Ghosting is immature and cruel. As she clearly knows because of the reaction it causes in the lovers she leaves that way. I have no patience to read the story of someone who behaves that way.
TLDR: She didn’t leave because she read it — she left because she couldn’t unfeel what it was like to be reduced to a liability list by someone who’d been kissing her goodnight. which is a fair response.
Curiosity killed the cat.
If we could have unfiltered access to what everyone was thinking, I don't think any relationship would ever survive. Everyone in a relationship knows that the same person can induce feelings of love, anger, passion, hate, disgust, contempt, joy, doubt, affection etc over a period of time. Commitment to a relationship means learning to look beyond a particular moment of any particular feelings.
This lady sounds like a real piece of work. Communication is not in her vocabulary. She also has some Disney level over-romanticized perspective of love.
She is clearly in the Shelby Galezby zone on the Vicky Mendoza diagonal.
The guy is lucky he dodged the "tried to kill you with a brick" level of crazy.
Three cats are two too many. So are four dogs and a cat. She doesn’t need a boyfriend, she needs an animal shelter to take care of. In Antarctica.
If your partner sees the need to rather talk to a machine than to you about how he/she feels, you are the problem.
And no level of J.K Rowling style writing is going to change that. Felinus Furiosa Exilium!
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[ 0.21 ms ] story [ 788 ms ] threadThree cats are two too many. So are four dogs and a cat. She doesn’t need a boyfriend, she needs an animal shelter to take care of. In Antarctica.
If your partner sees the need to rather talk to a machine than to you about how he/she feels, you are the problem.
And no level of J.K Rowling style writing is going to change that. Felinus Furiosa Exilium!