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Instead of complaining about how evil society is that it leaves them in the lurch, poor people should rather be mad at their (often poor) parents that the parents give birth to them.
But who will drive the better off people in their Uber, deliver their groceries, and clean their houses, if there are no poor people left?
we'll just import some third-worlders to do that stuff while we're waiting for the eggheads to fully automate everything, what could go wrong?
Does HN think the third-worlders should hate their parents for giving birth to them even if they get an "opportunity" to make it in America?
This. It always baffles me why people are not shamed more for having kids when they clearly have no resources of place for them in their lives.
Because chances are people who are systematically impoverished are also not properly educated on how to exercise birth control in effective manners, or don't have the resources to access abortion services (especially in states where there are less than a handful of clinics that offer the services in the first place of have regulations explicitly to limit a woman's bodily autonomy rights), or had children before the breadwinner of the family was put in jail or otherwise lost their jobs due to the disproportionate choice in law enforcement in USA.

There is, in fact, a massive confluence of reasons why poor people end up having children, and shaming them for doing so instead of helping those reasons will not help anyone.

Also, because they're like _human beings_ who need a family like everyone else does.
Shaming is education. It creates a very strong cultural and emotional tie to knowledge, motivating people to act in a certain way.

If we lived on a planet where every person was a rational, level-headed adult, lectures and books would be enough of an education. Sadly, most of the people are irrational and emotional; if you want to steer them towards better life decisions, for their sake as well as society's, shame is a very good tool.

Shaming creates pariahs. Shaming gives others the incentive to ignore, blame, shun, harm and not help those who are shamed.

America has a long, ugly history of shaming single mothers, sexual abuse victims, adulterers and interracial and non-heterosexual relationships. I don't think that we should encourage more of it.

> Sadly, most of the people are irrational and emotional; if you want to steer them towards better life decisions, for their sake as well as society's, shame is a very good tool.

Would you use the word 'paternalistic' to describe your views on an ideal society?

This post does not address the other reasons I have stated.
> Because chances are people who are systematically impoverished are also not properly educated on how to exercise birth control in effective manners

This is not true at all. Everyone knows how not to have children, just like everyone knows smoking can cause cancer. People just take the risk anyway. It's basic human irrationality, no amount of education can fix it.

Societal pressure, on the other hand, does have some of the desired effect, even if it's not a "nice thing" like education.

> This is not true at all. Everyone knows how not to have children...

I used to help moderate a LiveJournal community called "amipregnant" and this is a laughably false assertion.

"Yes, you can get pregnant your first time having sex" and "no, you can't get pregnant from sitting on a toilet seat a boy used" were both pretty common sorts of things we had to tell folks.

Do you have proof that societal pressure via shaming results in systematic changes the way you’re describing? From what I remember, there are studies regarding the shaming of women and bodily image that doesnt seem to correlate shaming for misbehavior with better behavior (Ie. Eating less).
That's a bit of a special case, because shaming creates stress, while people with an eating disorder eat to reduce stress.

Otherwise, I think it's self-evident. There's many behaviors that would've been socially unacceptable a hundred years ago, which today are accepted and far more common. For a somewhat related example, consider inter-racial or (to some degree) inter-religious marriages.

If it’s self evident, then it should be rudimentary to study.
Exactly, so please go ahead and study it.
Really?? Rather than help people who are struggling to take care of their children, you'd rather shame them, creating another generation of neglected children who grow up into undereducated, angry young people? What is wrong with you?
> Really?? Rather than help people who are struggling to take care of their children, you'd rather shame them

Offering free vasectomies (subsidized from tax money) would indeed not a bad idea to help these people before the problem occurs.

Yes. Let's sterilize the poor before they reproduce!

/s !

Or, we could give free vasectomies to people who display a total lack of empathy. Don't want to pollute the gene pool!
> Or, we could give free vasectomies to people who display a total lack of empathy.

If you mean me: I have good, deep reasons why I do not even want children (these reasons shall by off-topic here). And I live by my words so that other people can follow my anti-natalist example. :-)

False dichotomy logic fallacy. These things are not at all mutually exclusive.
I'm gonna answer your loaded question honestly:

Yes, I would rather shame people who are "having kids when they clearly have no resources of place for them in their lives" than spending any of my personal resources on actually helping them, if those are the only two choices I have.

Your empathy in and of itself is worthless. How much of your income are you personally willing to give up to bail out people who make poor choices? Where do you draw the line? I hope we can agree that having children without having the resources to take care of them is a poor choice. All that "neglect and undereducation" is due to that poor choice, first and foremost. Welfare doesn't fix the problem. Just look at all the "angry young people" in France (20% youth unemployment), a country which has some of the strongest welfare programs in the world, including free university education.

Birth control is expensive. Birth control often requires regular, routine access to the healthcare system. This is a problem when you're poor.

At the time of conception, nobody knows how things will turn out in their life a few years down the line. Will I still have that job that allows me to pay my bills? Will I have been bankrupted by an acute medical issue, because I lost my health insurance at a critical moment?

Having kids is a commitment. But you have to take a leap of faith. You can't just undo that commitment later, or walk away from it.

But shaming people for having kids? Have you no heart? How on earth is that going to help with anything? Is it going to make their lives better? Is it going to help the kids?

> Will I still have that job that allows me to pay my bills? Will I have been bankrupted by an acute medical issue, because I lost my health insurance at a critical moment?

There is always some uncertainty in life. And yet, we're somehoe able to make decisions despite this uncertainty. However, you take this uncertainty argument to absurd levels - by your logic, no human being should be expected to be responsible for any life decision, ever, because uncertainty.

How about we just presume that having a child without a good, reliable job and some sort of partner (not neccesarilly a heterosexual or even romantic one) it plain stupid?

> Is it going to make their lives better? Is it going to help the kids?

When you shame someone for bad decision, the purpose is not to influence these exact people. The purpose is to create a strong understanding in the whole culture that this is a bad decision, and prevent other people from doing the same.

> There is always some uncertainty in life. And yet, we're somehoe able to make decisions despite this uncertainty. However, you take this uncertainty argument to absurd levels - by your logic, no human being should be expected to be responsible for any life decision, ever, because uncertainty.

I think my point didn't come across. I wasn't talking about avoiding responsibility. I simply meant that it's easy to make assumptions. Just because someone has a child and doesn't have the resources to care for it, doesn't mean that it was always that way. Things in life don't always go as planned.

> How about we just presume that having a child without a good, reliable job and some sort of partner (not necessarily a heterosexual or even romantic one) is plain stupid?

Personally, I agree with that statement. But who am I to judge other people on their choice to have kids? That's just not my place.

And I am also a realist - things happen. Live throws curve-balls. Birth control doesn't always work. And sometimes people do things that are not smart in the spur of the moment. Procreation is a very powerful drive.

It seem to me that more and better education and easier/cheaper access to birth control would be a more effective way to help people make smart choices about having children.

> Birth control is expensive. Birth control often requires regular, routine access to the healthcare system. This is a problem when you're poor.

As I wrote in https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=18284196 Let's subsidize vasectomies so that they can ideally be gratis. They just have to be done once. No regular visits necessary.

> But shaming people for having kids? Have you no heart?

I have a very big heart. But my heart is a deeply rational one instead of an empathic one (I know, I will never become a diplomat). My big, rational heart is the reason why I became very anti-natalist.

"Sterilize the poor" is, historically, not a great road to start down.
An opt in program to improve the ability of people who don't want children to reliably control their reproductive choice is wildly different from forced sterilization.
We've got historical precedent for that, too. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compulsory_sterilization#Steri...

> Sterilization was most frequently recommended by physicians because of a pervasive belief that Puerto Ricans and the poor were not intelligent enough to use other forms of contraception. Physicians and hospitals alike also implemented hospital policy to encourage sterilization, with some hospitals refusing to admit healthy pregnant women for delivery unless they consented to be sterilized. This has been best documented at Presbyterian Hospital, where the unofficial policy for a time was to refuse admittance for delivery to women who already had three living children unless she consented to sterilization. There is additional evidence that true informed consent was not obtained from patients before they underwent sterilization, if consent was solicited at all.

> How on earth is that going to help with anything? Is it going to make their lives better? Is it going to help the kids?

You're assuming that the poster actually cares about these things, and not just shaming people he thinks are below him.

While the method of birth control is a hugely personal choice and thus not "one size fits all", IUDs, where usable, don't require the same routine, regular access to the healthcare system as other methods. The level of FUD surrounding them (as well as RU-486) is ghastly, and the fact that parents can opt their children out of sex eduction is abhorrent.

Yes, people should be allowed to make their own decision on whether or not to have a child, but it should be an informed, considered decision, including the cost of supporting a child for their whole life, and not "oh no, the rhythm or pull-out method didn't work, ah well, let's just keep it".

WOW! So, only the well-to-do are allowed to have kids? What dystopia do you live in!?
Even the most fiscally responsible middle-class person in the US can become entirely broke with massive debt after getting handed medical bills in the six figures.
This is so absurdly misanthropic that I can't possibly believe you're being serious.
The nerve of humans deigning to follow their only drives: survive and replace themselves. Disgusting. A 1.2 billion year unbroken line of sexual reproduction should be enough for anyone.
Like everything in social policy, this is more complicated than downvoters realize. Many people who look comfortable in their DINKy lifestyles would love to have kids if they could give them the best in life. I mean, we refuse to have a _dog_.

I've been wanting to get a tortoise though. I'm told that once you get their living arrangement right, with the special lamp and whatnot, they're easy to care for.

What if people have kids when the economy is booming and soon fall into poverty due to the economy bust cycle and other factors such as crazy medical bills or some bad luck. Most Americans can't afford kids if they keep in mind that the economy is a rollercoaster and unpredictable events pul them down.
I actually got quite depressed playing the game, then reading the quite dismissive comments of 2011.

It was kind of nice to switch back to the current discussion and see it lean a bit more toward empathy for the poor.

Something I've realized here, and in other discussions I'm randomly having: I think most people just don't think things through and can't put themselves sufficiently deeply into another person's shoes.

Someone just asked me, "why do you have to register to vote? why can't I show up with a passport?" - which sounds reasonable until you start thinking about local elections, where you need to prove that you live in a certain area, and then the need for some sort of registration becomes more obvious. (Or another refactoring of the system, at least.)

Same here - people think, "why do you need a car, I certainly don't need one on the Upper East Side!" - and for them, they don't. In rural Texas, not having one means you're very geographically bound, and effectively unemployable.

So, for some things, I don't think it's just a lack of empathy; it's just a quick knee-jerk comment on an internet forum.

A year or two back, I had an encounter with an artist. They were in some financial distress. This person blamed Uber and a company they'd rented a car from for this distress, telling a tale of woe and failed art shows. They included numbers.

I took the numbers provided and worked out what their finances looked like. Tracked income and outlays. It quickly became clear that while Uber hadn't helped their situation, the several thousand dollars they had spent on financially unsuccessful art shows had more to do with their distress.

The artist in question was blown away. They'd literally never encountered the notion of tracking their money in a meaningful sense.

What I learned from this is that what's unimaginable to me - such as the idea of budgeting being entirely foreign - is someone else's normal. I also learned that it's impossible to put myself into their shoes fully, because life experiences can easily diverge wildly.

Same here - people think, "why do you need a car, I certainly don't need one on the Upper East Side!" - and for them, they don't. In rural Texas, not having one means you're very geographically bound, and effectively unemployable.

You're absolutely correct. I'm lucky enough to live in Melbourne Australia. Until this year "world's most livable city". Public Transport is fantastic and affordable.

However, if you're unemployed and looking for a entry level job, then lets give a few examples.

Warehouse and factory work - plenty of that around. However by nature they're going to be in industrial zones quite far from residential areas and transport. You can probably rule that out without a car.

Cleaning - You might be able to get commercial cleaning, although your inability to get between jobs isn't going to look great to employers. Residential cleaning doesn't seem likely.

Labouring - No chance you can be reliable because the jobsite will constantly be changing.

By nature plenty of the low-skilled work you're immediately unable to do by not having a car, even in a city with a VERY good infrastructure.

I don't necessarily think the posters are lacking in empathy, I think I was just trying to bright side that perhaps the tone of the comments meant there was a bit more societal awareness than we had back then.

This game needs in-app purchases so you can win at it faster.
How about crime? Didn't play for long, but an "pay off your credit card by thieving from someone" option adds another interesting facet.
Funny, because I have no way to see what my state is. How I live, subscriptions etc. So everything comes at a surprise.
The "college loan due" really came as a shock. I had a college degree??
Or part of one?

Heck, there are a lot of people still paying off debt from ITT Tech; you can get Pell grants reduced if the college closes while you're attending, but not private ones.

> you can get Pell grants reduced if the college closes while you're attending

I think you mean Stafford loans. Grants, by definition, do not need to be repaid.

Shoot, yeah. I thought "the federal one" and didn't sanity-check that, thanks.
College degree, working a 9$ / hr job. Not saying this is impossible, but probably not the case of most college degree holders.
Depends how many millennials you talk to.
My young friend has a PhD in physics; published and respected. Drives a bus.
There's something missing here.

How long ago did he finish his program? Is your friend limiting his search only to jobs in academia? Is he capable of getting a security clearance? What's your gauge of "respected"?

There are many government and industry jobs for fresh Physics PhDs right now.

Gave up on academia after a year; took another year and a half to find a high school physics teacher job
Yeah, that makes absolutely no sense. There are MANY office jobs that pay better than driving a bus. Does he have mental health problems?
Gotta say, kinda crappy. Why do I have a car? I'm wasting so much money on insurance and gas - that would never work out better than renting a shitty place closer than bussing distance. Accept the commute, even most of the middle class does it anyways so they can live in a bigger house.

And it just randomly decided to take tutoring money away even though I answer its math question correctly? Why do I have over $7000 on my CC bill? Was I living well above my means for some reason? Why do I have a kid? That was a rather poor financial planning decision...

Do you live in the US? People are basically forced to own a car here in order to live
That is not at all true if you're anywhere near an urban center.
Have you been to DFW?
> if you're anywhere near an urban center.

This isn't true even in most urban centers.

That's true for a few, specific urban centers in the US - NYC, DC, SF, Seattle, etc. - but there are plenty of urban areas in the US with really poor public transit systems.
I live in NYC and the deeper you get into the boroughs, the more a car is necessary/helpful, especially with how unreliable the MTA is these days. Also most parts of NYC with good transit, shorter commutes are also probably more expensive rent-wise.

There's news articles about how the worst low income areas of NYC don't have good transport options.

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Won't you spend the difference on extra rent, though?
Name me an 'urban center' with adequate transit where you can live on $1400/mo? Anywhere within 30 miles of Seattle, that's rent.
Chicago is definitely possible on $1400/mo. Speaking from personal experience.
Single bedroom rent in the Boston area can be as low as $1200/mo. Two bedroom is around $2k. Split the rent with one other person (yes, even in the single bedroom apartment) and the rest to cover food + transportation + bills.
Food, basic cell phone plan (necessity in 2018), health insurance, electric, trash, water. That's either having absolutely $0 left over, or not livable on the given $1400/mo wage.
Don't forget gas and car insurance.
Even many urban centers in the US are car-centric, especially some of the more affordable ones. Chicago is probably the only affordable place with decent enough transit to go car-free. NY, Boston, and Seattle have pretty good transit, but the total COL expenses in those places still makes them out of reach for poor people. Anywhere else, and not having car will severely impact your job opportunities and probably your cost of living too (good luck saving money by buying from bulk discount stores when you can't carry most of it back).
People do car-sharing in the US? I've seen many countries where cars only drive their driver on the way to work.
You can opt to live closer to work and not pay as much in transportation
Still gives you the car loan, lost your job event though...
You can’t opt to ditch the car, which is silly. This simulation feels far too constrained and tied to a narrative to be convincing.
It’s realistic. There are few places in the US where you can live without one.

I’m surprised it even lets you live close enough to walk to work. There are a lot of jobs out there where it’s impossible to live that close.

There is one house within walking distance to my job: the farmhouse that was here before it was developed. (there used to be two houses, but one was torn down last year when the owners sold). There is an apartment complex a long walk away but there are not enough units there for everybody who works in this office park. Even if you lived in either of the above you would need a car because there are no grocery stores withing walking distance. That is all my choices for living close to work. There is no transit within walking distance either. In short, if I'm to not have a car I need a different job. This situation is not unusual in the US.
People are very attached to their cars, thus they invent reasons to keep them. If you can walk to work you do not need a car, travel to work is one of the few good reasons to own one.
What if you can walk to work but can’t walk to a grocery store?
Or can't guarantee you'll be living/working somewhere that you can walk to work in a few months.
Very unlikely in a city. Lots of people live without a car, as the app is trying to simulate poverty it’s not v. accurate to assume you have a car.
Which sounds great, until you lose your job and your new one is suddenly 75 miles away, or away from any public transit options.

Move closer to the new job, you say? Not everyone can drop a few grand to terminate a lease and hire a moving truck and put down a new first-month-and-security-deposit.

I was just responding to their critique of the game—not real life.

I know what poverty feels like.

Ah, sorry; I didn't realize. I think a lot of people here don't know what it's like.
No worries. It's good to see that some people empathize, especially if they don't know what it's like.
In most areas that means paying more in rent.
Yes, I was just speaking with regard to the game— in which case it definitely charges you more in rent.
Because, “Like more than 50 percent of Americans, your access to public transit is too limited to go totally carless.”
50% of Americans aren't also below the poverty line, they can afford to drive.
Alas, being below the poverty line and being able to live in a place where you don’t need a car rarely go together.
50% of Americans are in poverty or low income though. Probably worse since this data too.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/census-data-half-of-us-poor-or-...

> $45,000

Enough said. We're talking about someone making under $20k here. At $45k you can easily afford a car.

$45,000 is the middle-to-lower number, not lower-to-poverty, and it's for a family of four.

"Cheap" cars get expensive quick, and living in a low-income area means your insurance rates are way higher as well.

You can buy a reliable ten year old Toyota Corolla for less than $2k, it will run for at least another ten years with nothing more than basic maintenance, and the income area you live in doesn't affect liability insurance in any appreciable way as you don't need full coverage on the vehicle (you'd pay more than the cost of the vehicle for it over a few years anyway).
Area definitely matters. https://www.nytimes.com/2018/10/19/your-money/car-insurance-...

> With other factors being equal, addresses in less affluent ZIP codes with higher minority populations were quoted annual premiums that were $410 higher, on average, than those in neighboring ZIP codes with wealthier, more heavily white populations, according to the analysis.

and from the linked study, these are minimum liability rates, not comprehensive:

> Except for the address, the tested drivers were exactly the same in every way, and the coverage is for the state mandated minimum liability policy.

(Add in what happens to a low-income family when their new-to-them $2k, minimally insured Corolla gets totaled in the first week to the "things that make it expensive to be poor" list, too.)

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> At $45k you can easily afford a car.

Unless you have other expenses, or live in a place where keeping a car is unusually expensive.

Yeah, that was kind of the point. You have a car because the alternative is absurd rent or absurd travel times. You lost the tutoring money because that's how the world works. Income streams disappear, without a real reason.

This is honestly pretty accurate as simulators go. There might be technical flaws but the feel is there. The actual numbers you control are $40-50 variances, while the costs are an order of magnitude higher. Getting ahead in that scenario is virtually impossible. You might save an extra month's worth of expenses every year, if you budget flawlessly and don't give in to a single indulgence.

And it hardly even touches on the development and mental health impacts on a child (or yourself) in those cases—like forgoing school trips or learning opportunities.
>You lost the tutoring money because that's how the world works. Income streams disappear, without a real reason...

Wish I could upvote this bit more.

One thing that gets us into trouble financially more than anything else is our belief that revenue streams will not go away. They DO go away. (And often at the most inopportune times.)

This certainly seems a lot better than e.g. the Uber simulator which came out a while back.

As I recall that one, it was trying to argue that driving for Uber was unsustainable, but the fundamental position was absurd. It started you off living in a not-cheap town with low Uber demand, buying a not-cheap car solely so you could drive for Uber, and pretended that was a fundamental indictment of the business.

Nothing here strikes me as that kind of flawed. The details might be arguable, but the broad strokes are completely reasonable. Honestly I'm a bit disturbed to see people leap to "oh, this doesn't count, credit card debt means I lived beyond my means!" Partly because "I screwed up in the past and want to work hard to make up for it" is something a healthy society makes possible, but more urgently because it makes me worry people have no idea how common issues like "oh, I have a $7,000 hospital bill after insurance" really are.

>but the broad strokes are completely reasonable.

"completely reasonable" is one of the last ways I'd describe broad strokes that do not approximate the average or median case.

All the bad stuff that happens in a year or three happens within a month in this simulation. Certain good options (if my washer is broke I'm doing my laundry in the sink thank you) are unavailable or neutered (the whole point of renting in BFE is the low cost of living but groceries are still city prices). If you're making $1k/mo your healthcare is free (thanks Obama, no really). Etc. etc. The picture being painted here is definitely not quite reality. I have relatives who's income is on the order of the simulation. Life generally trends upward for them so long as they don't make particularly dumb decisions.

Hm, this encouraged me to run some more playthroughs, and I want to take back some of my praise.

I had initially gone for a longish commute to save money, but now that I look harder at living close (and find out that the car is mandatory regardless), the savings are bizarrely low. Presumably the character lives in a smallish town since parking a car isn't expensive, but living distant to work isn't a major savings?

Other options I hadn't picked initially were shockingly bad: applying for a scholarship for the student gifted program got me a job strike, because the player (unlike the character) doesn't get to find out that it'll require an unapproved absence from work until after the fact!

And then I tried to look up some stats on the 2011 ACA rules. You're right: even at $18,000 (40 hr/week, 52 weeks/year pre-tax at the warehouse job) I can't reconcile the options listed. In Medicaid-expansion states the plans should be vastly cheaper, and even in those that declined it the mandatory coverage fee should be absent or waived. For that matter, the lack of an offer to buy paired health insurance (mandatory to offer under the ACA) is a pretty manipulative thing to pair with a major dental bill.

It looks like I got substantially lucky with my initial choices. I understand that the game is trying to show a typical case, not an ideal one, and that being poor can mean a lot of unexpected expenses and setbacks. But things like "oh, surprise, that option actually meant taking off work without permission!" don't represent the difficulties of poverty, they represent the difficulties of a game made to punish sensible-looking choices.

It explains why you have a car, something like "because the infrastructure is insufficient", you might not agree in your locality but it's reasonable. Note also in order to work you may need to have car.

Once when we had no car we took public transport to the opposite side of town to visit the cinema .. it was 2 hours each way because of connections, afterwards we walked a few-hundred metres to the stop and waited in the rain and wind for the bus back, the wait was so long for the connecting bus that we walked the last 2 miles. Fun! We never tried it again. I've done the journey on foot since, only took 1h30m; 15mins by car, parking is free. (In a large UK town.)

Interesting. Back in the 80s I lived in Germany for three years and traveled all over Europe, without ever driving a car. I felt like I could get pretty much anywhere without much hassle. I spent about a month in the U.K. and didn't notice any particular lack compared to the rest. Maybe it's because I was on holiday and had no particular time constraints.

When I moved back to the U.S., that's when I needed a car.

> Why do I have over $7000 on my CC bill? Was I living well above my means for some reason?

Are you sure that's not some bias slipping in there?

My first thought for that was "huh, sounds pretty plausible for one unlucky medical issue". And that's with insurance or a means-scaled fee.

Seeing that leap straight from "credit card debt" to "bought frivolous crap" helps me realize just how little common ground there is on stuff like this, and how much good might be done by sharing examples of how normal, sensible people get in these situations.

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> Why do I have over $7000 on my CC bill?

Leaving the rest aside, an awful lot of people end up here via medical bills. Even with means-based billing or health insurance, a bad accident or a chronic issue can add up extremely fast. The player might even have had savings that were wiped out paying down a higher bill before the game started, and settled the rest on a credit card.

(Yes, most hospitals offer payment plans at better rates than credit cards. No, I don't think all healthcare providers do, and no, they don't necessarily offer any clear way to find out.)

can't they declare bankrupcy? at this point thats what it is
> that would never work out better than renting a shitty place closer than bussing distance

I hope you're ready for a 2-hour commute each way. Buses in the US are terrible everywhere outside of some very specific cities.

> Why do I have over $7000 on my CC bill?

Emergency dental or health care?

I've commuted by bus for the past 7 years, about an hour each way. You often have to pick your home based on the bus route though. Even when buying a house that was a major factor I considered. If you're smart about it it's just as viable as living farther out and driving an hour each way every day.
Such deja vu! This was my life for years.
I never had health insurance though. This was pre-affordable care act. My teeth were falling out after a decade of no dental coverage. I almost died from pneumonia. For some reason, I turned out to be a socialist..
I know someone from Canada who had the exact same experience (homelessness/drugs/poverty) and is now a staunch conservative, believing that there should be no socialized insurance or provision for anyone.

His rationale is "I picked myself up with no help from the state, so why should I have to pay for others? If you're poor, it's because you're lazy". I was of the opinion that the help he received from his church is just a smaller version of socialized healthcare, but he disagreed.

I believe you, but I find it impossible to understand that point of view.. I see a person in their 50's bagging groceries or working the drive through and I think to myself, could have easily been me, different childhood interests, different opportunities, just slightly worse luck and I could have been in your position. And still might, depending on if the economy tanks or if I get brain damage from being hit by a car or something.
Me too. I guess he thinks that anyone can have the interests/luck/opportunities he can? Who knows.
On opting out of playing the lottery:

> It may seem like a waste of money, but for people like you who have no 401(k) or savings account, it can look like an investment in a better future.

How is that advice helpful? A lottery ticket is not an investment in any way.

Neither is a movie ticket, but sometimes you can treat yourself a bit.
I don’t think it was meant as advice, just an explanation.
It's not "helpful" in the sense that it's the smart decision for anyone.

The point is, that's actually how real people see the lottery. A big payout feels more likely than a $100k/yr job when you've been under the poverty line long enough.

Remember, the goal of this game isn't to see how efficiently you get to the end; it's to help you put yourself in the shoes of people actually in this position.

Lottery tickets are sort of interesting. Yes they are a bad deal, but they're the highest variance "investment" you can get by a long shot.

If you're very poor and stuck in a bad situation, there could 0.0% chance you ever become a millionaire through the normal mechanisms, maybe spending $1 a week on a lottery ticket raises that to 0.00000000001% and creates a bit more hope in your mind.

Again, I'd never advise anyone to buy a lottery ticket. But if it makes you hopeful, maybe it's a better treat for yourself than a chocolate bar.

Want to see something scary? https://www.businessinsider.com/powerball-mega-millions-how-...

Per capita lottery spend by state: Massachusetts @ $761/year. West Virginia @ $594/year. Georgia @ $391/year.

Is $800 a year a lot? Invested for 30 years with a 8% return it will be $100k or maybe $300/month in safe withdrawals. Im not trying to beg a question here... Really is that a lot of money? $300 isn't enough to live on but it's maybe a quarter of the poverty line? I guess that would be significant when added to social security.

Is that per capital lottery spend just total sales divided by population? The more interesting statistic would be average spend by people who buy at least a ticket a month. I'm sure the $761/month is brought down by people who buy 0-5 tickets a year.

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Even more crazy when you consider how many people never play the lotto.

However, I think that's the gross spend. If a lotto system has a lot of little prizes it could inflate those numbers quickly. You might not win the $1.6B, but if your tickets win $1 or $2 on a regular basis then your net outlay could be quite a bit less.

Effectively each ticket might only cost $0.25 instead of $1 because you get $0.75 back on average. On this chart it would look like you spent the full $1 each time because it doesn't include winnings.

Off-topic, but there's a meme on HN that startup equity should be considered "a lottery ticket" (as though you couldn't actively make it into a winner.) As a cute exercise (not too serious) based on your comment, I divided California's $23.8 billion in startup investment in 2017[1] by its population in 2017[2], which is 39.54 million, and got... $601.

(Of course the entities buying these tickets are not necessarily "Californians", just thought this was an interesting take on "per-Capita" investment in a different sort of lottery ticket. It is also funding amounts, rather than opportunity costs people "invest" in these companies by working for reduced or no salary in exchanged for equity - which is the "cost" of the lottery ticket people usually talk about on HN. I just found the resulting number in this exercise really interesting and thought I'd share.)

[1] https://tech.co/10-best-states-startup-funding-ranked-2017-0...

[2] https://www.google.com/search?q=california+population+2017&o...

There is one circumstance where I think buying a lottery ticket is worthwhile: your work colleagues have a lottery ticket pool. Not because it has a better chance of winning, but as insurance against the case that it does so you're not the one person who has to show up to work the next day.
There is a social part of buying a lottery ticket as a group, like splitting a meal at a restaurant.
The games job is not to give advise, but to educate people about how poverty affects the lives and thinking of others.

So no, it is not helpful advise. It is a teaching statement about why poor people continue to play the lottery.

Lottery tickets are a bad investment but give one HOPE!
It's not advice: the sentence was carefully written to make you feel exactly what you felt.

That's why it says "it can look like" an investment in a better future. (Not "is" one.)

I made a very rudimentary lottery machine in JS as some practice. It is astonishing how much money you can put in and get nothing out - even if you hit the upper brackets.
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One of my favorite Futurama jokes (spoken by the haunted robotic future-teller arcade machine):

Look, do you want false hope or not?

Hope is all some people can afford.

On the other hand, money is not the solution to all life's problems. What I would literally wish for my worst enemy: you win that Mega Millions drawing tonight.

Recommended listening from This American Life:

https://www.thisamericanlife.org/329/nice-work-if-you-can-ge...

He's talked with thousands of lottery winners, and the vast majority, he says, wish they'd never won.

I am going to pay the higher rent and avoid car ownership. Oh wait, it told me I can't. It's almost like the game is rigged in order to make a point to claim that the system is rigged without actually taking into account that there are legitimate trade offs to different decisions. Lame.
Very well done. In a personal or online conversation, it takes a little while to explain how bad things can be for the poorer people and how it’s a vicious circle (or like struggling in quicksand). Many people don't get this without an explanation.

A couple of suggestions:

1. The Facebook and Twitter icons were too close to the last choice on the screens, and I ended up tapping on them when I intended to tap on the last option. This was on a phone. Please move those buttons down a bit.

2. The site didn’t work on Firefox Focus onnthe phone. But it did work on Brave. Something about Firefox Focus’s blocking must’ve caused this. I didn’t have time to figure out the issue.

I don't think you can call a demonstration that deliberately excludes many available options a "simulator".

If you are poor, then living alone or taking on a lease is insane. The implicit assumption that you can't move and that "the rent" is as high as it is in this demo is untrue.

So what you end up with in this demo is a race against unsustainably high costs because you arbitrarily can't remove them.

> So what you end up with in this demo is a race against unsustainably high costs because you arbitrarily can't remove them.

Actually sounds pretty realistic to me. People tend not to have as much agency as we like to think.

Care to elaborate?
In this simulation you have a kid. What roommate is going to be okay rooming with a little kid? Then you have to consider safety concerns. Are you okay with your kid living in the same place as some stranger?

"Just get a roommate" is not always an option. This applies to lots of other "obvious" solutions people like to come up with when it's not them.

My home country has no social safety net. In my experience, people with kids just end up room sharing together with other families.

It is not common in the US because there are aid programs for people with children that suffice to let them get private housing, and at the very least pay for their childrens food.

I'm thinking of a "bad health simulator" that starts at age 50 after a lifetime of eating a terrible diet. Obviously there will be no good choices, everything will be limited.

It's not an interesting "simulation" because it's effectively just stating that you can run your life into a corner if you don't pay attention.

I see this attitude a lot when this type of discussion comes up. People seem to focus a lot on the idea that if you "run your life into the corner" then it automatically becomes acceptable that you're stuck with that lot in life or are somehow deserving of all of the consequences. I'm not arguing against responsibility for your choices, but mental health, upbringing, addiction and so much more play huge factors in determining lifestyle and outcome. Regardless, is it in society's best interest to attempt to uplift those in need and help them become more productive members for the greater good? I think so.

I don't mean to put words in your mouth or assume what attitudes lie behind your personal thinking, I'm just reflecting on my own thoughts about this.

I don't think that "acceptable/unacceptable" is a sensible way of thinking about it; it's just axiomatic that there are some irreversible situations that cannot easily be gotten out of - time moves forwards, not back.

We might be able to move the bar, and that might be a good idea (welfare programs, etc), but that's all we can do, and there is clearly a point beyond which trying to rescue people is throwing good money after bad.

There is no way of preventing a human from damaging themselves in the general case (whether that damage be intentional or unintentional; I'm not moralizing here.).

I feel both you and esotericn have simultaneously valid points. It would be valuable to students to have different scenarios where you have a kid, or don't. Even scenarios that occur in different countries, one with a safety net and one without would be a really valuable learning tool.
What you need is a tradeoff between high rents and high commuting costs. You can get an affordable rent, but commuting eats 4 hours of each day and a big chunk of that money you were saving on rent.
I can't judge how true this is in the US, but in Europe the sane choice in this situation would be to rent a smaller flat, and maybe get a flatmate (more unusual with a child, but not unheard of).
The assumption you’re making is that you’re not already in a small shared flat (the amounts quoted are reasonable for a shared apartment in most of the Bay Area)
Agreed. This simulator seems to make a lot of near worst case assumptions and paint with a very broad brush.

For starters:

Lifting 20lb is not going to take a toll on your body unless your body is already beat to crap from something else.

Most people can replace a window. If you don't then you probably know someone who can. Poor people trade semi-skilled labor around as favors all the time.

You don't need to join a gym to stay in shape, especially if your job involves manual labor. You also don't need to stay in tip top physical shape, just don't let yourself get seriously out of shape.

Nobody is doing credit checks for lower end jobs or lower end housing. They care more about your criminal record or lack thereof. If your poor you're either not going to use credit or your credit will be crap. Good credit isn't going to help you dig a ditch or unload a truck so you'll get hired anyway.

The whole point of choosing housing on the rural end of the available options is to reduce the cost of living and not have someone siphon the gas out of your car. In the simulation the shopping selector reflects city prices and the crime happens anyway.

Doing laundry in a sink, tub or 5gal bucket is a perfectly fine option if your washer doesn't work. It also doesn't cost $30 to go to the laundromat. You don't just wear dirty clothes. That's what college kids who've never lived on their own and lose their laundry card do.

I get that the whole point of this game it to make a statement but it paints a picture that seriously undersells the resourcefulness of poor people. It's also very clear that the decision tree in this simulator was written using a set of assumptions about how certain problems be solved and those assumptions were either made in an ivory tower or were designed to mostly go unnoticed to those in ivory towers.

edit: Yes I have had jobs like this. I know exactly what they're like. I've been a janitor, I've worked in food-service, I've done under the table construction, I've worked for a temp agency. I've literally dug ditches and scrubbed toilets (not that bad on average, watch out for the edge cases though). If you expect me to have a lot of sympathy with people who lift 20lb in a 70deg warehouse then you will be disappointed. Yes it's a crappy job that pays poorly and I'm sure it's soul crushing but it's not the pyramid building slave labor that some people like to equate it to. The lack of advancement opportunities (advancement to better paying jobs) in some of these jobs are what I consider the primary reason that people in these jobs can't get out of poverty.

> Lifting 20lb is not going to take a toll on your body unless your body is already beat to crap from something else.

Sure. Now do it for 8 hours a day without air conditioning.

Your body adapts - it's a workout. After a month or so it's easy.
I’m curious as to whether you’ve ever had a job like this?

There’s a difference between lifting/carrying the occasional 20lb weight, and doing that continuously for 8 hours.

I used to have 8 hour shifts at a standing only checkout - it took about a month before my back started hurting continuously. This was just a standing on concrete job, not even lifting all day.

Low end housing does do credit checks, and does increase your “deposit”.

>I’m curious as to whether you’ve ever had a job like this?

Several. I edited my original comment to reflect this.

>I used to have 8 hour shifts at a standing only checkout - it took about a month before my back started hurting continuously. This was just a standing on concrete job, not even lifting all day.

Not imagine it being hotter, louder higher humidity, and having to bend over slightly to reach things all the time. Welcome to a dishroom.

I’m impressed you did that without back pain :)

Just to be clear though

1. I said I got back pain just standing on concrete, without actually lifting anything

2. People are super bad at lifting things properly, so I’m sure a reasonable number of injuries are “avoidable”

3. I’m not saying that everything in this was realistic (there are some questionable options), just that this particular case is super plausible. After all the equivalent in tech is RSI/OOS (whatever it’s called now), and that’s super common even though avoiding it is way easier than avoiding back problems when your job is picking things up.

You have a child in this 'simulation'.
I was expecting this to be interesting and was excited to play, but it's not. In fact I found it annoying. But maybe that's the point. From playing it made me thing I could get out of poverty.

"You've made your bed and now you need to sleep in it."

Having been (relatively) poor, I've seen all these things, but not in a single month.
If I were only earning $1000/mo then my Affordable Care Act health insurance would be free...
With a $13k deductible...

edit: Don't get me wrong, it's better than nothing. I'm on the exchanges myself. That said, a major illness is still going to be a massive financial hit even with subsidized premiums.

At ~$1000 per month, you're either on Medicaid, stuck in the coverage gap if you live in the wrong state, or getting both premiums and deductibles subsidized so that the deductible is at least an order of magnitude lower than $13k. If you qualify for subsidies and are earning slightly more than the poverty line, the only way to get close to a $13k deductible is to deliberately avoid the plans that qualify for the most subsidies.
I make significantly more than that and my ACA coverage is almost free.

There are all sorts of problems with this, such as:

- assumption of a car (within 5 miles, cycling is completely reasonable, and it improves health) - single income w/child apparently? That's not my situation at all - Why does laundry cost $30? Most places near me are $5-10 - Why is my mobile phone $75? I can find lots of plans for cheaper - why do I start with $1k? I've had way more than that since I was a teenager; I always keep 3-6 months of expenses for precisely this reason - why does not paying a bill for one month result in immediate closure? Most utilities don't shut off services until 3 or so months of missing payments

However, the app is pretty eye opening because it _doesn't_ fit my situation. I'm very interested in helping the poor get out of the cycle of poverty (it's my life's goal).

The "Ask a friend" social media thing is really obnoxious.
75usd on a phone bill? Really? Basic plans with unlimited calls and texts, and maybe half a gig of data are about £6-8 (say 8-10USD) here (1). 75 USD should be enough for 6 months service in any other western country, easily.

The cell phone bill makes me question how realistic this "simulator" is. Are the healthcare costs realistic? Obviously in every other western country these costs would be zero (or very close to zero if you don't qualify for 100% free prescriptions in the UK at least).

Is healthcare really that bad in the US? Really? Genuinely staggering if so.

1 - https://www.uswitch.com/mobiles/compare/sim_only_deals/

We don't have great cheapo phone plans compared to Europe. I think the fancy pants bells and whistles ones can be closer.

Healthcare tends to suck if you don't get it provided by your workplace. If you have a job with healthcare, your outcomes are pretty decent (on average, better than Europe in many cases, for example Cancer survival rates). If you don't have a job it is all free, as no one to make a broke person pay. If you are in the doughnut of <have a few dollars> to <paying $300 a month for healthcare> is a big deal you are really screwed. Developers are past that doughnut, so we do okay. Plenty of people do not though.

(Canadian)

I pay $35/month for 1GB of mobile internet + unlimited phone calls/texts. Over that, I pay 47$/month for unlimited 30Mbps internet. That's ignoring taxes.

Take a look:

https://www.planhub.ca/quebec/compare-cellphone-plan/0min.10...

https://www.planhub.ca/quebec/compare-internet-plan/search?l...

Remember that the province I live in is more the size of France and is covered with ice during winter. Carriers have to support the entire province and then the entire country.

See those size comparison:

https://mapfight.appspot.com/quebec-vs-fr/quebec-france-size...

https://mapfight.appspot.com/ca-vs-fr/canada-france-size-com...

For reference, as a french, I pay ~24€ for 50GB of mobile internet, and unlimited phone calls / text in France, but also from / to europe (now mandatory) as well as USA and Canada
Ireland, I pay 35€ unlimited data, calls, roaming. Virgin Media.
I'm with freedom mobile and pay about the same in bc. But I get no service outside the cities and certain areas and my data gets slowed after 2GB I think. A lot of people I know here on telus or Rogers pay insane prices for slow capped data. A coworker of mine was freaking out recently about a $700 phone bill he got for apparently going over his data limit. There was no proof of this from telus and his phone disagreed heavily with how much they'd said he'd used.

I can't remember the exact amount but it was ridiculous more than I can use in a month unless I really try though my home WiFi let alone on a mobile.

He talked to them but In the end he still had to pay something like $150.

I'd like to say thinga like that don't happen often. But it seems like I hear stories about it fairly regularly.

Telus plans start at around $80/month

https://www.telus.com/en/mobility/plans?linktype=nav

Rogers at $85 for 3GB of data

https://www.rogers.com/consumer/wireless/smartphone-plans

For a comparison, look at https://ting.com/rates, where the cheapest single line plan starts at $6/mo just as the base price and goes up from there depending on your call/text/data usage. Other prepaid plans also start out at around $35 for the kind of usage you're talking about[1], and that's without considering the effects of needing a cell carrier that reliably covers both work and home.

[1]: https://www.walmart.com/ip/Straight-Talk-35-Unlimited-30-Day...

This thing was published in 2011, so the cell phone bill is on the high side. But the medical costs are legit. If you think it's bad, consider that taxes are generally lower to compensate for the premiums the state isn't paying.
> any western country

I pay between $50 and $80 per month on a prepaid plan that generously gives me 20mb(!!) of fast Internet a day.

What you describe would cost about $40, or with a more realistic 2GB at least 50$-60$ per month.

No phone included.

Yes this is Switzerland. But having owned phone plans in many western and non western countries there definitly are big exceptions between countries.

You're overpaying. Wingo will give you very good network coverage, a gigabyte of data per month and free calls for 25$ a month.
Heh. They didn't exist last time I bought a sim. And when I checked them I closed it after reading 'no gateways' however it does seem like a perfect option otherwise.
It varies on a state by state basis, but the government provides the Lifeline phone subsidy. In California for example, you can get Assurance Wireless/Virgin Mobile for free with unlimited minutes/texts and 2GB of data. They'll also give you a free Android phone.
The game is rigged to encourage you to struggle and empathize. The initial setting is truly a hardship by itself: unemployed, homeless, single parent $7,500 in credit card debt, delayed car payments and only $1,000 left.

I managed to reach a month, but in that month: a relative died, the landlord arbitrarily increased the rent $150 BEFORE the end of the month, a kid broke a window that cost $100 to replace, got an incontestable false speeding ticket for 250, the car broke and a dental problem needing $800 developed, got depression, etc. How much can this guy endure?

Also, this guy should have had food stamps already. Maybe he didn't qualify before? I figure him at 45-50, trying to get a job like the one he just lost and letting things go too far before realizing he had to get a low-paying one.

It makes you think, that's for sure.

Haven’t played the game but many low income people finance their phones.
One thing I noticed immediately is that this person has a lot of luxuries: 1. Child. 2. Pet (went to the shelter)
Considering the mere existence of a child to be a "luxury" is fundamentally bad for society.
I lost when my landlord raised rent $150. My options were pay or argue. I picked argue, I lost, $150 went away.

In reality I would have squatted and forced them to spend 6 months evicting me, giving me time to save up firsts month rent for a new place.

That's a very clever idea! In many places eviction is a drawn-out process that can be taken advantage of.

It's worth considering that that approach might be an excellent way to make it very, very difficult to get a new place. Squatting to afford rent on a new place is very much like declaring bankruptcy so you can afford a new car loan, complete with the major black mark on your credit report that makes it much more difficult to get a reasonable interest rate. This is less fanciful than it sounds, as agencies that track information about your rental history can and do exist.

Your idea is very clever. It's maybe worth thinking about if clever is the same thing as a good idea.

Interesting to see those comments on a platform whee the avg warning and chances is way higher than what reality looks for lots of other people.

Yes this game is not realistic. Now let's talk about fairness and responsibilities of us for all others.

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Eyeballing it with a spreadsheet, simulator offers $1440 in monthly income, but at least $2000 in expenses. You've got a car to pay off and insure, a kid, a pet, a heap of CC debt, and a cell phone bill triple what I pay. You're renting an apartment, but you have monthly gas and electric bills of 125 and 150. Internet fees are higher than I'm paying now. And zero access to credit to make any investments you'd need to make, or tax credits for dependent children, retirement savings, Earned Income Tax Credit, etc.

Even if you _could_ fix all that, you're still not going to make ends meet. The player is effectively bankrupt.

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> The player is effectively bankrupt.

Now imagine the player developing cancer, or needing to have major dental surgery!

The "simulator" does put you in an essentially unwinnable scenario. I too, would probably go broke if all my bills occurred in one 30 day period, while I was cut off from all my credit, given thousands in debt, and left with zero savings plus a kid.

I think the creators reduce the impact of their own message by making it so far fetched. I can't relate to anyone who would put themselves in such a terrible financial position, so its just an unwinnable game.

That happens a lot more often than you may think. Sure, it's rare for all that to happen on any given month, but cyclic things will all converge eventually over a few years.
I love that this simulator exists. super stressful
I want real poverty simulator. Or, better, Low Income living. With adequate probabilities (like going more than 10 days without crashing your car), knowing that you have a kid upfront, etc.