It's really hard and vulnerable to put yourself out there like this. I think it's good to be as kind and generous as possible in these kinds of conversations even (or especially) if there's some brutal honesty involved.
I used "picky" in another reply and I apologize since this is obviously a sensitive subject and you're right that it's not the most generous word choice. That said, I think you do need to find a balance. Using your CTO…
It sounds like maybe you’re being too picky. A guy who is both physically attractive and “marriageable”, which I assume means charismatic and well-established financially, will have tons of options. Even if you are…
It's really hard and vulnerable to put yourself out there like this. I think it's good to be as kind and generous as possible in these kinds of conversations even (or especially) if there's some brutal honesty involved.
I used "picky" in another reply and I apologize since this is obviously a sensitive subject and you're right that it's not the most generous word choice. That said, I think you do need to find a balance. Using your CTO…
It sounds like maybe you’re being too picky. A guy who is both physically attractive and “marriageable”, which I assume means charismatic and well-established financially, will have tons of options. Even if you are…