It's sometimes very lonely hearing everybody say only positive things about something which you not only do not connect with, but which you also think has objectively bad elements with respect to its art form. It makes you feel like maybe instead of being the most important and significant thing in your life, it is instead just another garbage heap of ambition and mendacity.

So sometimes when you read that excoriating review you think yes I'm not alone. I'm not mad. That was thoroughly bad. And you remember that it's important.

For me, for anyone want to listen my "dislike", they need to pay to hear.

So i hope it's not just "valid", but it's a "business".

Valid reasons for hating on art? This honestly feels like the author is trying to justify being a negative person instead.

I don't disagree with providing feedback, but to "hate on" something is very different than providing feedback or constructive criticism. And of all things, more so art than anything else. Art is someone's personal expression. To "hate on" it is implicitly an attempt to invalidate that person's expression, if that were even possible. Are you being a judge of what someone should or shouldn't be expressing?

Per the author's "not my cup of tea" comment, I do believe that is actually a better approach. Because you are simply expressing that it's not something that you connect with/enjoy/appreciate/etc. and making your comments about yourself. When you "hate on" someone's art, you're completely missing the fact that your strong feelings are _yours_ and that the artist's expression is completely independent of that (whether others share your sentiment towards the work or not).

Art done well may not be my cup of tea, but it is entirely fair to hate on something if it is just called art by a lazy person. Smearing colors on a paper is what kids do. Adults should be able to produce something that is actually something.

Art that does not give the intended feeling, idea, or understanding is not worth the name art.

I still think that is a subjective take. Who defines "lazy" and since when can art not be lazy? Should the process by which art was created have any bearing on how the final expressed form is experienced?

The banana duct-taped to the wall could be considered "art by a lazy person", yet at the same time, it was actually a very authentic expression (in this case, an expression that was more along the lines of satire). The "artist" was having an internal experience that he chose to express as a banana on the wall with a piece of duct tape. The artistic expression was a social statement, a joke, a protest. And that's ok.

I think there is an exception to satire because good satire has to take on the form of what it mocks, and therefore you can't make an epic painting.

The hard work of satire is figuring out the best way possible to make the satire.

IDK a lot of this is just realizing if you post on a public message board, a lot of people might see it, including the artist. So maybe show some decorum even if you are anonymous.
I hosted a talk by A.O. Scott (film critic of the NYT) about his book "Better Living Through Criticism." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Kh3-DGU3l4

He makes a spirited defense of the role of the critic, and I say in the intro that I don't GAF about Rotten Tomatoes or MetaCritic; I just read him, and whoever's writing on Roger Ebert's site these days. I want to know what the movie's like and if I should see it, not some stupid average rating from 100 would-be "critics". After I see it, I want to understand it better.

A real critic helps you understand what a work is about, and what's good or bad about it. A high school dweeb's opinion or a shill's is worth what you pay for it: nothing.

Of course it can hurt your feelings as an artist. I've had a video up on YouTube for over 15 years now, and my expectations on the comments are so low that I'm amazed when someone actually gets it completely. But after you read a few drive-by opinions by someone who completely missed the point, you just say "ok, you didn't like it, that's life."

Good criticism elevates the craft of critical writing above simply giving a "yea" or "nay" and also doesn't just summarize the plot. Sadly, that's like 90% of modern media criticism these days. You've named some of the outliers. Good critics are like guides on a hike or cartographers: clarifying, examining, and situating the work in, its context (which is to say our context). Book criticism, because it is a far older tradition, seems to have a relatively thriving critical scene, even if it is increasingly getting fenced off into things like NYRB, LRB, ERB, or other literary reviews. Movie criticism, likely because of its frankly often parasitic relationship with Hollywood (reviews for access), seems to be moving away from thriving independent publications able to "tell it like it is".

I would really recommend ReverseShot for probably some of the consistently best writing on film: http://reverseshot.org/

David Bordwell's blog is also pretty interesting (for those who don't know, he is an extremely well known film scholar with a focus on Hollywood cinema). http://www.davidbordwell.net/blog/

Little White Lies out of the UK is also pretty good. It has extremely good art and graphic design in magazine form.

Very well said, thanks.

I've heard NYRB satirized as "New York Reviews of Each Others' Books"

The NYRB, and to a lesser extent the LRB, is pretty infamous for that. They are also infamous for long essays that only reference the book under review in the very last paragraph. It's more like the "review" is a pretense to spiral out long essays on the topics, which are often very interesting and they always have very good writing. NYRB also is, in my opinion, way too focused on non-fiction, especially after Bob Silvers passed. The occasional "Fiction" issue they have is always fascinating and I wish they'd open it up a bit to more fiction.

I'm very excited for a recent newbie: The European Review of Books, for its focus on non-english works which I think is an enormously untapped reservoir. They publish annually; the format is like a book.

Since I have two books out, and I guess I entered some contests and listed it on Reedsy as "seeking reviews," I'm now being inundated by spam emails offering to guarantee me FORTY REVIEWS of my books! I would assume these people, at least, will read the book. Or at least skim it.

I can also pay the Kirkus Review $450 to get a "professional" review. I passed on that one, too.

It's interesting to be on the other side of this game.

In my limited experience, Kirkus Review fails the most simple of tests for whether I think I should care about their reviews: how willing are they to say a book sucks? I don't think I have ever seen a scathing Kirkus Review, while I've seen some legendary ones in other pubs. Not hatchet jobs; methodical take downs of a book, even if it is 'hyped'. Kirkus' schtick is a review as a marketing tool. They specialize in milquetoast praise fit for breathless quotes on book covers.
As an author, I can tell you that if they write a bad review of my book (not that I've hired them), I can decide not to use it.

So they have an incentive not to say anything to make an author discard it.

A wine sommelier once told me that she reads wine reviews from people she disagrees with.

It's not about whether the reviewer is right; the sommelier knows where the reviewers tastes lie relative to her own. If something is too nutty for the reviewer, it may be just right for her.

I think this also applies to art criticism. The way someone complains about (or praises!) a movie or book can tell me a lot about whether I'll like it, regardless of whether I agree with them.

> Reason No. 2: The Work is Morally Abhorrent

I disagree. It's better in general not to go around judging people's morality, and if you can't manage that, try to keep your moral judgments to yourself. This situation is exactly what that evidently hated phrase "it's not for me" was invented for.

Banal as it sounds, "it's not for me" has been holding society together for hundreds of years, whereas "you are bad for creating or liking this" has never helped anybody.

> However, an important caveat here--expressing your distaste for a work on moral grounds is a great way to spark a discussion with friends and family members.

Usually it's not a discussion, usually it's a screaming match. Nobody learns anything, nobody changes their mind, everyone becomes their worst self. Our culture is filled with these discussions, I'm tired of them.

> It's better in general not to go around judging people's morality, and if you can't manage that, try to keep your moral judgments to yourself.

You do realize that this is, itself, a moralizing statement, don't you?

I also suspect nobody really adheres to it, either. People simply say "don't judge other people's morality" because they don't want themselves or others to be judged by the default/most common cultural standards. But as soon as you tell other people to judge or not to judge, well, you're judging.

> You do realize that this is, itself, a moralizing statement, don't you?

Nope, I thought about that. Morality is about good and evil, not effective or ineffective, productive or unproductive.

It would be more precise to tell people to consider that other people have different value systems and that their view is not the standard everyone should be judged by.
This reminds me of a time I went to see a musician friend of mine perform. I showed up before his performance and sat at the bar to watch the others go on before him.

A younger gentleman sat down on stage, plugged in a bass guitar and sat with it. He strummed it a couple times and then put it on his lap. He then jammed a butter knife into it. I thought it was a weird weird tool to use to tune a guitar, but whatever.

Then he pulled out a bow and began fiddling that butter knife. It was the most wretched sound I've ever heard intentionally amplified.

It was horrible, and he wouldn't stop. I finished my drink and looked around the room. Everyone was locked in, some even nodding their heads as though there were some rhythm to nod to. There was not. There was no discernable difference in pitch or tone no matter where on the knife he played. If he could predict the sound being made before he made it, it wasn't obvious.

I had a great seat in the middle of the bar and didn't want to lose it for my friend's show, so ordered another drink. But the guy was relentless, and the crowd was relentless in their appreciation. I slammed the drink and gave up the best seat in the house to smoke outside until it was over.

My friend's performance was excellent (which I watched later from the back of the room). Later I was with him and a couple other patrons and tried to describe how awful the knife guy was. The others who saw it said I was being closed-minded. I worry they cannot hear well.

The only art in that room was watching that crowd accept that wretched noise as performance, simply because the person making it happened to be on stage.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Noise_music

It is indeed a thing. Some people are really into it. Some friends of mine probably would have been riveted by that butter knife show. I recommend reading the RYM reviews for Merzbow, which contain both yours and fans' takes: https://rateyourmusic.com/release/album/merzbow/pulse-demon/

And it goes deeper: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harsh_noise_wall

> The movement is spearheaded by French musician Vomir, who described his aesthetic as "no ideas, no change, no development, no entertainment, no remorse"

E.g. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wLzEgrHKxNM

I've heard Merzbow before; I think it was the Pulse Demon album, actually. While I won't comment on whether it's art or not, I don't think it meets any of the criteria for "music" other than being audible sound. No rhythm, no notes, no harmony, and barely any discernible structure.
And the noise genre is even more easily classed as "music" than other outliers, like musique concrète. Are ambient recordings music? Some would say yes!

It is surely an interesting conversation to find where each person's limit for "music" (or art!) resides.

> The only art in that room was watching that crowd accept that wretched noise as performance, simply because the person making it happened to be on stage.

You cannot fathom that other people might have different responses to it?

I like noise. Not everyday, but I do go to concerts of it. Next you will reveal to me that the sensations and feelings I get to experience are just a construct and I am inflicting this only because it's on stage?

> You cannot fathom that other people might have different responses to it?

You can stare at a blank wall for hours, convince thousands of others to do so, start a movement behind it, write, talk, sing, do what the masses need to do in regards to that blank wall.

I still won't call the blank wall "art". I will absolutely call your ability to get everyone else to do so "art".

I'm allowed. As are you.

i'm a musician, i enjoy and also sometimes play noise music. your comment is exactly correct. noise as music is totally preposterous. a large part of what i enjoy about noise are thoughtful, hilarious critiques like yours.

here are some plausible entry points to this bizarre non-genre. any number of these could be interesting to consider:

- the opposite of a thing is often part of the thing. think about of how a good illustrator is super conscious of negative space. is noise the opposite of music?

- every musical note contains a series of overtones. ask a string player to demonstrate "harmonics" if you're unfamiliar with the concept. i couldn't really hear them until i learned how to listen for them. it's possible the knife-guitar player was doing something with overtones. it's also possible that the people nodding along spend a lot of time playing amplified music, and have suffered hearing loss that changes the threshold at which they can comfortably perceive the overtone series. (or they could've just been entirely deaf)

- some people are interested in asking the question "what even IS 'music,' anyway?" noise music is a flippant answer to this question. But it's an answer nonetheless.

- "what even IS 'a performance,' anyway?"

- if you're a driver, it could be important to get a feel for your vehicle by doing things like flooring it and slamming on the breaks. if you're a painter, it could be beneficial to get to know your paint by making a big goopy pile of it somewhere. if you're a musician?

- knife guy almost certainly didn't start out immediately loving unlistenable noise. he probably was exposed via a gateway drug like ambient music, and built up a tolerance over time. same way i learned to love "spicy mustard."

- it's all just a big scam, but if you want in on it you have to pretend to be into it. maybe it's a scam we can live with. musicians don't really make much money anymore.

- human beings are fucking weird. we tend to like things just because we're familiar with them. the fact that people enjoy noise is a hilarious example. you might enjoy learning a couple of the big noise names (merzbow is a good one, lou reed metal machine music is a classic) and continuing to dunk on noise fans because it's funny and we deserve it.

Taping a banana to a wall? fire away. A building that is "unique" but fails at function? fire away. Literally any municipal or local government purcahsed art? It's probably shit.

Someone spent a lot of time doing something you can't do, paying attention to details, honing a skill, reflects years of practice and fine craftsmanship? It's probably "good" art.

That being said, people like to piss on other people's work because it's a lot "easier to criticize than create". There's a distinct change you simply don't appreciate how hard these things are either. Do you have the time/energy/dedication to do the thing your criticizing? Consider that first. Artists are a necessary part of society and sometimes they need an attaboy too.

I'm dealing with a family member that has decided to become an artist in their retirement. They think they're going to be in a gallery, everyone else is like WTF is this trash. They're using cheap ballpoint pens and dollar store markers. It's basically pattern like scribbles and he's churning out 2-3 of these a day. I want to be supportive of them, they're just living on a different planet it seems when compared to so many actually talented artist.
Encourage them to take an art class. Feedback sessions with others at roughly the same skill level can help with that.
>They're using cheap ballpoint pens and dollar store markers.

I've seen good drawings made with ballpoint pens and with markers. Beyond the fact that it's more difficult to get consistent strokes with them, I don't see anything wrong with using such media.

People are weird, and I have seen people donate money to support absolutely worthless things. So, who knows, maybe if you could convince that family member to digitalize their art and set up a Patreon account, it might become a source of income.

Also, people become better with lots of practice, so who knows what will happen ten years later. In the meanwhile you can give them a link to https://drawabox.com/